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Ellen Marie Savage
1936 - 2012
Ellen Marie Savage
1936 - 2012
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BORN
1936
DIED
2012
Ellen Savage Obituary
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April Mihaloich
November 8, 2012
Memoir – April Mihalovich
Death is a weird thing. When someone dies, you feel hollowness inside – you can't cry – even if you want to. Afterward, every little thing makes you want to cry – even thought you can't.
As I trudged down the aisle, I tried not to make eye contact with anyone. I didn't want to see the sympathetic looks; the sad eyes – I just wanted my grandmother back. At the same time, I was grateful for all the people who loved and cared about our family.
I was first. My hands trembled as I walked on the altar. I listened to the sound my shoes made on the wooden floors. The hollow sound matched the hollowness I felt inside at that very moment. That clickety-clack of my shoes made me look more important than I felt. I thought, ever since my Nana died, my life was like broken glass. Now, I was desperately trying to clean up all the pieces.
Blubbering like a baby and my throat still sore from my cold, I felt the kindness of everyone there wrap around me like my grandmother's hug. I finally finished reading; the minutes at the podium felt like hours. I sat back down and wished my little brother luck on his reading. He was still too young to understand the conclusion that this moment brought. This was an ending of a chapter in our lives. He was too young to understand all the sadness and despair coursing through my heart right now.
Returning virtually unscathed by the power of the reading I had chosen for him, my Dad emerged next.
“Mother”
“Grandmother”
“Kind”
“Generous”
I could barely hear the eulogy with all the memories flooding my head that those words brought back. Soon, tear after tear rolling down my cheek, I remembered of the promise I had made to myself that morning. There I was, standing in front of the mirror, mustering up all the courage I could get while promising myself to be strong for my family and not cry. As I wiped the tears smearing my face, I tried to hide my red, puffy, eyes and not cry anymore.
Finally, my Dad sat back down, wiping tears from his eyes, and I said to him,
“Its o.k. Dad, right now in Heaven she's probably giving someone St. Patrick's Day socks from the Dollar Store.”
I smiled, content with my attempt to cheer him up, but that, unintentionally, made him cry even more.
When I walked down the aisle the second time, my head no longer hung low, but I still didn't make eye contact with anyone. I still needed time to mend my heart.
A few days later, I listened to a recording of me playing the song “Someone Like You” for her; a song she always loved to hear me play. I remembered all the times we had together, both good and bad. And I wished she was right there next to me.
Day after day, she lives on through all our memories, never wanting us to forget her. I can assure you, that will never happen – but one thing I will never feel about her is closure.
-- a school assignment for memoirs by April 11/8/2012
Mary Tom Keogh
October 22, 2012
Len, I only just learned of your Mother's passing this morning. I know you will miss her but you will still always feel her presence. The photos show her beauty and her joy in family. GOD BLESS, Mary and Tom Keogh
October 17, 2012
Lenny and Family: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and know that I have many fond memories of your mom and you and the times we spent together. Your mom was my teacher's aid in Elementary School and she was a great teacher and a kind soul. My your fond memories sustain you in the this time of your loss. With deepest Sympathy. Steve McMahon and Family.
Anthony and Melissa Silvestro
October 16, 2012
Dear Lenny, Cheryl, Ben, and April,
Our hearts are so full with love and sympathy for you. You shared Ellen with us, and our lives have been blessed because of it. We have watched the four of you with love and pride over the years share your lives so generously, willingly, and lovingly with Ellen. Ellen's was the fifth chair at your dinner table each night - not the invited guest - but truly the fifth member of your family. This is a true example of what family is all about.
Lenny, you are such a wonderful son. You have shown us what it means to be a good and loving son. This is such a difficult time, but let the love and support you gave your Mom while she was alive bring you peace and comfort. I know she is resting easy in the arms of our Lord thanking Him for the greatest blessing of her life...you!!!
We love you all so very much! We are here for you always.
Auntie and Uncle
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Elisa Martinez
October 15, 2012
Lenny, Cheryl, April and Ben, I am very sorry to hear about Ellen passing, and I wanted to extend my condolences at this difficult time. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Uncle Don & Joy Mitchell
October 9, 2012
Lenny, We R deeply sorry for the lost of yur mom. Our prayers R with you & your dear family. Indeed...Heaven has another Angel. U have now... a
devoted guardian angel who will always B with U. Stay strong Lenny.
Warmest thoughts to you all.
October 8, 2012
Dear Len and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. As you know, your dear mother was my very favorite teacher at the Hoxie school when I was a young girl. I will always have fond memories of her gentle smile and kindness. With love and sympathy, Jane, Kevin & Cassandra
Larry, Elise, Dylan, & Alex Palmer
October 8, 2012
Len, Cheryl, April, & Ben... we are so sorry that you've had to say goodbye to your Mother & Grandmother. All of you mean the world to us and our love & prayers are with you.
October 8, 2012
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mom. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this most difficult time.
With Love Michael & Christine
Colleen Dunn
October 8, 2012
Len, Cheryl, April and Ben
We are so sorry for your loss. Hoping the happy memories can get you through these sad times. Thinking of you all!
Dan, Colleen, Cullen and Callie
The Lavelle's
October 7, 2012
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. What a beautiful tribute to honor yours mothers passing, sharing so many wonderful memories. God Bless you.
Sally Gibbs
October 7, 2012
Deepest sympathy to all of Ellen's family. She was so very proud to be a grandmother and took great joy in being with her grandchildren. She was always pleasant to talk with, and she will be missed.
Fly with the angels Ellen. Rest in peace.
Sally King Gibbs and family.
MICHELLE SAVAGE
October 7, 2012
Ellen was my Godmother I didn't get to see her for quite a while since were on the West Coast and there on the East. I have such great memories of Ellen she was such a kind and loving person. When we were living there she made me feel so special I'll never forget all the times in Buzzards Bay that we spent together and the big Clam Bake party we had at her house on the lake still have pics of that I will miss her just knowing shes not there. I know God needed her and she's with my sister, my grandparents, my dad and my uncle Eddie. Miss all my East Coast family LOVE YOU GUYS
Bob Parady
October 7, 2012
Len and family, I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom. My mom passed away several years ago. It's difficult to get over. Your mom was such a wonderful person. You have our thoughts and prays. Bob Parady.
Mary Dudley
October 7, 2012
Dear Len,
Sorry I can't be there for Ellen's services. I will think of her often.
Francine and family
October 7, 2012
That entry stating Lenny, Cheryl, April and Ben, and ended with (((hugs)))was from me...I submitted without signing..yep...thats me...sorry again and keep strong...
October 7, 2012
Lenny, Cheryl, April and Ben
We are so sorry for the loss of your mom, mother-in-law and grandma. She was a very nice woman who is now at peace. Hold all of those precious memories close and she will forever live in your hearts....<3. (((Hugs))) to you all...
The O'Brien Family
October 7, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. She was a sweet lady!! We hope that your happy memories will give you comfort and help you through sad times.
Steve & Amy Williams
October 7, 2012
Your Mom & your family are in our prayers.
Bret Morgan
October 6, 2012
Dear Lenny,
We are truly sorry to hear that your beloved mother has passed. She was a kind lady, a loving mother and grandmother, and a wonderful human being. We hope that happy memories of her will see you through this sad and difficult time. We know that she will always be watching over you and your family.
With our deepest sympathy and prayers,
Love Jenny, Bali and Bret
Sharon Burns
October 6, 2012
Lenny, so sad to hear of your mom's passing. You, Cheryl, April, and Benjamin are all in my thoughts. May all the wonderful memories you have and knowing that your mom is no longer suffering bring you some peace. Love, Sharon Burns
Tina, Chuck and Victoria Burgess
October 6, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Much Love, Louie & Jennifer
October 6, 2012
Lenny & Cheryl,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ginny Savage Walsh
October 6, 2012
It was a blessing to reunite with my sister. I only wish it had been sooner. I know you will miss her Len and be assured that I will as well. Love & prayers.
Maureen OBrien
October 6, 2012
Len - Mike and I are sending positive energy to you and your family. You were so incredibly lucky to have such an amazing person in your life. We wish we were there to celebrate Ellen. Love you. - mo
Benjamin Mihalovich
October 6, 2012
I feel sorry that you lost your mother, Daddy. I will miss you too Nana.
Love,
Benjamin
April Mihalovich
October 6, 2012
Very sorry for the loss of your mother, I know how much she meant to you and I feel the same way.
Vining
October 6, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers to you all! xo. The Vining's
Ellen and April (Eastertime)
Len Mihalovich
October 6, 2012
Laura, Carol, Carly and Serena Mirabito
October 6, 2012
We are so sad for the loss of your beautiful, gentle, gracious mother and grandmother. She was truly a classy woman whose quick smile will be very much missed. Our prayers are with you all.
Love Uncle Skeeter & Aunt Jo-Ann
October 6, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
October 6, 2012
Lenny,
We are truly sorry for the loss of your Mother. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
With love,
Heidi & Billy Mitchell
The Staff of Nickerson-Bourne Funeral Home
October 6, 2012
We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
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