Marianne Wiedemer

1946 - 2010

Marianne Wiedemer obituary, 1946-2010

Marianne Wiedemer

1946 - 2010

Marianne Wiedemer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 21, 2010.
Marianne Wiedemer, 64, passed away in East Lansing on Tuesday, October 19, 2010. She will be fondly remembered as a loving wife and mother and a devoted member of the East Lansing community.

Marianne was born July 8, 1946 in White Plains, New York. She graduated from Cornell University in 1968, and later received a Master's degree in Curriculum Development and Communications from Michigan State University. She taught elementary school in Columbus, Ohio for three years in an open-classroom setting, and later trained teachers in this unique curriculum. Her passion for helping others led her to serve as activity coordinator at Independence Village Retirement Home of East Lansing. She was an avid gardener, and received her Master Gardener certification working on a memorial garden at the East Lansing Public Library. She also maintained a beautiful community perennial garden in Clifton Park for 20 years.

Marianne was a tireless worker for her community. She was founder of East Lansing Positive Prevention, a youth drug-prevention program, and worked as Developmental Director for the Boys and Girls Club of Lansing. She was a board member of both the Ingham County and State American Medical Association Alliance, and was a project manager and supervisor for the Junior League of Lansing. She also volunteered her time for Meals on Wheels, Woldumar Nature Center, and as a grant writer for Capital-Area United Way. She received a number of community awards for her service, including the East Lansing Crystal Award, the Capital-Area Athena Award, and the Search Institute Award for a mentorship program used in 46 cities.

Marianne was a 30-year member of The Peoples Church of East Lansing, where she was co-founder of Phoebe's Circle, President of The Peoples Church Pre-School, leader of Moms and Tots, interim coordinator of Elder-Care, and a member of the Woman's Board. In addition, she organized a medical mission to a hospital in Ometepec, Mexico.

Marianne is survived by her husband of 40 years, Dr. David H. Wiedemer; her sister Betty Jean Gaynor of Westerly, RI; and her four children, Kristin Frey (Peter) of New Bern, NC, Dr. Brian Wiedemer of Kapolei, HI, Scott Wiedemer (Season) of Sandy, OR, and Robin Mulvey (Steven) of Corvallis, OR. Visitation with the family will take place at Gorsline Runciman Funeral Homes, 1730 E. Grand River Ave, East Lansing, from 2:00-4:00 and 6:00-8:00 PM on Friday, October 29, 2010. A memorial service will be held at The Peoples Church, 200 W. Grand River Ave, East Lansing at 11:00 AM on Saturday, October 30, 2010 with receiving in the Robertson Room before and after the service. In honor of Marianne, memorial contributions can be made to the Boys and Girls Club of Lansing, 4315 Pleasant Grove Rd, Lansing, MI 48910 or the Lupus Foundation of America, 2000 L Street, N.W., Suite 710, Washington, DC 20036 in her memory.

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October 31, 2010

Dr. Wiedemer and family,
What a great loss to you and your family as well as your community. I met her only once, but have heard you speak of her and your children often over the years. We were all saddened to hear of her passing. You are in our thooughts and prayers. Mary Jo and the endo crew from Charlotte.

the pier at Pelican Bay Beach

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October 30, 2010

lunch at Marie's, Naples 2003

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October 30, 2010

sunset picnic on Pelican Bay beach 2003

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October 30, 2010

Marianne and Roberta 2003 at Marie's, Naples

Dr. and Mrs. L. Robert McElmurry

October 30, 2010

Dear Dave and children -
it is with great sadness that we learned of Marianne's unexpected passing. We have many fond memories of joint family gatherings with you and yours - in your home, cottage and at our farmhouse. Roberta spent a memorable week in 2003 at Pelican Bay with Marianne who was looking for a condo for you, Dave! She had a great talent for organizing and so much energy,joy and enthusiasm for what could be done, no matter what the obstacles. She knew how to have fun and we were fortunate to have been included in some of those times. We will miss her. We pray for your comfort and healing during this time of great loss. In Marianne's honor, we will be making a contribution to the Lupus Foundation (Bob's mom died of lupus when he was 12).
With much love and sympathy,
Bob and Roberta McElmurry and family

Bob & Margaret (Flegel) Brantley

October 27, 2010

Dr. Wiedemer & family, we are saddened to learn of Marianne's death. As a former Glencairn teacher to Kristen and Brian, I knew your mother as a positive, loving influence in the lives of everyone around her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kira Walkup

October 26, 2010

Kristin, Dr. Wiedemer, Brian, Scott and Robin,
All of the Spousta family sends their heartfelt sympathy for your terrible loss. Marianne will be remembered by many as a force of nature - strong, talented, determined, creative, passionate and full of life. Of all her tremendous accomplishments, I think her most lasting legacy is the family she and Dr. Wiedemer created -- including her 4 incredible children - Kristin, Brian, Scott and Robin. May you all find comfort in knowing that her beautiful spirit is now at peace and soaring high above.
Love, Kira Walkup (Spousta)

Alvaro Munoz

October 26, 2010

Our thoughts are with the Wiedemer family in this difficult time. We are so sorry for this loss, please know you will be in our prayers. I hope you will be comforted by the many cherished memories you no doubt have with Marianne.
from the Munoz Family with much Love and Faith.

October 25, 2010

Brian & Wiedemer Family.
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and I'm extremely sorry to hear of your loss. May your family be united in this sad situation and may peace, love and strength be with you always.
Love,
Tina, Brett & Addison Rotier

Dianne Mulvey

October 25, 2010

Dave, Robin and all the family - I was so sorry to hear that Marianne had passed away. I remember her visits to New Zealand with great fondness - especially her ability to organise great food for a crowd of people at Steven and Robin's wedding. May you be comforted by fond memories of a lovely lady.
Love from Dianne Mulvey

Vicki Bellon

October 24, 2010

Dr. Wiedemer, I just wanted to share my condolences to you and your family. What a beautiful photo of Marianne. I was aware she didn't always feel well, but was surprised to see she passed over. I miss my former patients in Dr. Roth's and Dr. Ruster's dental office. I am their former dental assistant, Vicki. It was nice to have known you both.

October 24, 2010

We were so surprised and saddened to hear of your sudden loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you that you will find comfort in this very difficult time and the days ahead. Dan and Amy Barber (Perry, MI)

Kristin Mellon

October 24, 2010

Dr. Wiedemer and Family, I was very sorry to hear of the death of your wife and mother. She certainly touched many lives. My prayers are with you and your family. Kristin Mellon (former nurse manager endoscopy/5 foster)

Brent and Jackie Williamson

October 24, 2010

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Jim and Jane Harrison

October 24, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dale Dye

October 22, 2010

Dr. Wiedemer and Family, We were so sad to hear that Marianne had passed away. She was an incredible person who touched so many lives. You all have lovely memories of her and she will always be in your hearts and souls. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Dale and Thom

Toni Shores

October 22, 2010

Dr.Wiedemer, children & family members I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Marianne. What a shock for us & am sure all of you. We will pray for loving calm & comfort for all you at this time. Marianne was always a warm & kind person I will not forget her. God's love & our prayers are with you all. Love, Toni & Jerry

Janet LaGrow

October 22, 2010

DHW and family: I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Marianne's death. My heart goes out to you and your children, and I will keep all of you in my prayers. We never forget, but with time it gets easier to remember. All my love, Jan

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