EUGENIA CONLEY "JEAN" BROKAW

EUGENIA CONLEY "JEAN" BROKAW

EUGENIA BROKAW Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 11, 2011.
Brokaw, Eugenia "Jean" Conley, died peacefully and in the company of family members and care-givers at her home in Laguna Hills, California, Wednesday evening, November 9, just four days short of what would have been her 94th birthday. She is survived by three sons: Tom and his wife Meredith of New York City, Bill of Denver and Mike and his wife Beth of Dana Point, California. She was "Grandma Jean", a powerful and wise influence on five grandchildren and a niece, Gretchen Moore of Warsaw, Indiana. During the Christmas, 2010, holidays her family celebrated Grandma Jean's life in Newport Beach, California, with a festive gathering that included her grandchildren - Pat and Kristen of Orange County, Dr. Jennifer Brokaw of San Francisco, Andrea Brokaw of New York City, Sarah Brokaw of Santa Monica; her nephew, Dick Brokaw; and seven great-grandchildren. Jean had been living in Orange County since the death of her husband, Anthony "Red" Brokaw in March 1982. They had been married since 1938 and lived in several communities in their home state of South Dakota and the midwest during Red's career as a skilled operator of heavy construction equipment. During her California years, Jean continued her association with P.E.O. and became an enthusiastic fan of the Los Angeles Lakers, and the California Angels. She was a regular at weekly bridge games in the retirement community of Laguna Woods and traveled widely, taking trips to Europe, through the Panama Canal, Hawaii and along the Alaska Coast Line. Jean began life on her father's small farm in northern South Dakota where she lived the 20th Century version of little house on the prairie. She often recalled the joys and virtues of being self reliant from an early age when she helped with the harvest and daily chores. Following her elementary and junior high education in a one room rural school house her family lost the farm during the great depression and moved to Andover, S.D. where Jean graduated from high school at the age of sixteen. She hoped to become a journalist but the cost of college was prohibitive so instead she became a lively family commentator and informal historian on the seismic changes she had witnessed, from the Great Depression to World War II, from the Cold War to Vietnam, from kerosene lamps to the internet, from the Model T to space travel. Through it all she was a mother lode of civility, wise counsel and good humor for her immediate family and the many surrogate family members who over the years were attracted to her warm and generous personality.

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November 18, 2011

Dear Tom, Bill, Mike, and Families,

Thank you for sharing some of the meaningful highlights of your mother's life! They are very similar to my dear mother's life experiences. She passed away on September 9, 9:00 a.m. CST, 2011 - 9-9-9- at age 99! (Obit. www.MyersMortuary, Lebanon IN)

I am certain that there is a 'mother-sized hole' in your hearts, that can never be filled! May the many marvelous memories that you have of her, far surpass the pain of not having her earthly presence! When you are missing her so, just look Heavenwardly, and see her walking hand-in-hand with God, with a smile on her face! May God grant all of you comfort and a peace that passes all understanding!

In Deepest Sympathy and Prayers,
Peggy Lindley Ewing, Anaheim
714 -635-6686
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Tom, my mother, Martha Drew Lindley was Daphne Kelley Cavin's best friend. You interviewed Daphne, widow of Raymond Kelley, for your book, "The Greatest Generation."
(Such an outstanding book for us of THAT generation - Thank you!)
Her daughter Nancy Cavin Pitts, has now written a book about her mother's early years and her marriage to Raymond, who was killed at Normandy. The title of her book is "When You Come Home," based upon the poem Daphne sent to Raymond, while he was overseas. It can be ordered through Amazon.com.

Robert McQueen

November 16, 2011

We have fond memories of Mr. & Mrs. Brokaw from the time we lived in Pickstown, SD (1953-1955) We are sorry for your loss. They were wonderful people.
Robert & Mary Jo McQueen
Mission Viejo, CA

November 12, 2011

Dearest Brokaw Family,
My sincere condolences to you all on the passing of your Mother. I have been a follower of the Brokaw family since Tom's early days on the local news. I never met your mother but,it was always nice to know she was nearby. By the thoughts others have expresed, she was a dear friend and the very "heart" of your family. Nothing will ever take the place of a Mothers love.
With warm thoughts,

Judith Sutliff Tustin, California

Patrick Brokaw

November 12, 2011

My mind has been full of the rich experiences and memories I have with Grandma Jean. We are ever grateful for the profound influence she has had on our family...and those who knew her. In many respects we were all "winking buddies" who treasured her "critiques" on a range of topics. One can readily picture a continuation of these attributes as she joins Grandpa Red, her sister, parents and others who embrace her arrival on the other side of the veil. In perfect body and mind she is now at peace. We love you and will miss you until we meet again at the Saviors feet.

Ron Sullivan

November 11, 2011

My condolences to Jean's family. I only got to know her during her retirement years at Villa Valencia and found her to be a warm and friendly person. From her "winking buddy", Ron Sullivan

November 11, 2011

we will miss you as a neighbor and always as a friend.Vern will especially miss your weekly critiques.Our hearts go out to all your family for their loss. Vern & Mary Lou Caumiant

Lyla Wrobel

November 11, 2011

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
My family and I have very fond memories of Jean.
She was a lovely woman; very gracious and generous to our family.
We loved her.
Sincerely,
Lyla Rowley Wrobel

Michele Huchtmeier

November 11, 2011

Tom and family,
Red and Jean both were a fixture of my childhood as we were backyard neighbors. I remember so many days walking home from school to find your dad in the garage working on one of his many magnificent creations. Your mom ALWAYS had lemon drops on hand for our visits.
I remember interviewing your dad for a term paper I wrote in the 6th grade. They promised me a dinner at The Library restaurant in Yankton if I got an "A", which I did.
They were both the kind of people who will forever leave an impression on your heart, and be a part of who you are as a person going forward.
I think of you and your girls often as I have thought of Jean over these years.
Wishing you all peace and joy in your memories of the lifetime you've shared together.
Michele Stewart Huchtmeier

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