Gabriel Alexander Whooley

1999 - 2017

Gabriel Alexander Whooley obituary, 1999-2017, San Anselmo, CA

Gabriel Alexander Whooley

1999 - 2017

BORN

1999

DIED

2017

Gabriel Whooley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 19, 2017.
Gabriel Alexander Whooley 1999-2017 Gabriel died suddenly and tragically on December 14, 2017. The beloved son of his mother, Monica Whooley, the light of her life; the son of John Montoya; the cherished nephew of Mary Whooley, James Gross, Patricia and Wlodek Kulawiak, James Whooley, Zana Zefi, John and Moriah Whoolilurie; the dear grandson of his late Grandmother, Mary Aquinas McClafferty Whooley, the dear grand nephew of Therese McClafferty, Isidore and Garvin Kelly, Gabriel was adored by his cousins, Nicholas, Paul, Mark, Olivia, Anne, Timothy, Joseph, Liam, John and Mary. A senior at Sir Francis Drake High School, he was loved by his classmates, teachers and counselors. Gabriel belongs to a large extended family that extends to Ireland, England and Australia. Gabriel was known to all as a kind and gracious being, thoughtful in his ways, meticulous in his actions. He had a curious mind; a passion for science and life. Gabriel was happy and free while camping in the mountains with his cousins, exhilarated while riding his bike with his friends, artistic and talented in his creations with rocks, wood and clay, courteous when he spoke to his teachers and counselors, earnest in his ambitions to better this wild and dangerous world. We are broken by the loss of our precious boy. May perpetual light shine upon him and all of us as we honor his life with love. Services will be at St. Rita's Catholic Church in Fairfax, California on Wednesday, December 20th, 2017. Silent vigil from 5:00 to 5:45 pm, followed by a funeral service beginning at 6:00 pm. In Gabriel's honor, please donate to the Gabriel Whooley Memorial at the American Society for the Prevention of Suicide. [email protected] Monte's Chapel of the Hills San Anselmo 415-453-8440

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December 13, 2019

Lara Starr posted to the memorial.

December 3, 2018

Tamara Brown posted to the memorial.

August 8, 2018

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Lara Starr

December 13, 2019

Remembering Gabe on his Yahrzeit, he and Monica are in my thoughts often.

Tamara Brown

December 3, 2018

Dear Monica,

I just heard the news that you lost Gabe last year. I am so sorry. I remember hanging out with our boys when they were young. You were such a dedicated and loving mother. He was a lovely boy, and I'm so sorry that he was taken from our world far too early. I would love to connect with you if you would like to be in contact. [email protected].

With much grief and the knowing that we are all connected forever and always through Love and LIght.

Tamara

August 8, 2018

Monica: please contact me. Lucinda

Gabriel (on left) and Kai in Sunset Halloween Parade. They were little buddies.

Laurie Mason

February 19, 2018

Amy Likover

January 16, 2018

Monica,
Your son was beautiful, your recollections are earthshakingly descriptive and lovely, and I mourn with you for this wonderful child. Knowing you as a colleague, I better understand how such a son would develop and bless so many with his being. These are the memorable people, the ones we turn to for inspiration, though his time was brief, he has made a difference with all of us. Thank you for generously sharing.
Fondly,
Amy Likover

On their way to Folsom in 104 degree heat

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January 1, 2018

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Jenny Weiss

December 31, 2017

Dear Monica,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Gabe was clearly a star, and you are clearly an amazing mother. We are sending warm thoughts and prayers to you.

Carolyn Garriott

December 27, 2017

For your beautiful boy.

With deepest sympathy,

December 25, 2017

We have a new angel watching after us...

Michelle Gonzalez

December 23, 2017

Dear Monica, we only met briefly when I subbed for Suzanne Sayset. Please accept my most sincere condolences on the sad occasion of your son's death. Heartfelt prayers, Michelle Gonzalez

Christie Lucido

December 22, 2017

This is a tremendous loss for you and for all of our community. This world will never be the same without this dear sweet young man. He will forever live in our hearts and in the stories that my son will tell again and again about his friend - a friend he could count on and laugh with and look up to.

Maureen Murphy

December 22, 2017

Dearest Monica:

Only heard the news last nite... I am heartbroken for you ... and all the family...reading the passages of others one knows what a lovely young man .. how could he be any different coming from your family...Many prayers are going your way Monica.... Maureen

Tristan

December 22, 2017

Such a good guy and such a loss to us all. So, sorry for your family and his many friends. He was kind, hard-working and beloved. May his spirit live on.

Michelle Stuart

December 22, 2017

Sending prayers and love
so sorry for your loss, LOVE never dies

Cherie Klein

December 20, 2017

Dear Monica and family,
The memorial tonight was a beautiful heartbreaking tribute to a lovely person. What came through from your family and from the larger commmunity was the power of love. It's a testament to the kind of person Gabe was that so many people came together to remember him and say goodbye. It was an honor to be there to remember, to cry, to sing, to pray.

I have some fond memories of Gabe from school field trips when the kids were younger, and have been impressed by the young man he was becoming.

Please know we share your grief...and hope that the outpouring of love will make the coming days and weeks more bearable.

Liz Hume

December 20, 2017

Monica- I send you all my love during this time of unbelievable grief.

Joe Stewart

December 20, 2017

Monica, May you find strength in your community and the memories of your too short time together. You are such a kind a gentle soul. So terribly sorry.

Faris & JD Griffin

December 20, 2017

We are heartbroken and so sorry for your loss. Gabe was and always will be a wonderful young man. With love, The Griffins

KA Russek

December 20, 2017

We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Although we didn't know him, his passing is everyone's loss. The Russeks

December 20, 2017

The SRHS community is deeply saddened by the loss of Gabe, and are holding you and your family close to our heart. With love.

Glenn Dennis, Principal, San Rafael High.

Katherine Wholey

December 20, 2017

Simply heartbroken for you, Monica, and all your family. All my love,
Katherine

David g Smith

December 20, 2017

I didn't know Gabe,but as the theatre person at his high school, I am profoundly effected by the fact that one person can have such a stunning effect on the world of Drake High. Gabe was part of us....and we of him.
Much love and light coming to you.

Cherie Salman

December 20, 2017

So so sorry. Prayers for peace to Gabriel's family, and friends.

Barbara Petty

December 20, 2017

Dearest Monica,

Jim, Patrick and I are grieving the loss of your sweet boy Gabriel. He was such a good friend, and such a clever and adventurous kid. We will never forget all the good times our boys had together.

Sending you love and light Monica.

Jaime Hoffman

December 20, 2017

Monica,
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry. I have the sweetest memories of Gabe playing with Will. Will loved Gabe. He felt so cared for and had so much fun with him. I'm holding you in my heart.
All our love,
Jaime and Will

Gwynaeth Atwood-Pettit

December 20, 2017

From one mother to another, I send you all the comfort possible at this unimaginably difficult time.

Lara Starr

December 20, 2017

My heart aches for Monica and all of Gabe's family and friends. His time here mattered very much, and we will continue to tell his story.

December 20, 2017

I am weeping for you right now, in your time of terrible grief. I will pray for all of your family, and for God's merciful love, who knew him before he was conceived, for Gabriel.

Cousin John is my boss, and one of my parish priests. He is a treasure to us.

May God be close to all of you, and Blessed Mother wrap you in her mantle.

Rachel Weldon
St. Stephen Church, Portland, Oregon

December 20, 2017

The Drake community is deeply grieving the loss of this exceptional young man who was a bright, kind and gentle soul. We are heart broken. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends whose lives he so deeply touched. Gebe will not be forgotten.

December 19, 2017

I am so sorry, Monica. My thoughts and prayers are with you, always.

Andrew Leshnick

McLaughlin/Share Family

December 19, 2017

Our hearts are broken and are thoughts are with you, his family. We cannot thank you enough for having the courage to share all of your beautiful boy's story. We send you love and breath and light. We are so so sad.

Panda Jerry

December 19, 2017

Dearest Monica,
I write with a heavy heart. No words can express the sadness I feel for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and in my prayers ..

Panda

December 19, 2017

All our love to you Monica

Lisa and Mark Dillon

Sara Mornell

December 19, 2017

I am so sorry Monica - I can't put words to what I want to say because they all seem ridiculous. My heart goes out to you. Sending love and prayers
With Love
Sara

Gabe Whooley

December 19, 2017

Gabe, You will be missed.

Gloria Freer

December 19, 2017

My heart goes to the family

Darcy Ellsworth Yow

December 19, 2017

Monica,

My heart breaks for you. I wish you peace and love and comfort and strength from your all too brief time together.

Orla O'Malley Daly

December 19, 2017

My deepest Condolences to you Monica and to all the Family. My heart is broken for you. What a Handsome, Sweet boy Gabriel was. May he Rest in Peace. Orla O'Malley Daly and family

December 19, 2017

The Enbom family is heartbroken. Gabe brought such light and love and joy into this world. He was a wonderful member of the Drake Mountain Bike team, passionate and fun. Our hearts go out to Monica and his extended family.

Joe Stranzl

December 19, 2017

We miss you, Gabriel. You were a shining light for so many. Your qualities, your smile, your style - will not soon be forgotten.

Peggy Dodge

December 19, 2017

Heartfelt support from Drake alumni family.

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