Donal Finbarr McCarthy

1933 - 2022

Donal Finbarr McCarthy obituary, 1933-2022, Manhasset, NY

Donal Finbarr McCarthy

1933 - 2022

Donal McCarthy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 15 to Dec. 17, 2022.
Donal Finbarr McCarthy, 89, passed away at his home on the 13th of December 2022 surrounded by family. He was born in New York, NY on August 1, 1933 to Sheila and Cornelius McCarthy, both from County Cork, Ireland. Donal is survived by his beloved wife of 64 years, Maureen. He is also survived by his cherished children Maureen (Martin Lerner), Cornelius (Janet), Catherine (Hugh Mullane) and Patrick (Kimberly). He was the proud grandfather of Donal, Michael and Hugh Mullane.

After graduating from Regis High School in 1951, Don went on to earn a bachelor's degree from Manhattan College in 1955 and a law degree from Columbia University in 1960. Don served in the U.S. Army, stationed in Korea, from 1956-58. Don continued to serve Regis High School and Manhattan College in various ways throughout his life, most recently as Regis High School Class of 1951's Secretary. He spent most of his legal career at Consolidated Edison, Inc. and Long Island Lighting Company, where he worked in several practice areas and focused on energy law. He practiced elder law and real estate law as a solo practitioner following retirement from Con Edison.

Donal's Catholic faith inspired him to serve his community. He was active in the Boy Scouts of America for decades, including serving as Assistant Scout Master of Troop No. 71 in Plandome and was recognized with The Silver Beaver Award in 2006. He also served on the Town of North Hempstead Board of Zoning and Appeals from 1996-2016, as a Board Member and then Vice Chairman. Don also served as President of The Council of Greater Manhasset Civic Association from 1984-86, Manhasset Democratic Club Zone Leader, 1975-87 and 2009-14, and earlier, President of the Westbury Democratic Club.

A voracious reader, Don loved history and politics. His intellectual curiosity led to lifelong hobbies of philately and ornithology. Until recently, he was an active member of the Collectors Club of New York. His family will miss him dearly and appreciated his intellect, kindness and optimism.

Friends are welcome to gather with the family from 4-8 p.m. on the 21st of December 2022 at Fairchild & Sons, Manhasset, NY. A mass will be held at 11:45 a.m on the 22nd of December 2022 at the Church of St. Mary, Manhasset, NY. In lieu of flowers, please make any donations in Donal's memory to Regis High School, www.regis.org/give.

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December 12, 2023

Noelle Osellame posted to the memorial.

January 13, 2023

Liam F posted to the memorial.

December 31, 2022

Kristin McDonough posted to the memorial.

Noelle Osellame

December 12, 2023

I used to work for Donal and when I turned 25, he reminded me that I was a quarter of a century old ... to this day, my 25th birthday was my worst! We always talked about that and laughed. Noelle

Liam F

January 13, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kristin McDonough

December 31, 2022

Heartfelt condolences to the entire McCarthy family on this grievous loss but especially to his daughter Maureen, a professional colleague and friend for over 25 years. On several occasions as Maureen and I worked together on mentoring and other next-gen initiatives of the Financial Women's Association, we traded tales of our beloved dads. That was when I learned that her Dad Donal and my husband Donald are both Regis alums. I must say that Donal Finbarr McCarthy with his professional accomplishments , passion for learning, and care for neighbor through his pro-bono volunteering is a magnificent reflection of Regis and the tradition of Catholic Social Teaching overall.

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Bonita K Black

December 19, 2022

To the family: Very sorry for your loss. He touched many lives and will be missed by so many. I heard about him over the years from my good friend, his daughter Maureen. You have my sincere condolences. Cherish every memory. Kind regards, Bonita Black and family

Noelle Osellame

December 18, 2022

Donal was my boss when I was in my mid-20's and we remained in contact all these years. He was a lovely man who always had lots of interesting stories to tell. I will miss him. My condolences to the family. Noelle

John and Joan Viscardi

December 18, 2022

We were so very sorry to hear of the passing of our dear neighbor, Don. For almost 40 years we have lived a couple doors down from the McCarthy family. We admired Don for so much. May he rest in peace. Much love to Maureen and his family.

Liam

December 17, 2022

We are sorry we haven't seen you in many years. Our condolences to the whole family on the loss of Don from the O´Mahony´s in Buffalo, Saranac Lake and Boston. May God be with you. - Sean, Deirdre, Siobhan (Bill), Liam (Stephanie) Emily (Mark)

Donal Daly

December 15, 2022

Sincere sympathy to Don's family on his passing. RIP

DONAL DALY (1st Cousin)
SKIBBEREEN, CO. CORK

Aingeal o'mahony guyn

December 15, 2022

Always remembering don' s lunch at paddy Quinn in Manhatten 1983 ! A great sense of humor and sharp as a tack. A man who valued family and friends, he will be missed. Xo

Seán Ryan (First cousin, Dublin, Ireland)

December 15, 2022

Sincere sympathies to Maureen, family and friends on the passing of a beloved husband, father, grandfather and dear friend. May he rest in peace.

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