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Elizabeth Joy "Liz" Metcalfe
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Elizabeth Metcalfe Obituary
Liz was a kind, generous, "get it done" person. She was always loving and loyal to her family and friends.
Liz is survived by her loving family, parents, Bill & Joy; her siblings and their spouses: David, Michael & Jane, Peter & Dorisse, Todd, Megan & Robbie; nieces and nephews: Claire, Becky & Matt, Andrew & Sarah, Peter & Karissa, Mason and Charlotte; great-nieces and nephews: Joseph, April, Hazel, Pearl & Finley; "Best Friend Ever" Bev Schultz, and wonderful friends Margot Lin & Pauline Yee, as well as many more loving and supportive relatives, friends and colleagues.
Liz passed peacefully surrounded by family and friends.
We would like to thank the caring doctors and medical staffs at the BC Cancer Agency, St. Paul's Emergency and 10th floor Palliative, and her family physician Dr. Kim Rutherford. Liz spent her last days surrounded by beauty and being kindly and gently cared for by the the amazing medical and care staff at The Cottage Hospice.
In leu of flowers, donations may be sent to the SPCA, The Cottage Hospice, or the BC Cancer Agency. A celebration of Liz's life is being planned for sometime this summer.
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83 Entries
Bev Schultz
June 7, 2025
June 7 2025
It´s been 9 years you left this earth for a better place. Hockey playoffs happening. Are you watching? Edmonton vs Florida. MG and I watched the OT. I´m still working . Still miss you. I keep in touch with Mike & Jane. They travel a lot. I see Margot once in awhile. I see Ute and Carol. Both are grandmas. Carol has 10! I hope you are sleeping well and keeping the lawn mowed .
Love, Bev & MG.
Bev Schultz
April 14, 2025
Happy heavenly birthday dear Lizzy from MG and me. I hope you are having angel food cake with your animal friends. I always miss you .
Valerie Ulyett
December 26, 2024
Hey Merry Merry....can you hear me now?.......you might still be doing the stat shift so as to have bucks to travel with in the new year.......Captain and I are in our southern home, still hanging in here.....maybe Bev will come see us again some time......take care, love B and V
Bev Schultz
December 24, 2024
Dec 2024. Another Xmas to get through. MG and I are enjoying our little decorations. I saw Margot recently. I visited the Hawaiiana. What a shame. We enjoyed it. Hope you are spending Xmas with animal friends. Miss you.
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Bev and MG
June 6, 2024
June 8 2024
It is 8 years since you left this world. I will never stop remembering you. I´m still listening to "Mark & Matthew stories". I chuckle when I think of you then. Gail Van Heeswijk still remembers our birthdays. MG got her haircut by the in home groomer and Linda trimmed her ruff. She looks so young. Canucks tried hard this year but got knocked out in second round. Maybe next year . I hope you are safe and comfortable where you are. Love you dear Lizzy
Valerie Moreen Ulyett
April 15, 2024
wish we could just write something and not have these headlines......hesitate to write as several times I have written and for some reason it did not get through.....Captain and I are still in our southern home and returning north later in the month......once more we get a little older.....77 for me and yikes.....by now you have things organized to your liking in the great beyond.....see ya when I get there....love from B and V
Bev Schultz
April 13, 2024
April 14 2024. Dear Liz. I´m in Vegas with my cousin. Haven´t gambled so haven´t lost any money. You would be 66. You left way too young. I hope you can sleep well where you are. See MG on her heating pad. She´s going to outlive us all! I miss you and treasure you. Until next time ........
Bev & MG. XXOO
December 24, 2023
Dec 24 2023
Lizzy, another Xmas upon us. I miss your presence most at this time of year. We managed to get each other through it. I know I said it before, but this might be the year for the Canucks! Bill and I can hear your commentary and predictions. Maybe you and all your animal pals are watching the games from a comfy chair in paradise. Who knows! My heartfelt thoughts are always with you my friend
Bev xxoo
October 9, 2023
Dear Liz. Happy Thanksgiving. I miss getting together with you and Margot & Pauline for turkey. Cat cooked a pretty good one and so did Linda and I. MG still won´t eat any. She sure is missing out. My thoughts are with you. You were important in my life and I miss that.
Bev & MG
June 7, 2023
Dear Liz, 7 years today you passed away. I miss you as much as ever. MG had a haircut today. She doesn´t like it. Sunny days so I´m at my beach. The lady that met you as a bird passed away. Maybe you´ve met. Her name is Joan. Hugs, Bev and MG.
Valerie
May 15, 2023
Just checking in to see if the powers that be allow me to...me and the Cap recently back from our southern home and seem to have brought the warm weather....here goes
Bev
May 10, 2023
I tried to make an entry April 14, Liz´s 65th birthday but it wouldn´t let me. Trying now. Thinking of you Lizzy
Debbie
December 31, 2022
Happy New Year Liz!
You loved Bev
Bev loved you
I love Bev
And know she loves me too
Bev Schultz
December 24, 2022
Dec 24 2022. Xmas time again. Lots of snow. You would be driving everyone home from work like you do. Nothing is the same without you. Margot and I could sure use your turkey dinner. I bought a Butterball for $12.97 in Bellingham. Amazing, right. MG is so cuddly. She wants to be held a lot. She still bites though. Sleep peacefully, Lizzy. ❤
Bev and Macy Gray
June 7, 2022
June 7. 6 years I’ve been missing you and thinking of you. I laugh at some of our adventures and misadventures. I hope you are surrounded by angels and animals. Until we meet again my forever friend.
YFF, Bev
April 13, 2022
Happy 64th birthday my Heavenly Friend. I sure wish you were here, but I guess in a way you always will be. I miss talking to you, I miss your voice. MG is still with me and doing well. ❤
Bev Schultz
December 25, 2021
Lizzy, another Xmas comes around. I miss your friendship at this time of year. And I miss your turkey. Life sure isn’t the same without you in it. Almost went to Sechelt to see Mike & Jane but it got canceled. One of these days. MG is still a darling kitty. ❤
Valerie
June 8, 2021
Hey, can you hear me now?...OK OK so i put "served in the Military" for relationship this time rather than "student" , but we kinda did, didn't we...guess you are keeping up with pandemic news...or maybe not...maybe you are too busy being our angel or even playing bocce and having the odd baby Miller ....after all summer is sorta here....for sure you are supervising the mowing of certain lawns....hunkering down seems to be on the way out and that's a good thing...it's always comforting to think of you and miss your black sense of humor that I so cherish...love, V
Debbie
June 7, 2021
Thinking of you and sending a heavenly hello
Bev
June 6, 2021
Dear Lizzy, 5 years ago you left this world for a more peaceful one. I hope you are able to sleep and dream of good memories. I will always miss your friendship and wisdom. Macy Gray is just fine. We get by but will always think of you. ❤
Debbie Pentecost
April 14, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday auntie Liz!
Valerie
April 14, 2021
Hey....can you hear me now?....It is very easy spending time thinking about you on your birthday...our days are so close together....the Captain and I spent our first winter in Vancouver for 19 or so years and even saw snow....everyone said it was so mild but we still wore long underwear....and now it is Spring in all it's glory...again another first for a few years and it is splendid...keep up the good work being our angel.....the "finding a parking space" is still doing well among other deeds that you do....much love, B and V
Bev
April 13, 2021
Liz, tomorrow is your 63rd birthday. You were supposed to live longer. I miss you. MG is still a healthy happy kitty. You are always in my thoughts and my heart. ❤
Sonja Tomani
April 13, 2021
Wishing you a Happy Birthday in Heaven Liz!
Bev speaks often of her fond memories of you and spoils your Kitty MC immensely.
Sending my thoughts.
Sonja
Debbie Pentecost
January 10, 2021
Happy New Year auntie Liz!
Just reminiscing, and so much of my life includes Bev and so much of Bev includes you
Debbie
December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas Auntie Liz!
Bev will always miss your gravy!
Bev
December 24, 2020
Another Xmas here. I’m not working for first time. Linda is making dinner for MG and I. I miss you, I always will. Crazy pandemic days. No traveling. Haven’t seen Mike and Jane but keep in touch. I hope you are happy and safe wherever you are, whoever you are. I do believe that little bird who sat with me at the beach was your spirit animal. Love you Lizzy girl ❤
Debbie Pentecost
June 7, 2020
Hi Liz you are so remembered you will never be forgotten.
Bev has your Macy Gray but I secretly think you are Macy Gray
June 7, 2020
It has been 4 years since you flew away. I sat in the sun today thinking about you. MG and I are managing. We miss you terribly. I hope youre surrounded by all the animals that love you. XXOO Bev and MG.
Debbie Pentecost
April 24, 2020
Hey Liz, cheers to Bev
Happy Birthday Bev!
Bev, Doree & I got to spend Bevs covid-19 bday together.
Front lawn wine n dine 6 feet apart
valerie Ulyett
April 15, 2020
hey darlin....can you hear me now?....love having this venue to report in especially during these crazy times...me and the captain are toughing it out in Mexico as you know....and as Bev says your name and spirit surrounded us on her trip here this past winter.....it was a far to short visit but I think it will happen again...Happy birthday my dear....know that you are missed though your essence will remain forever....hope they have a minny Miller there after you mow the lawns....keep busy being one of our angels..we can always use your help...love ya, B and V
Bev Schultz
April 14, 2020
Today would be your 62nd birthday. World is crazy right now with COVID-19. I wish you were here to talk to. MG likes having me home a lot. You are never far from my thoughts. Lost Bill Orr and Tommy. Saw Valerie and Byron in Mexico. Had good visits with Valerie. She thinks of you a lot too. Youre a special gal, dear Lizzy. Too special for this world I guess. Hugs, Bev.
Debbie Pentecost
December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas Liz!
December 22, 2019
Dear Liz, another Xmas upon us. I'm working. I miss your company at this time of year. We got each other through it. Macy Gray does that now, but she doesn't make gravy. Still so hard to accept at times. You are always in my thoughts and my heart.
Love, Bev
Debbie Pentecost
July 14, 2019
Hey Liz, lots going on, right? Bevs heart attack #2- Thanks for letting us keep her.
Bill Orr passed July 5th. If he went the right way you already have a buddy.
I insist Bev checks in daily here on earth until the time when she checks back in with you.
June 8, 2019
3 years since you passed away. I still miss you like crazy. MG is a happy cuddly kitty. Hope you and Swatter are together.
Love, Bev
Debbie Pentecost
June 7, 2019
Hey Liz, were heading into Bevs favorite time of year. She has taken me for fish & chips (and wine) to your special beach in Richmond and well go again and toast you every time
Bev Schultz
June 7, 2019
Doree
April 15, 2019
Happy belated Birthday Liz.
valerie ulyett
April 15, 2019
Lizzy....had lots of bird visitors to my deck the other day on my birthday...one hummmer stayed a little longer than usual....hope they have great cake where you are....cheers and Happy Birthday, V
Debbie Pentecost
April 14, 2019
Happy Heavenly Birthday Liz!
April 14, 2019
It would have been your 61st birthday today. So hard to comprehend you are not here. I still feel lost without you to talk to. Macy Gray is such good company for me, a gift from you. She's a happy kitty.
Love, Bev
Debbie Pentecost
December 25, 2018
Merry Christmas Liz
December 25, 2018
Merry Christmas Liz
Bev is at work-surprise, surprise?!
I think missing your gravy....
Bev
December 16, 2018
Another Xmas is upon us. Another one without you and your famous turkey and West End Gold gravy. I keep in touch with Margot, and Todd. I know you will watch over him. I wish you could see the Canucks this year, maybe this will be the year. I'm going to Maui next year. Remember the 30' waves? I think of you always and miss your amazing friendship.
Debbie Pentecost
December 11, 2018
Hi Liz. Bev was determined to claim kitty after her globetrotting and your brother was thankfully agreeable to that request. Kitty was taking over her dreams-was that you?
Now she is back to work, both offices, hardly retired. I am sure that does not surprise you!
Bev
October 14, 2018
Macy Gray is happily living with me.
October 13, 2018
Hi Liz!
You popped into my head just yesterday so I thought I'd give you a shout out. We are having a girls night on Tuesday, so I will give our Bev a hug and kiss for you (if I'm over this nasty cold by then).
Cheers, Doree
Macy Gray is happy living with me.
Bev Schultz
October 11, 2018
Doree
June 7, 2018
Thinking of you and how happy you made our Bev. Thank you always for that.
We are getting together on Saturday for dinner so I will give her a big hug for you.
❤
Debbie Pentecost
June 7, 2018
I know you are watching over Bev so you know she is okay.
I think she misses talking to you the most- sometimes 100 times a day, right? I tell her to talk to you anyway whether outloud or in her head. She will always know exactly what you would answer.
We have a check-in/ check up on each other rule since that is what you did daily.
She's visiting your kitty today as she does often.
You know all Bev's family, friends and co workers and it takes all of us combined to equal you Liz.
Debbie Pentecost
June 7, 2018
I know you are watching over Bev and know she's okay. I think she misses talking to you the most - which was sometimes 100 times a day! I tell her to talk to you anyway, whether outloud or in her head. She will always know exactly what you would answer.
We also have a check-in/ check up on each other rule since that's what you did daily.
She's visiting your kitty today as she does often.
You know all Bev's family, friends and co workers and it takes all of us combined to equal you Liz.
June 7, 2018
Love you always.
irene
June 7, 2018
It's been two years since you passed away.
My thoughts are with you every day.
I miss your laugh, your voice, your smile.
What I'd give to sit with you awhile.
I talk to you often, I know what you'd say
To solve a dilemma that has come my way.
I'm blessed to have known you and will always be
Grateful that you were friends with me.
You were amazing!
Love, Bev
Debbie Pentecost
April 25, 2018
Bev chose to be with me in Wichita Kansas for her 65th birthday! You know shes crazy, right?
We are touring the Ozarks (we agree on crazy, right?) and will visit Eureka Springs, Branson, Kansas City. Its our version of Thelma and Louise - not sure who is who - but promise there are no cliffs because we have a Panama Cruise back home.
Debbie Pentecost
April 15, 2018
Heavenly 60 Liz!
valerie ulyett
April 15, 2018
When I woke up this morning my first thought was I forgot our birthday...I thought you would be 61 but Bev says different....no matter, time moves on and is going so fast...love the photo Bev and wish I knew how to post one as I have a few..you are still rocking those angel wings gurl and still one of m stronger spear chuckers.
April 14, 2018
Today would have been your 60th birthday. I have a photo of you, me, and Pat Lee on your 50th birthday. Manjit made a cake shaped like a casino chip. You look healthy and happy. I never would have thought 10 years later you would not be here. Happy birthday Lizzy. My thoughts are with you today as they are every day. I miss you. Love, Bev.
December 16, 2017
It's almost Xmas again. This is the week Margot, Pauline and I would enjoy your famous turkey dinner with famous "West End Gold" gravy. I have your gravy bowl but haven't made it yet. I'm retired. You were supposed to be here. I went to Kauai. The huge waves reminded me of you boogie boarding. I visit Todd and kitty. I walk through your courtyard. I miss you so much my friend but carry on. A bird sat on my beach blanket in the summer for over an hour. Was that you? Love, Bev
valerie ulyett
December 16, 2017
I wish someone would come on here and tell a good xmas story with you in it. What I remember is you were a fierce auntie and the young uns got spoiled rotten at xmas.We used to share our fun stories about spoiling our nieces and nephews....well and then there were the xtra pesos we could make working on xmas to pay for it all
valerie
October 1, 2017
Morning...fall has come with very cool mornings,but you already knew that..your picture still sts on my kitchen table(the one from the paper)so I guess it lives there now...think of you when I conjure up an angel to help me find a parking place downtown. You still come through for me every time....still miss you
June 7, 2017
Hard to believe it has been one year. I try to take comfort in remembering the laughs we shared. Remember the mosquito bite to your eye, my "blue" microwave, diet coke coming out of your nose, congo line at St. Paul's, "yes, I'm sure you turn west to get to Bay warehouse". I miss those laughs. I miss you terribly, your wisdom, your wit, your friendship. Forever, Bev.
valerie ulyett
April 15, 2017
Like Bev I have been thinking about you too due to it being your birthday time....this was always something else we had in common....birthdays so close together...I got you...you got me?
April 14, 2017
April 14, 2017. I'm thinking of you on your 59th birthday. Miss you lots, Bev
valerie Ulyett
January 2, 2017
My Dear Gurl....well now here we are now in a different year..I still pick up the phone to call you....don't know what your spirit animal or bird is but there have been some times recently where I wondered if some creature was you...particularly certain butterflies and birds...take care my brave little sista and know you are still loved...love, Valerie
December 7, 2016
Dec.7,2016. It has been 6 months since you passed away, I miss you as much as I did that day. Forever in my thoughts.
Bev
Carrie Crowley
July 27, 2016
With a very heavy heart I offer a few words to commemorate a strong and impactful soul. Liz, you truly made a difference,,,a true advocate to the children and families that you worked with but also to your work colleagues. An amazing sense of humour matched with common sense that was both refreshing and so passionate. Your time with us was far too short but your impact will last a lifetime. I am inspired by you to make and want more out of my life xox
Alison BALE
July 19, 2016
My thoughts and prayers to Liz's family, and her work family. Rest in peace Liz.
Jean Hladych (Poole)
July 17, 2016
Although not having seen Liz since retirement, hearing of her passing has left me with a deep sense of loss. She was a wonderful and caring woman.
Bev Schultz
July 15, 2016
Lizzy, I think of you every day and miss you every day. I was so lucky to have you as a friend.
July 15, 2016
Liz, "can you hear me know?" I will always remember this little saying.When I spoke to Todd we both mentioned that you are one of our heros. You always handled challenges in life with grace, poise and humor..Humor? the blacker the better..I have known you since you were a teenager and know this to be true. Now you are one of my guardian angels and I will listen for your voice.
Valerie Ulyett
July 15, 2016
Liz...." can you hear me now?" I will always miss this little saying. When I spoke to Todd we both mentioned that you are one of our heros.Your courage and bravery in the face of all struggles was always met with humor and grace...and the humor?.. the blacker the better. I've known you since you were a teen ager and know this to be true. Now you are one of my guardian angels and I will listen for your voice.
Beverlet Conlin
June 27, 2016
I worked with Liz, she was a great colleague. I will always remember her wonderful smile..................Liz, I can't belive this happened, I am so sorry, Beverley Conlin
Debbie Pentecost
June 16, 2016
'Death leaves pain no one can heal
Love leaves memories no one can steal'
-Debbie Pentecost (Bellingham, WA)
Meaghan Reid
June 15, 2016
Deepest condolences to Liz's family on her passing. She had a wonderful big heart and was a good friend. I will miss her humour and endless knowledge on work and life matters. You are in my thoughts.
June Morin
June 14, 2016
Dear Sonny and Joy,
We were so sorry to hear about Elizabeth. It has been years but I still remember her wonderful sense of humour.
Our condolences,
June and family, Brian and Cathie.
Jennifer Donnelly
June 13, 2016
I was saddened to read of Liz's passing . I knew her by name only for many years on internal memos at work Thankfully I had the pleasure of working with her on our team a few years ago as she was an expert on a new system we were struggling to learn. I was struck by her laughter, patience and love of her cats - she was admired by our team and one of those people you wish you knew better, longer as she added joyful positivity to the world . My thoughts are with her family and friends - in peace .
George Muller
June 13, 2016
I'll miss you Liz. You were a caring sole with a generous heart.
Darrin Pope
June 13, 2016
I will remember Liz for her strength and loyalty and her unwavering dedication to her job protecting vulnerable children and families.
Martha Lovsin
June 12, 2016
I always had a good giggle or two or three... with Liz. Her wisdom, patience with ICM (ha), big heart and never ending advocacy & support for those in need will be forever in the hearts she touched. We love you Liz. xoxo Martha Lovsin
Joslin Kobylka
June 11, 2016
Very sad. Liz dedicated herself to supporting family, friends, community and so many young people in need of a new opportunity in life. My condolences to her closer friends and family.
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