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Dr. Charles D. Stavely
1958 - 2023
Dr. Charles D. Stavely
1958 - 2023
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Dr. Charles Stavely Obituary
Dr. Charles Daniel Stavely, 64, of Pensacola, FL, passed away on Thursday, January 26, 2023.
Charlie, a devoted man of God, was born on August 29, 1958, to William and Frances Stavely in Kilmichael, MS. After Charlie graduated from Winona High School in 1976, he went on to study chemistry at Delta State. At his beloved Delta State, he played football all four years and cultivated close relationships that lasted a lifetime.
After graduating from Delta State, he pursued and completed his degree in Dentistry from the University of Mississippi. In 2008, Charlie met the love of his life, Kim Cothern and on October 10, 2009, the two were married in Hawaii. Charlie was a devoted father to his sons: Ben, Daniel, and Michael. He took special pride in raising his 3 boys to grow into the men that they are today. Charlie leaves behind a legacy through his work with special needs patients. His passion was to help children and adults that were disabled that had dental necessities. He also leaves behind a devoted patient following that provided over 40 years of relationships both professionally and personally. Hunting (with his best friend, Kenny), fishing and watching Ole Miss football were part of Charlie’s favorite pastimes. He also loved traveling. He and Kim traveled and sailed and fished the world over.
Charlie is preceded in death by his parents, William and Frances Stavely and Dr. Lynn Frances Johnston.
He is survived by his loving wife, Kim; children, Ben, Daniel, and Michael; his sister, Starla; stepdaughter, Jordyn (Justin); stepson, Sawyer; step grandchildren, Ryder and Willa; as well as numerous extended family.
Visitation will be held 5-7pm Thursday, February 2, 2023 at Harper-Morris Memorial Chapel. Funeral Service will be held 11:00am Friday, February 3, 2023, at Harper-Morris Memorial Chapel, with Dr. Dave Snyder officiating. Interment will follow at Bayview Memorial Park.
Active pallbearers will be Ben Stavely, Michael Stavely, Sawyer Wright, Justin Stephens, Todd Fisher, and David Graham.
Honorary pallbearers will be Daniel Stavely, Ryder Stephens, and the Delta State Football Team Alumni (1976, ’77, ’78, and ’79).
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: The ARC Gateway, 3932 N. 10th Ave., Pensacola, FL 32503.
Click this link to view additional details about Charles Services, including any available live streams: https://my.gather.app/remember/charles-stavely.
46 Entries
Terrill Bryant
February 5, 2023
I saw Charlie two weeks ago at Jimmy’s Grill in Molino. We chatted for a few minutes. He told me he was looking forward to retirement. I told him that I would see him again at Jimmy’s. I am saddened to hear of his sudden passing. I am thankful that I knew Charlie. My sincere condolences.
Beth Hershberger - Navarro
February 2, 2023
My sincerest condolences to your family . Dr. Stavely & Dr. Johnston took me in as their first dental assistant when they came to Pensacola & opened up their practice. Dr. Stavely was patient, kind and always friendly, even when I would run into him through the years as we moved on. Rest in peace with our Lord Jesus Christ . Much love
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Dan Henry
February 1, 2023
I still remember Charlie's first dental mission trip with me to Costa Rica. I will miss the smiles, laughter, and giving spirit Charlie presented to everyone he met.
I remember one incident that occurred at about 10:00 PM when we were finishing up in the clinic in Santa Rosa, Costa Rica. We were supposed to finish at about 4:30. However, the thought of returning to the "Hotel" we were staying in gave everyone pause!
Charlie brought a young girl to me and asked if I could do two fillings for her. He already had her numb but had another patient that need to be seen and she was the last patient of the day. I said I was too tired to do both but would do one of the fillings. Charlie left and the young patient was seated in my chair. When I looked into that dirty little face in the middle of the rainforest; I knew that she would not have a chance to keep both of her molars without my help. I felt so guilty that I said I would only do one of her teeth I was overwhelmed and began to tear up.
Charlie came over and saw that I had both teeth restored and was setting there tearing up. He simply put his big hand on my shoulder and said, "You’re not as tough as you thought"! He had a way to help you get over your own self-criticism. A trait that comes from a big heart.
I also remember the time he extracted the last tooth in the mouth of the village Witch Doctor when we were serving the Guyanese people in southern Costa Rica. All the patients were scared out of the clinic when he got into Charlie's chair. Obviously, the surgical procedure went well with no issues. Later Charlie and I were talking about what happened when the "witch doctor" walked in and had a laugh about the whole incident.
I remember the fishing trips with Charlie who would go out even if there were 20-foot seas! On one trip he had two of his college football buddies over. We were in a fishing tournament on my boat. Worst weather I have ever seen that day, in the Gulf. It rained so hard you could not see the bow of the boat at times and the seas were rocking the boat all over the place. Both of Charlie's friends laid out on the deck in the rain throwing up while Charlie fished the trolling lines and I drove the boat trying to keep it under control. That evening when I came over, both guys met me at the door and said if I didn't cancel the next day's trip, they were going back to Mississippi that evening! I think Charlie would have gone but I really did not want to go myself so the three of us talked him down. I could go on talking about the great times I spent with Charlie at various dental meetings over the years. When I remember Charlie I am reminded of a line from my favorite play by Shakespeare, Hamlet I,3: "Those friends thou hast and their adoption tried, grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel". Gods speed my friend, I know I will see you again one day!
Dan Henry DDS
Chris Andrews
February 1, 2023
DearKim, Sheryl and are so sad to receive this news. I always thought the world of Charlie and he exuded Jesus through his pores. He was loved and will be missed , but we all will see him again. Our love Chris and Sheryl Andrews.
Michael H. Sarra
February 1, 2023
May God be with the Stavely family during this time of deep sorrow.
Scott Murphy
February 1, 2023
Dr. Stavely I was was thinking of you today and am so saddened to hear of your passing. You were a great dentist and I hope you are with Lynn again. Rest in God's Peace.
Donna Allen
January 31, 2023
For every tear that falls from your eyes, theres a prayer in my heart for you
Kim Betz
January 31, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. See you at the Hallelujah Square someday! ✝
Margherita de Moya
January 31, 2023
Blessings to your family. You will be remembered as an awesome pediatric dentist and beloved dad and husband. Peace
DEBRA DEARING
January 31, 2023
Rest in peace Charles. The world was a brighter place with you in it. Prayers for your family.
James & Christine Frazier
January 31, 2023
Charles and Lynn Stavely welcomed me and my family to Pensacola in the early 90s, inviting us to meet other dental professionals in the area and enjoy concerts. Charles was a winner and a truly nice guy, always smiling and as a result others smiled with him. He passing is a great loss for the Pensacola community.
Jaime DenmarkDenmark
January 30, 2023
RIP my DSU friend. You were a great man and Christian with a huge heart
George P Ballard
January 30, 2023
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
John Santa Cruz
January 30, 2023
May God bless Charles and may he comfort his family in their time of grief, sorrow and sadness.
William Van Horn
January 30, 2023
Charles was not only a excellent Dentist but a good Friend with a Big Heart. Always smiling and thinking of others. He will surely be Missed by All!! A Truly Wonderful Man and a Great Fisherman!!!!!! Our Condolences to his wonderful Wife and Family.
H. Neal Smith
January 30, 2023
Charlie was one of the great guys who passed away well before his time. I was always impressed with his kindness, gentleness, and genuine care for his patients and friends. His Christianity showed through every aspect of his life. He will be greatly missed.
George Walker
January 30, 2023
Charlie was a good man on and off the field. He had a great heart for his fellow man and he showed this every time you were in his company. So I'm sure he showed that side of him to everyone. I do want to convey my deepest heartfelt condolences and prayers to his wife and family. I know you're proud of him and you should be. May God Bless and keep you all through this difficult time!
Jennifer Shattuck
January 29, 2023
Charlie, I don't know what took you so early in this life, but I know the work you did while here. Always helping others. Your kind heart can now rest with others that went before you.
Thank you Charlie. You're kind heart will not be forgotten.
Doug Quigley
January 29, 2023
My Condolences & Prayers for the Family, and God Bless you Charlie!
Kevin Laird
January 29, 2023
Kim - I’m so sorry to learn of your husband’s sudden passing. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Ed Porter
January 29, 2023
As a former Delta State teammate in the 70s it was a honor to not only meet Charlie but play next to him on the football field.
Back then you knew Charlie was special.
A true friend & gentleman with a big heart
He lead by example both through this playing days and in his life. His kindness, friendship time and energy he spent with everyone will be greatly missed.
The world is a much better place because of our brother Charlie.Thanks for the memories.
RIP
Ed Porter
DSU football class of 1977-78
Myra Martin
January 29, 2023
I remember Charlie and Lynn so well, and the boys also. What a very special family. I was so upset for that family when Lynn died. Charlie did a great job raising the boys. He was a good man and will be missed by all that knew him. My prayers go out to all of his family at this sad time.
Connie Castleberry
January 29, 2023
My thoughts and prayers are with Dr Stanley's family. He took such good care of my little sister. I pray you have peace, strength and comfort.
Mark “Topwater” Rather
January 29, 2023
Charlie was great teammate at DSU.
Charlie Singleton
January 29, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Laura Clark
January 29, 2023
I have no wordsin disbelief as Charlie seemed to live life to its fullest with Kim and family and friends. Everyone that met Charlie, including my parents, thought he was such a decent and loving man. Kim and the rest of the family and friends, you are in my prayers.
Sabrina Garon
January 29, 2023
Thinking of this sweet Family during this sad time! Prayers to all for the days ahead.
Jimmie Russell
January 29, 2023
Always the optimistic man, Charles will be missed by all that knew him and the unfortunate that didn't know him.
Debbie Price
January 29, 2023
Prayers for peace in the memories and joy shared together.
Madison and Starr Currin
January 29, 2023
We will ALWAYS remember Charlie and his Smile, Eyes and Kind Soul. He devoted his life to helping others. He loved being outdoors and loved Kim and the boys with all his heart. His untimely passing leaves a huge hole to his family and community. I will miss your big handshake and outgoing personality. Until we meet again may you have calm seas, big Marlin and giant bucks in Heaven.
Jenna Hontz
January 28, 2023
I will never forget how nice and compassionate Dr. Stavely was with me as my dentist. Years ago when I was a single mother with no dental insurance and had a horrible toothache..he said I will help you and you can pay whatever you can. I haven’t forgotten that. Prayers for his family .Jenna Hontz
Jeanine Crowder
January 28, 2023
So sorry to hear of Charles passing! I knew him when he lived in Kilmichael His family and my family were close friends! Praying for everyone!
Jeanine Gibson Crowder
French Camp, Ms
Stephanie Lee
January 28, 2023
I love you sister, and I’m so sorry for your loss. Charlie was such a great man.
Love and peace to all his family and friends.
Jim and Joy Bowles
January 28, 2023
I like to say I was Chucks first patient. He was at CMS at SHH on a Saturday and I was there working on the equipment. I ask if he needed som practice so he offered to clean my teeth. That was the beginning of a lifetime of friendship. I can’t believe he just retired and was looking forward to relaxing. My family and I are all devastated. May God bless Chuck for all he did for others. You will be missed my friend. Our most sincere condolences to the Family. Love ya and Godspeed Chuck❤
Greg Johnston
January 28, 2023
Charlie Stavely was one of kind. His huge heart, gentle spirit and kindness were always present...and very contagious. He loved to smile, laugh and make people feel comfortable. I admired that he would often ask a question, instead of making a statement about something that might be important, or maybe not, or maybe it was about fishing. Charlie was also an unconditional, genuine, eternally-loving father to Bennett, Daniel & Michael. Charlie and Kim had wonderful happiness together, including with Jordyn and Sawyer. We pray that the Holy Spirit surrounds every one of them, including his sister Starla. Charlie had a strong, personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and has now greeted Jesus face to face. We pray that every person makes the same decision and has that same relationship with the Savior of the world. God bless you all, and may He comfort you during this time.
Mark DeNunzio
January 28, 2023
I was a dental colleague of Charlie's and appreciated his honesty and ethical practice. We worked on the ECUA fluoridation project together and celebrated its successful implementation. I will fondly remember his kind and gentle nature.
Edwin Yee
January 28, 2023
Charlie was a friend and dental colleague. We have been friends since he and Lynn first came to Pensacola many years ago. We are both from Mississippi and shared that bond as well as in dentistry. He was a gentle giant who was a good friend that would always be there to offer his help. He lived a good life and touched many people with his kindness, honesty and fairness. We were blessed with his presence and he will be greatly missed. My condolences and prayers for the family in this time of mourning. May God wrap his loving and comforting arms around each of you and bring you peace in this most difficult time.
Bill Buckley
January 28, 2023
Charley was my cousin but always treated me and my brother Bob like we were his little brothers. He had this great smile and positive attitude that was contagious. Our best summers were when my parents would put us on a bus for the short trip form Starkville to Kilmichael Ms and Charley would always spend time with us showing us how to rabbit hunt. There were always quilts and pillows in front of the fireplace at Aunt Nellies house for when it was time to go to bed. This is where I learned a comment that took my kids forever to understand. Charley had just gotten his license and was happy to take us for a ride on a Friday night in Kilmicheal and before we left Aunt Nellie said yall be careful ( Its going to be a dark night tonight) . Charlie and I were born on the same day, a couple of years apart so we shared a lot of parties together. In my eyes I wanted to be like Charlie. Times were so simple back then and visiting he and Starla were great times. So I know later in life he continued with his sharing through out his life but he had done that with everybody even as a kid. They don't make many like him so he will be missed.
Dwayne, Melissa, Awita and Kinsley Morris
January 27, 2023
We were blessed to have him as our family dentist for many years. He was so very kind and always thorough with our daughters who both have special needs. He will be greatly missed and our prayers are with the family.
Kenny Ellis
January 27, 2023
Great guy! Friends to all!
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