Gemma L. Primero

Gemma L. Primero obituary

Gemma L. Primero

Gemma Primero Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 24, 2018.
Primero, Gemma L. CASTLETON Gone from this world though forever in our hearts, is Gemma L. Primero, aged 21, of Castleton. She passed away on April 11, 2018. Gemma was a graduate of Harriet Tubman Democratic High School and had worked at the Honest Weight Food Coop. Among her many gifts, Gemma had a strong sense of justice and freedom that defined her life from an early age. Through direct action and example, she had dedicated herself first to the rights of animals, then later to many social justice causes including volunteering for Food Not Bombs, and most recently supporting and advocating for workers' rights. She planned to study law. Among Gemma's passions were reading, music, art, cooking, and travelling. She will be remembered for her beautiful smile, sense of humor, wit, and loving spirit - a true and precious Gem. Gemma is survived by her parents, Lisa (Dave Pulikowski) Sofia and Alfreado "Butch" (Marge) Primero; brothers, Silvio Orciuoli and Nicolas Primero; sisters, Tammy Dietz and Stacey Fontanelli; stepfather Rocky Orciuoli; grandparents, Marie Mull and Charles Sofia; many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends; her partner Sasha Benderly-Kraft and her constant Chihuahua companion "Truck." Memorial service arrangements will be made at the convenience of the family. Memorial contributions may be made in Gemma's name to the Mohawk Hudson Humane Society or to Food Not Bombs.

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October 2, 2024

Butch Primero posted to the memorial.

September 8, 2024

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August 25, 2024

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Butch Primero

October 2, 2024

Thinking of my beautiful daughter .... Miss you so much ..Love Daddy ....

Butch Primero

September 8, 2024

Just another day without you. I love and miss you so..... Rest in peace my Angel.

Love daddy

Butch Primero

August 25, 2024

Loving and missing you every day.... RIP my angel.....

April 20, 2024

We were friends a very long time ago on the internet. I was wondering recently how you were. I'm speechless. I wish I would have reached out sooner...

Sierra

February 3, 2024

I came across your old tumblr and I really miss you, Gemma. Thank you for being my friend for so long.

Butch Primero

October 9, 2023

Missing you soooo much this week ... Always on my mind.. l love you Gemma.
Love Daddy
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Trevor N

October 1, 2023

This sucks. I randomly saw an old screenshot from Gemma and decided to look her up and found this page. Gemma and I met several years ago on MySpace.com during its hayday. While we never met in person, she was always so kind to me and we spent many hours on the phone. I have nothing but fond memories of Gemma and I wish her family and friends well.

z

June 8, 2023

thinking about you today.

Butch Primero

October 23, 2022

Missing you Gemma..
Loving you Gemma..

Love Daddy....

Butch Primero

June 19, 2022

Father's day is not the same without you.. I love and miss you everyday. You are always in my heart..
RIP my angel...

Love you, Daddy

Butch Primero

June 2, 2022

Hello my love.... Miss you so much.. Time passes but missing you doesn't get easier... RIP Gemma..

Love you
Daddy

Butch Primero

March 9, 2022

Butch Primero

March 9, 2022

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March 9, 2022

Butch Primero

March 9, 2022

Thinking of you, missing you and loving you. I often feel you around me.
Loving you,
Daddy

Butch Primero

July 15, 2021

Butch Primero

July 15, 2021

Butch Primero

July 15, 2021

Loving you and missing you.
You are my angel..
Love
Daddy..

Butch Primero

April 11, 2021

Butch Primero

April 11, 2021

Butch Primero

April 11, 2021

Three years have passed and I still can't believe you are gone. I think of you every day and it breaks my heart. I love you and miss you so much.
RIP my angel..
Love daddy ...

Butch Primero

February 22, 2021

Valentines day passed this week and I thought of you being forever in my heart.. I love and miss you Gemma ..
RIP ....LOVE YOU, Daddy

Butch Primero

January 16, 2021

Just missing you... As another day passes it is no easier being without you.. I love and miss you Gemma, my angel.
Love you to heaven and back.

Daddy

Butch Primero

August 8, 2020

Happy birthday in heaven.. you are missed so much and I can't help but getting tears in my eyes thinking of you.. I love you Gemma and will see you on the otherside.
Love you more
Daddy ...

Butch Primero

June 30, 2020

I love you and miss you so much everyday
Love daddy

Butch

May 13, 2020

I love and miss you Gemma ...

Butch Primero

April 13, 2020

2 years have passed since I heard your voice or seen your face. I see and hear you only in my dreams. I love you and your forever in my heart... RIP Gemma

Love Daddy

Butch Primero

March 3, 2020

Tomorrow is grandma Ann's birthday. I know she is with you and uncle Tommy and Mouse .... watching over us.. I miss and love you all ...
I love you Gemma
Daddy

Butch Primero

February 3, 2020

Thinking of you today more than usual. Missing you today more than usual.. I love you today as usual... RIP my love.

Love you
Daddy

Butch Primero

December 25, 2019

2 years have passed sense we had dinner together at Christmas. We shared the day with Nick, Rebecca & Margie, and the dogs.. It was so nice for a relaxing day together... I will always love and miss you, and you will be in my heart forever...
Love,Daddy

Dwight Cunningham

November 29, 2019

Thinking of you Butch.

November 28, 2019

November 28, 2019

Butch Primero

November 28, 2019

Thanksgiving day without you brakes my heart. I hope you are at rest with friends and family . You are missed so much by so many.. I love you Gemma and you are in my heart forever..
Love Daddy....

Butch Primero

August 7, 2019

Your 23rd birthday is here and I miss and love you so Gemma. I know you are watching over your loved ones and I feel your presence often by the things I see and the music I hear . I love you.. Happy birthday in heaven. We will meet again....

Daddy

Butch Primero

June 16, 2019

Today is fathers day and I'm thinking about your phone call that I won't be getting from you today. I just miss you so much.
R-I-P my angel... love Daddy

Butch Primero

May 12, 2019

Just thinking of you on the day your mother became your mom. I remember holding you for the first time and how you made me feel. I was so happy to have you in my life.... I'm so sad I can't hold you again, but you will forgive be in my heart.... I Love you, Daddy

Butch Primero

April 1, 2019

Coming up on a year since you left us.. It doesn't seem possible . You are missed so much every day and I will have you in my heart forever...
Daddy ......

Butch Primero

January 1, 2019

The holiday season has passed and I miss your calls and seeing you. It wasn't the same this year. I love you, you are in my heart forever.... R-I-P ....
Love you,
Daddy....

Butch Primero

November 22, 2018

I don't have as much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving since you left us. You are missed more every day. Your in my heart forever...
Loving you,
Daddy

Butch Primero

October 7, 2018

Days come and go, losing you dosen't get any easier. Went for a nice peacefull ride yesterday and I know you were with me . Ended @ 114 miles.. I love and miss you. You are in my heart forever..
Daddy

Mark Watts

September 15, 2018

I just found out you passed. I texted and the person responded saying wrong number. I had a bad feeling. I was going to give you a music recommendation. I remember how much you loved those. I'm so sorry I didn't get to talk to you more at the Nobunny show. I miss you so much already. The world is darker now.

Butch Primero

August 29, 2018

Loving and missing you so much every day. Can't believe you are gone. I wait for your call so many times.. You are in my heart forever. Till we meet again.. R-I-P.

Butch Primero

August 23, 2018

Today is Stacey's birthday. Wishing you were here to give her a hug . . .Forever in our hearts.Love and miss you. R-I-P.

Butch Primero

July 25, 2018

Another day without your call. . We all miss you so much... "Truck" is doing fine.. Forever in my heart....

Butch Primero

June 15, 2018

2 months have passed and I miss you so much. I listen to your last voice mail you left me and it makes me feel happy hearing your voice. I love you Gemma, you are in my heart forever.. Daddy

Butch Primero

June 2, 2018

Just sitting here thinking of you. You are forever in my thoughts and my heart . . I love and miss my baby girl . . R-I-P . .

Sasha B-K

May 14, 2018

I miss you every day, Gem. You really were too good for this world. I'll love you forever, and carry your memory in my heart until we meet again.

Megan Gering

May 13, 2018

Gemma, I will miss you dearly. Thier isn't a that goes, by that I don't think of you. May you fly high our sweet angel. Love you always,. Your our angel now. Rest in peace,.

Forever in Our Hearts

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

...just being cute!

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Gemma with her kitty, "Vincent".

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

12/24/2005

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

10/30/1998

Sharon Sofia - Mantaski

May 13, 2018

Butch Primero

May 13, 2018

I know you would love to wish your mother a "Happy Mothers Day Mom".. R-I-P Gemma, you are forever in my heart . .

Regina Cesternino

May 9, 2018

Butch I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.

Dwight Cunningham

May 8, 2018

Butch: Linda and I are so sorry to hear about your beloved Daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Dan Zukowski

May 8, 2018

Butch and family, my heart breaks for you during this difficult loss. There are no words I or anybody else can truly say to comfort you during such a difficult time but know we are all here supporting you the best we can. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us to cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. May God bless you and your entire family in this time of sorrow.

Sandra Hirsch

May 8, 2018

Sorry for your loss

Butch Primero

May 7, 2018

My little angel. You will be in my heart forever. Nothing can help the hurt I feel by losing you. I miss and love you . . .R-I-P ...
Dad

Roger,Nelda,Brandin(c) Hughes

April 27, 2018

Butch, We are so sorry for your loss you are in our thoughts and prayers may God bless you and your family.

April 26, 2018

Lisa and Butch, I am so sorry for your loss. Please keep in mind that she is with you in every way, and is at peace. I pray for you and for your peace. God Bless.
With love always,
Naomi Jensen

April 25, 2018

Very sorry for the lost of your loved one May God the hearer of prayers comfort you during this difficult time and give you strength. 2 cor. 1:4

Allison Pulikowski

April 25, 2018

Lisa & Silvio,

So unbelievably sorry for such a loss. Find happiness in memories and know she is at peace. Thinking of you both.

Margaret LaFond

April 25, 2018

Lisa, I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts. A terrible loss of such a strong,spirited,gentle soul. May you find comfort in the joy you shared with your daughter over the years during this difficult time. If you need anything... Marge

April 25, 2018

Butch sorry to hear about your daughter.vince farrell

Alex Meyers

April 25, 2018

I love you Gemma -
Alex Meyers

A

April 24, 2018

You were the first person I loved, and you told me the first person you fall in love with will stick in your mind forever. I'm glad we became friends again. I'll be missing you.

Joe De Seve

April 24, 2018

Butch, Tammy, Nick and Gemma's entire family, my sincere condolences. Please take comfort in knowing she will be in eternal peace, embraced in God's love and there will come a time when you will be reunited. My prayers are with you.

Karen Smith

April 24, 2018

I'm so sorry for your family's loss.

Cousins, Patti Ginny Jackie & Ingrid Swenson

April 24, 2018

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Patty & kevin Tatarian

April 24, 2018

Butch and family we are so sorry, you are in our prayers.

Phyllis Mazone

April 24, 2018

Butch, Joe and I would like to say how sorry we were to hear about the passing of your beautiful daughter. May she fly thru the heavens with the angels watching over you and your family.

Camille Rafferty

April 24, 2018

Lisa and Family, My sincere condolences on the passing of your beautiful daughter Gemma. May you find comfort in your wonderful memories and may Gemma rest in peace. God Bless You. Aunt Camille (Sis) and Billy

Anne Sofia-Bressette

April 24, 2018

Lisa and Family, please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter Gemma. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May she Rest In Peace. God Bless Gemma.
Aunt (Sis) and Uncle Leo Bressette

Kristine Gould

April 24, 2018

Hoping you can find strength, support and some comfort during this time and may your little girl Rest in Peace Prayers for your family

Lori Emery

April 24, 2018

My deepest condolences.

Agnes Schumaker & family

April 24, 2018

Butch So very sorry for the loss of your Beautiful little girl!! May she RIP and fly high with all those other Beautiful Angels watching down over her Beautiful family!! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!! God Bless you all!! God has gained a Beautiful special Angel in his Garden of paradise!! Much love, hugs and prayers on the way!!! God Bless her soul!! <3 <3

Jon Reickert

April 24, 2018

Butch and family, so very sorry for the loss of Gemma. Please accept our deepest sympathy. May God be with you and comfort you.

The Reickert Family

Vicki McCourt

April 24, 2018

Gemma RIP. You were a free spirit with a huge heart. You will be missed and I am truly sad for your family and for the people who did not have the pleasure of knowing you.

Margaret Farrell

April 24, 2018

Sincere condolences to Gemma's family and friends you are all in my prayers

Steve Smith

April 24, 2018

Butch and family, please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Gemma, Such a beautiful young lady. May she rest in peace and may God bless all of you during this difficult time

Pam DeFelice

April 24, 2018

Butch, very sorry for you loss, will keep you and your family in our prayers The DeFelice family

Traci Grail

April 24, 2018

Butch, Stacey and all who loved Gemma,
Im so so sorry for your loss, many prayers and much love!!
My heart is in a million pieces for you
Love you much,
Traci

Charleen Papa

April 24, 2018

Butch I'm very sorry to read of your lose of Gemma. So young to be gone. She will be an Angel of God.
With Sincere Sympathy
Charleen

John Cardazzi

April 24, 2018

My deepest sympathy to Gemma's family.
Very Sincerely,

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