Douglas “Doug” J. Herda

Doug was someone who truly lived life. There was an adventurous spirit about him-one that couldn´t be contained or quieted. When I learned he was going bungee jumping, Dennis and I just fell off our chairs in disbelief. That was Doug-always up for the thrill, the challenge, the story worth telling.

One of my fondest memories is the time he took Stacie Coutmey and me white water rafting. He patiently showed us how to paddle and what to do if (or when!) we fell in. It was exhilarating, hilarious, and completely unforgettable-just like him.

The Herda family became our extended family over time. We shared countless meals and evenings together, with dinners exchanged often and stories always flowing. Whenever we were invited over, I´d always ask what kind of wine Doug would enjoy. It was important to me because he mattered.

Doug had this amazing way of elevating any conversation. I could bring up any topic, and somehow he would always share something I didn´t know. He taught through stories, through laughter, through presence. He made people feel curious, welcome, and alive.

These are the memories I carry with me-the joy, the laughter, and wine. Doug lived fully, loved deeply, and left a mark on all of us who were lucky enough to know him.

Dear friends, I wanted to share this, it is Doug´s favorite wall hanging. It has survived many moves, is a bit raggedy and has been on his wall forever!

It´s a little hard to read but this is what is says:

Life is not a race ~ but indeed a journey. Be honest. Work hard. Be choosy. Say "thank you", "I love you", and "great job" to someone each day. Go to church, take time for prayer. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh. Let your handshake mean more than pen and paper. Love your life and what you've been given, it is not accidental ~ search for your purpose and do it as best you can. Dreaming does matter. It allows you to become that which you aspire to be. Laugh often. Appreciate the little things in life and enjoy them. Some of the best things really are free. Do not worry, less wrinkles are more becoming. Forgive, it frees the soul. Take time for yourself ~ plan for longevity. Recognize the special people you've been blessed to know. Live for today, enjoy the moment. ~ Bonnie Mohr.

Doug, you are forever in my heart until we meet again. Love, your Rosie

My husband Jay always said Doug was one of his favorite people to be around. He had so many interests and activities. What a wonderful full life he had. Let´s treasure all those memories and keep Doug´s spirit alive in our hearts.