Diane Conger

1932 - 2025

Diane Conger obituary, 1932-2025, Lynnfield, MA

Diane Conger

1932 - 2025

BORN

1932

DIED

2025

Diane Conger Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 5, 2025.
Diane (Fisher) Conger, 92, of Lynnfield, a former longtime resident of Wakefield, passed away March 4th after a brief illness. Diane was born in Quincy, MA on August 17, 1932, daughter of the late Thomas Anton Fisher and Celia Mae (McKiel) Fisher. She was a graduate of North Quincy High School and worked for Hardware Mutual Casualty Company in Boston, where she met her husband, Kenneth "Lee" Conger, Jr., who predeceased her in 2000.

Diane and Lee were married for 47 years and shared a love of travel that took them on countless adventures from the Great Wall of China to the Great Sphinx of Giza. Annual camping trips with their children in the pop-up camper to Seven Maples in NH and Prince Edward Island were equally enjoyable. Diane was an active supporter of the First Parish Congregational Church in Wakefield where she taught Sunday School, was a member of the Rosewood Circle, baked and crafted items for the annual Church Fair, and helped prepare meals for Rosie's Place Women's Shelter. She will be lovingly remembered for her kind heart and generous spirit and staying true to one of her favorite quotes: It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice.

Although her travels took her to the far corners of the world, she never forgot her Quincy roots and always looked forward to a drive by her childhood home near Wollaston Beach. She was an enthusiastic Celtics fan (especially in the Johnny Most/Larry Bird era), knitted and crocheted beautiful blankets, and made "upcycling" a thing before it was a thing, always finding something unique to make from random doodads. Fried clams at Woodman's of Essex, a healthy glass of Chardonnay and relaxing on her patio with her portable radio were a few of her favorite things.

She was the loving mother of and is survived by her 5 children: Thomas Conger and his wife, Jenevieve, of St. Augustine, FL; Susan McCarthy and her husband, Paul Ricciardi, of Chelmsford, MA; Paula MacDonald and her husband, Robert, of Kingston, NH; John Conger and his wife, Jennifer, of Malvern, PA; and Lisa Hemeon of Reading, MA. She was a doting "Grandy" of 11 grandchildren: Kendra McCarthy, Sara Tolliday, Colleen Farrell, Allison Wilton, Evan MacDonald, Sean Conger, Meghan Yezman, Kasey Colpitts, Andrea Hemeon, Ethan Conger and Ava Conger. She was the adoring "Great Grandy" of 9 great grandchildren: Charlotte and Amelia Farrell, Ben and Liv Tolliday, Blake and Brooke Wilton, Zoe MacDonald, Rowan Colpitts and Olivia Conger.

She is also survived by her three siblings whom she cherished: Paul Fisher and his wife, Maya, of Duluth, GA; Andrea (Fisher) Eklund of Loganville, GA; and Philip Fisher and his wife, Mary, of Pinehurst, NC, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Memorial arrangements will be private. Donations in Diane's memory may be made to the First Parish Congregational Church, 1 Church Street, Wakefield, MA 01880 or Sawtelle Family Hospice House, 320 Haverhill Street, Reading, MA 01867.

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August 11, 2025

Susan McCarthy posted to the memorial.

March 8, 2025

Shayla Flannery posted to the memorial.

March 6, 2025

Andrea Hemeon posted to the memorial.

Susan McCarthy

August 11, 2025

Missing my sweet mother everyday and I will be thinking of you on the 17th - and how you loved celebrating with a plate of fried clams!
Love,
Susan

Shayla Flannery

March 8, 2025

I´ve heard many stories and fond memories from my best friend Andrea about her Grandy. Thinking of you all, she´s watching over in spirit

Andrea Hemeon

March 6, 2025

Grandy, during your 92 years of life, I was blessed to have known you for 25 of those. I´ll never forget your chuckle, asking if I needed a snack or a ginger ale, offering me the remote to change the channel from watching Blue Bloods to something "more enjoyable" for me, the high pitched tone you´d use while explaining something cute you saw or thought of, and being so giving to the point of handing down your "trinkets" to your nurses and care staff. Everything was "too good" to throw out... it was useful in someway to someone. I´ll always remember collecting golf balls with mom at your house in Wakefield, and getting a few dollars for pulling the trash barrels up and down that huge hill. You had endless Twix candy bars in a cookie jar, and this is the reason I will look at one...remember you... and walk away since I´ve had way too many in my childhood to eat one again. The weeks before you passed away, I learned more than I ever had those weeks... about you, family, and life in general. Life is beautiful...too beautiful and too short. On your last day, I spoke to you many times about how much I appreciate you and what you have done for our family. I asked that since you will not physically be here for my graduation in May, that you attend in spirit and walk beside me as I achieve something I truly never imagined myself accomplishing, a Masters degree. Most times I visited, you became teary-eyed over how proud you are of me and my accomplishments. This increased my motivation. It is selfish to say, but I was praying I had more time with you. More lunch dates, meeting my close friends, meeting my future husband, meeting my future children and so on. But, like you told us, you will be here with us and you will give us signs that we know you are watching. Lastly, I will continue to remain strong for your youngest, Lisa, who I am grateful to call my mom. I will remain strong for the rest of my family too, because I know you don´t want to see us suffer. Please give us strength and continue to live through us as we spread the kindness we have learned because of you. Grandy, I love you. May you rest in peace and continue your life in heaven, reunited with your husband, passed family members, childhood friends, childhood animals and beyond.
-Andrea H

Shannon Flannery

March 6, 2025

Although I did not know Diane personally, I can tell how much of an impact she had on others lives. Deepest condolences to her family and friends

Scott Fisher

March 6, 2025

Dear Conger Family, we are very sorry for your loss we wish the very best for your family. I am sure you have many Happy memories to remember her Good Bless.

Joanne Mahoney O´Neil

March 6, 2025

Paula I´m sorry fir your lose
Peace Joanne

Colleen Farrell

March 5, 2025

We were the lucky ones. So many fond memories that I will cherish as time goes on. Grandy will be loved and missed forever. Miss you Lish!

Alexandra (Sandy) Fisher Mesrs

March 5, 2025

Jim and I are very sorry to hear of aunt Diane´s passing . We wish we could have seen her and her family grow over the years . Please know we are thinking of her whole large family at this time . Jim and sandy (Fisher) Mears

Jean Ashmore, Godmuthah

March 5, 2025

I will cherish her visit to Peaks Island with you Susan. So glad we could share a little bit of out island with her.I will also remember the visits to the family home near Bear Hill in Wakefield. I am honored that she asked for me in her final days. Sending the whole family hugs and prayers in your loss.

Martha Egan Fitton

March 5, 2025

Susan and Paul and family I am so sorry. She was a wonderful woman, and I have so many fond memories.

Jenevieve Conger

March 5, 2025

You will be missed Mom . Rest easy . Tom and I loves you so much .
Love,
Jenevieve

Elaine Fallon

March 5, 2025

Dear Conger family, I have many many fond memories of going to your house in Wakefield. Your mom was always so wonderful. I loved going there. I remember she was the only person that ever called me Lainey. Sending love and hugs to all of you.
Elaine Owler Fallon

Susan McCarthy

March 5, 2025

Mom,
I will cherish my memories of you and will strive to be as loving, kind, empathetic and fair with all, as you were. I feel blessed to have shared so much time with you especially the last 25 years - shopping excursions, church fairs, craft fairs, long rides around the coastline and many lunches. Rest in peace and love
Susan

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