Emory Stephens

Emory Stephens obituary, Upland, CA

Emory Stephens

Emory Stephens Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 12, 2025.
Emory Peyton Stephens, 86, went to be with our Lord on February 9, 2025, in Upland, California.

Born on January 21, 1939, in Dublin, Georgia, Emory built a life defined by perseverance, strength, and an unwavering commitment to those he loved. Over sixty years ago, he founded Emory P. Stephens Insurance Service, Inc., dedicating himself to serving his clients with integrity and care. His tenacity and determination were evident in both his professional and personal life, where he was known as a fearless advocate and a steadfast defender of the underdog.

A devoted follower of Jesus, Emory was very involved in his church community. His faith guided him throughout his life and was reflected in his actions and relationships. He found great joy in fishing-a passion he shared with his "fearless" friends.

Above all else, Emory was a dedicated husband to his beloved wife, Starlyn Stephens. As her sole caregiver, he demonstrated unwavering devotion and love. He is also survived by his daughters, Kim Bensfield and Nancy Smith; grandsons Michael Louderback and Zachariah Smith; and many others who cherished him. He was preceded in death by his parents, Inez and Frederick Stephens.

A Celebration of Life service will be held on February 28, 2025, at Foothill Vineyard Church, located at 100 E. Foothill Blvd., San Dimas, California, at 4:30 PM. A dinner will be provided following the service.

Emory's legacy of strength, faith, and dedication will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

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February 19, 2025

The Wilcoxson Family sent flowers.

February 18, 2025

Pat Petty posted to the memorial.

February 16, 2025

Robert Sandhagen posted to the memorial.

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Pat Petty

February 18, 2025

I found Emory about 35 years ago when I was in real need for someone who understood my business and could make sure I had the right kind of insurance coverage. Our relationship evolved in to so much more. We had many conversations about a variety of things and became such good friends. We shared lots of laughter over the years and I´m truly grateful that he came into my life.

Robert Sandhagen

February 16, 2025

Emory was a good and trusted friend since meeting him in 1951 at Fremont JR High school, in Pomona. We shared many interests including Band, Tennis, Cars, Girls, Boats and fishing. My parents often included Emory in our family camping vacations as I am an only child and it was fun to have a buddy along.
Emory and I started a small business together selling firewood from the many Lemon and Orange groves that were bulldosed for tract homes in the late 1950s. Many trees were just burned but we got permission from some owners to cut up their trees into firewood. Emorys brothers and sister sold bundles of fire wood door to door in their neighborhood for a small commission. Our introduction into the world of business had begun.
Emory and I joined the Navy reserves together. We met our future wives together when a friend of Emory's introduced us to Starlyn and Mary. [my ex wife now but still a friend.]
Emory has been a part of my life for over 70 years and I will miss him very much.
Starlyn, my prayers and best wishes go out to you and your family.
You have all ways been a special Lady to me.

Bob Sandhagen

Jennifer Stephens

February 13, 2025

Uncle Emory was always someone I looked up to. He is a man of God and a source of wisdom and strength for our family. We often called on him for advice. He had a positive attitude and a great sense of humor. I look forward to seeing him again in heaven. I love you, Uncle Emory and Aunt Starlyn.

Jeff Beck

February 13, 2025

I bowled with Emory for several years and considered him a great friend. He was always upbeat, cheerful, and just fun to spend time with. My condolences to his family.

John Atkinson

February 12, 2025

Uncle Emory was a great man and I will miss his insight and support deeply. He was a fantastic example of what a Godly man, husband, father (and uncle) should be.

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