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Rosie Herda
September 13, 2025
Thank you for these memories of Doug, and I will cherish them forever. We were together 40 years --half of his lifetime, and as I read these tributes, it brings up many stories that I had completely forgotten about. What has touched me deeply are the new stories where I get to learn even more about this kind, gentle, amazing man. Doug was very blessed. I am very grateful for your comments. Thank you and love, Rosie
Thomas ONeil
September 3, 2025
This is a Beautiful Testament to a great man and awesome Friend from our seminary days. Hugs to all who love him
Karen Rodgers
September 2, 2025
Such a beautifully written tribute. My deepest sympathies to the Herda family. Always in my prayers. God Bless.
cindy ling seymour
August 29, 2025
I have so many fun memories of Doug--he had so many varied interests, and was always up for a parade or celebration. We played ukulele and sang together and shared our love of Indian food and wine. Woodies on the wharf or walking on the beach, line dancing or hiking, baseball....wait, are they dodger fans?:). He traveled to places most of us are afraid to go to. I think of Doug every time I sit at my kitchen table and see the beautiful kintsugi repair he did for me on my custom made wooden table. Who knew owning a furniture store was one of his past ventures? Doug was multifaceted, he was fearless and courageous and lived life to the fullest.
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Ed Cook
August 29, 2025
Dear Doug, Always remember: We are farmers! Bump padump pump! Padump! Love, Ed Cook
Craig
August 27, 2025
I've been blessed to have known Doug and his family for over 30 years, with so many fond memories over that time.
While it's heartbreaking and surreal to no longer be able to speak or text with you, I take comfort in believing you are now at peace.
Doug's life force helped support and inspire many. His outgoing adventurous spirit allowed us to share; tennis, white water rafting, spelunking, sky diving, camping, jet pilot simulation, and so much more. He had a warm welcoming presence that bonded family and friends over meals, energized our Ol Guys support group, and helped to weather heart wrenching times too.
I am immensely grateful for our time together, and the lessons learned from his example as a "trailblazing ironman."
Doug's connection to everyone he held close to his heart, will continue forever when we remember this truly beautiful person.
Here's to you my friend
Terry
August 27, 2025
Doug was someone who truly lived life. There was an adventurous spirit about him-one that couldn´t be contained or quieted. When I learned he was going bungee jumping, Dennis and I just fell off our chairs in disbelief. That was Doug-always up for the thrill, the challenge, the story worth telling.
One of my fondest memories is the time he took Stacie Coutmey and me white water rafting. He patiently showed us how to paddle and what to do if (or when!) we fell in. It was exhilarating, hilarious, and completely unforgettable-just like him.
The Herda family became our extended family over time. We shared countless meals and evenings together, with dinners exchanged often and stories always flowing. Whenever we were invited over, I´d always ask what kind of wine Doug would enjoy. It was important to me because he mattered.
Doug had this amazing way of elevating any conversation. I could bring up any topic, and somehow he would always share something I didn´t know. He taught through stories, through laughter, through presence. He made people feel curious, welcome, and alive.
These are the memories I carry with me-the joy, the laughter, and wine. Doug lived fully, loved deeply, and left a mark on all of us who were lucky enough to know him.
Rosie
August 27, 2025
Dear friends, I wanted to share this, it is Doug´s favorite wall hanging. It has survived many moves, is a bit raggedy and has been on his wall forever!
It´s a little hard to read but this is what is says:
Life is not a race ~ but indeed a journey. Be honest. Work hard. Be choosy. Say "thank you", "I love you", and "great job" to someone each day. Go to church, take time for prayer. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh. Let your handshake mean more than pen and paper. Love your life and what you've been given, it is not accidental ~ search for your purpose and do it as best you can. Dreaming does matter. It allows you to become that which you aspire to be. Laugh often. Appreciate the little things in life and enjoy them. Some of the best things really are free. Do not worry, less wrinkles are more becoming. Forgive, it frees the soul. Take time for yourself ~ plan for longevity. Recognize the special people you've been blessed to know. Live for today, enjoy the moment. ~ Bonnie Mohr.
Doug, you are forever in my heart until we meet again. Love, your Rosie
cindy seymour
August 27, 2025
My husband Jay always said Doug was one of his favorite people to be around. He had so many interests and activities. What a wonderful full life he had. Let´s treasure all those memories and keep Doug´s spirit alive in our hearts.
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