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Derrick O'Neill Obituary
Beloved father, son and brother
TYNGSBOROUGH -- Derrick Steven O'Neill, age 32, of Tyngsborough and a member of a well known Greater Lowell family, passed away Friday August 23, 2013 in Tyngsborough.
He was born in Lowell, Massachusetts, October 23, 1980.
Beloved by his parents, Steven and Vicki (Pissinis) O'Neill of Tyngsborough, Derrick attended the Ste. Jeanne d'Arc School and Lowell Catholic.
Derrick had previously worked as a driver for Albert H. Notini and Sons in Lowell.
Derrick had several interests but his true love and joy was the time he spent with his son Matthew.
In addition to his parents, Derrick is survived by his best buddy - his son Matthew Derrick O'Neill of Tyngsborough; his brother and best friend Jarred O'Neill and his wife Kristine (Szulga) O'Neill of Chelmsford; sisters Ashley O'Neill and Stephanie O'Neill of Tyngsborough; Matthew's mother Ana Alcantara of Tyngsborough; paternal grandparents John and Connie O'Neill of Tyngsborough and maternal grandfather John Pissinis of Tilton,NH. He also leaves many aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends.
Derrick is predeceased by his maternal grandmothers Beverly Gearty and Carol Pissinis.
O'NEILL -- In Tyngsborough, August 23, 2013, Derrick Steven O'Neill, age 32, of Tyngsborough. Friends may call at the O'DONNELL FUNERAL HOME, 276 PAWTUCKET ST. at Fletcher from 4 to 8 P.M. Wednesday. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass Thursday morning at ST. RITA CHURCH in Lowell at 11 o'clock. Burial in St. Patrick Cemetery. E-condolences/directions at odonnellfuneralhome.com. Those wishing may make contributions in his memory to the Matthew D. O'Neill Educational Fund, c/o Lowell Five Cent Savings Bank,34 John St., Lowell, MA 01852. Arrangements by Funeral Directors James F. O'Donnell, Jr. and John W. Crane (978 or 866)
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Amy Abbott
February 26, 2014
It has been months and I still cant believe you are gone! You were my rock when I struggled and always my greatest support system. You always went above and beyond for me and my girls and we talk of you often to keep your memory alive. These girls love their "Unkie Soap" and will never forget you! Thank you for helping me through the roughest time in my life! You are a best friend I could never replace. II love and miss you so much it hurts! Until we meet again <3
Jill Boutin
September 15, 2013
I was completely shocked and saddened to hear the news of your passing. You were one of my closest friends when we were teenagers. That was such a long time ago but the memories I have of all the "adventures" we went on will last forever. Rest easy Derrick xo
September 8, 2013
My deepest condolences to Derrick's family. I am so sorry for your loss. A life gone too soon. Gail McAnistan Byrne
September 1, 2013
Dear Derrick... I wish we could have had more time together as if the last 15 yrs weren't enough.. I will miss my best friend and holder of my heart... I look forward to meeting you again in heaven so we can resume our endless conversations... I love you and miss you more then my heart can handle right now.. my prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to your family who loved endlessly too... RIP and visit often please.. love Casey
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Charlie Gill
August 31, 2013
Stevie and family; My sincere condolences.
Cheryl Floyd
August 31, 2013
Steven, Vicki and family - I am so sorry for your loss.
August 29, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. Love, Ron and Pat
Beverly Grimes
August 29, 2013
Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight...must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light. But we know that like a candle their lovely light will shine to brighten up another place more perfect...more devine.
And in the realm of Heaven, where they shine so warm and bright, our loved ones live forevermore in God's eternal light.
The loss is still unconsoleably painful.
Love Aunt Bev
Beverly Grimes
August 29, 2013
This world, however beautiful, was never meant to be The place we would call our home for all eternity.
And though we would not choose to leave, a loving God knows best, And in His time He lifts us to a place of peace and rest.
For He has built a mansion where His children will abide Free from pain and sorrow, forever at His side.
We cannot judge what happens, though tears and questions start, We only see what's visible--God sees into the heart...
And though there may be many things that we cannot explain, We can be sure it breaks His heart to see His childen's pain. In loving arms He bears us to a quiet place apart Where He mends the wounded spirit and heals the broken heart.
And though these ones we love so much have left our present sight And passed into a better world of majesty and light, Someday we'll be together.
All My Love,
Aunt Beverly
Daniel Lamontagne
August 29, 2013
Derrick you are the best partner at work and the best friend. You have the highest work ethics, a strong sense of responsibility, commitment and drive. I trusted and cared so much for you. You love your son and thought of him as the greatest person in the world. You taught me that all problems in life can be better with a kinder hand. You taught me things that seem out of reach can be attained if we do it together. You will be missed greatly.
SUE COUTURE - GAMACHE
August 28, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Steve Zerbinopoulos
August 28, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so sorry for your loss. Steve and Linda
Beverly Grimes
August 28, 2013
Derrick, This was such a shock. I don't want to think of you as gone away. You are just beginning your journey, in warmth and comfort, right under Nonni and Memmie's wings!!!You will live on in the hearts of all of the people that you touched. Sincere sympathy
to all of our family, friends and loved ones for strength and peace in the days ahead.
Love Aunt Bev, Uncle Jimmie and John Andrew
Dave McCullough
August 28, 2013
My deepest sympathy and condolences for Derrick's family and friends. God bless all at this difficult time.
Dave McCullough
August 28, 2013
My deepest condolences to Derrick's family and friends. God bless all at this difficult time.
Jim Silva
August 28, 2013
Steve, Vicki, Ashley and the rest of the O'Neill family, you have my deepest sympathies. While I cannot completely relate to what you are going through, I lost my only sibling about 10 years ago so I understand a lot of your pain. In time, I hope you find peace and remember the good times.
sheila McDermott
August 28, 2013
RIP Derrick, I know the past is the past & nobody can change how things happened. but I wish I could have spent more time with you while you were growing up..im sad that your life ended at such a young age & that I never really got the time to know you..I do know you had a wonderful smile & I will always remember that.
Dave Fio
August 28, 2013
I will always remember a Happy-Go-Lucky Kid with a Ton of Energy. It was a pleasure to work with Derek
Meghan Hemsworth
August 28, 2013
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time
August 28, 2013
Donna, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. He had a wonderful mother by having you. He never stopped talking about how much he loved you Donna...you were his one and only. You were the best mother and a boy could have. I love you and hope you find peace.
Kelly Leaks
August 28, 2013
It's so hard to believe you are gone. My heart is breaking. I will never forget all the good times, long talks, and laughs we had. You were a great friend to me. My deepest sympathies to your family. May you rest in peace my friend. Until we meet again.. I love you! Xoxo
Emmanuel College
August 28, 2013
Heartfelt sympathy to all the O'Neill Family at this time of loss. You remain in our prayers. God Bless. Campus Ministry of Emmanuel College.
Gail Gagnon
August 28, 2013
Steve, vickie,Jared Leo and Connie I am so so sorry for your loss.
Bob Moriarty
August 28, 2013
Stevie, Vicki and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping all of you in my daily thoughts and prayers. Peace.
Kevin Ly
August 28, 2013
I am sorry to hear about your family's loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you all. God has special plans for him and may have taken him earlier than expected, but he left behind a wonderful gift in Matthew and an infinite amount of wonderful memories. You all have a special guardian angel watching over you now.
Haley McInnis
August 28, 2013
Rest easy Derrick.. I'm sure you'll be up there watching over all of us. Jared, love you & I'm here if you need anything <3
Lisa Lamontagne
August 27, 2013
Prayers and the most deepest feelings of sympathy to the Entire O'Neill Family. Though I only knew him these past 2+ years, he had a joyful & sincere impact on my son's life and mine also. We loved him dearly. Derrick was making plans & great strides working so very hard for a bright future. It was only Monday when I last hugged him goodbye. Had I known it would of been the last time I would see his smiling face, I would of never of let him out of my arms. My son Daniel lost his Best Friend, his right hand man & true confidant. I felt he was the second son I never had. We miss Derrick so very much. We will forever miss his kindness & enthusiasm for life and hard work ethics, his sincerity to care for others and his charm. He was an Extremely Well Respected Young Man by SO MANY people of all walks of life here in NH. A team of precision quality with high integrity, TEAM "Dan & Derrick" beautified homes & delighted proud home owners.
It was an honor & such a joy to know him. We will hold him in our hearts forever.
Mrs. Lisa Lamontagne & on behalf of my Son, Mr. Daniel Lamontagne
August 27, 2013
Ashley words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss.
Lisa Azar
Mike Miles
August 27, 2013
RIP Derrick. What a gift getting to know you these past few years. Your big heart and warm smile will never be forgotten. Matthew is in good hands and someday he will know what a good man you were.
Bob Reyes
August 27, 2013
Steve and Vicki,
Please accept my most sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.
Kathryn McLean
August 27, 2013
Ashley and Stephanie, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Words are small comfort in your grief. Please know that your family is in my prayers.
Jarred O'Neill
August 27, 2013
Life is just not fair for someone to have a hart of gold should not have had such a short time on this earth but its said only the good die young (we should have lived forever lol) you'll always be my big brother and always be missed
Bethany Welcome
August 27, 2013
God Bless you Derrick. May you rest in peace. You have moved on to a place without pain and anguish. Love Bethany
Margo Sargent Simkin
August 27, 2013
Steve, Vicki and family,
It's been quite some time since I've seen you, but I remember the love that you had for all of your children. My deepest sympathy to all of you. May all the love you have in your heart help to ease your sorrow.
With love and sympathy,
Margo Sargent Simkin
(Reichheld's)
August 27, 2013
Derrick I will always love you and miss you greatly. We had a lot of good times together live on brother. cousin Rick Tharpe
Rick Tharpe
August 27, 2013
Derrick I will always love you and miss you greatly. We had a lot of good times together live on brother. cousin Rick Tharpe
Dan Brady
August 27, 2013
Steve, Vicki and Family,
Words are inadequate right now...
But know that you are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless Derrick, he has peace and will always be with you too.
The O'Neills are a strong, loving family and will work through this difficult time together.
God Bless all.....Love, Dan, Jane and Cameron.
Mark Cote
August 27, 2013
Steve, Vicki and family-so terribly sorry for your loss. Keep Derrick in your hearts for he will live there forever.
marlene cote
August 27, 2013
So sorry for your loss.
Marlene Cote
August 27, 2013
To My Donna....So sorry for the lost of your son. Your always in my heart.
Love You
Sharon Chartier
Brenda Olivero-Cabrera
August 27, 2013
Mr. Steven and Family, my deepest sympathy and condolences to you. May your son rest in peace with our Father GOD and with all his angels.
Ashley O'Neill
August 27, 2013
The pain that we feel is unbearable. You were taken far too soon. I know that you will always be watching over Matty up there and don't worry for one second, we will always take care of him. I will cherish so many memories of you and hold you close in my heart. Watch over all of us and from time to time please give us a sign that you're watching over us! Love you forever!
Love your little sis, Ashley
Tiffany Estabrooks
August 27, 2013
Stephanie, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Just know that Derrick will always be with you in your heart.
August 27, 2013
Steve, Vicki, Jared, Ashley, Stephanie & Matthew - Our hearts and prayers are with you during this awful time! Heaven has another great angel to watch over all of us. We love you! Paula, Courtney & Hannah
Joyce Spiegel & Paulie Riordan
August 27, 2013
Matthew, Ana, and the O'Neill Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Our deepest condolences and many hugs.
Lacey Cifelli
August 27, 2013
Derrick may you rest in paradise my friend. I'll forever hold you in my heart, until we meet again ? My deepest sympathies go out to your son & family. You were a good hearted person & will be greatly missed. Jarred I love you & will always be here for you. Ill be there with you tomorrow. Stay strong ?
Manny and Lisa Rodriguez
August 27, 2013
Jarred and Kristine, We are so truly sorry and saddened to hear about Derrick. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. All our prayers and deepest sympathies..
August 27, 2013
To my big brother, it shouldn't be this way but obviously the big man upstairs needed a very special angel. I'll never forget all the wonderful times we've shared together. Watch over us, Derrick. I'll see you again someday. Love always, your baby sister Stephanie
Cheryl Ward
August 27, 2013
Steve and Vicki,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Sending you all a hug.
August 27, 2013
I love you with all my heart. You were my first and only love. Rest in peace my love.
Frank Zabbo
August 27, 2013
He'll always be with you in mind and in spirit.Fill your thoughts with the good times-my prayers are with you through this very difficult time.
kerri G
August 27, 2013
Im sorry for your loss jarred. He will be in my prayers. If there is anything u ever need im here. Kerri g, tyngsboro
Jennifer Montbleau
August 27, 2013
RIP Derrick, Forever Young!
LARRY PERRY
August 27, 2013
TO STEVE AND FAMILY MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME IAM VERY SAD TO TO HERE OF DERRICKS PASSING A GREAT GUY. LOVE YOUR COUSIN LARRY PERRY AND FAMILY
August 27, 2013
Life will never be the same without you on this earth. I Love you and miss you! I will continue to look for the brightest star that shines at night. I will take care of your best buddy, who now has an angel watching over him. Love, Mom oxoxox
August 27, 2013
Derrick, you always did and always will have a special place in my heart. There will not be a day that passes that you are not in my thoughts and prayers. May you rest in peace. Love You bunches
"Your favorite Aunt Kathy"
August 27, 2013
My prayers are with each one of you in this time of sorrow.
Deb Harding
August 27, 2013
I am so deeply sorry... You are in my prayers. love you all! Denise.
August 27, 2013
Derrick, Your time spent on earth shall never be forgotten. May you find peace in heaven. My prayers and deepest sorrow goes out to Derricks family. Love, Cousin Cindy
Sue Marshall
August 27, 2013
My heart goes out to the family & friends of Derrick.
August 27, 2013
You will always be in our hearts. Now you will be your little Buddies guardian angel. I Love you and miss you. Dad
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