Eugene Thomas Connolly, Jr.

1931 - 2024

Eugene Thomas Connolly, Jr. obituary, 1931-2024, New Haven, CT

Eugene Thomas Connolly, Jr.

1931 - 2024

BORN

1931

DIED

2024

Eugene Connolly, Jr. Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 6, 2024.
Eugene T. Connolly, Jr. (1931-2024)

Eugene T. Connolly, Jr., passed away peacefully after a brief illness on February 2, 2024, just shy of his ninety-third birthday. The love and cheer he shared with his family and friends, his deep faith, and his appreciation for culture and conservation fueled many years.

The son of Ellen Louise (Lane) and Eugene T. Connolly, Gene was born on February 25, 1931, and raised in the sailing capital of Marblehead, Mass. He graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy, Yale University, and New York University Graduate School of Business Administration. In 1959, he and Virginia ("Bunny") Yates married, then lived in Maine before settling in Redding, Conn., where they proudly nurtured a family of six (not including many pets) atop Meeker Hill, where fields, fauna, and fun filled nearly five decades.

In 1991, Gene retired after a successful career as vice president of Citytrust Bank in Bridgeport, but he continued to dedicate his wisdom and energy to many organizations, including the Redding Land Trust, Redding Historical Society, Friends of Kensington Playground (New Haven), and local political campaigns.

A year after his bride of 54 years passed, Gene moved back to "The Elm City," where he enjoyed every day, including activities at his University Towers, nearby St. Thomas More Chapel, and across the Yale campus-meetings, lectures, operas, museum exhibits, hockey games, and more. And he engaged with everyone along the way, from flaggers to pharmacists. His volunteer efforts and leadership throughout his life enriched his communities with contributions that will remain long after his departure.

He is survived by his six adoring children and their spouses, Rachel Hart Connolly (Steve Kwack), Nicholas Duffy Connolly (Mariluz Medina), Deirdre Lane Coughlin (Crosby Coughlin), Virginia Butler Connolly (Owen Cocking), E. Thomas Connolly (Pam Richards), and Andrea Connolly Peabbles (Frank Peabbles); 14 grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

Sincere thanks to the staff members at University Towers, Yale-New Haven Hospital and The Grimes Center for their wonderful care. A memorial service will be held in April at St. Patrick's Church, Redding, with a reception to follow nearby. In lieu of flowers, a donation to Save the Sound or the Redding Land Trust may be considered. As Captain Gene would say, Alleluia and Blessings to All! His friendship, enthusiasm, and stellar toasts-along with his harmonica-will be greatly missed but fondly remembered.

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April 21, 2024

James Thurmond posted to the memorial.

March 1, 2024

Bernadette DiGiulian posted to the memorial.

February 26, 2024

Paul Hertelendy Ph.D., Exeter 1949 posted to the memorial.

James Thurmond

April 21, 2024

My daughter truly enjoyed and appreciated her relationship with Eugene : she graduated from Yale in 2019: He was a delight to her and she loved his stories! The father of Constance Thurmond : James Thurmond

Bernadette DiGiulian

March 1, 2024

My husband Leo and I loved being with Gene. We happened to have the same night´s tickets at Yale Rep. We sometimes walked him home part way. I saw him at various hockey games and we had great hockey chats. We are a big hockey family so it was fun to hear his tails about his hockey days. Most of all we saw him regularly at ST. Thomas More, the Yale Catholic Chapel where he was a faithful member of our church community. He and I were good friends and when I was the organizer of the brunch time after Mass, he was a faithful participant and helper. I miss him much. A wonderful man!

Paul Hertelendy Ph.D., Exeter 1949

February 26, 2024

No one ever loved life more than the Gene I knew at Exeter (1945-49), and in many emails of recent vintage. Never flagging in commitments, Gene cast the essential vote in electing our new 1949 class president, barely a month before his own passing! What a rare individual, uplifting both sailboats and our spirits! simultaneously!

Skip Madden

February 26, 2024

Gene and I met in summer of 1945 before we matriculated at Exeter and remained friends, bonding through sailing, over the rest of his life. A good man of character and warmth.

Gregg McNally

February 19, 2024

I always so enjoyed our spirited conversations during family gatherings. My sincere condolences to all of Genes family

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Anne and Richard Kimball

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George Hamilton

February 12, 2024

We got to know Gene and Virginia through the Redding Pony Club where our daughters were active participants. Visiting the Connollys was like stepping back to the old world, to Ireland itself. The timbered and stucco house, the furnishings, old country windows, a day-long fire lingering in the fireplace and the view out the window was pastoral. Gene always had a ready smile, a genial wit, crooked grin and twinkle in his eye. He was a treasure.

Cheryl and Ron Damiani

February 11, 2024

We knew Gene from St Thomas More. Quite the character! So glad our paths crossed. He was a treasure.

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Lynn Eikenberry

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Mary Wixted

February 8, 2024

What a beautiful obituary, an extraordinary life and a wonderful father. Love and condolences to the Connelly family.

Mary McInerney

February 8, 2024

Gene, my neighbor, greeted everyone with a smile and a wish for a happy

day. Dear friend you will be missed. Mary McInerney

Stephanie Gregory

February 8, 2024

Everytime we met Gene would check in on the family, share a story, a smile, and I would walk away remembering you ALL, ponies, Virginia, geese,Nicolas's cow, spinning wool, the beautiful home on Meeker Hill, the english country vista in the back. The tweed blazer and ascot wearing, sharp mind, sparkle-eyed true gentleman I will always remember Stephanie Hamilton Gregory

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