Ferman Richard "Dick" Heckman

Ferman Richard "Dick" Heckman obituary, Decatur, IL

Ferman Richard "Dick" Heckman

Ferman Heckman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 16 to Oct. 17, 2011.
DECATUR - Ferman Richard (Dick) Heckman departed this life peacefully on Friday, October 14, 2011 in St. Mary's Hospital, surrounded by love and family. Dick was born in Decatur IL on May 16, 1932, the son of Ferman R. Heckman and Dorothy Hayes Heckman. He attended Macon High School and Decatur High, graduating in 1950. He served his country in the United States Air Force, stationed at Mountain Home AFB in Idaho. On April 3, 1952, he married the girl who would share every moment of the rest of his life, Phyllis Ann Moran, in Decatur. After leaving the Air Force, he worked at PermaCell, Macon Arms, and Quigle's Furniture, where he rose to the position of Office Manager. In the early 1960s, Dick and Phyllis moved their young family West, where Dick held management positions with the Albertsons Corporation in Billings MT and the Stevens-Fryberger Company in Sheridan WY. After returning to Decatur, he spent many years working at Harry Appelbaum's and Wagner Castings. In 1981, after recovering from a near-fatal heart attack several years earlier, Dick started his own company, Heckman Healthcare. Working out of their garage and delivering large oxygen tanks in a station-wagon, Dick and Phyllis built a business that would, at one time or another, employ every one of their children and most of their grandchildren. In the late 1980s, Dick and Phyllis "retired" to Tennessee, opening Heckman Hardware in Fairfield Glade TN. Due to health considerations, they returned to Decatur in 1998. Dick remained a vital part of Heckman Healthcare for the remainder of his life, and was active in the business until his health forced him to actually retire in 2010. He always was very appreciative of all of the employees of Heckman Healthcare, current and former, who worked to make the business what it is today. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus #577, Board Member of St. Mary's Oncology Advisory Committee and past President of the American Heart Association. Dick loved his family, his friends, helping others, good food, traveling, and the Chicago Cubs. Only the Cubs disappointed him, but he was pretty sure that next year was going to be The Year. He worked hard and earned his rest, but each of us lives on in the memories of those who have loved us. Dick will live on in the loving memory of his wife, Phyllis, of Decatur; his sons, Anthony Heckman (Adeline) of Warrensburg IL, Daniel Heckman (Peggy) of Decatur, John Heckman (Linda) of Maroa IL; daughters Margie Heckman of Scottsdale AZ and Julie Page (Doug) of Decatur; brothers Wesley Heckman, Sr. of Decatur and Tony Lopez of Laramie WY; Sisters-in law Kelly Flores Heckman of San Jose CA and Sandy Moran Miller of Boise ID; grandchildren Eric Heckman of Lafayette IN, Denise Holtzscher of Dixon MO, Naomi Johnson, Whitney Heckman, Maya Heckman, Adam Heckman and Katie Heckman of Decatur, Zachary Heckman of Chicago, Nicholas Heckman of Forsyth, Benjamin Heckman of Kailua HI, and Selena Harris of Monterey CA; nine great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; step-mother Mamie Pauline Heckman; brothers Billy Heckman and Dallas Heckman; sister Patricia Beasely. Dick's family would like to offer its sincerest thanks to Drs. Rademacher, Dawood, Hasnain and Qureshi and the staff at Fresenius for all of the help that they provided. The family would also like to commend every single part of St. Mary's staff for the care they gave to Dick, from the Valet Parking attendants to the dietary staff to the floor nurses to the therapists, with a very special thanks to Dr. Reyes, the nurses in ICU, the 6th floor staff (particularly Cindy, Sheila and Amy) and Gary Powell. Dick considered all of the staff at St. Mary's part of his family, and at points during the last few years actually spent more time with them than his real family. But he was very specific when he instructed us to thank Dr. Manohar Kola, along with Tamara, Janelle, Fidel and the rest of the staff at Prairie Cardiovascular for the care they showed him throughout his illnesses. Dick firmly believed that no physician has ever shown more love and care for a patient than Dr. Kola showed him; and, since Dr. Kola had managed to keep him alive much longer than anyone had considered possible, considered him the smartest guy on the planet as well as a very good friend. The family will receive friends Monday, October 17, 2011 from 3 to 7 p.m. at the Moran & Goebel Funeral Home; vigil prayer service will be at 2:30 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be 12 p.m. Tuesday, October, 18, 2011 at Holy Family Catholic Church, Rev. Joe Molloy celebrant. Burial will be in Mt. Gilead Cemetery. Memorials: American Heart Association, American Cancer Society, or Holy Family Church. The Heckman family is being served by the Moran & Goebel Funeral Home, honored provider of Veterans Funeral Care, 2801 N. Monroe St., Decatur, IL 62526. Send condolences and share memories with the family at: www.moranandgoebel.com. Mission Accomplished, Dad. You've earned your rest! Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at http://legacy.com/obituaries/herald-review/

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October 27, 2011

Linda & Bob Van Hook posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2011

American Heart Association posted to the memorial.

October 17, 2011

nikki peck posted to the memorial.

Linda & Bob Van Hook

October 27, 2011

Tony, Addie, & family, We were so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

American Heart Association

October 18, 2011

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

nikki peck

October 17, 2011

I was privlidged to care for Mr. heckman as a pt. many years. If I was having a bad day he brought the joy back to me very quickly. My thoughts & prayers go to his family.

Sally Van Hyning (Hedenberg)

October 17, 2011

May God's Peace be with you all! I remember right after I had Jacob, we took him to Chrysler field, where the Heckman sponsored team was playing ball. Jim grabbed the carrier Jake was in and climbed the stands, tripping. Dick grabbed me up, turned me around, sat me down, and said "He is alright, Daddy is just a little excited." Dick always had a way of making everyone feel welcome and that he truely cared about them... What a blessing he was and always will be to this world! Sally

Viv Wisdom

October 17, 2011

My condolaences to your family and friends, I know you will be missed.

October 17, 2011

Margie ~ You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Carol Klee

Michelle Bovyn

October 17, 2011

I was priviledged enough to have had Mr. Heckman as a patient. it saddens me to hear of his passing. He always had a great sense of humor and was smiling even when he was having a hard time. May God Bless you all and keep you as you mourn your loss.

Gary Walker

October 17, 2011

Danny & Family, I offer my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Loved One. Continue to trust God with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding. God is Merciful.

Bette Myers

October 16, 2011

Phyllis & family: So sorry. Dick was always like the boy next door to me. I am really proud of him. His family was first then his customers. Had a great sense of humor. I always thought he was a good example of what just one guy could do.Thanks to the family for making him proud. Love to you all.

October 16, 2011

Dear Heckmans,
Thank you for letting me a part of your life.
Love, Gary A. Eichel

Lacey McConkey

October 16, 2011

I had the pleasure meeting and caring for Dick. All of his stories were about his family and how proud he was of everyone. Wishing you peace in knowing Dick is still watching over his family.
With Sympathy,

October 16, 2011

It was a long hard road. Dick. And you are gone much too soon.But you kept up the good fight for Phyllis and your kids. May your angel wrap you in her comforting wings. Know that you are loved and missed so terribly. Pat Lowrey

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