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Eric Swenson Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
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Andrea
February 12, 2021
Missed everyday!! You are on my mind frequently!! Your family is amazing! Until we meet again!! Rest in heaven!
1997
Steve
February 11, 2021
Eric,
You remain in my thoughts. When my thoughts drift to you, I still see your smile and hear your laugh as if you were still with us.
Years have not dimmed the light that you shone on my life. I choose to always remember us as the beautiful family that you were so much a part of.
Diane Collins
February 11, 2021
It’s hard to believe 16 years have passed since I received that call that no parent ever wants to hear. You’re in my heart - always, and not a day goes by that I don’t think of you. When I share your stories, my memories, there are always tears, but there is much laughter, too. You brought so much joy and love to those of us, who were close to you. I know that you speak to me in music now, my “Eric” songs, and I love when that happens. Life moves on: your nephews and niece are all growing up so fast it seems. I see you in them sometimes: their quirky gestures, and especially their sensitive side, and it always warms my heart. We moved recently and you’d really love it here. Give hugs and love to my mom & dad. It comforts me to know you are all together. Rest well Eric, until we meet again.
February 19, 2020
Eric,
Much love and happiness you brought to us all. February is filled with great memories of you and the difficult anniversary of your death. Daytona had such a tough ending. Hope the driver will be OK. As anyone can tell, I don't follow the sport, but the sport makes me think of YOU.
Keep that watchful eye out for your family! Nudge them to let them know you are there for them during the difficult days and joyous ones too. Love always! Barb Heroff
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Andrea Kammermeyer (Hammer)
June 19, 2019
Today is just one of those days and honestly the last 2 weeks you have been on my my mind like crazy... I sure do miss you. I got to talk to my daughter about you this past week. I shared with her all about you!! I miss you and love you!!! I wish you were here just to talk to and hug and hold for a little while....I wish there was visiting hours in heaven....Hope the family is doing well!!! Just wanted you to know I was thinking about you....as if you didn't know...
Jessica Higgins (Schmidt)
February 14, 2019
Happy Valentine's Day in heaven Eric ❤
Even though life is so busy with marriage and three kids and a full-time job and managing other people, it never seems to fail that you come to mind sometime during the week of the anniversary of your passing. Last night I had a sweet sweet dream that you were lost and I just kept searching and searching and finally I found you and we just got to spend time together and catch up
Andrea Kammermeyer (Hammer)
February 11, 2018
13 Years...too long!!! I sure do miss you!!
Diane Collins
February 11, 2018
They say that time heals all wounds. I have to disagree. Although with time, it may not hit you like a ton of bricks anymore, or leave you feeling totally raw with emotion for what feels like forever. It still hits you. It's still there. Some days, it takes your breath away. Other days, it leaves you numb and barely able to function. I've learned that grief is a very private, painful journey. I have wonderful friends and family, who are very supportive and for that, I am grateful. I have many, many things to be thankful for and I am. I know there are others dealing with horrible things I can never comprehend. Today will never be a normal, ordinary day for me. It will always be the day I lost you, we lost you, and it changed my life forever. I try to honor you and I'd like to think that all of this has made me want to be a better person, and most days I think I do pretty well. However, today is not one of those days. I'm sad, my hear still aches, I'm very emotional, and I miss you terribly. Love, mom xxx ooo
Steve
February 11, 2018
Every time I hear the name Earnhardt, every time I see a white truck, every time I pass an Olive Garden, every time time I think of your mother and your sister...
every single time.
Jessica Higgins (Schmidt)
February 10, 2018
Thinking of you, Eric, and your Momma ❤
Jessica Higgins (Schmidt)
February 8, 2016
Thinking of you today, sweet & handsome Eric <3
Andrea Hammer
November 23, 2015
Well it's been years and not a day goes by that I don't think about you!!! The memories we have while growing up are wonderful, but what I would give to see you one more time!! To hold you one last time and to tell you that you were and always will be my one true love in this crazy world!! Many things in life have changed and I just wish I knew it was ok to go with the next step in my journey with all the joy and fulfillment we once shared!! Is it bad that it's my second choice and always will be a second as you were always first!!!?? Hope that I can get some sort reassurance as I know you would want nothing more than all of us you cared about, to be happy in our existing life!!! Can't wait to see you again!!! With much love to your Diane, Steve, Melissa and the rest of your family!!
February 10, 2015
Tues, Feb 10, 2015
Lord knows how much I miss you. Tomorrow will mark 10 years since you've passed. 10 years and somehow, it still feels like yesterday. I had a rough day at the office today. Apparently, your anniversary date hit me a little early this year. There was sleet, ice and snowy roads today, started about 8am here in the cities, so I used that as my excuse to go home and have a good, long cry and then finished out the work day at home. Oh, Eric - I wish, I wish I could talk to you one more time, I wish I could hold you, hug you and tell you how much I miss you. How much you lit up my world. I wish your niece and nephews had an opportunity to know you, in-person and not just through photos & stories I share w/them. Life moves on, yes it does. But that doesn't make this any easier. I am blessed. I am happy. However, a big piece of my heart is empty; a hole, left since the day you left this word. Life is short, it isn't always fair. Thank you, thank you for all that you've given me. I'm sorry if I wasn't always the perfect mom, always there for you whenever you needed. But I know you left this world knowing how very much I loved you, and how proud I was to be your mom. Until we meet again. Rest well, my sweet Eric, and know how much you are loved. xxx ooo
August 11, 2014
Happy Birthday Eric. Although it's been several years since you passed, not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you dearly. You were a bright light in my world and I know you're up there, looking down on us, and smiling that incredible, contagious smile. I miss you, I love you. xxx ooo love, mom
Diane Collins
June 28, 2013
Eric, I've been thinking a lot about you lately. We're into the summer months and the weather is finally cooperating. It's been a rough winter and a very long, cold, wet spring. I've made some new friends recently, and really enjoy telling them all about you, including your silly 'Eric' stories which always make me smile. Your niece and nephews are growing like weeds. Noah is still too young to know of you, but trust that once he's old enough to understand he will. I know that you speak to me in music, and throw in an 'Eric' sign every now and then - especially on cars or trucks. I miss you every day and know that you're up there watching over us. It really sucks... some days more than others. Today is one of the sucky ones. I love you. xxx ooo
J B
March 27, 2013
Hey bud,
Even though it's been closed down for a long time now, I miss walking into our regular place and never having to order, we'd just sit down without saying much more than hi to any of the waitresses or bartenders and we'd have 2 Bud's, a cheeseburger, and a pulled pork sandwich in front of us.
I miss our deep talks about life, women, dreams, cars, whatever. How many told you so's did I say when you finally gave up the idea of red accents on that truck, and how much did I laugh when you told me you had started to hate that truck but just couldn't give it up without a good reason so you were trying to beat the crap out of it. (Heck you even offered to swap cars and have me drive it around for a while which really would have killed it.)
The only regret I have in life is the last chunk of time where we didn't talk much. You tried, you really did - you'd call me alot and you would have mutual friends tell me to call you - I just didn't or would cut the conversation off. You know why that was (which wasn't the petty reason most people thought) but that doesn't make it right and I can't even begin to ask your forgiveness for that. But regardless I am sorry bro. I'll never forget your last call to me, you woke me up at like 3AM and just wanted to talk about everything going on in your life and you were trying to explain a lot. You tried to clear everything then, but like a fool I assumed we'd have time to talk in person later. Boy was I wrong.
Btw ran accross a picture of you a couple weeks ago someone took with us in it which promted me to write this, I'm sure you were up there laughing at what you were doing as much as I did :D
As you told me more than a few times we really were more like brothers than friends, you weren't my first good friend to go, and you haven't been the last - but because of that I definately miss you the most.
Jenny Mudek (Leppla)
February 11, 2013
No words can express how much my brother and I miss Eric. We talk frequently about the good times we had with Eric and the funny things he did. We'll never forget him! Love you Eric <3
Diane Collins
February 10, 2013
You've taught me to never take anything or anyone for granted; that life really can change in an instant, and how one phone call on a Friday afternoon changed my life forever; to never take this life too serious; that you can never say I love you too much, that life really is too short (especially for some of us); that there are a lot of people hurting in this world, try not to hurt others, help them; that you do get by with a little (sometimes a lot of) help from your friends & family. You inspire me to be a better person and I was so blessed to call you my son for 24 years. You brought more light & love into my world than words can express. Eric David Swenson: 1980 - 2005 I love you and miss you every day. xxx 000
February 11, 2012
Hi Eric!
Just wanted to let you know we think of you often and miss you very much!
With Love,
The Lane Family
Barb Heroff
January 14, 2012
Hey Eric,
Julie and I went over to Diane's house Christmas Eve and visited. We didn't have our normal get together this evening, did it the night before. So, it felt kind of empty. It was so great. We got to enjoy your mom in a way we haven't done so. I will always treasure this time with her. We talked every subject and you were number 1. Melissa, Kat and Eli running so close it was hard to tell who was really number 1. I loved being able to express our love and how much we miss you. Continue to keep close to those that love you. We want 2012 to have some great things happening. It starts with Diane going on vacation to Mexico with her friend and Rick and Lisa. Keep a good eye on all of them.
Aunt Barb
Diane Collins
December 26, 2011
My Christmas message to you, 2011
Found a quiet moment to write you my annual Christmas note. It was a busy holiday weekend with family and friends. Lit candles for you and mom and dad as we always do. Eli and Kat each wrote their own Christmas note to you and placed it in your stocking. It warms my heart that they're joining in our holiday tradition. Missing you as always, allowing myself moments to mourn but not stay there too long, as I know you'd want us to be happy. Thinking of your smile brings me to a happy place and every time I hear the Charlie Brown's Christmas song, it brings me back to you dancing your silly little dance. I love you Eric and miss you much. Stay close this holiday season. xxx ooo
Diane Collins
August 10, 2011
August 11, 2011
Happy Birthday Eric ~ you would have been 31 years-old today, but tragically to us you'll be 24 forever... I've been thinking about you a lot these past few days, trying to put thoughts into words in what to write. There's an empty hole in my heart, a private pain that I am only able to share with few. In your memory and to honor you, I wake up each day and try to be a better person, try to remember to forgive, to not hold grudges, to never take anything or anyone for granted. You remind me to never take this life too seriously, to find humor and light in the simple things, to smile... and appreciate all the good around me. I'm grateful to my family and friends, who've stood by me, allowed me to cry, mourn, and most importantly, talk about you and share “Eric moments” to keep your memory alive. I miss you every day. I'm so Blessed that I was able to be your mom for the short time you were here with us. You brought me more joy than I can describe in words. Give hugs to grandma and grandpa from me and stay close. I love you and miss you much. xxx ooo
Diane Collins
February 11, 2011
Diane Collins
February 11, 2011
It's hard to believe it's been 6 years today since your passing. Your sister and I are going to spend the day together and do "Eric" things, watch a few of your favorite movies, go out to eat at one of your favorite restaurants, laugh, cry and share your memories. Missing you today and always. xxx ooo
Steven Collins
February 11, 2011
Eric--
It is with the heaviest of hearts that I write this. I don't have to tell you about the events of the past year; you know.
Although I no longer live under the same roof as your mother, I know that I can say to you that we miss you as much today as we always have.
She continues to be comforted by your smile and laugh.
And she gets every message that you send. As does your sister.
There will always be a candle burning in our hearts...
Steven
Diane Collins
December 23, 2010
Christmas 2010 -
It's time to write my annual Christmas note to you. The day after Thanksgiving was a very difficult day for me this year. I was really missing you, my mom and dad, shed a lot of tears and spent a lot of time writing in my journal that day.
Tomorrow night our family will gather again. This is our first Christmas w/o grandpa - and I'm really missing him.
So, here's my Eric memory for this year: when you were about 3 years old, your grandma (my mom) loved Lionel Richie and a song called "You Are". She used to play it all the time and one day, she tape recorded you singing along to the song. She taped it onto a cassette tape and played it back for me and the rest of our family. It brings tears to my eyes to recall this memory and I wished I could have found that tape when sorting through her things after she passed. So, give a hug to grandma and grandpa for me and please stay close this holiday season. I love you and miss you every day. Merry Christmas, Eric. xxx ooo
Barb Heroff
December 7, 2010
Eric,
Though I haven't put my thoughts to writing before, I have thought of you often. This holiday time brings much joy, but also a time to reflect on the ones who have left our earthly world and live on in spirit. You are missed and loved.
Aunt Barb
Diane Collins
August 10, 2010
Happy Birthday Eric, I miss you every day and love you much. I'm taking today (Aug 11) to honor the day you were born and to celebrate your short time here with us. I know you're still around - just wished there was an easier way to keep in touch. It's been a difficult year - hugs to grandma and grandpa from me, okay? xxx ooo
Steven Collins
February 12, 2010
Eric--
Grandpa passed earlier this week and we have been busy tending to his arrangements. Even with all that, we lit a candle for you. Although I didn't get a chance to write to you yesterday, you were anything but forgotten.
I think of you still as much as I did five years ago and I know that you would have enjoyed seeing our family grow. Your mom still has plenty of "Eric moments" so we know that you're still watching over her. We also know that you'll be at the cemetery along with Grandma guiding Grandpa.
Just know that you are never far from my heart. Ever.
Always,
Steve
February 11, 2010
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Le Lane
February 11, 2010
Dear Eric,
Just wanted to let you know we think of you often and miss your happy, sweet personality! Save me a place up there! Love you!
February 11, 2010
Shannon Felty
February 11, 2010
Eric,
I've been sitting here looking at the computer screen trying to come up with something to say, but almost every though still leads to one question, why? I can't answer that and I don't think anyone can. Your memory still holds strong in my head and my heart. You will always hold a spcial place in my life. I feel so fortunate to have had the honor to know and love you. You are certinaly someone very special and I will never forget you.
Julie Lane
February 11, 2010
I miss you Eric...Thinking of you right now...
Susan Lane
February 11, 2010
Eric,
It has been so long and I have tried to think of something I could write on your guest page but there are no words. I have thought of you every day that you have been gone. I have never, and will never know anyone that can change ones life in such a short time. Every memory we have I will never forget. Please know that I will never forget you. Diane, Steve, and Melissa- I think of you everyday.
December 24, 2009
Eek!
I miss you more than words can say and wish I had you here with me. I miss doing the crazy things siblings do together or to one another. Merry Christmas and stop by more often. It comforts me to know you are around.
*Hugs and Kisses*
Love your Big sister
Missy
Steve Collins
December 24, 2009
So its a White Christmas. Beautiful outside. All the wonder in the world can't take away from the absence of your presence. Another holiday passes, another year marked with a moment of reflection.
Your memory has not dimmed in anyone's heart and your smile remains as bright.
Take care of the Boys.
Marie Lane
December 23, 2009
Dear Eric,
I Just wanted to let you know our family is thinking of you at this time of the year. We love you and miss you!
Love,
The Lane Family
Diane Collins
December 22, 2009
So here it is Eric, my annual Christmas entry. It goes without saying that I miss you every day and that it’s especially difficult around special events: holidays, birthdays, etc.
It’s been a very difficult year for grandpa. He’s been through a lot medically: three surgeries and multiple hospitalizations. He’s in transitional care for the next few weeks and then we need to come up with a long-term plan for him from there. I am not looking forward to that conversation. I tease him all the time when he tells me he dreams about you and grandma; I ask him if you’re welcoming him in, or if he sees a bright light, etc. I find it comforting that you both come to him in his dreams and can tell that it comforts him as well.
I know it’ll be fun w/the grandkids, Elijah and Katalina this year. Christmas is always fun when little ones are around. I can’t help but wonder where you would be today, if you were still here, if you’d have given me grandkids, etc. I know it’s not good to dwell on these what could have been - should have been questions, but they do come up and leave me with a very heavy heart.
So, we’ll all be gathering at grandpa’s house on Christmas Eve. It’ll be a little strange w/grandpa not actually there – and I think we all recognize this could be our last Christmas celebration at that old house.
We'll continue with our tradition of leaving a note for you in your Christmas stocking. We started doing this the first Christmas without you and have added new notes or "Eric memories" each year.
Merry Christmas Eric, I love you and miss you much.
Mom xxx ooo
Diane Collins
October 19, 2009
So I had an “Eric moment” on my way into work this morning. Actually, I think it was a carry-over from last night. Late yesterday, your sister and I watched you in a wedding video. You were Best Man in your friend Jayson’s wedding and he was kind enough to forward a copy of the video to me. It was time for the ring exchange and as you were digging in your pocket to retrieve the ring, there was a brief moment where obviously, you were having trouble finding it. It was only a second or two before you retrieved the ring but the look on your face was panic at first, and then that classic Eric grin that we all know and love. Laughter rang out from the wedding attendees and it brings tears to my eyes every time I watch it. I miss you Eric, more than words can ever say.
So on the way in this morning, I played a Kenny Chesney CD and there you were with me in the car. I know you loved music and many artists but KC does it for me. Anytime I’m having an Eric moment I can play one of his songs and feel you in my heart and all around me.
I love you and miss you much~
mom
Christina Curwick
August 19, 2009
Happy belated birthday Eric. My mom just sent me a link to this website. I can't believe it's already been 5 years since you passed, but from the entries I've read, it sounds like you're still around. Of course you're an angel. I wouldn't have expected any less. :-) I have a little school picture of you when you were only 9 years old and I carry it in my wallet. Whenever I clean out my wallet, I come across your picture and your big goofy smile always brings a smile to my face. Keep watching over your family, Eric. You are SO loved. Love, Christi
Steven Collins
August 12, 2009
Yesterday would have been your 29th as Mom said. I waited for the signals before I wrote this and you didn't disappoint.
Mom has some more white roses celebrating you on the kitchen table. Of course we lit the candle which always burs burns so bright.
Just know that the years don't dim your memory; you're with us every day.
tony p
August 11, 2009
Happy Birthday Eric!
Diane Collins
August 11, 2009
Happy Birthday Eric! You would have been 29 years old today and although I miss you EVERY day, today I will take time to celebrate you. I love you and miss you much.
mom xxx ooo
Allen Pechaver
July 10, 2009
I'll never forget!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My friend for life. Thanx for being there. Sorry it's been so long.
Kristy Heroff
June 12, 2009
Well Eric, I'm going to see Kenny Chesney in Chicago again tomorrow! So many of his songs remind me of you. I just wanted to let you know I'll be thinking about you.
Eric & Melissa, Xmas 2004
February 13, 2009
Diane Collins
February 13, 2009
I was in Chicago on Feb 11 this year and spent the better part of the day thinking of you, Eric. I remember a road trip you took to Chicago several years ago, on a whim... and you were so taken in by the city, seriously thought about relocating there, wondered if we had family members or family history in Chicago - you described it as almost a Deja Vu experience when you visited there.
Anyway, although my trip to Chicago was work-related this time around, I was comforted to be in the city that meant so much to you.
Love you miss you much - we'll be watching for a sign from you at Daytona this year ;) GO JUNIOR!
Marie Lane
February 11, 2009
Dear Eric,
We think of you often and will always miss you.
Love,
The Lanes
Steven Collins
February 11, 2009
Well, today marks five years.
And although the shock has worn off and the pain is only slightly lessened, you are still fresh in my heart.
You are kept alive by your family and friends, all of whom talk about you. And there is always a big hole whenever the family gathers.
Kenny Chesney has become your voice.
You are missed and loved.
So stop with the lights now...
Kate Heroff
February 11, 2009
Just wanted to let you know that I still think about you every day! Today above all of course. I miss you, and I love you! :)
Steve Collins
December 20, 2008
Well, another Holiday season is upon us and your presence is sorely missed.
We light candles for you all the time and you would be so proud to hear how your mom talks about you.
Eli is growing like a weed and has an interest not only in cars but all things mechanical. I suppose he gets it from his dad who has been so incredibly helpful. Katy has this impish grin that she flashes whenever she does something that she knows she shouldn't. Reminds me of you. She also owns her brother.
Your sister doesn't say it much, but she's missing you a lot. Not having you around has forced her to grow in ways that I don't think she ever expected.
Anyhow, we're doing the family thing in a few days. I get to do Jesus Jeopardy again. You would love it.
I fully expect you to make an appearance sometime soon - besides the bloody bathroom lights. Not funny.
Heather
December 19, 2008
Days of Thunder was on the other night, and got to thinking. Not sure we ever settled the argument about whether Cole's car was Red or Orange.. : ) still cant tell!
Diane Collins
December 18, 2008
A good friend shared this poem with me today. I thought it would be fitting to share here.
Togetherness
Death is nothing at all…
I have slipped into the next room.
Whatever we were to each other,
That we still are.
Call me by my familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way, which you always used.
Laugh as we always laughed.
At the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household word it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was;
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind
Because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you,
For an interval somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is past. Nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before…
Only better,
Infinitely happier and forever…
We will all be one together with Christ.
(Old Irish verse from a Carmelite monastery, Tallow, Ireland)
Merry Christmas Eric, please know that we miss you and love you and you’ll always remain in our hearts and memories forever….
love,
mom
JUDY EILEK
August 12, 2008
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ERIC, FUNNY HOW WE ALL HAVE A LOVE OF CARS. RUNS IN THE FAMILY . WOULD HAVE LOVED TO GONE TO DAYTONA WITH YOU AND YOUR MOM AND EVERYONE ELSE IN THE FAMILY. HUGS KISSES FOR YOU YOUNG MAN.....
Jennifer Leppla
August 11, 2008
Eric,
Happy Birthday! Just want you to know I still think about you and so does Jon. He still talks about you and the good times you had together.
Meg
Diane
August 8, 2008
Dear Eric,
Just writing my annual birthday entry.
I’m writing this early because we’ll be going back up to Lake Vermilion on Saturday and spending the week, so I won’t be here to write on your birthday, Aug 11. We’ll be celebrating you on Monday night by going out to dinner, lighting a candle and hopefully sharing more funny stories/happy memories of you. One that comes to mind and almost always makes me laugh out loud is your “deer in the headlights” story from happier times at Apple River :) I wasn’t there to witness your antics, but when this story was first shared w/me I laughed till I cried…
We were hoping to sprinkle some of your ashes on the lake, but I can’t get the darn cap off of the urn so lighting a candle will have to do. :) And yeah, I’m sure you find this quite funny.
Grandpa is coming back up w/us this year – this will be our 4th year up at the resort. He had a rough go of it last year but is doing so much better this summer. He’s really excited – and so are all of us.
Elijah and Katalina are growing like weeds. Some of Eli’s gestures so remind me of you – he’s tall and very handsome, loves race cars. Right now I think the M&M car is one of his favorites - for obvious reasons. Katalina is a beautiful little girl; she has her daddy’s eyes and her momma’s smile. We won’t mention who she gets her temper from here :) I really wished they didn’t have to rely on our stories and memories to know you but believe me, they do know their Uncle Eric - even if they don’t quite get why you’re not here w/us…
It’s difficult sometimes, watching your cousins all growing up, graduating from high school, starting/graduating from college, getting married, etc., and not having you here w/us to celebrate. I know you and grandma (mom) are celebrating in your own special way and that you are w/us in spirit. I don’t have to like it though.
Happy Birthday Eric, I love and miss you every day.
xxx ooo
mom
Shannon Felty
April 25, 2008
Eric-
I still think about you every day and I still miss you with everything I have. I just wanted to say I love you and to let you know that Dale Jr drives for Hendrick and Mark Martin is in the 8 car for DEI!!!!!!! How incredibly crazy is that! Even though you're not here, I know when you are near. My brother wrote a poem about you for me and here it is....
6 Silent Tears
Last night before I went to bed
thoughts of you filled my head
I haven't cried this way in years
and on my pillow fell six silent tears
The first was for your handsome face
and rememberance of your sweet embrace
The second tear came as no surprise
as I dreamed of your beautiful eyes
The third tear was for your angel soft kiss
which words can't explain how much I miss
Then down my cheek the fouth and fifth came rolling
instead of my pillow, it's you I should be holding
I really miss you lots my dear
there just fell the sixth and silent tear
~Roy Felty
Thank you for always listening to me when I need you the most. You know I'll always be here for you and I know you'll always be here for you. That might not make too much sense to anyone but us but we kind of operate that way :)
April 24, 2008
I just wanted to check in and let you know that I know its you screwing with me with the bathroom lights.
Steve
Kristy Glendenning
February 11, 2008
I wore my In Memory of Eric shirt today.
Whether it's been 3 years, 10 years or 50 years, we'll never stop thinking about you.
Steve Collins
February 11, 2008
We lit a yartzeit candle in your honor. You don't know what that is, but you would approve.
You would be very touched by the fact that your nephew knows you so well and often mentions you.
We all miss you incredibly...
Steve
Diane Collins
February 11, 2008
Dear Eric,
Today marks the 3rd anniversary of losing you.
There isn't a day that passes that you're not in my thoughts - and memories that I hold very dear in my heart. I still see your beautiful smile, that could light up a room. You certainly lit up my life and for that I am very grateful.
I love you and miss you much.
mom
xxx ooo
Jennifer Leppla
December 31, 2007
I still think about you once a day, everyday. You'd be amazed to see how much Jon has changed and how beautiful his daughter is. She would have loved you! Thank you for the long talks we had. I appreciate the advice you gave me and you would be proud to know that I am following it.
That's all for now. More to come later.
-Meg
Memorial Yellow Rose from J & M Wedding
November 27, 2007
Jessica and Mat's wedding
Terri Reich
November 27, 2007
Hi Eric ~
It has been awhile since I looked at this guest book. As I sit at my computer daily your picture stares at me with that wonderful smile. Today it is cold and getting ready to snow. It brings a smile to my face thinking about our conversations as how to warm up in the cold weather. As you know Jess and Mat got married and it was one of the happiest days of my life. When a parent knows that their child has fond true love, that is the day that their heart is complete. You where missed. We put a memorial flower at the alter in your name so you where there in thought and spirt. The 5th annual Halloween Party was fun as always. We all have a toast to you when Big and Rich plays your song. Just wanted to let you know I think about you often and you bring much joy to my heart. Jess and Mat lost a true friend whom became a part of our entire family. We all miss you and know that you are constantly looking over us with all the love that you gave us while here. Till next time. Love Momma T
Andrea Hammer
November 11, 2007
Hi Diane,
I just learned about this guest book thing when I lost my dad in May of this year in a car accident. It brought me back to that day almost 3 years ago when Eric died. I miss just being able to call him and get his advice on different things....most of all I miss all the memories we shared. Knowing him since 5th grade when you guys moved to FL is the best in my life. His 21st birthday was a blast...even though I was the one who got sick and he took care of me HAHA...happy birthday to him anyway, he had a good time..but I really miss the closeness we had and just the talks we would have, I know still today I think about him and can't wait to see him again one day just so we can have a good time.....
Diane Collins
November 8, 2007
Dear Family and Friends:
The City of Oakdale, MN is celebrating the opening of a new park, the Discovery Center, located at 4444 Hadley Avenue, Oakdale, MN. We purchased a memorial paver in honor of Eric. It is paver # 61 and reads, "In Memory of Eric D. Swenson 1980 - 2005. There is a private showing for his immediate family that we'll be attending next week, where the pavers will be unveiled.
Family: I will be mailing you each the information on Eric’s paver memorial so you can stop by and see it next time (or anytime) you're in Oakdale.
Friends: if any of you want these details, please email me and I'll send them to you as well.
As many of you know, Eric spent a lot of his younger years (and last years) in Oakdale and I thought this would be another special way to keep his memory with us for many years to come.
love,
Diane
Diane Collins
August 13, 2007
Happy Birthday Eric!
You would have been 27 this past Saturday, and for some of us, you will stay 24 forever.....
As you heard, Melissa, Cregg and I drove to Chicago this past weekend to see Kenny Chesney. He just happened to be playing in concert on your special day and when I learned about this, I took it as a sign that we had to go (thanks Kristy!). I also know that Chicago held a special place in your heart so it was great to go back there again. Your cousin Kristy was there too, but unfortunately, we didn’t get a chance to see her.
Kristy and Doug are getting married this weekend. We will miss you at the celebration.
You’ll also be very happy to know that Matt and Jessica are finally tying the knot later this month as well. Again, you will surely be missed.
Grandpa has had a rough summer (medically) and he's in all of our thoughts and prayers.
I love you and miss you every day-
mom
Steven Collins
August 11, 2007
Happy birthday. You'd be 26 today and Mom & Missy and Cregg & Kristy are going to Chicago to see Kenny Chesney. I'd go with them, but as you know, country music makes my ears bleed profusely.
I'm with them in spirit though.
Kristy Heroff
August 11, 2007
Happy Birthday Eric. I'm going to Kenny Chesney tonight. I will be thinking of you.
Jennifer Leppla
July 16, 2007
Eric-
First I'd like to say thank you! You were a great friend to Jonathan (I still can't call him Jon) and like an older brother to me. You always knew how to make everyone smile and laugh! I'm always thinking about you and so is Jon. Wish you were here...
Love, Meg
Kate Heroff
February 14, 2007
Haven't stopped thinking about you this weekend Eric!! Happy Valentine's Day :-D
Kristy Heroff
February 12, 2007
2 Years and 1 day later- I just want you to know, not 1 day has went by that I haven't thought about you.
Jessica Schmidt
February 5, 2007
Eric,
As you know, I am going to pharmacy school in NC and when I came here for my interview - I thought of YOU because I kept seeing NASCAR signs and I was thinking...'I am going to be back here, this is where I am meant to be and Eric will be with me'. I went to my very first NASCAR race in October of 2006. I wanted to go in memory of you and to see what was so great :) I am surprised to see that I never wrote about it here. It was a ton of fun! I just couldn't believe it. There were 300-400 thousand ppl there! I was trying to think while I was there "who would Eric cheer for?" I even called Mark and asked him and he said 'Jessica, Eric just loved racing and respected all racers, except Gordon' Soo, I decided to cheer for Kasey Kahne because he drives for Dodge and I bought a tshirt with his name and the flag and he won! It was very obvious to me why you loved it. The people all just hang out before hand and get so excited during and it is an all day affair. I am not sure I would have gone to the race if I didn't know how much you loved it...thank you for sharing that experience with me :) I miss you, Eric.
Eric (summertime)
Diane Collins
February 4, 2007
It’s hard to believe it’s been almost two years without you, Eric. I was reading through the stacks of sympathy cards we received at your memorial service. The staff at Reynolds each hand wrote a little note book of memories for us to keep. Even though you only worked there a year, they all said some pretty wonderful things about you: “your contagious smile, how you were a great worker, friend, and what a wonderful man you were, your passion for racing and how much you loved your family”. It makes me so proud to be your mom. I especially love the story about your “holy” jeans and those silly bright orange Halloween boxers you’d wear (in December!) that showed through the huge whole on your back pocket. :) And how you’d say “tootles!” when you were leaving.
Your little nephew Elijah already knows who you are; he points to your pictures and says, “Uncle Eric” and “Uncle Eric’s race car” sitting up on the shelf in the living room.
I’m uploading one of my favorite pictures of you - silly as it is, this is how many of us remember you Eric, and how you want us to remember you: living in the moment, not taking yourself or this life, too seriously. I can’t help but smile when I think of you, looking down on us and smiling, too.
There’s a Kenny Chesney song that’s become your song, “Who you’d be Today”.... I remember how excited you were when you and your friends went to see him in concert a few years ago. You had some pretty amazing friends, too- and you touched them all deeply, in your own special way.
I’m keeping this guest book going as a memorial to you and to make our memories with you a living keepsake- and I encourage all that continue to read it and have their own stories to share, to do the same.
14 days until Daytona :) ....I miss you my sweet baby boy.
love, mom
Joe Heroff
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Eric
Diane Collins
December 20, 2006
My heart has been heavy this week as Christmas fast approaches. Our family will be getting together on Christmas Eve as we do each year. As much as I know we need to move on and celebrate the season, I also miss you very deeply. Your niece and nephew will be giving us lots of joy as we watch them share in the magic of Christmas through a child’s eyes. Oh, how I wish you could be here to share with us. I know that you’ll be with us in spirit and we’ll be keeping you close in our hearts. Merry Christmas Eric. Love, mom
Steven Collins
August 11, 2006
Happy birthday.
We're going to Olive Garden in your honor.
Steve
Terri Miller-Reich
August 3, 2006
Hey Eric~
I was just looking at my calendar for this months birthdays and I saw yours. It seems like just yesterday that we where sitting in my garage working on Jessica's car having a toast to our birthday's. I think of you very often. One of my favorite picture's of you is sitting on my desk, so I get to see that special smile everyday. Jessica and Mat are buying a house and we have had so many conversations about you when we are just sitting around. Shannon has been coming over and it is nice to see her. I know your in all of our hearts and will never leave. Happy Birthday a few days early! I will be sure to tip a shot of Jose for the both of us. Love and miss you! Momma T
when we were young
Kristy Heroff
July 19, 2006
Yesterday after work I went to my parents house to visit my dog. I waited around for a while to avoid rush hour traffic and while I was waiting I looked through some photo albums and found some really cute pictures of us that I wanted to put in your guestbook.
Jessica Schmidt
April 16, 2006
Happy Easter =) I am thinking about you. Mark got the same tattoo as you - in memory of you, and Jake wanted to get it as well. Dad told him he could when he turned 16, if he still wanted to. Jake turned 16 on Tuesday and still wanted to get the tattoo, he got it yesterday. We all love you and miss you!
Joe Heroff
February 11, 2006
Eric,Its very hard to believe it has already been 1 year. It seems like only yesterday I got the horrible news. Not a day goes by that I dont think of you in some way. I miss you very much and want you to know that ill never forget you.
Jessica Schmidt
February 11, 2006
Eric-I miss you soooo much! I think about you all the time. It's 1am here and I cannot sleep. I am in North Carolina in pharmacy school and you would be happy to know that. You always told me to let you know when I finally graduated and I did graduate in May from the University of MN and now I am here, thinking of you. Surrounded by car racing fans. Last weekend I went to visit cousins in Darlington, South Carolina- Darlington houses the oldest race car track of some kind (I honestly can't remember exactly), I just know you would like it =) My whole family is thinking of you now and you will always be in our hearts. Thank you for so many special memories.
Julie Heroff
February 9, 2006
Do you know I think of you often? Even when I’m so busy wrapped up in life, somehow I’m reminded of you. Sometimes I feel like you’re still around, that you’re just a phone call away. I hope you’re looking over me, still loving me today. Every once in a while I hear a song that reminds me of you. Your jubilant personality I won’t forget, you know I’ll never forget you. When I remember your sweet smile and your kind and gentle hands, I remember your lovable spirit and how you graced me with your presence. But now I can only look back and see the face that I once knew- it’s in a picture I hold close to my heart. My heart says “I love you.” Thanks for all you’ve done for me; you’ve shaped and changed my life. I love you and think of you often, and I hope that you’re alright.
Kristy Heroff
December 24, 2005
Merry Christmas (Eve) Eric. It will be very hard not seeing you today at Barb's.
David Swenson
December 22, 2005
Hey Buddy! MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Sure wish that I could say all the things I'd like to tell you in person but that's not possible. So here are some of my thoughts, the best way I can say them. You know that I'm not very good with words, especially when it comes to writing them down... but here goes.
Steve Kenser won the World of Outlaws again. Tony Stewart won the NASCAR Championship. Gordon and Jr. didn't make the top 10. Now, to the straight lines! Gary Scelzi won the Funny Car Championship and beat out John Force and Tony Schumacher won T.F. I thought you'd want to know this.
So much for racing. Just to let you know, I miss you and love you very much. I will always have you in my thoughts and prayers.
Always & Forever, Dad
P.S. Buddy, you will always be in our hearts. Love Barb, Star, Tony, Todd, Cory & Dustin. Bandit Too!
JUDY EILEK
November 23, 2005
HAPPY THANKSGIVING ERIC..A beautiful Soul has no other merit than it"s Existence....You exist forever Eric....LOVE YOU , HUGGS AND KISSES HONEY..........AUNT JUDY ................ iTS GETTING VERY COLD OUT ERIC, Tipicle minnesota ...talk soon
Diane Collins
November 21, 2005
As the designated day of giving thanks draws near, I think about my life today and how much it’s changed in just one year. We’ve had celebrations: weddings, your sister’s new home and welcomed a new baby into the family (we’re about to welcome another) and in the same token we’ve suffered a tragic loss and had to let you go.
I know that I have a lot to be thankful for, but I also realize that a part of me is missing and always will be. There will forever be a void in my heart. I am very thankful for my friends and family, who continue to support me through this journey of grief. I’m thankful for your contagious smile and your goofy sense of humor that always lifted me up (they still do now). I know that I only have to think of you to know that you’re here with me… in spirit. I am thankful and very proud that I got the privilege to be your mom for your 24 short years in this life. I will hold on to and cherish your memories forever. I love you Eric and miss you much. love, mom
Mathew Zrust
October 3, 2005
Rock, Hey man! Just thinking about you. Right now I'm at work about to head up to the stadium to play volleyball with the kids. I know you're there everyweek cheering us on while drinking a bud. Pitchers of beer are only 5 bucks, man that would get us in some trouble. We went to moose on your birthday to shoot some pool, and talk about all the fun times we had. I just wanted to write this to you just to let you know that I think about you everyday and I love you Erock. I'll see ya at the gates someday kid, I'll bring the 12'er!
family
Steve
August 11, 2005
To Eric:
Who would have guessed that a mere six months before your twenty-fifth birthday you would be taken so tragically from us?
I had the privilege to know you and have a relationship with you for almost a decade that was one of the most fulfilling in my life. So much has been said about your compassion, your maturity, your sense of achievement and your life. You had no idea how many people you touched. Truly, you were one of those souls who entered a person’s life and changed it, usually for the better. You had no idea how gifted your mind was. Our discussions betrayed a deep sense of wonder and exploration. You had no idea how much others looked up to you. The respect you garnered among your family and friends was worthy of Royalty. I sense that you would have been proud and somewhat astonished at the show of respect for you at your funeral. But I do hope that you knew how very much you were loved by everyone who knew you .
Your loss leaves a gaping hole which can never be filled, but as long as we have pictures we will have your image. And as long as we have tongues, we will have stories to tell. And as long as we are alive, we will always have your memory.
Relax, we’ll talk again.
Your loving (step)father,
Kate Heroff
August 11, 2005
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday dear Eric,
Happy Birthday to you!
Deloris Swenson
August 11, 2005
Today, August 11th, Eric you would have reached your 25th birthday if you handn't been taken from us so tragically. It is so hard to accept that I won't be able to enjoy and share in the many visits, the birthdays, holidays, and special events that would have taken place in your life time with each other. I miss that big dimpled smile and hugs whenever we get together and all the joy we've shared. I have always been proud of what a wonderful kind and thoughtful young man you've gown up to be and all the accomplishments you've made during the short time you were with us. Eric, you're always in my thoughts and prayers and will never be forgotten. God Bless.
Love,
Grandma Swenson (Deloris)
Gina Rens
August 4, 2005
To Eric's family and friends:
I want to extend my sympathy for your great loss. I have not seen or talked to Eric in over 10 years, but the news was a shock and I am very saddend by it. Eric was had a good heart and was fun-loving. Although I never had a chance to meet his family, he talked about you a lot when I knew him. I know he would be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.
Dad
July 28, 2005
Buddy,
You came into the world and left too soon. Remember your first five
birthdays? We celebrated with a Dukes of Hazzard birthday cake with the General Lee car on it. We had good times playing in the pool and camping at Pelican Lake and Orr, Minnesota.
Remember when I taught you how to ride your bike with training wheels and all? Buddy, remember when you were talking on the CB in my truck at Oakdale Apartments (MINNEHAHA MANOR)? You were trying to call me.
I will never forget how excited you were when you met Mike Schnider at
Race Way Park, and you got to sit in his race car. I'm sorry I had to leave when you were five years old to live in South Dakota, but remember when you, Mom, and Missy would pick me up at the Bus Depot so I could spend time with
you guys?
When I moved to Wisconsin we also had some good times. Remember
spending the summer here, meeting new friends, rollerblading, and riding bikes? We sure had fun at Cedar Lake Speed Way, four years straight for the Jerry Richard Memorial. Now this year it will only be me and my memories of
you.
Buddy, you're just like me. I got you into racing, being a mechanic,
and driving trucks. I never thought it would end this way. I'll always
cherish the sweatshirt you bought me at Princeton, our last race together.
Love,
Dad
P.S. I still wait every Friday between 10-11 AM for your phone call.
Diane Collins
June 25, 2005
A Memorial to Eric @ Daytona Int'l Speedway,
May 12, 2005
My Dear Son Eric,
I will never understand why you were taken from us so soon. I don't think I will ever totally accept losing you this way. My heart aches as each day passes and I realize that I won't be seeing your smiling face, talking to you about your day-to-day life, listening to you share your dreams, your goals; that I won't be hearing your voice on the other end of my phone, or will no longer be on the receiving end of one of your silly practical jokes; or giving you a hug and telling you that I love you.
I know that you left this world knowing how much we all love you; how very proud I was to call you my son; how much joy you brought into my life. From the time you were born, you were my comfort, my rock. Even when you were just an infant and my life was very difficult, you gave me strength when I felt weak, purpose when I wanted to throw in the towel, you gave me joy and happiness and more love than you'll ever know.
I hope you're doing okay wherever you are now. I'm supposed to believe that I'll see you again someday, in another life. I have to believe this. It's all that I have to hold onto. I know that whenever I do talk to you now, even though I can't physically see you, that you're here with me. I know that you're here with us now.
I wished you would have gotten the chance to come down here to Daytona on your own and never in a million years did I ever think of bringing you down here this way.
And know that as long as I am here breathing, your family will all know who you are- and you will never be forgotten. Your nephew Elijah and his brother or sister will learn all about you. We promise to share your stories, your memories, your life with each of them.
I know you're looking down on us and smiling right now. Rest well, Eric. I love you.
Mom
Shannon Felty
May 20, 2005
Eric-
My love, my friend, my everything. I will never know, understand or accept why this happened to such a good person. You are such a special man to me and we shared some wonderful times together. Although I know you will always be with me in spirit, I can't imagine what the rest of my life is going to be like with out you by my side. I made a promise to you a long time ago and that hasn't changed. I hope I can make you proud until we're toghter again. Diane, Missy, Steve, Cregg and the rest of Eric's family and friends, thank you all for being so wonderful. Eric spoke so highly about his family and friends and I can understand why. I love you all and if you ever need anything I can help with, please let me know. (651)983-7324
ashalee r
April 2, 2005
to my second family,
i still am not sure what to say i have been searching for words to say what i feel but i have come to realize there are no words that evan come close to what i feel. Eric i love with all my heart and i have known you my whole entire life through the good and the bad i hope your ok up there in heaven and i think about you constantly and i try to tell myself that you have gone to a better place and the other part of me gets mad at god for taking you away i am sorry and i hope you know how much i really do love you i am soooooo sorry eric, diane ,steve, missy, craig, eli
Heather Jaus
March 31, 2005
My condolences go out to Erics family. I didnt get the chance to get to know them that well, but just like him, they were all very good hearted people. I have many fun memories of Eric, and i know he will be missed by a lot of people!!
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