Denis Waitley

Denis Waitley obituary, San Diego, CA

Denis Waitley

Denis Waitley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 14, 2025.
Denis Waitley, a renowned voice in the human potential movement and a revered author, speaker, and performance coach, passed away on June 7, 2025, in his hometown of San Diego, California. He had just celebrated his 92nd birthday the day before.

Born on June 6, 1933, in San Diego, Denis demonstrated leadership and ambition from an early age. He graduated from La Jolla High School in 1950, where he served as Student Body President. His pursuit of excellence led him to the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, from which he graduated in 1955. Following his graduation, he trained as a Navy fighter pilot at Miramar Naval Air Station, laying the foundation for a life defined by discipline, courage, and vision.

Denis began his professional journey as a fundraiser for the Jonas Salk Foundation. It was during this time that he played a pivotal role in orchestrating the formation of the Andy Williams San Diego Open at Torrey Pines Golf Course in 1968 -now known as the Farmers Insurance Open-one of the most prominent tournaments on the PGA Tour.

His early career achievements were only a prelude to what would become a transformative legacy in personal development and performance psychology. Widely regarded as an expert in human motivation, Denis spent more than four decades traveling the globe-visiting over 160 countries and logging an average of 500,000 miles annually-sharing his insights on self-mastery and peak performance.

Denis authored 16 influential books that have inspired millions worldwide. Among them are enduring classics such as *The Psychology of Winning*, *Seeds of Greatness*, *The Winner's Edge*, and *Empires of the Mind*. His audio program *The Psychology of Winning* remains one of the best-selling personal development recordings of all time.

His work was grounded in extensive research and hands-on consulting with returning prisoners of war, Apollo astronauts, Olympic and Super Bowl athletes, top scientists, and business leaders. As Chairman of Psychology for the U.S. Olympic Committee's Sports Medicine Council, Denis helped elite athletes harness mental visualization techniques long before they became mainstream. He was also invited to join NASA's astronaut training program, where he worked with space shuttle crews on mental preparation strategies.

Denis was the founding director of the National Council on Self-Esteem and became one of the most sought-after speakers on motivation and personal growth. His teachings emphasized self-belief and internal empowerment-principles encapsulated in his memorable quotes: "Chase your passion, not your pension," "It's not who you think you are that holds you back; it's who you think you're not," and "The greatest limitations you will ever face are those you place on yourself."

Beyond his professional accomplishments, Denis cherished time with his family and found joy in life's great adventures. He loved deep-sea fishing and treasured family trips to Kenya's Maasai Mara, as well as cruises through Alaska and the Sea of Cortez. He also found joy in life's simple pleasures - playing fetch with the family dog, watching football games, and telling stories.

He is lovingly remembered by his children: Deborah Waitley; Dayna Waitley Arnold and her husband Tom; Denis Waitley Jr.; and Darren Waitley and his wife Tammi. His legacy continues through his grandchildren: Alexander Arnold; Alissa Arnold Watson; Shane, Kyler, Danica, and Kaden Waitley; and Jake Holladay. He also leaves behind great-granddaughters Isis, Athena, Sophie, and Ella. Denis held a special place in his heart for his beloved nephews and nieces and their families.

Denis Waitley lived with purpose and passion, inspiring generations to reach beyond perceived limits. May his memory continue to uplift all who were touched by his words and wisdom.

USANA Health Sciences, with whom Denis served as a spokesman for over 30 years, will feature a special Tribute in his honor during their 2025 Global Convention to held at The Salt Palace Convention Center in Salt Lake City, Utah on August 22.

A private Celebration of Life will be held later this year for family and close friends. If you would like to leave a personal tribute or share a special memory, please sign the guest book. For more on Denis, you may visit DenisWaitley.com.

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September 24, 2025

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September 3, 2025

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September 1, 2025

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Chris Lytle

September 24, 2025

What a life. What an inspiration. Truly one of the greatest speakers, authors and human beings. It was a huge surprise and a great honor, when the elevator door to our Chicago apartment opened up and there was Michal Norton accompanied by Denis. We had a long afternoon conversation and a wonderful afternoon.

RIP.

Chris Lytle and Sarah McCann

Gary Crisp

September 3, 2025

Dennis had a huge and powerful influence on me as an executive at Unilever and later an entrepreneur and Founder of Crisp Imaging. "If you think you can you can" was my mantra for years and the importance of putting the "right pictures in your head" from a national sales meeting forever changed me. Grateful for Dennis and his work...Gary Crisp

Suzanne Bradley

September 1, 2025

I always enjoyed listening to Denis, and one of my favorite stories he told was about trying to get his baby daughter to eat something she didn't like. I think the food was squash. Loved his training on the psychology of winning. RIP Denis, and thanks for all that you gave us.

Steven Roth

September 1, 2025

My sincere condolences. He wouldn't remember, but I did. We met in 1982 at a Motivational Speech and Book Signing, "The Winners Edge". He autographed my book and I followed him ever since.

Gail Ivey

September 1, 2025

I first heard Denis through an audio cassette program given to me by an entrepreneur friend. Unlike so many other "positive thinkers" with a "program," Denis' advice was so practical and down to earth. I incorporated so much of it into my life at the time. Many years later, when sadness and depression had a strong grip on me over the loss of a beloved horse, I wrote to Denis and he wrote me back with words of encouragement. I will never forget that small gesture to a stranger. It meant a lot to me. I think he probably encouraged more people than he ever realized.
Rest in peace, Denis.

Rich Pendred

September 1, 2025

Denis has been a mentor of mine since 1986, when a friend gave me the audio program The Psychology of Winning. Since that time, I have read, listened to, and studied everything Denis put out. Today, as a grandfather with a great marriage and many successful years in sales and business, I can´t help but reflect on Denis´ teachings that I have applied. I am so grateful for Denis and his wisdom over the years.

Outside of my relationship with Jesus Christ, he has had one of the largest impacts on my life. I was blessed to have the chance to take an online webinar with Denis back in 2020 and to sit under his teaching for six days-a memory I will cherish forever.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Waitley family. Though your dad has passed, take comfort in knowing that his impact will live on forever.

God bless,
Rich Pendred

Mitchell Johnson

September 1, 2025

I was working a second job as a luxury car washer/detailer at a bank building in University Town Center (UTC, San Diego) in the '80's when I saw a copy of 'The Psychology of Winning' tape series on the passenger seat of a Porsche 928. My first job was Aviation Ordnanceman at Top Gun, NAS Miramar. I would ride my mountain bike to UTC for that second job but the very next day I rode it to a Successories store at the UTC mall and purchased my own copy of the series. Years later, working for a tech ed company in Rancho Bernardo, next to SONY, the venerable Denis Waitley came to tour our building. He was amazing! He graciously signed my copy of his book, 'Seeds of Greatness': "To Mitch--Only the best!" I went on to complete a B.S. in Counseling Psychology and to practicum-level in a Master's program at Bethel Seminary - West, San Diego. God bless your work and family! --MAJ

Eve

September 1, 2025

My deepest sympathies to Denis's friends, family and the world for Denis' passing. His wisdom and words on personal power that I have followed, practiced for over 30 years were instrumental not only in my healing but in I becoming a healer and author myself. THAT is the power of Denis, like truth, undefeatable and indestructible. Thank you, kind sir. May your memory live eternally.

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August 21, 2025

Doug Taylor

August 18, 2025

Denis had an amazing influence in shaping my future which paid huge dividends in the guidance of my children through their childhood. I´m forever grateful and feel very blessed for the time he graciously spent with me. What an incredible gentleman he was. He is greatly missed.

Bill Schultz

August 18, 2025

My condolences to the Waitley Family. As USANA Associates my wife Dawn and I enjoyed many years of Denis at convention and learning from his many tools he left for us as his legacy. I met him once at a book signing and I´ll cherish his memory for the resr of my years.

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