Douglas Martin Hardman

I will forever miss you. You were a great big brother

Oh how I will miss you! You were a great big brother!

I remember a Christmas party at Kathy's place in the park. She always throws the best parties. I sat at the dining table to decorate cookies or make gingerbread houses, not sure which. Doug was sitting next to me, and we had one of the most insightful, thought-provoking conversations. Loved how he laughed and smiled freely. He was such an authentic person that you couldn't help but be authentic around him.

His love and pride for his daughter, Kathy, was so evident, and he was an engaged and present grandfather for Oliver and Felix. Seeing them all together filled my heart with joy. I remember back when Kathy and I laughed at her terrible dating app stories. Then she met Danny and lived happily ever after, and Doug loved every minute of it.

Doug, it was lovely knowing you.

Most sincerely,
Robin Ohlinger

When I first met Doug through Kathy, I was delighted by his engaging, infectious smile and his friendly warmth. I was always pleased to either know he'd be at an event or see him there. He was the judge of the carved pumpkins at Kathy and Danny's Halloween party once and blindly picked mine. He made it feel like such a fine honor. He was fabulous with the details, the little moments that make a life special. He will be missed for all he added to the lives of others and so much more.