Estelle Getty

Estelle Getty obituary

Estelle Getty

Estelle Getty Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 22, 2008.
Estelle Getty, born on Jul 25, 1923 in New York City, New York, passed away on Jul 22, 2008 in Los Angelos, California.

Obituary

LOS ANGELES (AP) - Estelle Getty, the diminutive actress who spent 40 years struggling for success before landing a role of a lifetime in 1985 as the sarcastic octogenarian Sophia on TV's "The Golden Girls," has died. She was 84.

Getty, who suffered from advanced dementia, died at about 5:30 a.m. Tuesday at her Hollywood Boulevard home, said her son, Carl Gettleman of Santa Monica.

"Estelle always wanted to be an actress, and she achieved that goal beyond her dreams," former "Golden Girls" co-star Rue McClanahan told The Associated Press. "Don't feel sad about her passing. She will always be with us in her crowning achievement, Sophia."

"The Golden Girls," featuring four female retirees sharing a house in Miami, grew out of NBC programming chief Brandon Tartikoff's belief that television was ignoring its older viewers.

Three of its stars had already appeared in previous series: Bea Arthur in "Maude," Betty White in "The Mary Tyler Moor e Show" and McClanahan in "Mama's Family." The last character to be cast was Sophia Petrillo, the feisty 80-something mother of Arthur's character.

"Our mother-daughter relationship was one of the greatest comic duos ever, and I will miss her," Arthur said in a statement.

When she auditioned, Getty was appearing on stage in Hollywood as the carping Jewish mother in Harvey Fierstein's play "Torch Song Trilogy." In her early 60s, she flunked her "Golden Girls" test twice because it was believed she didn't look old enough to play 80.

"I could understand that," she told an interviewer a year after the show debuted. "I walk fast, I move fast, I talk fast."

She came prepared for the third audition, however, wearing dowdy clothes and telling an NBC makeup artist, "To you this is just a job. To me it's my entire career down the toilet unless you make me look 80." The artist did, Getty got the job and won two Emmys.

"The only comfort at this moment is that although Estelle has moved on, Sophia will always be with us," White said in an e-mail to The Associated Press.

"The Golden Girls" culminated a long struggle for success during which Getty worked low-paying office jobs to help support her family while she tried to make it as a stage actress.

"I knew I could be seduced by success in another field, so I'd say, 'Don't promote me, please,'" she recalled.

She also appeared in small parts in a handful of films and TV movies during that time, including "Tootsie," "Deadly Force" and "Victims for Victims: The Theresa Saldana Story."

After her success in "The Golden Girls," other roles came her way. She played Cher's mother in "Mask," Sylvester Stallone's in "Stop or My Mom Will Shoot" and Barry Manilow's in the TV film "Copacabana." Other credits included "Mannequin" and "Stuart Little" (as the voice of Grandma Estelle).

"The Golden Girls," which ran from 1985 to 1992, was an immediate hit, and Sophia, who began as a minor character, soon evolved into a major one.

Audiences particularly loved the verbal zingers Getty would hurl at the other three. When McClanahan's libidinous character Blanche once complained that her life was an open book, Sophia shot back, "Your life's an open blouse."

"I always told her she should be a standup comic. She was so funny in person," McClanahan recalled. "She would always say, 'Why couldn't we make these characters Jewish? Why am I Sicilian?'"

Getty had gained a knack for one-liners in her late teens when she did standup comedy at a Catskills hotel. Female comedians were rare in those days, however, and she bombed.

Undeterred, she continued to pursue a career in entertainment, and while her parents were encouraging, her father also insisted that she learn office skills so she would have something to fall back on.

Born Estelle Scher to Polish immigrants in New York, Getty fell in love with theater when she saw a vaudeville show at age 4.

She married New York businessman Arthur Gettleman (the source of her stage name) in 1947, and they had two sons, Carl and Barry. The marriage prevailed despite her long absences on the road and in "The Golden Girls."

Getty was evasive about her height, acknowledging only that she was "under 5 feet and under 100 pounds."

McClanahan said her nickname for Getty was "Slats."

"Because she was so short, itty-bitty," she said.

In addition to her son Carl, Getty is survived by son Barry Gettleman, of Miami; a brother, David Scher of London; and a sister, Rosilyn Howard of Las Vegas.


Copyright © 2008 The Associated Press

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March 9, 2025

You continue to make me laugh every night I go to sleep with the Golden Girls. You played the part of the Italian mother perfectly. Thank you for being you ! I hope The Golden Girls are never cancelled Thank you ALL Golden Girls!!!

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October 16, 2024

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Cast members of the television series "Golden Girls," pose for a photo, clockwise from left, Bea Arthur, Rue McClanahan, Betty White and Estelle Getty. (AP photo)

July 23, 2008

(12/25/1985) - Four veteran actresses, from left, Estelle Getty, Rue McClanahan, Bea Arthur and Betty White, from the television series "The " Golden Girls" are shown during a break in taping in Hollywood. (AP photo)

July 23, 2008

(8/28/1988) - Actress Estelle Getty displays the Emmy she won at the 40th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards in Pasadena, Calif. Getty won best supporting actress in a comedy series for her role in "The Golden Girls." (AP photo)

July 23, 2008

(1/29/1986) - In this Jan. 29, 1986 file photo, actress Estelle Getty poses in West Hollywood, Calif. (AP photo)

July 23, 2008

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July 22, 2024

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July 20, 2024

Happy heavenly birthday Estelle Getty

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April 13, 2024

Estelle: rip we liked you in golden girls.

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April 6, 2024

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October 11, 2023

I loved watching her on the show(The Golden Girls )she was so funny and will be missed.I´m so sorry for her families loss. I know you guys miss her.

Luff Spencer

August 24, 2023

You in haven parents

Lavone mobeck

May 21, 2023

She was so great so loved so missed. She was so great and will always be loved forever

Spencer luff

September 7, 2022

Loved the golden girls loved Sophie petrillo she my favourite golden girls I love her very nice actress my favourite movie stop or my mom will shoot love you rest in place Estelle Getty

Abel Gonzales Alvarez

April 23, 2022

I just loved her in the Golden Girls I love your character Sophia so feisty and so full of life so full of character Gone but definitely never forgot.

The golden girls

January 26, 2022

Rest in place remember golden girls
Bea Arthur Rue mc clanahan Estelle Getty
Betty white

andrew cason

February 24, 2021

dear estellle getty may god blessyou in heaven your friend andy

Jenifer Baribault

January 27, 2021

Thank you being a friend The Golden Girls Estelle played Sophia Dorothy's Mother which she was living in Blanche's house with daughter & Rose. What could i say about her that she was feisty, she made us laugh, talk about Sicily the way she begin with the story pictures this. Also, she was in the movie Stop or My Mother will shoot. We could catch the reruns of the Golden Girls on Hallmark channel 38, tvland 51. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

ANGELA E. HAMLIN

January 24, 2021

I REALLY LOVED HER ON THE GOLDEN GIRLS! SHE WAS ALWAYS SO FUNNY. AND HAD SOMETHING FUNNY TO SAY ABOUT DOROTHYS SITUATIONS AND ESPECIALLY BLANCHE. HAD ALL OF US LAUGHING ALL THE TIME!

Jo Blazer

January 15, 2021

Estelle Getty brought much joy to everyone who watched her on Golden Girls. She always put a smile on my face. I picture her up in heaven now with wings and a halo, looking down at us sayin “wait until you guys see this!!
Rest In Peace dear Estelle, we will see you on the other side. ✝

Tina Cortez

March 8, 2020

I have ALWAYS loved watching Estelle and the other ladies in The Golden Girls, ever since I was just a young teenager and I still to this day continue watching the show! May her beautiful soul rest in the peaceful paradise in Heaven forever. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS.

January 15, 2020

Thank you for being a friend... and being Ma.

Alicia McLaughlin

November 1, 2019

THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU ACHIEVED. YOUR LIFE WAS/IS AN INSPIRATION FOR ALL WOMEN. THANK YOU, MY FELLOW NEW YORKER. REST IN PEACE

Lugenea Goodwin-Simms

September 22, 2019

Always loved watching her. Seemed like a family member to me. We also have the same Birthday July 25.

Wande Arasi

September 1, 2019

I love all the "Golden girls". The ringtone on my phone is the theme song to the show. God bless Estelle Getty (RIP) and her family.

Donna Murtagh

August 5, 2019

My deepest Sympathy to the family of Estell Getty. Even though I didn't know her personally I was a huge fan of hers. I will miss her and the way she made me laugh. God bless her soul now and always.

March 25, 2019

Love her!

Steff LaFlash

November 11, 2018

You are still a big part of every Sunday morning and continue to make me laugh. Always in my thoughts & prayers.

cj kelley

July 27, 2018

Sophia you are my hero I love you. You always cheered. Me up even when my grandma past away thank you so much

July 27, 2018

Sophia you will always be missed and no body can replace you. You are one of a kind

Jessica Colt

July 22, 2018

Love to you forever Estelle Getty. Thank you for being our friend!!

STEVEN SCHOOLER

June 28, 2018

Estelle getty we watch goldon girls every morning and you were always very funny you and always coming up with wise cracks that is funny you will be missed by all rip

Maryrose Siemens

April 12, 2018

R.I.P. Ms Estelle..you will be greatly missed...loved your perkiness in go;den girls..prayers for family & friends.

Lisa Lithgow

March 23, 2018

Still funny after all these years. I feel like Estelle was family. All the girls family. RIP you beautiful talented funny lady... your legacy continues to this day as you still have more and more young fans watching and thinking... old people really are pretty cool.

Agustin Santos

March 14, 2018

I miss you so much

Tamika Burt

February 17, 2018

Thanks for the laughter you brought to us all..
RIP Estelle Getty


Love always Tamika Burt from Detroit, MI

Adriana Durrah

January 21, 2018

She brought warmth in my heart every night .I watched golden girls with her sarcastic and witty remarks. She will truly be missed by the world and especially me because the golden girls was and still is my favorite sitcom. RIP (Sophia) Estelle

January 1, 2018

I loved her so much she was so funny RIP Estelle Getty

Melissa Evans

December 22, 2017

I watch reruns on 'Laff' tv program show 'Empty Nest'. And, I loved you in Golden Girls. You are truly a funny and talented actress. Everyone needs a little laughter added to their lives, and you sure bring it. Thanks

Patti Cooper

November 26, 2017

I still watch your shows today . I would of never guessed you were Jewish!!!! Just loved you on Golden Girls my FavoriteRest in peace my dear

Susan Samek

October 9, 2017

Thank you for the laughs you sweet lady.

Gale Peetros

October 8, 2017

Miss you sophia

Ralph Preedy

September 25, 2017

RIP, Estelle! Thank you for the memories. Every time I watch "THE GOLDERN GIRLS" you make me laugh. LONG LIVE SOPHIA PETRILLO!!

Jodie Stanley

September 17, 2017

Love her she made that show.

Hazel Cooper

August 20, 2017

We see you daily on Golden Girls reruns, making us laugh, and seems like your still here with us...RIP sweet lady. Hazel NY

Bob Lord

August 5, 2017

Continue to sleep in peace ,Sophia lives on always we think of you every day Estelle

August 4, 2017

Glynda Soetebier

July 28, 2017

Nine years later you still warm my heart and fill it with laughter every time I see you on television.

Jocelyn

July 26, 2017

Because of you The character Sofia was amazing and I named my daughter after you. You are missed dearly. Jocelyn

Doreen Singer

July 24, 2017

RIP Estelle You still make me laugh daily

Elizabeth Schanz

June 30, 2017

Estelle you are truly missed. You are and have always been my favorite Golden Girl. I used to watch you every Saturday night and now in the reruns. Love you. RIP.

Gale Peetros

June 22, 2017

Rip Sophia you are missed little lady prayers to the family

Allie Meyer

June 13, 2017

Barry and Ally,

Sad to hear of your mother's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love your way, from your former neighbor you made dinner for the night before I moved to the northeast. Much love.

Tawaka Dalton

April 26, 2017

I Love the Golden Girls. I watch it every night . RIP Estelle Getty you made the show worth watching over and over again.

Nazarene McKinney

April 20, 2017

Thanks for the many laughs!

Peni Goursau

April 17, 2017

I can not thank you enough for the many yrs of laughter. The only way I can sleep at night is to watch Golden Girls which I've seen a millions times yet still laugh the same. I wake up watching u too. Estelle, u will always be my favorite GG. I ❤U! Our beautiful R.I.P

Kathy Hill

April 15, 2017

2017,still watching reruns.Best show ever!

March 13, 2017

I watch The Golden Girls all weekend. " you are the best". So funny. Celia Anderson

Tracy Vann

March 10, 2017

Estelle,

You did Sophia so well that your birth name is hardly relevant to the world. Please know that is meant as the highest compliment in that nobody could have done it better and you will forever be in our minds and hearts every single day for generations to come. You struggled to make your mark, but BOY did you make it stick! I watched you make my great-grandmother laugh, and trust me when I say she hardly had any reason to laugh. You are THAT good. Forever in my heart and a part of my life. Thank you is not enough. Love Eternally,
Tracy

Linda Ramos

January 24, 2017

You are the best. I love ya

Jeanne Adams

January 19, 2017

I just googled her name and found her story. I agree with every thing that was said. Estelle you brought us joy, Thank you.

Tammy Embry

December 17, 2016

MS. GETTY YOU REMINDED OF MY SWEET GRANDMOTHER. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE LAUGHTER AND THE HUMIR YOU GACE US MY PLAYING A SWEET LITTLE OLD MOM..

Gregory Smith

November 28, 2016

Rest in Peace, Estelle. I always love you

Darryl Boyd

November 20, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

jenny

September 9, 2016

Loved you on the Golden Girls....i watch it every day....RIP......I know you are making everyone laugh....

Elizabeth Ingram

August 13, 2016

Miss you dearly. Rest in heaven.

Starlesha B

July 18, 2016

Loved you on the Golden Girls. I watched it as a child with my grandmother. I still watch it as a adult everyday on the Hallmark chanel. Rest in peace Estelle ♡

Doreen Renzi

June 22, 2016

We will be forever greatful and lucky to have you in our homes. You made us laugh everyday. May you rest in peace . The Renzi Family

May 30, 2016

Buretta and Candy Powell

Denise Taira

May 29, 2016

heavenly father to pray about Estelle Getty. To show her the path in heaven and rest in peace.

Jason Hughes

April 21, 2016

I miss her She was amazing woman

Allison Dupont

March 8, 2016

Brilliant actress. Never forgotten, Rest in Peace, sweet Angel.

MAGGIE HUNEAULT

March 2, 2016

I am watching your mom on tv as I write this. What a wonderful, funny lady she was.

Christine Maryak

January 15, 2016

I still watch the show in the morning and at night on the Hallmark channel. I know every episode by heart! They all made a great team.

diane burns

November 24, 2015

I grew up watching Estelle play Sophia Ma on the Golden Girls and she deserved her Emmy for her role. She was one of my favorite actresses and will be sorely missed.-DIane BUrns Raleigh,Nc

Silvy Mary

October 7, 2015

"STOP! OR MY MOM WILL SHOOT"-lovely film,you make me always laught ...RIP sweet Estelle

andy cason

September 18, 2015

dear Estelle getty

paula williams

August 7, 2015

even though i am blind she raises my spirt up and makes me smile and to keep going

chris surrett

August 7, 2015

she always made me laugh

Rhonda Webb

July 24, 2015

You are still loved and missed by so many! Thank you for making us smile still

July 1, 2015

RIP

judy duda

April 28, 2015

RIP .I liked the sonny and cher episode the best. you were great.

B T

April 7, 2015

You bring so much laughter in our home every morning of everyday. God Bless you,and your family.

angel Douglas

April 4, 2015

U will always be remembered.

John Crowley

March 30, 2015

God bless you Sophia

March 15, 2015

RIP

N. Robinson

March 15, 2015

Your memory lives on forever. RIP, you are truly missed.

Heather Maxwell

March 8, 2015

To God be the glory, now and forever....

Toby Mcilwain

February 16, 2015

RIP Gone but not Forgotten.

april tinkham

February 15, 2015

We love you And miss you

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