Edward Paul Potanka

Edward Paul Potanka obituary, Westbrook, CT

Edward Paul Potanka

Edward Potanka Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 16, 2025.
Edward Paul Potanka passed away on May 13, 2025 with his loving family at his side. The son of Joe and Jean Potanka, Ed grew up in Avon, CT with his siblings, Joe, Paul, and Jean. Ed was a prolific builder who faced any challenge with confidence and enthusiasm. He first built a baseball diamond in his backyard, which grew into an illustrious pitching career at Avon High School and a baseball scholarship to Amherst College. Amherst was a special place to Ed; he regaled history lessons from his professors decades later. Ed proudly served in the US Marine Corps Reserve while attending Cornell Law School. Cornell laid the foundation for building a decades-long career at CIGNA, where he ultimately served as chief counsel. At CIGNA, Ed met Anita, his wife of 48 years. Ed, a self-taught architect and his father's carpentry apprentice, single-handedly designed and built their dream home in Simsbury, CT, trading his legal briefcase for a toolbox on nights and weekends. In this home, Ed and Anita built a family, raising their four daughters, Christy, Kelly, Lindsay, and Jenny. Ed was a dad that could, and did, do everything: bedtime-story-teller, basketball coach, piano-page-turner, essay-editor. He encouraged his children to "shine like the star that you are," imparted the value of hard work, and inspired them to follow in his footsteps to Amherst College. Ed built a wonderful family tradition of summers at Island View Beach in Westbrook, CT. He served as the Association President for decades and was famous for his spirited Fourth of July speeches. Ed and Anita moved to "the beach" full time, drawing their adult children home every summer weekend - eventually with 8 adoring grandchildren in tow: Kenzie, Tenley, Ryan, Riley, Connor, Teddy, Oliver, and Sawyer. He spent his retirement years doting on his beloved grandchildren who knew him as "Papa" - baseball legend, banana lover, accordion player, sideline supporter, history buff, and teacher. Ed built a legacy that lives on through his family. His proud smile will be dearly remembered. Father Lawrence Bock, Ed's mentor as an altar boy and officiant at his marriage, will celebrate a private mass in his memory.

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Amy Henry

May 23, 2025

I had the privilege of interacting with Ed and often observed his passion and commitment to his grand kids. I remember him as a man who loved playng with the children and showed great interest in their sports. I know his love, care and assistance in grand-parenting will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to the family. I recall that my first hamburger in CT was from Ed. That i will always remember.
Amy Henry.

Barbara Canary

May 19, 2025

I was so very sorry to hear of Ed's passing and I will be keeping his loved ones in my prayers. I remember Ed as a kind, generous and knowledgeable colleague from the earliest days of my career at CIGNA. He was a true role model of professionalism for me. May his memory be a blessing always.

Marie Zipadelli

May 19, 2025

To family and friends I´m sending my thoughts and prayers. I worked with Ed for many years at Cigna. Without him, I used to tell him,I´d never get through the day. His advice and expertise was invaluable. Once he retired I knew it was my turn. I just quoted him last week to my own children. He said "they don´t call it work because it´s easy". I will keep his memory in my heart as we all mourn his loss.

Allen Bradford

May 18, 2025

Ed was a wonderful colleague at Cigna, a great human being, and a supportive and fair manager of me and others. Multi-talented, wise, warm, thoroughly honest, thoughtful and witty when he wanted to be. My sincerest condolences to his family.

Carl DalBon

May 17, 2025

Deepest condolences on the loss of a great guy.

Bruce Dworman

May 17, 2025

My deep condolences to Ed´s family and friends. I had the privilege of working with Ed for most of my Cigna career of over 40 years. His legal expertise and creativity helped shape many policies that our Healthcare product and contract areas implemented. Even as he rose to the highest ranks in the Legal department, he always had an open door and a smiling face to greet me when I went to see him. He retired shortly after I did, and I was so happy for him -as at one point he said he thought he might work forever. As we sadly know, nothing is forever. Even though I haven´t seen Ed in years, I feel a loss for myself and the world who will miss him greatly. Rest in peace Ed. Bruce Dworman

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