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Sherry Rogers
October 31, 2024
Nestor was larger than life and loved, lived and embraced life to its fullest. I met him in 1990 when I took a position at the practice. He was always making us laugh, hosting amazing dinners and taking care of business. He hired my best friend Jacque and they had an amazing relationship with Jacque out picking up boats or making him the best espresso ever. Parties at his house always included music and amazing food from him home country. He will be missed by many but I am sure he will forever look over and protect Ellen and all the kids and grandkids. He loved his family.
Sandy Hastings Lanphear
October 1, 2024
I am so sad I just learned of his passing by a mutual friend. Dr. Carabajal was always the life of the party and hosted the best ones. I am sure his family misses him so much. Rest in peace sir. I remember him having me go to the Argentinean counselee to get his beagles certified to be able to travel with him. He loved those dogs!
phillip fisk
August 7, 2024
he was a great guy, so many good memories Hope Ellen and boys are doing good
Carol Fisk
August 7, 2024
Nestor was full of energy, funny and loyal to his friends. Cane Creek was never the same after Nester, Ellen and the boys sold their property. I think of the Carabahal family often. RIP Nester, you were a good man
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Liz Saunders
July 21, 2024
My first memory of Nestor was at a Juan Diego soccer game. I remember a man I had never seen before yelling, really yelling, let´s call it "critiques" at the coach. Knowing that Coach Plat has a zero tolerance policy for screaming parents, unless of course it´s positive, I quickly went over and spoke with Nestor. Not knowing each other and Nestor being Nestor and me being born and bred in NYC, it got a quite heated but I assured Nestor that Coach knew what he was doing and all would be fine. We quickly became allies and soccer game friends. My son, Alex adored Nestor´s bigger than life personality, generosity and ribs if I remember correctly. They were the best ever! I truly was an honor to be in his world of not only for a short few years. And Ellen, the epitome of beauty and grace sat with Tebow letting Nestor be Nestor.
Courtney Family
July 19, 2024
Courtney Family
July 19, 2024
Courtney Family
July 19, 2024
Nestor was the father of our ensemble family in Draper. So many wonderful memories of camaraderie spent mostly at the Carabajal compound sharing laughs, food and music. The kids if they were not making music were eating, swimming, soaking in the hot tub, playing soccer or video games and in the middle of it all was Nestor. He was either conducting or moving from group to group making everyone feel welcome. If you had family that were visiting they were always welcomed with open arms. Nestor´s appetite for life, fun and music was contagious!! We were truly blessed to have known him and our hearts and prayers go out to Ellen and his family for the void he left with his passing. We pray that some day in the near future the memories that now bring tears to your eyes will make you smile with love.
All our love the Courtney Family
Maria Celeste Forzani
July 18, 2024
Maria Celeste Forzani
July 18, 2024
Maria Celeste Forzani
July 18, 2024
Maria Celeste Forzani
July 18, 2024
Querida Familia,
Desde aqui queremos dejarles un gran abrazo y muchas fuerzas para el camino que os queda de transitar.
Para nosotros nuestro tio Kuqui descansa en paz y seguramente desde su lugar en el cielo continua difrutando ,planificando nuevas aventuras, sigue cantando, y haciendo de cada momento un instante especial.
Lo vamos a extrañas muchisimo y en nosotros genera una profunda tristeza no tenerlo mas entre nosotros, pero no obstante, nos quedan los mejores recuerdo de su persona, de ser un gran soñador y que hasta las metas mas complicadas el se las proponia y las cumplia. Un ejemplo de perseverancia, de constancia y de espiritu alegre,..... nos dejo muchos recuerdo hermoso e imborrable.
Un abrazo fuerte familia!!!
Saludos de Maria Celeste Forzani y Jose Ermoli.
Erica Forzani
July 16, 2024
ESTIMADA FAMILIA DE (CUQUI)NESTOR CARABAJAL BARBERO:
A LA DISTANCIA MIEMBROS DE LA FAMILIA BARBERO, LOS ABRAZAMOS Y UNIMOS A LA TRISTEZA DE SU PARTIDA HACIA LA CELESTIAL!
TIENEN UN ANGEL GUARDIAN, EN EL CIELO!
EL ESTA GOZANDO DE LA PAZ ETERNA Y DESDE EL PARAISO NOS SONRIE Y SALUDA CON ALEGRIA Y MUCHO AMOR!
ERA UNA PERSONA LLENA DE LUZ, Y TODAS SUS CUALIDADES QUE LO CARACTERIZABAN,COMO PERSONA DE BIEN!
SIEMPRE ESTARÁ PRESENTE Y VIVIRÁ EN NUESTROS RECUERDO Y CORAZÓN!
FUERTES BRAZOS PARA USTEDES, Ellen, Trillis (Andrew, Byron, Christian), Veronica y Nesti.
FAMILIA BARBERO
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DEAR FAMILY OF (CUQUI)NESTOR CARABAJAL BARBERO.
FROM THE DISTANCE MEMBERS OF THE BARBERO FAMILY, WE EMBRACE YOU AND JOIN YOU IN THE SADNESS OF HIS DEPARTURE TO THE HEAVENS!
You HAVE A GUARDIAN ANGEL, IN HEAVEN!
HE IS ENJOYING ETERNAL PEACE AND FROM THE PARADISE HE SMILES AND GREETS US WITH JOY AND MUCH LOVE!
HE WAS A PERSON FULL OF LIGHT, AND ALL HIS QUALITIES WERE EXCEPTIONAL AS A GREAT PERSON.
HE WILL BE ALWAYS PRESENT AND WILL LIVE IN OUR MEMORY AND HEART!
Big hugs to Ellen, the triplets (Andrew, Byron, and Christian), Nesti y Veronica.
BARBERO FAMILY!
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
Raquel Forzani
Acompañamos desde aquí este trago amargo pero a la vez con una sonrisa en recorder a Cuqui.
Junto con mi hermana, Ester Forzani, revisamos su álbum de fotos y hemos visto tantas fotos de cuando eran jóvenes. Cuqui (Nestor) iba a la casa de mi mamá y bailaba el rock and roll, siendo el centro de las fiestas!. Esos recuerdos son imborrables para nosotros. El dejo una impression muy profunda en nosotros. Estamos agradecidas por esas memorias.
Un abrazo a la familia, Ellen, los trillis, Veronica y Nesti.
From here we accompany the sad loss of Cuqui (Nestor) but at the same time with a smile in remembering him!
Together with my sister, Ester Forzani, we went through her photo album and we have seen so many photos from when they were young. Cuqui (Nestor) would go to my mother's house and dance to rock and roll, being the center of the parties! Those memories are indelible for us. He left a very deep impression on us. I am grateful for all those memories. THANKS Cuqui!!
A hug to the family, Ellen, the triplets, Veronica and Nesti.
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Natalia Alcoba:
From Jujuy, Argentina. Quería mandar un Abrazo enorme a toda la familia y desearles todo el amor y fortaleza a cada uno.
Nos queda un maravilloso recuerdo del tío, su amor, sus ocurrencias y sus picardia. Siempre estará en cada uno de nosotros. Los amamos!!!! Abrazo al alma.
From Jujuy, Argentina. I wanted to send a huge hug to the whole family and wish each one of them all the love and strength.
We have a wonderful memory of our uncle, his love, his genius thinking, and his witticisms. It will always be in each of us. We love him!!!! Hug to his soul.
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Carolina Alcoba:
Todo lo vivido con Tio Cuqui (Nestor) quedaran en nuestras mentes y corazones. Un fuerte abrazo y mucha fuerza a la Tia Ellen y a los primos!!! (Veronica, Nesti, Andrew, Christian, y Byron).
Everything we experienced with Tio Cuqui (Nestor) will remain in our minds and hearts. A big hug and a lot of strength to Aunt Ellen and the cousins!!! (Veronica, Nesti, Andrew, Christian, y Byron).
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Mariana Alcoba:
Un abrazo fuerte desde aquí a la tía Ellen, a los trillis, Veronica y Nesti en este difícil momento. Mi mas sentido pésame para todos. Un abrazo fuerte. Los quiero mucho!
A big hug from here to Aunt Ellen, the Trillis, Veronica and Nesti at this difficult time. My deepest condolences to everyone. A big hug. I love you all!
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Cecilia Bordon:
Quiero enviar un fuerte abrazo a la tía Ellen y a los trillis, and to Veronica y Nesti. Todo mi cariño para ellos. Tio Cuqui (Nestor) ha sido muy generoso con nosotros y lo hemos disfrutado todo estos años. Los amamos a el y a Uds.
I want to send a big hug to Aunt Ellen, the Triplets, Veronica and Nesti. All my love for them. Uncle Cuqui (Nestor) has been very generous with us, and we have enjoyed it all these years. We love him and love you all.
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Martin Alcoba:
Lamento mucho la ida del Tío querido!! Estará siempre presente recordando tantos momentos hermosos y disfrutados en nuestra vida! Beso grandotes a toda la familia!
I am very sorry for my Dear Uncle's departure!! He will always be present with us, remembering so many beautiful and enjoyed moments in our lives! Big hugs to his whole family!
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Gabi Bordon:
Es inevitable lo triste de la partida de nuestro tío Cuqui (Nestor), pero más se hace presente su vida y todo lo que fue y será para nosotros. Agradezco su vida y la nuestra junto a él. Siempre para mí será sinónimo de familia, reencuentro y sobre todo pasión por la música. Cada encuentro con él era todo eso y más.
Cariños para toda la familia.
The sadness of our uncle Cuqui (Nestor)'s departure is inevitable. However, his life and everything he was will be with us forever. I appreciate his life and ours with him. For me it will always be synonymous of family, reunion and all passion for music. Every meeting with him was all that and more!
Love to the whole family.
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Pablo Bordon:
Lo queríamos mucho y yo particularmente lo admiraba un montón y me hubiese gustado verlo una vez más. Pero así es la vida y a veces uno se queda con ganas de más charlas, mates y momentos lindos como los que pudimos compartir. Lo vamos a llevar siempre en nuestro corazón y recordarlo como una gran persona.
Cariños a la Tía Ellen, los primos: Veronica, Nesti, Byron, Christian y Andrew.
Los queremos mucho y los acompañamos en oración desde acá.
We loved him very much and I particularly admired him a lot and I would have liked to see him one more time. But that's life and sometimes you're left wanting more talks, mates and beautiful moments like the ones we were able to share. We will always carry him in our hearts and remember him as a great person.
Love to Aunt Ellen, cousins: Veronica, Nesti, Byron, Christian and Andre
We love our Uncle, Aunt, and all ouw cousins a lot, and we are with our prayers with him from wherever we are.
Erica Forzani
July 15, 2024
From Virginia Bordon:
Siempre lo recordare como una persona que aprovechó cada día, y cada reto que emprendió lo intento de modo brillante.
Un poeta vivo sin duda, sensible a lo bello, y que anduvo dando alaridos por los tejados del mundo, y brilló.
Un ser extraordinario y generoso que nos invito a volar siempre a lo mas alto.
Inolvidable tio Cuqui (Nestor).
Hoy despedimos un poco tambien a las partes de nuestras vidas que compartimos con el.
Pero la poderosa obra continua, y gracias a su inspiración, podremos seguir intentandolo.
I will always remember him as a person who valued everything in life, and tried brilliantly at every single challenge he undertook.
A living poet without a doubt, sensitive to the life beauties; someone who went screaming across the rooftops of the world, and shone.
An extraordinary and generous being, who invited us to always fly to the highest.
Uncle Cuqui (Nestor), you are Unforgettable!
Today we also say goodbye to a little to the parts of our lives that we shared with him.
But the powerful work and his legacy will continue. Thanks to his inspiration, we will be able to keep trying.
"C A R P E D I E M"
En el año 8 a.c. murió el poeta romano Quinto Horacio Flaco, simplemente "Horacio". Según los entendidos, Horatius, el más grande poeta lírico....
Autor de la frase: <>
("Aprovecha el día").
La frase se hizo famosa en la película: "La Sociedad de los poetas muertos" a raíz de un poema del gran Walt Whitman.
Aquí el poema:
"CARPE DIEM"
Aprovecha el día.
No dejes que termine
sin haber crecido un poco,
sin haber sido feliz,
sin haber alimentado tus sueños.
No te dejes vencer por el desaliento.
No permitas que nadie
te quite el derecho de expresarte,
que es casi un deber.
No abandones tus ansias
de hacer de tu vida
algo extraordinario...
No dejes de creer
que las palabras y la poesía,
sí pueden cambiar el mundo;
porque, pase lo que pase,
nuestra esencia está intacta.
Somos seres humanos llenos de pasión,
la vida es desierto y es oasis.
Nos derriba, nos lastima,
nos convierte en protagonistas
de nuestra propia historia.
Aunque el viento sople en contra,
la poderosa obra continúa.
Y tú puedes aportar una estrofa...
No dejes nunca de soñar, porque sólo en sueños puede ser libre el hombre.
No caigas en el peor de los errores: el silencio.
La mayoría vive en un
silencio espantoso.
No te resignes, huye...
"Yo emito mi alarido
por los tejados de este mundo", dice el poeta;
valora la belleza de las cosas simples,
se puede hacer poesía
sobre las pequeñas cosas.
No traiciones tus creencias,
todos merecemos ser aceptados.
No podemos remar
en contra de nosotros mismos,
eso transforma la vida en un infierno.
Disfruta del pánico que provoca tener la vida por delante.
Vívela intensamente, sin mediocridades.
Piensa que en tí está el futuro,
y asume la tarea con orgullo
y sin miedo.
Aprende de quienes pueden enseñarte.
Las experiencias de quienes se alimentaron de nuestros Poetas Muertos te ayudarán a caminar por la vida.
La sociedad de hoy somos nosotros, los Poetas Vivos.
¡No permitas que la vida te pase a ti, sin que tú la vivas!
Todos los días las legiones romanas a las 6 de la mañana saludaban con el grito:
Carpe Diem!!
@Wt
Melinda Rauch
July 8, 2024
Nestor and Ellen are our neighbors at Outdoor Resorts in Indio. Nestor loved nothing more than being surrounded by a group of friends, telling stories and sharing good times. I will always remember him standing on his lot cooking a giant pot of Paella for the whole neighborhood. He was happy and healthy then, with a great big smile on his face:)
Carlos H Galvez
July 6, 2024
Queridos chicos y Sra. Carabajal, mi más sentido pésame por la pérdida del Dr. Carabajal. Una eminencia en el mundo de la medicina y una gran persona.
Sr. Galvez-JDCHS
Carabajal
July 6, 2024
Due to issues with the original donation link, please use the below GoFund Me if you´d like to donate to La Orquesta Escuela Mediterránea in Nestor´s honor. Our family will distribute the funds in Argentina.
https://gofund.me/29deef5c
Amy McKenzie
July 5, 2024
I will always remember Nestor when the boys were seniors at JD. During homecoming pep rally, all of the parents were in the stands taking photos etc.... All but one.... You guessed it, Nestor was on the gymnasium floor right in all of the action taking photos of the boys. Every time I think of that year I think of how he made me smile that day. We have so enjoyed this family and appreciate how much all of you have impacted our family.
Erica Forzani
July 4, 2024
My Uncle Nestor was the only person able to made me laugh as anyone made me laugh before!. His stories of him and my Dad during their teenagers years of life deserve to be kept and compiled. They are so humorous and memorable that my daughter (Charlie Mae, 8) loves hearing them again, again and again before going to sleep at night. He was one of the best uncles someone could ever had. Thanks Uncle Nestor for the happy moments you gave us in our lives and the stories that will be kept in the family for the generations to come!. I love you.
¡Mi tío Néstor fue la única persona capaz de hacerme reír como nadie antes me había hecho reír!. Sus historias sobre él y mi papá durante sus años de adolescencia merecen ser conservadas y compiladas. Son tan divertidas y memorables que a mi hija (Charlie Mae, 8 años) le encanta escucharlas una y otra vez antes de irse a dormir por la noche. Fue uno de los mejores tíos que alguien podría tener. ¡Gracias tío Néstor por los momentos felices que nos regalaste en nuestras vidas y las historias que quedarán guardadas en la familia para las generaciones venideras!. Te amo!
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