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Autumn Paxton
June 28, 2023
Hey dad,
It´s my birthday! I can only imagine the type of cards you´d pick out. I am 22 years old now & have graduated college. I´ve gotten to work for the Braves the past two summers & I wish you could come see a game. I know you´d absolutely love it & think it´s so cool that I´m working in sports (even though it´s not UNC). Erin & Bizzy constantly tell me that I have your dry sense of humor so thank you because I think i´m a hoot. I hope you´re proud of all of us. I miss & love you so so much
Autumn Paxton
November 5, 2022
Hey dad,
Looks like Andrea & I had the same idea. This reminds me of the letter Kiersten & I wrote to you in heaven, but now it’s 2022 so we get to type it instead. I’m 21 years old now, which is the same age you were when you passed. Don’t worry though, I don’t have 3 kids and 1 on the way. I graduate college this December & I hope to teach elementary grades afterwards. I wish I could find the UNC shirt you always wore, but I think it was lost in the house fire. I’ll keep looking though just in case. I miss & love you more than anything
Andrea Paxton
August 16, 2022
Hey dad! Just wanted to tell you a few things. I'm Officially a sophomore this year! Yep, at John Battle too. The school is a little more strict this year but I think it will just take some time to get used to. Mom and I are getting closer which makes me feel better while i'm at home. You are still talked about if you wanted to know. I think about you too, i think about you all the time. Even though you aren't here, you're still the best dad in the entire world. It still hurts that you had to leave so soon but it's okay, I'll see you eventually. I hope you know that I love you and that you are very very missed. Grandmother and granddaddy are doing good, Elijah still goes over there every weekend to stay there with them. Autumn is a teacher now, crazy right? She teaches younger kids even though I think everyone agrees that she should teach a little older but whatever, it's her decision. Kiersten is in college too btw, she is a sophomore too. Shes doing good, i talk to her a lot. Elijah is a junior now, he won't let mom cut his hair even though she wants him to. He likes it long, Kiersten and I think it looks better too. Mom is still working at Arbys, shes really good at it but she hates being a manager. I did tech crew last year, I think Bizzy liked that i did. It was really fun but really stressful, I think it was worth it in the end. All of your daughters have boyfriends at the moment, I'll tell you more about that another day. I'm still friends with all the people i told you about last time, I am closer with Madison. Do you remember her? She was one of my friends from Fairmount, not that you were here for that but still. She is really cool, probably one of my best friends right now, i think you would've loved her. I love her a lot, she always listens to me talk about you, i tell her about you a lot. I wish you could meet all of my friends, they all know about you. Mostly because they always ask why my name is Ethan but that's not the point. I'm doing pretty good btw, better than last year. I still miss you more than anything (well and mamaw). I hope you can see me and are proud of what you see. i love you.
Andrea Paxton
October 18, 2021
Hey dad, its me Andrea. Its been awhile since you left. I have a lot to catch you up on. So I'm 14 Now, im a freshman in high school. Guess what, im in John battle. Im gonna graduate the same high school you did. Isnt that cool? I really like hoodies, especially oversized ones. I have pretty great friends. There is bonnie, my bestfriend, she was really there for me through mamaws death. There's baylie, she is really sweet, and cares about me a lot. There's Kinsey, she's really funny and loud, but she is there for me when I need her. There's gracie, i hang out with her a lot out of school, we have a lot of fun together. I have more but that would take forever. I love them all so much, I wish you were able to meet them. We just had a family reunion. It was really fun actually. I was 9 last time we had one, I wish you couldve been there. They played a video with a bunch of pictures in it, you were in a few of them. A lot of people cried, I didn't but grandmother did. She said that when she saw you with all of the older dead people that it made her tear up. Its shocking to see you with all of the older people that are gone, but your gone too. I wonder what life wouldve been like with you often. How different would it be? How different would I be? How different would mom be? Would I be happier? Would you and i have an amazing relationship? Would we be close? Would i be closer with mom? Really, how would it be? I know that I'll never find out because, well, your gone. It really hurts knowing that you never met me, and you never saw me. I would like to think that you would be proud of me. Everyone misses you. I know i never got to meet you but i miss you a lot. I know mom misses you too, she might not talk about you a lot but i think its just because it hurts still. I really hope you can see me and know that i miss you. I cant wait until I can finally meet my dad, most of my friends have dad's and talk about them. I know I make jokes about depressing things that happened to me but it really does hurt. Not having my dad hurts a lot. I wish you were here and we were an actual family. Everything has always been so complicated and I feel like with you it wouldnt have been. I miss you more than anything, i love you.
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Love,Lisa & Ronnie Parks
May 7, 2009
Bobbie-Sue,And kids,We did not know about Ethan's book back when, but since you had it put back on for the kids,I thought we would write and let you all know how very sorry we are,I know you, your self has never stopped loving or missing Ethan,but have had to move on and be strong for your family.But the hurt never goes away,no matter what.And as your Aunt & Uncle we are proud of you!Because it is the hardest thing to even cope,with everyday life. But one day, you will all be reunited in Heaven,and be a whole family once again. If he could see you all,he would be so proud!You always know where we are if you need us.We love you all.God Bless.
Love, Lisa & Ronnie Parks
May 6, 2009
Dear Ethan,It has been a long time since you went away, but those of us, who loved you, still miss you as if it was yesterday.
Time is suppose to make things easier but it dont take away the hurt,we all feel. I don't think nothing ever will. But you would be proud of Bobbie Sue, She has come a long way,to be that young and have two tragic times in her life, and she has really done a good job raising your all's kids, They are bueatiful and very polite,good kids. And Ron & Joann,help her and make sure they are always in Church,You would be so proud of all of them.I'll never forget the good ole times, when you and Bobbie used to walk to my trailor,and when we used to clean house,or mow the yard,I sure do miss you,But I know you and my Timmy are probably up there in Heaven riding motor-cycles or something fun,just waiting on us to get there! We miss and love you as always, Til we meet again one day,God Bless.
Richard Norris
December 2, 2006
Hello I am so sorry your son left this world , but Im sure he is in a better place awaiting our arrival as well someday . I didnt know him but I know his Father Ron from the auction . I hope you will be ok soon and if you need anything my friend let me know . my phone number is 423-299-1031 and you know where I live so come on by if you need or want to .
Erika Perry
November 30, 2006
Erin and family,
I am so sorry to here about your loss. I know that there aren't any words that could comfort right now, but wanted to let you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything at all that I can do please contact me. With deepest sympathy -Erika
Justina Browning
November 22, 2006
Paxton Family,
Im so sorry for what happened. Ethan was a nice guy. I met him at my church a few years back. Your family is in my prayers.
Amelia Smith
November 17, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. Ethan was a great guy, and he was like my brother. I am praying for you all, and I love you. Remember God gives grace in time of need, and the best part about his grace is that it is sufficient.
I love you and God Bless,
Amelia Elizabeth Smith
Psalm 23
Bradley Teets
November 17, 2006
Dear Paxton Family,
I am terribly sorry for your loss. You couldn't ask for a better friend or person in Ethan. He will be greatly missed and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers. Let God give you strength as you go on. And remember Ethan will always be looking down on you and helping you all along the way.
Anna Anderson-Hedges
November 16, 2006
I just want you all to know that I have been praying for you.
Cassie Stipes
November 15, 2006
I just heard the news and I am so sorry for your loss and the time that has past since last I have seen you all. If you ever need anything please call. 217-0548
Love you guys
Cassie Stipes (Greene) Hugh & Barbara's Greene's daughter
Candy Brent
November 15, 2006
I'm am sorry for your loss. I am Autumn's Girl Scout troop leader and if you need anything, do not hesitate to give me a call. The girls would like to do something for your family. Please let me know what we can do.
Annabeth Spivey
November 14, 2006
Dear Ron, Jo Anne and family, We just heard about Ethan and we are devastated to hear of your loss. May God's grace wrap itself around you and comfort your hearts. Our words are so insufficient... but He is not. We love you! Annabeth, Mark and Laura
alicia elam
November 14, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Stephanie Keen
November 14, 2006
May God keep you in His care and give the comfort, peace, and grace that only He can. I live up the street from where you guys used to live on Barker Ln. I remember Ethan and Evan along with Chris playing basketball in the driveway and it seems like only yesterday. We never know what is going to happen in our lives, that is why it is important to have God to be able to turn to during our trials and sorrows because He understands. I'll keep you in my prayers and am deeply saddened for your loss. God bless and keep you under the shelter of His wings.
Lacey Smith
November 14, 2006
God's Grace is sufficient, His peace passes all understanding, His love is unfailing.
My prayer is that you find this to be true now more than ever.
I love you guys. You have my prayers and thoughts
Jon Morrison
November 14, 2006
I'm so sorry for your loss Bobbi, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peggy Watkins
November 13, 2006
Bobby and Family.
I'm so sorry to here about your lost
God is there in the dark. He is holding on to you. Take his hand and he will get you through. all my love and prays.
MABEL RUBLE
November 13, 2006
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
In your time of grief may GOD and your memories bring you comfort. If
there is anything that we can do to help you and your family please call. God bless and keep to close .
Your Friend ,Mabel Ruble and Everyone From US SOLUTIONS GROUP
Sara Carrier
November 13, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about Ethan, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ashley blevins
November 13, 2006
My God be with you and the kids in your time of need.
Jennifer Price
November 13, 2006
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Bobbi, you know if you need me for anything at all, I'm just a phone call away. I'm always here for you and my heart goes out to you.
Bucky Phillips
November 13, 2006
Ron and Joann,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine the hurt, but you know as well as I how much our Father hurts for you, and will provide comfort for you daily.
We miss seeing you guys and wish we could be there to share the pain.
Your friends,
Bucky and Nora
La'Tasha Venable
November 13, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need, Bobbie, hun if you need anything call me.
desirae luchini
November 13, 2006
i am so sorry for your loss. ethan was a great person and will be missed dearly. you all are in my prayers.
Jamie Overbey Kress
November 13, 2006
Jo Anne, Ron and family,
I am thinking of you during this time and I pray that God will send you a special word of comfort. I wish I could be there in person to let you know of my support and prayers but I am too far away. Please know a special song has been lifted up for you and I deeply care.
Love to you,
Misty Simerly
November 13, 2006
Bobbi,
Hi it's Misty I worked with you at US Solutions I am so sorry to hear about Ethan I know that you loved him dearly. If there is anything you need please let me know. Your kids are always welcome to come keep Jordyn company if you need some time by yourself I can only imagine what you are going through. Please dont hesitate to ask for anything. You are in my heart and prayers.
Nora Phillips
November 13, 2006
Dear Ron & Joann,
So sorry to hear about your son. We can't begin to understand or feel your emotions, but know how we hurt for you!
You will be in our prayers and thoughts. Just remember (and I know you will) that Jesus is there for comfort.
Love you guys,
Nora & Bucky Phillips
Lindsay Odum
November 13, 2006
I love you and I am praying for you. If you need nething at all let me know.
Rebecca Nunez-Collins
November 13, 2006
Dear Joann, Ron, and Family,
Firstly, be assured of our prayers and know that God is not surprised by this event.
Secondly, know that we love you as if it were yesterday and we were all still at Calvary Baptist and you all were still livng beside Jim and Pam.
And lastly, it won't be long now until our glorious Lord comes back and we are all reunited with those we love.
God is good all the time and all the time God is good. Our prayer is He gives you an incomparable peace and wraps you in His big loving arms and holds you close.
If we can be of any help do not hesitate to contact us (228)669-6014.
In Christ,
Chaplain Joe, Becky, and Carter Collins
sarah widner-lewis
November 13, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Audrey Kelsey
November 13, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss. I went to school with Ethan and he also went on trips with my youth group at church. He will be very missed. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless. Audrey Kelsey
Barry Hinkle
November 13, 2006
So So Sorry to hear of your loss,God be with you and yours.
Rachael Epperson
November 13, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Ethan was such a great person and a friend. May god watch over and bless your family at this time.
Denise,Kenny and Caleb Beverly
November 13, 2006
Ron, Jo Anne, Erin,Evan and Elizabeth,
I was so shocked to read about Ethan this morning. I immediately had remembrances of keeping the boys a few times when they were small. It seems like yesterday. Only the Lord can comfort you through this time and only He can bring the healing. We will be praying for your family and all those who will be touched by this sorrow.
Marlene Osborne & Chris Combs
November 12, 2006
Ron and Joann,
We are so sorry for yours and your family's loss. Ethan, Evan and Chris had so many fun years together. We just can't imagine what your family is going through.
Royce and Vista Ingram
November 12, 2006
We are terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Ethan. Ron and Joann - and the rest of the family - we will be thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers.
Sheena Kilgore (Hawkins)
November 12, 2006
Ethan was a great friend of mine and we had so much fun together in school! It is a very tragic thing to loose such a great person! You are in our prayers and we are very sorry to hear about your loss!
Carol Stamper
November 12, 2006
Ron, Joann and family
There are no words to express the sadness at such a loss. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.
Dean Hawkins
November 12, 2006
Dear Family and Friends,
I'm still in shock to hear about Ethan. My prayers go out to his wife Bobbie Sue, his children, his parents, his sisters, and brother.
Ethan was such a blessing to have in my life and it was a privelege to be his youth pastor. We shared a lot of laughs together and had a lot of fun at places like Taco Bell. Along with the fun we had together, I've also never had a student who would call and ask me to take him out "visiting" other students on such a regular basis as much as Ethan.
The peace for me in all of this is in knowing that we'll be together in Heaven for eternity because of our personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
May the Lord give you a peace that passes understanding as you turn to Him during this tragic loss.
Your brother and friend in Christ,
Dean G. Hawkins
Peggy Barker
November 12, 2006
Tnere are no words to express the sorrow being felt at this time by Ethan's Family. Comfort & Healing can come only from God. We do not know why God chooses to let happen what happens, all we can be sure of is that God is always in control and knows what is best. There will be a time of mourning & sadness, Jesus is weeping with you over your loss. Turn to God for comfort and he will reach out his arms & hold you while you weep.
Our Prayers Are With All of You....REMEMBER GOD IS WITH YOU
Benny Buckles
November 12, 2006
With our deepest sympathy, we are praying and have been praying for your family.
Benny, Trish, Jacob and Joseph Buckles
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