Dennis Jay Osterhouse

Dennis Jay Osterhouse obituary, Cape Coral, FL

Dennis Jay Osterhouse

Dennis Osterhouse Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 23, 2025.
Cape Coral - Dennis Jay Osterhouse, age 64, passed away in his home surrounded by his family and close friends on September 19th, 2025. He was born on August 4, 1961 in Kalamazoo, Michigan.

Dennis lived his life by faith, with great enthusiasm and love for those around him. An avid sailor, handyman, and adventure-planner, he never missed an opportunity to make great memories with family and friends, to fix something that was broken, or to make a joke with an (almost) straight face. Dennis was an excellent musician and loved playing drums for church services, musicals, and big band. He was incredibly talented and took pride in doing a job well.

Dennis was a pillar of leadership at Northside Baptist Church, who came together to support him and his family over the past year in innumerable ways. He was faithful in service to the church as an elder, deacon, musician, teacher and sound and technology tech. He served joyfully until his last days.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 34 years, Eladia Osterhouse, his adult children, Marissa (Zachary) Drum, Sarah Osterhouse, Wesley (Tiffany) Osterhouse, and Rebecca Osterhouse. He was dearly loved by his grandchildren through Marissa: Jameson, Everett, and baby Lydia. He is survived by his brothers, Donald Osterhouse and Brian (Pam) Osterhouse and his mother, Nancy Ossman. Dennis is preceded by his father, Howard Ray Osterhouse, and his half-brother, Howard Ray Osterhouse, Jr. (Howie).

Dennis' heart of gold and profound faith will live on in those who love him.

The memorial service will be held at Northside Baptist Church, 8250 Littleton Rd, North Fort Myers, FL 33903 on Saturday, September 27th, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. Flowers may be sent to Northside Baptist Church and can be received on September 26th between 10:00 a.m and 5:00 p.m.

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Marlene Spencer

Yesterday

My deepest condolences to those he left behind. I smile when I think of Dennis he was one of my reliable lean ons at the district when I started working at Cape Coral´s charter system. His being so patient with me always, makes sense now that I know his background! He is playing his music in heaven now. So glad to have known him. He made a difference in this world! Thank you!

Dave McDonagh

September 25, 2025

So sorry to hear of our loss of Dennis. He will be missed by all who knew him.

R. Charles O'Connor

September 24, 2025

I worked with Dennis in the District as a tech specialist and science teacher, and was always amazed at his patience, helpfulness, and positive attitude. He helped me with many diverse problems and made my difficult technical tasks much easier. I last saw him, smiling, as he gave me a goodbye retirement tour of the tech area. Dennis, I appreciate you and miss you.

Rick Parfitt

September 24, 2025

My condolences, Dennis was a great guy.

Frank Subzda

September 24, 2025

I am so saddened at the news of Dennis' death. I cannot think of a finer man, a true testament to living a life of virtue and dedication to his beloved family and his work. He will be missed more than words can express. I am proud to say that he was my friend. Frank Subzda

Judy Paras

September 24, 2025

I've known Dennis since 1987, working in the school district. He always had a smile on his face and was willing to help anyone in need. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.

Cindy Proia

September 24, 2025

Dennis was a joy to work with at the District Office. He ALWAYS had a smile on his face and was so willing to help. Prayers and Sympathy for his entire family. God Bless!

Leigh Byer

September 24, 2025

Such a dear friend and co-worker, since before he was married, we met at the Vocational School where he was teaching and I was employed. So many years of memories with my "Merlin", (thats what I called him!), as I would call him to rescue me with silly 'tech' issues when we both ended up working at the District office. He raised an amazing family with Eladia. So glad we had lunch this past year to catch up... Love to all... Leigh Byer

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