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Judy Wright
April 19, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. I love you and miss you always.
Fasullo Family
April 29, 2015
We are deeply saddened for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Janelle Ozols
April 26, 2015
Derek so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Heather Morgan
April 21, 2015
Derek, Sending you and Julia heartfelt condolences, hugs, and prayers. I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.
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Doreen Shea Nicosia
April 21, 2015
I am so saddened by Elaine's passing. I will always remember her smiling face bike riding around Earlton Hill with Colleen. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jack and Maureen Rogers
April 21, 2015
Derek and Julia, We are so very sorry for you loss. Derek, you and Elaine were so supportive to Keith and Madison after the loss of Jody. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Judy Nelson-Wright
April 20, 2015
To the Pettit Family, My prayers and thoughts are with you. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Kelly Fitzgerald Myers
April 20, 2015
So vey sorry to hear of Elaie's passing. I remember her from wonderful childhood summers camping at Earlton Hill. She was always joyful, and a very kind and sweet person. God Bless and may He comfort your family.
Lynn Gardner Allie & Leanna
April 20, 2015
For the O'Brien/Pettit families - So saddened to hear of Elain's sudden passing. Please know your families are in our families' thoughts and prayers~
Les JR, Kathy, & Les III Lowden
April 20, 2015
Derek,
My parents and I are thinking of you so much. We understand how difficult it is to lose a very special loved one. Praying for you to find the strength and determination to be peaceful.
Tim O'Neil
April 20, 2015
Karen, I was so very saddened to hear about the loss of your sister. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. - Tim
Susan Feisthamel Geddies
April 20, 2015
To Elaine's family
I am so very shocked and saddened to learn of Elaine's passing. It is very surreal to me. I can remember so vividly playing, riding bikes, making a carnival in the back of your house and the birthday parties. Please know my prayers are with you all, her daughter and husband.
Anthony Rossi
April 20, 2015
Derek, Julia, Tim, Christine, Karen, & Mr. & Mrs. OBrien - thank you for sharing your amazing wife, mom, sister, and daughter with me. She was an amazing, loving and loyal friend. She was my good luck charm and I will miss her deeply. She will be in my heart forever. You will be missed Lanie.
Ike Feldman
April 20, 2015
Derrick, words cannot express my sorrow for this tremendous loss. I also wanted to let Julia know her mother was one of the nicest most genuine people I have ever met to this day. Our chance meeting last fall was truly heaven sent!!
Jim & Barbara Whalen
April 20, 2015
Derek: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our deepest sympathy.
Mary Scicchitano
April 20, 2015
Tim and Family,
I am very sorry to learn of Elaine's passing.
Karen Quealy
April 20, 2015
My deepest sympathy for your loss of your beloved Elaine.
May God's peace and love comfort you and your family in the days ahead.
Karen Quealy
April 20, 2015
Dear Derek,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter in the loss of your beloved Elaine. May God's peace and love comfort you in the days ahead. You do not walk alone. "I am with you always."
Connie Bramer
April 20, 2015
Derek, I am so sorry to hear about Elaine. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Julia.
Joe Daughtry
April 20, 2015
Derek, my sincerest condolences for your loss. Although I didn't know Elaine personally, I can tell from her vibrant and happy smile that an angel lives within her. Your family at Cisco has you and Julia in our thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Van Vorst
April 20, 2015
You have sincerest sympathy to your entire family on the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tracey Branch
April 20, 2015
Derek,
I was saddened to hear of the passing of your wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Penny
April 20, 2015
Deepest condolances to the entire family. I work with Christine and know how much your family means to each other.
Liz Centi
April 20, 2015
With deepest sympathy. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan Tobin, Director of Development
April 20, 2015
On behalf of Academy of the Holy Names, please accept our sincere sympathy during this time of loss and sorrow. Elaine will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Christopher DaSilva
April 20, 2015
Hi Derek, My thoughts and prayers are with you, all your loved ones and Elaine. May She forever rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Chris Da Silva (Cisco)
Rest In Peace Elaine.
Yvonne Sweeney
April 20, 2015
Derek and family,
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cindy Lieberman
April 20, 2015
Derek - we are so very sorry to hear of your wife's sudden passing. Please know that your co-workers here at Cisco are keeping you and Julia in our thoughts and prayers.
Lynn Console
April 20, 2015
My deepest heartfelt condolences for the loss of your loved one; may God embrace, comfort and strengthen you in His ever loving spirit.
Kendell Murray
April 20, 2015
Derek & Pettit family, My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Paul E
April 20, 2015
Derek, so sorry for your loss. My deepest sincerity. Stay Strong.
Lynn Lounsbery Slote
April 20, 2015
Derek, Julia and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I will always think of Elaine with her infectious smile and her love of music. She was always signing in the halls of AHN...writing lyrics anywhere she could...bringing a smile to those around her. You will be missed EOB...rest in peace my friend.
Joe Bonacci
April 20, 2015
Christine, Karen, Tim Mr. and Mrs. O'Brien, it is with great sadness I offer my condolences. My memories of Earlton Hill Campgrounds will always include Elaine.
Christine Finton-Perez
April 19, 2015
Derek and Julia,
My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time. May time eventually heal your pain and you both have a guardian angel watching over you. I was a classmate at AHN and have good memories of Elaine . I really enjoyed reconnecting with Elaine on FB. Again my thoughts and prayers with you all at this time.
Danny Wikane
April 19, 2015
You have never left my thoughts and heart..
April 19, 2015
I am very sorry to hear of Elaine's passing. I will always have fond memories of her at AHN. I am glad I saw her during the past year and caught up. A difficult time and I will pray for your strength.
With sympathy, strength & peace,
Shannon Kelley-Borowiec
Melissa Countries Weatherwax
April 19, 2015
Derek, I am incredibly sorry for your loss.
Austin
April 19, 2015
Derek, my sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your wife. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Diana Summers
April 19, 2015
My deepest condolences!
Lisa Stiles Allen
April 19, 2015
Thoughts and prayers for Derek, Julia and the entire family. I'll always remember Elaine with a smile on her face and singing in the hallways of AHN. You'll be missed, EOB. Heaven gained a singing angel.
April 19, 2015
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry for your family's loss. May she rest in peace and may God bless you and provide you strength and comfort.
Kelly D'Alessandro
All Saints Catholic Academy
Connie Maloy
April 19, 2015
Elaine's smile was a gift to us all. She lit up a room, and certainly brightened our high school years at AHN. I am grateful for her friendship. In deepest sympathy.
Denise Urbano
April 19, 2015
I am so sad to learn of the passing of Elaine. I worked with her at Blue Cross and was lucky enough to sit near her. She had the best smile, loved her family and Cape Cod. I feel lucky enough to be given her banana cake recipe, and I will always think think of her in the future when making it.
Edna Coyne-Wilkins
April 19, 2015
Dear O'Brien and Pettit families,my sincerest sympathy to at the loss of Elaine.I pray the Lord give you comfort and peace during this difficult time.May her soul rest in His peace.
April 19, 2015
To Elaine's Family, we are very sorry for your loss,we have very fond memories of Elaine while she was a class mate of Suzie at Holy Names.
With our deepest sympathy Ann & Manuel Segura.
Chris & Debbie Cuttita
April 18, 2015
Karen and Family, I was shocked to hear the news of Elaine. She was bright and vibrant and a pleasure to be around at work. Our sincere condolences to your family. RIP Elaine.
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