Gary Gordon Bequette

Gary Gordon Bequette obituary, Alton, IL

Gary Gordon Bequette

Gary Bequette Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 27, 2025.
Gary Gordon "BQ" Bequette passed away on June 26, 2025 at the age of 83.
Gary lived a life marked by dedication to public service and a deep connection to his community.
Gary served as a police officer for 37 years serving this citizens of St. Louis City, Riverview Gardens and Bellefontaine Neighbors. His long standing commitment to Law enforcement reflected his steadfast sense of duty and responsibility.
He is lovingly remembered by his daughter Renee Etz; son Stephen Horak; grandchildren Lauren Dugan, Madison Horak, Shelby Floyd, Brandon Etz; and brother Richard Bequette.
Gary is pro-ceded in death by his beloved wife Sherry, his mother Alice Bequette (nee Cleburne); Father Gordon Bequette; and sister Barbara Mellow.
Known affectionately as "BQ", Gary was a familiar face in his town of Alton, IL. He walked six miles a day and became a well-known figure in the community through these daily routines.
His love for animals was evident to all who knew him - he cherished his Fur Babies throughout his life.
In keeping with his generous spirit and desire to help others beyond his life, Gary chose to donate his body for the benefit of others. His remains will be placed with his wife Sherry that honors their enduring bond.
May Gary's memory bring comfort to those who knew him and serve as a lasting reminder of a life devoted to service and Love.

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August 15, 2025

Steve H posted to the memorial.

July 5, 2025

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June 30, 2025

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Steve H

August 15, 2025

Happy Birthday up there Gary. I will scratch off a lottery ticket for you today. We miss you.

Madison Horak

July 5, 2025

Steve Horak

June 30, 2025

Thank you for everything Gary. I hope in some way or some how you knew how much I appreciated everything you have done, and for all the time you have spent with my mom and my daughter. The world needs more people like you. We will miss you everyday.

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John Rueckert

June 30, 2025

Sorry to hear of Gary' passing. I have a lot of good memories from when we worked together. Rest in peace Gary.......

Bob Daniels

June 30, 2025

Rest in peace Gary

Madison

June 30, 2025

David Erker

June 29, 2025

Sorry to hear that "BQ" passed away. He was one of the good guys.

Lou Williams

June 28, 2025

So sorry to hear of Gary´s passing. Enjoyed working with him many years at the police department.

Lou Williams

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