Gary B. Putnam

Gary B. Putnam obituary, Stockton, CA

Gary B. Putnam

Gary B. Putnam Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 28, 2024.
Stockton - Gary Bruce Putnam of Stockton, CA peacefully passed away surrounded by family on Sunday, June 23, 2024. Gary was born in Lynch, Nebraska on November 27, 1939, to Frederik Arthur Putnam and Alice Tena Samuelson. The family moved to Mapleton, Iowa and Gary grew up on a bucolic farm nestled in rolling hills of corn fields. Here his roots of valuing hard work, community, and faith were established. He attended Mapleton High School, '57 and received his bachelor's degree from Iowa State University, '61, where he shifted from aeronautical engineering to focus on ministry and religious studies. Gary's graduate degree was completed at Garrett Theological Seminary/Northwestern University in Evanston, IL which was a time of further developing his interests in the church, social justice and service to others. Following his marriage to Jennifer Taft Cook (divorced in 1976), they welcomed two daughters, Elizabeth, 1965, and Margaret, 1967. He earned his Doctorate of Ministry degree at Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley, CA, in 1980.

Gary pursued his ministry in the Methodist church through campus life at University of Northern Iowa, University of Wisconsin/La Crosse, and the Wesley Foundation at Iowa State University. Gary's impact at Iowa State was felt deeply within the church and on campus. Gary showed faith in action by helping students and local residents gain a sense of belonging, engagement and community through shared meals, trips to impoverished communities in Appalachia at the Lend-a-Hand center and outings to explore the beauty of the Colorado Rocky Mountains where Gary climbed Long's Peak twice in one day. Gary developed a lifelong group of friends in Ames and met his future wife, Gillian Murphy. They moved to Stockton in 1983.

Gary accepted the chaplaincy at University of the Pacific and provided a sense of support for the student body and the extended community. He led worship services and countless weddings at the idyllic Morris Chapel, taught classes in religious studies, and counseled those in need.

In 1990, Gary was named senior pastor at Central United Methodist Church. This was a significant shift from campus ministry and grew to encompass the totality of life from baptisms to funerals as well as the joys and sorrows of the congregation. His responsibilities included balancing the administrative matters with the spiritual priorities of the church. He retired in 2003 yet continued to perform a multitude of services for area churches and organizations.

Gary was a gifted orator and charmed audiences with the wisdom, insights, and wit of Abraham Lincoln and Mark Twain. Over many decades, his portrayals were an opportunity to explore the thoughts and convictions of these great leaders through their original writings and speeches. The performances helped modern audiences find relevance and meaning in their words.

If asked about a subject in a book he had in his vast library, Gary would open the book to the passages being discussed. He found inspiration in books for his weekly sermons. He also found inspiration in every day happenings. His sermons were filled with wisdom, humor and relevance to the world around us.

Gary continued his lifelong commitment to social justice, interfaith leadership, and equality, while matching faith up against difficult questions and turbulent times. He tried to mediate and minimize violence at a remembrance of the Wounded Knee massacre in South Dakota, marched with Martin Luther King in Washington DC to advocate for civil and economic rights, and comforted the community by coordinating a memorial service at the Stockton Civic Auditorium following the tragic Cleveland Elementary School shooting. Among the many organizations Gary volunteered are the Peace & Justice Network, Planned Parenthood, the Stockton Arts Commission, and the Rotary Club of Stockton where he served as President in 2008 and delighted in the annual Dictionary presentation to third grade classes.

Gary is survived by his wife, Gillian Murphy, daughters Beth Bicknell (Ted), and Margaret Munk Hansen (Jes), grandchildren Jenna, Garrett, Alexander, Nicolas, Andreas and Eva as well as Nikki, Cricket, Bryce and Davis, many nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews, and the Murphy/McDonagh clan in Ireland and the UK. He was preceded in death by his brother, Dale K. Putnam.

Gary's life will be celebrated on Saturday, July 6, at 10 a.m., at Central United Methodist Church, 3700 Pacific Avenue, Stockton. A reception will follow at the University of the Pacific Vereschagin Alumni House. The service will be live streamed at https://cumcstockton.org (click on Facebook or YouTube).

If lieu of flowers, if you choose to donate, please consider one of the following or a charity of your choice: Wesley Foundation at Collegiate United Methodist Church Endowment, Ames, Iowa; Gary B. Putnam Scholarship Fund at Garrett Evangelical Theology Seminary, Evanston, Illinois; or the Gary B. Putnam Music Fund at Central United Methodist Church, Stockton.

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August 10, 2024

Rama and Anu planted trees.

July 5, 2024

Jon Robinson posted to the memorial.

July 4, 2024

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Jon Robinson

July 5, 2024

Gary was one of my favorite people on earth. My life was monumentally improved with his guidance and caring when I was a student at Pacific. My life was again monumentally changed for the better when Gary married my wife and I in 1992. Though our interactions have been sparse over the years, he has always been a mighty oak for me. The world has been a far better place because of him. We should all strive to be at least half the man he was. May you rest in peace, Gary.

Honor Heffernan

July 4, 2024

Sincere sympathies Gillian and family. It is hard to think of Gary without feeling a warm glow. His sincerity, wisdom compassion and sense of fun were inspirational traits. To have had the opportunity to spend time with him on his visits to Ireland are treasured memories of a beautiful human being.
Honor and Trevor

Pauline Kelly

July 4, 2024

Sincere condolences to Gillian and family
On the sad loss of your beloved Gary.
May his gentle soul rest in eternal peace.
Pauline & Peter ( Dublin)

Phyllis Keogh

July 2, 2024

The beautiful soul, who is Gary, came into my life when he married my sister-in-law,Gillian and what a privilege and a blessing it has been to have had him as a fellow in-law and dear friend. Although we live so far away across the wide Atlantic Ocean, Gary has always been a real presence in our lives.

He and I connected particularly around our shared love of literature and history and we enjoyed a rather nerdy and humorous pre-occupation with correct grammar and punctuation, often exchanging what he and I considered to be hilarious "bloomers".

Gary was the celebrant at our son, Arran's marriage to "the lovely Lena" in Waterford Castle 2019. What a beautiful ceremony that was-- a dlouble privilege in that it was the same service that he prepared for his and Gillian's marriage.

Gary's kindness, his wisdom and his calming presence made him beloved of all who met him in Ireland. His love of music and the Arts, his sense of humour and his erudition made him the veryn best of company.

I am heartbroken that he has fled this mortal coil but I know that his spirit will always be with us. I only have to think of him and I smile. My deepest condolences to dear Gillian, to Margaret, to Beth and to their families. Unforunately, I cannot attend Gary's funeral but I send an Irish blessing- "Ar Dheis Dé go raigh a Anam" ( May his soul sit at God's Right Hand). This is my final goodbye to my dear friend, the irreplaceable, the Gary Putnam

Phyllis Keogh

July 2, 2024

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Valerie Hehn Brown

June 30, 2024

May legions of angels greet Mr. Putnam and escort him to the right hand of God. I left Stockton in 1966, but am so very pleased a wonderful man arrived in 1983 and did such wonderful work in my hometown. My condolences to his family and the many friends and admirers he had. I'm sorry I missed him. Valerie Hehn Brown

Steve Williams

June 28, 2024

I was a student at ISU and decided to attend church one Sunday because I was home sick. I sat in the last pew not aware of the sign that read Reserved for Families with Small Children. I was really hoping I could slip right out once worship was over! Before I knew it, I was trapped be two big families on both sides of me. When church got over both families knew each other and reach around me to catch up. I was trapped and about the last one to leave the Sanctuary when an older woman by the name of Dorothea Gienger and her friend Lou invited me out for Sunday Dinner! They called Gary and gave him my phone number telling him I was such a nice young man. Gary called me on Monday and invited me to meet up with him at the Union. He was just the person I needed at that moment in my life. He was such a great role model and friend for me.
20 years later I served Gladbrook UMC which was Dorothea´s hometown! She was 1 out of 8 brothers and sisters! She was the only one who left town.

Cheryl Marcell

June 28, 2024

Gary was a father figure for me at Pacific. He was kind, had a soothing voice, a wonderful sense of humor and you never felt like you were bothering him. He gave you his full attention and you always felt better after talking with him. I was blessed to have him officiate my wedding and blessed to call him friend.

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