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Gary (Gig) Donahee
May 3, 2025
JD....
I'm so sorry for the passing of your Dad! Your Mom and Dad visited us on numerous occasions in Colorado and also we were great friends of Joe and Patti!
JD, your Dad was very proud of you!
Our sincere condolences....
Gary and Lois Donahee
Bill Wagner
March 21, 2025
Doug was mentor and friend to whom I owe my career trajectory. He saw something that even I was not fully aware of at the time and took a chance on me. In the book Tom Sawyer while painting a fence, it was said that if you hate what you're doing its work, and if you like what you're doing its play. Working with Doug, although serious, was play. I enjoyed every minute of it and one could not have had a better mentor who always had his back. Thank you Doug, and rest in peace.
Kevin Shine
March 18, 2025
Ellen, JD and Family,
Doug was a great friend, leader and mentor. I will never forget our times together cheering on our Eagles... and our tailgates. He will be missed. Prayers for Doug and the family. Love from Kevin Shine and Family.
Michael Walsh.
March 14, 2025
First met Doug at age 10 playing Little League baseball. I was friends with him through high school and as a matter of fact, went with him and two others for an interview session at Boston College with Father Paul McCarrick who was a Boston College alumnus. I can see from previous messages that he remained a genuinely a good guy.
Bob Ahern
March 14, 2025
Good guy always treated me well and listened to my comments
Bob Dunn
March 14, 2025
One of the highlights of a 55-year friendship with Doug, Chris, JD and Ellen was our Father-Son golf trip to Scotland. Doug was smart, caring, competitive, loyal, dependable, funny, and loved golf. A great friend since we met at Apawamis in 1970. Thinking of you and Chris together again warms my heart. RIP. Bob
George Brockmann
March 13, 2025
Doug was a class act and a great leader to work with. Glad I had the opportunity. He will be missed. Prayers and good thoughts to his family.
Michael Hannan
March 13, 2025
It was an honor and privilege to have worked for Doug. He was kind, fair and had a great sense of humor. We will keep him and his family in our prayers. God Bless, Mike Hannan and Peggy Cronin Hannan
Kevin Organ
March 13, 2025
Had the pleasure to work for Doug in the 90s and expressed our mutual frustration with the NY Jets. He was always kind. The world lost a good man.
Gordan Duffield
March 13, 2025
I am glad I got to spend time at the outing for Chris!! It was an honor working for Doug and he will be missed!!
John Hughes
March 12, 2025
Doug, Char and I were honoured to be included in your sphere of friends. We will always remember you: holding court at the Spires, as the Mayor of the pool area; entertaining us endlessly at The Tides with your 'war stories'; laughing heartily over a wide variety of issues; and doing all you could to make both The Spires and Bent Pine memorable places to find ourselves. We lift a glass to your kindness and your passion for reading.
Forever in our hearts. John and Charlotte
Ronald Shelli
March 12, 2025
Doug, our hearts are broken!
Meeting you at the pool of the Village Spires in Vero Beach in January 2016 was the beginning of a very special & cherished friendship.
For the past 10 years what great times & wonderful & special memories you have given us (Bent Pine, The Tides & numerous other restaurant lunches & dinners, daily conversations at the pool, NY Mets baseball games in Port St. Lucie, the Village Spires clubhouse events, your condo dinner parties (DWD), your 80th Birthday Party, etc., etc.
How grateful we were to have you as a friend and we will miss your intelligence & guidance, generosity, humor, friendship, and that big smile of yours!
As sad as we are, we find comfort knowing that you are reunited with your son, Chris after that tragic day and you are finally pain-free and at peace.
Until we meet again, RIP, our cherished friend.
With Love,
Ron & Patti Shelli
Claudia Arens
March 12, 2025
We will miss Mr. Mello so much at the Tides. We always looked forward to his kindness, hugs and laughter at his weekly dinners. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. Claudia - The Tides
Patricia Shelli
March 12, 2025
Ellen, JD & family ~
Our heartfelt sympathy & prayers are with you and your family during this sad and difficult time.
Doug was a very loved, cherished and special friend to us.
How blessed Doug was to love and be loved by his beautiful family and numerous friends.
Love & Blessings,
Ron & Patti Shelli
Bill Hannigan
March 12, 2025
Georgene Drewniak
March 11, 2025
Dear JD, Gina, Jaden, Jack, Cheryl and Ellen, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Doug´s passing. My heart goes out to all of you.
I have a lifetime of close wonderful memories shared with Doug and all our cousins.
He was such a wise and benevolent man.
I´ll miss you cousin "Dougie"
Susan Ellis Snyder
March 11, 2025
Mello Man, during the dark days of COVID when my father was dying, you were the rock he leaned on and your sense of humor kept him smiling.
It makes me smile to think you might be having a laugh together now.
You were the best. With much love, Susan and Joseph Snyder and for my dad RADM George Ellis.
Brooklyn Martin
March 11, 2025
Doug was such a kind soul and full of so much wisdom. I will miss him greatly! God bless you Doug
Martin Clague
March 11, 2025
RIP, your kindness will be missed
Kevin T. Hoffman
March 11, 2025
To my fellow friend and Apawamis member, you will be missed. To the Mello family, another opportunity to extend my condolences to you. Doug was a straight shooter and someone who was liked by all. God has taken you now to join the ranks of Cassin, Leddy, Summa, Voss and others that you knew so well. And of course, you now get your reunion with your son Chris. As I said to you on every 9/11 since 2001, we will never forget and God Bless the Mello Family.
Kevin T. Hoffman
Sean Drewniak
March 11, 2025
My thoughts and prayers are with
you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Doug was a great man and mentor. I enjoyed the time I spent with him and appreciated his sage advice and wisdom.
Suzie and Jim Donovan
March 11, 2025
Doug was a good friend and golfing buddy of my father, Paul Hargarten. Many jokes were told and laughter was heard while playing golf together at Bent Pine Golf Club. I had the privilege of getting to know Doug more so over the years, because of Childcare Resources of Indian River County, which he and I both supported. Doug is a gentle soul, who showed love and kindness to the children of the school, as well as to everyone he came in contact with. He will truly be missed. God bless you, Doug Mello.
Suzie and Jim Donovan
Rhonda Cease
March 10, 2025
Words cannot express the sadness I feel to not have my friend at the Spires anymore. My late husband standing behind Doug at his birthday party and I so enjoyed Doug´s life stories and his lust for life. He made us laugh and we grieved with him for the loss of his son Christopher.We felt blessed knowing Doug. May he rest in peace
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March 10, 2025
Douglas Mello Obituary
Douglas J. Mello (11/17/1942 – 3/10/2025)Douglas Joseph Mello, 82, of Rye, New York and Vero Beach, Florida passed away peacefully on March 10, 2025 after a short illness.Doug graduated from Boston College in 1965 and went on to a long and ... Read Douglas Mello's Obituary
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