Denise Stephens Selman

1957 - 2010

Denise Stephens Selman obituary, 1957-2010, Tuscaloosa, AL

Denise Stephens Selman

1957 - 2010

BORN

1957

DIED

2010

Denise Selman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 30, 2010.
Denise Stephens Selman, age 53, of Holt, died Sept. 29, 2010, at home. Services will be 10 a.m. Monday at Memory Chapel Funeral Home with Rev. Todd Burkhalter officiating and Memory Chapel Funeral Home, a Dignity Memorial Provider, directing. Visitation will be Sunday night from 6 to 9 p.m. at the funeral home.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Earnestine Stephens; her father, Murphy Stephens; her sister, Gypsy Rivet; and her daughter, Megan Selman.

Survivors include her husband, Walter Keal Selman; her daughter, Brandy Selman (Jan Agee) of Soddy-Daisy, Tenn. and Laura Selman of Tuscaloosa; her sons, Forest Selman of DuPont, Wash. and Chad Selman (Julie) and Trey Selman, both of Tuscaloosa; her sisters, Emily Smith, Lawanda Hollyhand, and Charlotte Guy (Randy), all of Tuscaloosa, and Janice Wyatt of Pasadena, Calif.; her brother, Doug Stephens (Sabrina) of Tuscaloosa; and her grandchildren, Jayden Selman, Autumn Selman, and Ashton Selman.

Denise grew up in Rosedale. She was an alumnus of Holt High School. She was a dedicated caregiver and worked for Estes Glen Haven for 20 years. She enjoyed traveling to the mountains and spending time with her family at their river house. She was married for 36 years to Keal Selman. She was loved very much and will be greatly missed.

Honorary pallbearers are employees of Northport Health Services and Amason & Associates.

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October 5, 2010

Joyce posted to the memorial.

October 5, 2010

Vanessa Hickey posted to the memorial.

October 4, 2010

Bobby Johnson posted to the memorial.

Joyce

October 5, 2010

You had the biggest heart of anyone I ever knew. I will always miss you.

I am so sorry for the family's loss.

Vanessa Hickey

October 5, 2010

Brandy & Jan I am sorry to hear about the lost of your love one. I am keeping you both in my prayers.

Bobby Johnson

October 4, 2010

Keal,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bobby & Linda Johnson

Cheri Smith

October 3, 2010

To the family of Denise Stephens Selman:
My mother is a resident at Glen Haven Nursing home. Her room was directly across the hall from Denise's office for 2 1/2 years. Denise's loving ways, gentle smiles, and kind words greatly enhanced my mother's quality of life on a daily basis. Just last week, Denise's act of generosity made my day, (again). You see, Mom told her she'd like something 'fizzy' to drink. What did Denise do? She reached in her pocket, went down the hall and came back with a diet coke for my mother. She was always doing for others and never, ever passed up the opportunity to make someone smile. Mom and I will miss her, her smiling face, her kind ways and unspoken act of generosity. Denise did for others out of the goodness of her heart, not for recognition. My heart aches for your loss and even though I don't know you personally, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your loved one with us - Mom and I were blessed to know Denise. God bless you. From Cheri Smith, the daughter of Jimmie Sue Smith, a resident of Glen Haven Nursing Home.

Sandra Groenier

October 2, 2010

It will be the little things
that you will remember,
the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem
hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push
away the pain
and bring the smiles
back again.

May warm memories surround you and bring you comfort.
With Deepest Sympathy

October 2, 2010

Brandy, Jan and Family, I want to tell you guys that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of great loss. May the Lord be with you all in the coming days and ease your sorrows through his many blessings. Take care and safe travels to you all. Susan Dalton

October 1, 2010

Brandy, my prayers are with you and your family. Caroline Woerner

Lora Smith

October 1, 2010

Brandy, I am so so sorry for your loss. We will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord keep you and comfort you.
Lora and Craig

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