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Doulat Tolaram Obituary
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Lara Mazzoni
July 15, 2013
Dear Gregory And Tolaram Family,
I send you my deepest condolences for your loss.
I had the luck to meet in several occasions to my visit to Bermuda and Love I could feel and among your family was one of kind.
I know his has left this Love and Greatness he had , as I was lucky find in Gregory's family.
All my love to you all.
Lara & Jaime
Leighton Coleman
July 15, 2013
It was truly a most glorious and moving funeral. Mr. T will be missed by all those fortunate to have known and loved him. I will always treasure his wisdom and advice, especially the one on never leaving the house with out a pen.
Jed and Lisa Rhoads
July 15, 2013
Dear Tolaram family,
A great Person's legacy is often the quality of family they created. Your family is a masterpiece, full of high quality people and a loving, caring, contributing immediate and extended family. Thank you for your contributions to us all and for leaving us with such wonderful children. God bless you and them.
Derek & Kim Dismont
July 13, 2013
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
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July 13, 2013
Raj, Rob and I have such fond memories of your Fathers shop in Hamilton. I bought my bridesmaid gifts there and also I have lovely things for our home. May your father rest in peace - our prayers for you and your family - Nameste Lisa and Rob
July 13, 2013
To Mrs. T and her entire family -
I will always remember the early days of knowing your family. Every one around you that felt they were a part of your family. Thank you for all my memories. You all will remain in my Heart.
Thanks for sharing your husband with all of us.
Mr. T was a wonderful man. I will always remember how he took me under
his wing and taught me the retail business and how to be a good person. Throughout the years, I was always reminded of how he helped to mold me. I owed him so much. He kept me in line.
Mr.T - I will never forget you.
His Spirit will remain within all of us.
Paula Lightbourne-Johnson(Leon)
St. George's
Michele Frith
July 13, 2013
Dear Mrs. T, Greg, Raj, Jash and Sajni
Where does one begin when trying to convey words of love and support to our dear friends who are suffering such a great loss!
Ben and I both know well, how very, very much your father meant to you and how highly regarded he was.
I had the pleasure of meeting him only a few times over the years but he made an indelible impression and I could see in his eyes, a very kind and gentle soul!! Whereas Ben grew up with you all,
and was so fortunate to have known well, the man who was held in such high esteem.
We are all here for you and hope with time, the pain will lessen and the wonderful memories you cherish will be shared time and again with your beautiful Grandson, nephew,son!
Take peace in the fact that he truly is in a better place and someday, somewhere he will let all of you know this.
With all our love
Ben and Michele
XxXxX
July 13, 2013
We are thinking of you all and remembering your dad with fondest memories, a lovely gentleman with a knowing twinkle in his warm smile. Best wishes & hugs, Nancy & Jonathan Wainwright
Michel Bedard
July 13, 2013
My sincerest sympathies to the Toloram family. My heart and prayers are with you.
R.I.P. Mr T, you've done very good.
Elsie Jennings Darrell
July 12, 2013
Dear Janet
So sorry to hear of your loss please accept my deepest sympathy and family also.
You probaly do not remember me as i left Bermuda sixty years ago
Nigel Kermode
July 12, 2013
My sincerest condolences to all the members of The Tolaram family. Doulat was a true gentleman and I know that he will be sadly missed by all who had the great good fortune to have known him.
July 12, 2013
I am so glad we got to spend a few days with the Tolaram family this last week at the christening of Theodore. A joyous
time ,,a sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barbara and Bob and the Fitzmaurice family
July 11, 2013
Very sad to hear of Donnies passing. We have some wonderful memories of him and the family. Our thoughts and prayers are being sent to all the family. He will never be forgotten. God Bless, Charles and Phyllis Spearing, Ontario Canada
Melissa
July 11, 2013
To the Toleram family. My condoelences to your family at this tough time. You were all such loving, woderful people when i saw you in John's office. RIP Mr. Toleram.
Melissa
Lori Baker-Lloyd
July 11, 2013
Raj and Kumar, my thoughts are with you and your family as you celebrate the life of your Dad. I remember Mr Tolaram fondly -- he had a kind spirit and a great eye! I know you learned a lot from him and will miss him dearly. I will keep you in my prayers.
RoseAnn Stapff
July 11, 2013
Mr.Tolaram RIP...thanks for your kindness.
July 11, 2013
To aunt Janet, Sajni and family,
We know how awesome a business man uncle Donnie was in St George and Reid St. HM but more so a great husband and father. His legacy will live on through his children.
Sajni, I really marvelled at the intense love and commitment you showed your father in his final days on this earth as a part time care giver. God's word states, to honor you father and mother that your days be long on this earth, I can say you have done your part.
God Bless and say in Jesus, so when He returns we can meet him in the air and forever be with our earthly fathers and heavenly.
Deepest Regards
Your cousin Pam Reid Ingham (massage therapist) Larry, and mom Betty Reid.
Duane [Dixie] Dickinson
July 11, 2013
Greg my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sorry i can`t be there, due to wife`s overseas hospital appointments.
Leslee Christopher
July 11, 2013
I remember Mr Tolaram very fondly from St John's. He always had the most beautiful smile on his face. Such a beautiful spirit! My prayers are with the family. May God bless you all.
Dawn Robinson
July 11, 2013
Blessings and prayers for the Tolaram family. Rest in Peace Mr. Tolaram. The Robinson Family
Jodi Corbett
July 11, 2013
Gregory, Molly, Theodore and family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jodi, Emily and Jessica
Brenda Lana Smith
July 11, 2013
My best thoughts embrace Janet and her family…
I have fond memories and remain most appreciative of Donnie's friendship and kindness that first Alan and then I enjoyed …
William Kempe
July 11, 2013
The Tolaram Family: even when we were all very young, your dad had a genuine and wonderful way of making you feel important. He was a pioneering businessman, a great role model and father. Our thoughts are with you. Wiggy, Julia, Josh, Hannah and Billie Rose
July 10, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Tolaram Family. He set a wonderful example for all of us, made Bermuda a better place and will be missed. Lots of love from Diana & Michael Heslop
xoxo
Nicolette Reiss
July 10, 2013
To the Tolarams, my sympathies and best wishes go out to you all at this difficult of times
Malcolm and Yvette Swan and family
July 10, 2013
Our sincere condolences, at Donnie's death. May God comfort you all.
July 10, 2013
Dear Janet & Family,
It was with the greatest sadness that Sheena and I read of Donny's passing; we will always remember his friendship and genuine concern for Bermuda and Bermudians. His unending cheerfulness was as a tonic to all who knew him; his conviction to the church, his love of family and commitment to the community as Rotarian were second to none. We will always remember his kindness and friendship; the Tolaram family are in our thoughts and prayers. Dr John & Sheena Hunter, Cheltenham, UK.
July 10, 2013
We always received a warm welcome from Mr. T. every time we visited the beautiful Tolaram home. Such special memories! We are thinking about all of you. Kim Marsh & Family, Atlanta, GA
Andrea and David Juleff
July 10, 2013
Dearest Mrs T., Gregory, Raj, Sajni, Jaishree and family, we are so saddened to hear that Mr. T has passed away. I was lucky enough to have known him and will remember him always with great fondness, he did make me laugh. Our love and thoughts are with you all. xxxxxxx
Lisa & Dennis Whitehead
July 10, 2013
To the entire Tolaram Family, Dennis and I send lots of hugs and prayers. Mr. T. will always be remembered with lots of love.
July 10, 2013
Dear Mrs. Tolaram, Greg, Raj, Molly, Theodore, and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Mr. Tolaram was a wonderful man, and was always so upbeat and cheerful whenever he saw me. I know he is in a place of happiness and peace and smiling down on all of you.
You have my deepest sympathy.
much love, XO
Webb
July 10, 2013
To the Tolaram Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you, may you find peace and cherish the wonderful memories.
Robert Masters and Margaret Smith
Horst and Claire Finkbeiner
July 10, 2013
Gregory, Raj and family, I remember your dad well and our thoughts are with you all.
Raewyn McGrigor
July 10, 2013
Dearest Greg, Molly and Little Theodore,
I am sending my heart felt condolences at this difficult time.
It was such a pleasure to get to meet your lovely family and in particular,your father at a time when you made him so happy by bringing his new Grandson Theodore home.I will never forget his smile that day.
Much love and best wishes to you all.
July 10, 2013
Dear Janet,
I read on the internet this moring of Doulat`s passing. I remember well the many times we spent talking about the future of Bermuda and of work we could accomplish in the Jayces to make our island a better place. I shall miss him. I regret I shall not be at the service as I have just arrived in Colorado. My very best wishes to you and your children. Very sincerely,
Warren
warren
Stefi Max and Olivia Girombelli
July 10, 2013
Gregory, Raj and all the family, we learned through you how kind, thoughtful and a special person Mr. T was. His smile is now in Teo and his legacy will be alive forever. May he rest in Heavenly Peace. with all our love and prayers,
Aurora Porter
July 10, 2013
Dearest Raj our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Robert, Aurora and Adrian Porter
Boyd Vallis
July 10, 2013
What to say, a sense of loss is all. I truly enjoyed my times spent with "Mr T" and think of him fondly. What it is to be a good and gentle man in this world we live in. Love to you all, always. Boyd Vallis and Family
Cathy (Mercer) Platten
July 10, 2013
Sajni and the Tolaram family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. Best wishes
David Snowdon-Jones
July 10, 2013
Gregory & Raj. We are so sorry for your loss.
We know how close you all are and send much love to you all, especially your Mum.
David & Patricia
Vassi Chamberlain
July 10, 2013
Dearest Mrs Tolaram, Gregory and Raj,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know what a spectacular man your husband and father was having met him on his trips to London. I also know how highly regarded he was by all. It must have been such a joy for him, Greg and Molly, to have had some time with your little Theodore and a joy for you too to have seen the two of them together. I send you all much love and thoughts, and please offer my condolences to you sister, Vassi
July 10, 2013
Condolences to the Tolaram family.Your leader was a kind, sensible man who raised and provided well for his wife and family in a loving environment- the true measure of a great man. He will be missed and you were lucky to have him.
The Way Family
Sara Fitzmaurice
July 10, 2013
Sending much love to the entire Tolaram family. Thinking of you in this difficult time.
Megan Benedek
July 10, 2013
To the lovely Toleram family. My thoughts are with all of you. Mr Toleram was one of the sweetest men and such a fantastic father. I am sorry I am unable to pay my respects at the funeral. I shall miss him. Love Megan (Lewin) Benedek
July 10, 2013
Our love and prayers to Janet and family at this sad time.We have many happy memories of Donnie, and thank God for a lovely man: a wonderful husband, father and friend. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
Love Bishop Ewen and Jennifer
Todd Feder
July 10, 2013
The Tolaram Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Through Molly, over the years, I learned that Mr. T was a deeply loved and cherished man. My deepest condolences to you all.
Much love and peace,
Todd
Rebecca Hendrix
July 10, 2013
Raj, Gregory and all the Tolarams, sending you condolences for your loss and wishing you strength and grace during this time. Much love, Rebecca Hendrix
Kees, Christina, Willem & Lucian van Beelen
July 9, 2013
To the Tolaram Family,
We were deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. Mr Tolaram was a fine gentleman, a wonderful ambassador to the Island and just a warm, decent person. We will miss him. Lots of love,
Jessica Fisher
July 9, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, may you find peace and cherish the wonderful memories.
Chatlani Family
July 9, 2013
Uncle Donnie's smile and charisma will be remembered. He was such a gentle soul and we have fond memories of growing up in Bermuda and spending time with him. May his legacy live on. God bless you all and may you find peace and comfort in knowing that he has entered Heaven's gates.
July 9, 2013
To the Toleram family,
Our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ayla and Antonio
Gilbert & Lorna Perry
July 9, 2013
Dear Janet and family,
We are so sorry to learn of Donnie's passing. We pray that knowing he is with his Lord will help to ease the sense of loss you all feel. You are all in our prayers.
Much love
Gilbert & Lorna Perry
Erika Bove & familia
July 9, 2013
Cara Familia Tolaram,
Ricevete ile nostre più sincere condoglianze. È stato un privilegio aver conosciuto Mr. T, una persona veramente speciale,
Ian Havercroft
July 9, 2013
To all the Tolaram family, we are so sorry for your loss you are all in our thoughts.
Ian & Carole
July 9, 2013
To the Tolaram family- It is with great shock to learn of Mr Tolaram's passing- He was truly a gentleman of exemplary character, always pleasant and respectful to all he came in contact with. In your time of grief may god comfort the family. Paul & Lorna Singh
Brian Shadbolt
July 9, 2013
My thoughts are with you. Donnie was a true Gentleman and I have though of him often with affection
Laurie Smith
July 9, 2013
Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Many good memories of time the Tolorams and the Cooks spent together.
Nancy Mendelson
July 9, 2013
Our hearts go out to our dear friend Raj and the entire Tolaram Family. Spending an afternoon with Donny and Janet in New York is a memory we will treasure always. With love from Nancy Mendelson & Tom Scott
Natelkka Gibbons
July 9, 2013
Dear Mrs. Tolaram and family,
You have my deepest sympathy for the lose of your husband and father.
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May God give you the peace and tranquillity during this time.
Love
Natelkka
July 9, 2013
I so sorry to here about your lost, my uncle Donnie. I will miss him. I will keep you all in my prayer. With love, your nephew and cousin, Rudy fox and family. California.
Barbara Chasty
July 9, 2013
Dear Raj, and all the Tolarams. I am sorry to hear of your father's passing - he was the nicest gentleman!! May he rest in peace and may all your memories of him bring joy to your heart.
xoxo
Theodore Tolaram
July 9, 2013
Dearest Grandfather,
Thank you for waiting for me to arrive. Spending six precious with months with you looking into your bright eyes and sharing smiles I will cherish forever.
Your loving grandson,
Theodore Doulat James Tolaram
Michael sheppard
July 9, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Toleram family. Mr. Toleram was a man who brought joy to everyone he met. His infectious smile and love of life will last in the memories of all Bermudians.
Giles Belfrage
July 9, 2013
To all the Tolarams
My thoughts are with you.
Love and prayers
Giles Belfrage
Ardie & John Henry
July 9, 2013
To Mama T, Jash, Sajni, Kumar and Raj,
Our deepest condolences for your loss, but we are also celebrating the wonderful life of Donny with you. We wish we could be there in person for the services on Thursday, but please know that our thoughts and prayers will be with you all through this difficult time. God bless you all.
Michael Williams
July 9, 2013
To the Tolaram Family
Bermuda has lost another fine gentleman.
It was our pleasure to have known him. Think of all the happy times.
Our condolences.
Michael and Helena Williams
Niagara Falls, Ontario.
Robert Mello
July 9, 2013
Dear Janet and Family,
Our sincere condolences upon the passing of Donnie.
He will always be remembered as a kind and happy person.
Our prayers are with you during this sad time.
With our deepest sympathy,
Bobby Mello & family
Annette Boyle
July 9, 2013
To the entire Tolaram family: Words alone cannot truly express my deepest condolences on hearing of the passing of Mr. Tolaram. He was such a gentle and kind man who always had a smile on his face. I often remember our talks at the airport when I was a Customs inspector. May his soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed, rest in peace.
July 9, 2013
To the entire Tolaram Family. Our thoughts are with you.
Mark and Sue Perreault
Ellen Brown
July 9, 2013
Sending light and love to all of you on the passing of your Doulat.
Aniceto & Ronquillo Family
July 9, 2013
To Mrs. Toleram and Family,
We offer our deepest condolences to all of you. May the Lord guide you and your family as always.
July 9, 2013
To the entire Tolaram Family.
Our sincerest sympathies go out to all of you as do our thoughts and prayers at this time.
From the entire Burgess family
Mark Orchard
July 9, 2013
On behalf of the entire Orchard family, I send our condolences and fond memories of a true gentleman. Sending love and peace. Mark.
Gillian & Joseph Prystupa/Hewson/James
July 8, 2013
Janet & family please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Doulat. I've missed your shops in recent years & your Personalities. Your Family has contributed well to Our Bermudian Hospitality. Many Blessings
Arretta Furbert
July 8, 2013
Sajni & Family,
Please accept my condolences at such a difficult time, I remember Saj, how kind your father was to me when we were at MSA, together, even as we got older, he necer forgot who I was, I will always remember his kind smile. Peace be with you all.
Joy Young Tucker
July 8, 2013
Dearest Tolaram Family,
My first thought when I heard the news of Mr T was that my Father will have more company whilst he sits and has his coffee contemplating putting the world to right. Our thoughts are with you all.
Thanks for being.
David, Joy,
Rawleigh, Hadleigh, Blythe, Allegra Tucker
Scott Johnson
July 8, 2013
To the entire Tolaram Family
Our sincerest sympathies go out to all of you as do our thoughts and prayers.
Scott Johnson and the Johnson Family
Tim and June Carr
July 8, 2013
Janet and family,
I first met Donnie on the night we both joined Sandy's Lions Club, many many years ago and remained in contact with him until we left Bermuda in early 2007. He was a true gentleman in all senses of the world and left this world a better place for having been here. He will be sorely missed and our prayers are with you all.
Molly Tolaram
July 8, 2013
Mr T. - Your memory will always live on in our hearts! You welcomed me into the family like I was one of YOUR OWN! I will always love you, Molly
Gary Holland
July 8, 2013
"Mr. Tolaram" will be sadly missed. His wit , good humor and kindness was inspiring. Please accept my condolences.
July 8, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Love Joann Martin Butkiewicz
July 8, 2013
Deepest sympathies to Janet and family.
Doris Goodman
Valter Correia
July 7, 2013
It was my privelege to meet him in the short time in Bermuda
My toughts are whit whole family
My sincerest condolenses
Al and Mary Ann Thomas
July 7, 2013
Dear Janet and Family,
Our thoughts of deepest sympathy are
with you in your time of loss.
Barbara Blades-Lines
July 6, 2013
Dear Mrs. Tolaram and family,
May the love of friends, family, and carry you through your grief.
With admiration and love,
July 6, 2013
My condolences to the family of ~Daulat Tolaram. It was my privilege to meet him when I visited Bermuda a few years ago and have treasured memories of our conversations. Kishin Kirpalani.
RUTE XAVIER
July 5, 2013
MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE, A NEW STAR IS ABOVE US.
Dave Senior, David, and Pauline Gamble
July 5, 2013
Our sincerest condolences to the Tolarams. Our thoughts always go back to good times together.
PENNY-LYNN PAYNTER
July 5, 2013
My dear Mrs. Tolaram my prayers are with you and your family.
Penny-Lynn
July 5, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
A.A. FERNANDES
July 5, 2013
To,The Tolaram Family
In deepest empathy
A.A Fernandes /BDA/LON
July 5, 2013
Our deepest and Sincere sympathies to Janet and
The family. Donny was so good natured, we remember his sense of humor.
John, Anja, Peter, Andrew Crisson.
Margot Cox
July 5, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Donnie's passing. I have so many good memories of him. Especially when the children were all all young. My thoughts are with the whole family.
July 5, 2013
My deepest sympathy and sincerest condolences to all the Tolaram family.
Anita (O'Leary) Monk
Michael Chatlani
July 5, 2013
Uncle Donny was a phenomenal man who had an amazing impact on my life - since childhood. God bless him... We know he has gone to a better place!
Barbara & Cyril Cooper
July 5, 2013
To Janet and all the Toleram family:
How sad we are to learn of Donnie's passing. We have such pleasant memories of our times together during the Jaycee & Jayceette days when we all volunteered together to help make Bermuda a better place. Donnie will be remembered as 'a gentle gentlemen', and we will treasure our friendship.
LAURA PATRICIU (YOUNG)
July 5, 2013
Janet and family
Please accept my sincere sympathy. Doulat was a gentleman, a hard worker and a loving family man. It was a privilege to know him
Sandra Outerbridge
July 5, 2013
Dear Mrs. Tolaram and family, What a wonderful kind man Mr.Tolaram was! My parents knew him well and he often stopped us on the street to say a friendly hello. I havent seen him in a while but the last time we spoke he said he was learning the computer. I am saddened to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace. You have my deepest condolences in his passing.
Mary Sumpter
July 5, 2013
To Janet and family,
Please accept my sincere sympathy. "Donny" was much loved by many people, and was a good friend to my late husband, Norman. I like to think of them in Heaven together now talking over old times.
May you all be comforted in the knowledge that Donny is in a much better place now, where there are no more tears, no more sickness and no more pain. May happy memories also help to console you.
With my love and prayers. Mary.
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