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Gary A Abendroth "Guitar Gary"
1952 - 2024
Gary A Abendroth "Guitar Gary"
1952 - 2024
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BORN
1952
DIED
2024
Gary Abendroth "Guitar Gary" Obituary
Gary will be deeply missed by all who knew him. He enjoyed fishing and gardening. Gary had a passion for music and was known for his exceptional guitar skills, which earned him the nickname "Guitar Gary."
A Veteran's Ceremony at the Veteran's Cemetery in Union Grove, WI will be held at a later date. Details regarding the services will be determined and announced in the near future on Legacy.com.
Preceded in death by Gary's loving Parents Fred and Betty Abendroth, Debbie Abendroth, and other aunts and uncles. Survived by dear brother Douglas Abendroth (Late wife Debbie) and loving sister Nancy (Bob) Sharp. Caring Uncle to Jennifer and Nicole Sharp. Also loved by other relatives and friends.
Thank you to the Union Grove Veteran's Home staff for their kind and loving care.
Please keep Gary's family and friends in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
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Sherry Tabbert
February 16, 2024
Gary convinced me he could make an object spin with his mind. He did it, I saw it with my own eyes.My favorite memory is the day we went for a walk deep in the woods, and walked the railroad tracks.Gary's wish for us was to dress, sing the song by Meatloaf, Dancing by the Dashboard Light. We did it.I moved to Fort Atkinson in March of 2018. Gary called me and said" If you feel homesick and dont feel like smiling always remember to hang upsidown as a frown would be a smile.Gary taught me how to play the keyboard. Then showed me his one man band song, You dont know what its like, by Tom Petty.The craziest thing he ever asked me to do was move a church organ to the house he was protecting for our other dear friend, Mr. WILLIAM RIP.Gary and I always talked about how we believed we were earth angels.Music was Garys passion he showed me videos of himself in the band.He was a very kind, funny, talkative giving man. We had so much fun.I will and have missed him more than one could ever imagine. I love you brother.RIP My thoughts and prayers will be with Garys family and friends at this time.
Diana Venus
February 2, 2024
Gary, Sure added to life here at the Veterans Home! Conversation starter, befriender, and always rooting for the underdog! Gary's sense of humor, and spark will definitely be missed. He made a lot of people smile and laugh. Gary truly will be missed. It was an honor and privilege to know him.
Katherine Hoffmann
February 1, 2024
One of my favorite photos of Gary!
Katherine Hoffmann
February 1, 2024
Gary was a breath of fresh air here at the Wisconsion Veterans Home in Union Grove. He always had a positive attitude and something pleasant to say to everybody. He was a champion for those who needed befriending and an encourager to those who were feeling down. I loved watching him in Chapel services as we would discuss faith and how it had changed us. His eyes would twinkle every time he had an opportunity to worship. He is greatly missed!
Rest in the Lord's arms my friend!
Katherine
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Emma W
January 31, 2024
Gary was quite the social butterfly at the Veterans Home. He was always encouraging others to join activities and was a true member advocate. He was friendly and welcoming to all new members who came to the Veterans Home. His sense of humor will be missed by all.
Curtis J.
January 31, 2024
Gary loved his Wisconsin sports teams. I had the pleasure of talking to Gary many times about watching the games. He will be missed by staff and other members at the Veterans Home.
Nancy Sharp
January 29, 2024
Dear Gary, Iam so glad that I an Doug were able to help you thru your illness.
I enjoyed my visits with you at the VA home ,we had alot of fun playing bingo,visiting your VA buddies,an enjoying the time outdoors.I will miss that so much. My favorite memory is when you with Doug surprised me with the blow up Reindeer.Every Christmas that was beside our Christmas tree. It was passed down to Jenny and Nicole.I have pictures of myself with Jenny ,Nicole before the patch in a hole could not save my reindeer.I will treasure the fond memories of our yearly trips to Waupaca Wi. You loved to fish with dad while in the paddle boat. You were strong an found peace with the Lord. I can already hear you singing an playing the guitar-Born to Run,a that you were.
You will be missed . I love you dear brother,from your sister Nancy.
nicole sharp
January 29, 2024
My best memories of you will live in my heart forever. You always were a happy go lucky uncle. Enjoyed the dinners at my house an grandpa an grandmas. The best memory is spending time with you at the cottage in Waupaca an the great grill cheese sandwiches you made for me.
You are at peace now. I love you an will miss you
Love, Nicole
Douglas Abendroth (Desert Doug)
January 27, 2024
Dear Brother Gary,
I miss you GREATLY! I know that you are in a better place as you no longer suffer any pain and have traveled on angel wings to heaven.
IN MEMORY OF GARY ABENDROTH "GUITAR GARY"
GOD saw the road was getting rough,
the hills were hard to climb.
He gently closed those loving eyes
and whispered, "Peace be thine."
The weary hours, the days of pain,
the sleepless nights are passed.
The ever-patient, worn-out frame
has found sweet rest at last.
God said you were getting weary, so
He did what He thought best:
He came and stood beside you
and whispered, "Come and rest!"
Gary, you will ALWAYS be loved and NEVER forgotten! I look forward to one day joining you and our God in paradise. Please say hi to mom and dad for me.
Love Always,
Douglas Abendroth (Desert Doug)
Gary's Older Loving Brother
Jennifer
January 27, 2024
Miss you Gary!
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