Geoffrey K. Gardner

Geoffrey K. Gardner

Geoffrey Gardner Obituary

Visit the Legacy Remembers website to view the full obituary.
Geoffrey K. Gardner, age 33, of Stratford, beloved son of Kenneth and Judi Gardner, passed away suddenly Thursday, July 9, 2015. His beloved daughter, Mikayla Kershaw-Gardner; two loving sisters, Tracy Betzig-Dottori and her husband Jim of Branford and Amy daSilva and her husband Bill of Milford; an uncle Peter Dahl and his wife Cynthia; two cousins Kevin Dahl and Darren Dahl, and several nieces and nephews also survive Geoffrey. Words cannot describe the love Geoffrey's family had for him. He was passionate and dedicated to his beautiful 6-year-old daughter and her happiness. Geoff was an avid sports lover, his childhood friends referred to him as "The Hoss" on and off the football field. He loved the NY Giants, the game of football and playing lacrosse with his nieces and nephews. The Geoff we knew will always be remembered as the funny, kind- hearted man who loved being a dad. We will always carry his memory in our hearts with love. A memorial service celebrating Geoffrey's life will be held at 10:00am Saturday July 18, 2015 the Lordship Community Church, 179 Prospect Drive, Stratford. Burial will be private at the request of the family. In lieu of flowers, those desiring may make a memorial contribution to the " Mikayla Kershaw-Gardner Education Fund" c/o Amy daSilva 271 Seaview Ave. Milford, CT 06460. For information or to sign an online guest register please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Geoffrey Gardner's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

July 31, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 21, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 31, 2015

Dear Judi, Ken & Family,
So very sorry to hear about Geoffrey"s passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Ann, John, Daniel & Sara Adelmann

July 22, 2015

Dear Ken and Judi, We are so sorry to hear of Geoff's passing. I remember him from Sunday School as a funny, sweet and handsome young man. Our prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Doug and Becky Oakes

July 21, 2015

Dear Ken ,Judi and family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. You are in our prayers.
Sincerely , John and Lucretia Rohleder

Jennifer Laughlin

July 18, 2015

Dear Ken, Judi, Tracy & Amy,
My deepest condolences. Thinking of you all and remembering Geoff fondly.

charles mancuso

July 16, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Skip and Susan Lance

July 15, 2015

Ken and Judi-We are very sorry about the loss of your son, Geoff. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Tom & Jo Dowling

July 15, 2015

Dear Judi, Ken and Family:
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of Geoff.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of your sorrow.

Michael Palmieri

July 15, 2015

Ken and Judy, It just breaks my heart that Geoff is gone. Amoung the hundreds of kids that I coached He stood out and was very special to me. I will pray he has found his peace. You have my Sympathy.

Mike Jelormine

July 15, 2015

Dear Kenny and Judy and family

I will always remember that skinny little boy who played with my daughters and Poppy and Lucy....forever....peace be with you

July 14, 2015

Dear Ken, Judi, Tracy, Amy and Families,

We are so deeply sorry to hear about Geoff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
John and Rita Nagorski

Betty Brandt

July 14, 2015

Dear Judi,Kenneth,& Family,
I was very saddened to hear of Geoff's
passing. Please accept my Deepest Sympathy. "In my Father's house are many mansions.... I go to prepare a place for you, that where I am, there you may be also." John 14

July 14, 2015

Dear Amy and Family,
I am so sorry to hearing of the passing of your brother. Although I did not know Geoff I too lost my brother and can relate to the emptiness and thousands of childhood memories they leave. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Love, Lynn Huggins (Heather's mom)

Doug Wells

July 14, 2015

Dear Gardner family,
I was saddened to hear of Geoff's passing and wanted to pass along my condolences. Although my time around Geoff was brief back in our school days, some of my favorite life memories take place with him. Those will live on with us and never be forgotten. You're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

July 14, 2015

Dear Mr & Mrs Gardner, Tracy, and Amy, I am so sorry to hear of Geoff's passing. It seemed like yesterday he was like a little brother to me. My families prayers and thoughts are with you. Brad Gaglione

Marge Sherman

July 14, 2015

Judy, Ken and family,
I am terribly sorry for the loss of Geoff. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Al & Kathy Grindrod

July 13, 2015

Dear Ken, Judy, Tracey and Amy, We are so saddened to learn of Geoff's passing. May you find peace in your fondest memories of Geoff and comfort in the love and support of friends and each other.

Gina Gaglione

July 13, 2015

Mr and Mrs Gardner, Tracy, Amy and family, please know how terribly sorry I was to learn of Geoff's passing. I have no words to ease your pain or lessen your heartache. God gives us hearts to love and yet they can break so easily. I pray that your hearts are always full of the love of each other and that this love can help to carry you through this terrible time. My love and prayers to each and every one of you. Especially your Geoff.

Gail Liscio

July 13, 2015

Ken and Judi Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Losing a child is a pain no parent should experience. Gail and Paul Liscio

July 13, 2015

To Ken and his family so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Nancy Berry 331 Wesley

Deborah Perman

July 13, 2015

Dear Ken and Judy,
We were so sorry to hear about Geoff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jim and Debbie Perman

Nichole Wells

July 13, 2015

So very sorry to hear about your loss. I attended middle school & high school with Geoff. He was an incredible athlete & could always put a smile on anyone's face. Our thoughts & prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

July 14, 2015

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Amy Maxwell

July 12, 2015

Mr. & Mrs. Gardner, Tracy & Amy, I am deeply sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers.

July 12, 2015

Mr.& Mrs Gardner Tracy and Amy -I wish I had the right words, just know I care and am deeply saddened to hear this. It feels like yesterday that Geoff was a 7 year old boy ball diving on the couch for the nerf ball.. My prayers are with you.
- Bob DeLorenzo

Chris Puzzio

July 12, 2015

Geoff you will always be remembered as the Hoss to all of us. We had a lot of memories growing up playing baseball throughout the years in Little League on the Mariners and All Stars every year. To remember some of the times I have a great picture of you, me, Biag, Falzy, and Stevie in your parents house from a Sophmore year pin dance. You were a great athlete and we could always count on you for a good laugh. Although we drifted over the years I'll never forget the Hoss and the fun times growing up playing sports and clowning around at Bunnell. I send my deepest condolences to his family and father Ken who always pushed Geoff to bring out the great potential he had.

Tim and Jane Carley

July 12, 2015

Tim and I send are love to the Judy and Ken and the entire family.Geoff was a great Dad .He was always at the Dance and Piano recitals watching Mikayla.The Father Daughter dance was so special to both Geoff and Mikayla.

July 12, 2015

Our deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your son. Our prayers are with you.
Maurine & Ray O'Connell & Family

Steve Szilagyi

July 12, 2015

The best part of raising a family was on Emerson Drive. Geoff was the guy and always put a smile on your face. Sking Vermont or just the pool.
Steve and family

Christina Baudis

July 11, 2015

I am so sad. So many Christmas memories with Geoffrey and with your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Linda (Hayes) & Bob James

July 11, 2015

Our prayers & thoughts are with your family.

July 11, 2015

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss.please know that we will keep all of you in our prayers.
Gerry and Marilyn Mucci and family

July 11, 2015

Ken and Judy
I'm at a lost for words at this time but want you to know that you are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Elaine and Bill Crudo

Steve Sutton

July 11, 2015

Dear Judy and Ken,

Our hearts are breaking over this news. We will always remember Geoffrey as the little boy next door. He was always there to help Ronnie whenever she needed him; mowing the lawn or shoveling her walkway. She could always depend on him. He was a godsend to her and that is how he will be remembered in our hearts.

Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Steve and Paula Sutton

Janet Lengel

July 11, 2015

Dear Ken, Judi, Tracy, and Amy....I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

July 11, 2015

Dear Kenny and Judy, our thoughts and prayers with you.
Rich and Gerri Anderson

Susanne Kandel

July 11, 2015

The song is ended, but the melody lingers on...You will forever be remembered Geoff.

michael nunno

July 11, 2015

Dear Ken and Judy , im so saddened to hear of the loss of your son and you have my deepest condolences.you are in my thoughts .

July 10, 2015

Dear Ken, Judy, Tracy and Amy:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Bob Mastroni

Steven Nieves

July 10, 2015

My condolences for your loss , he was a good friend and I was blessed to have met him and worked with him , may God give u strength and peace in this sad and difficult time

Ian MacDonald

July 10, 2015

Hoss, you will always live on in the many great memories we all have of you. Rest in peace my old friend. I will miss you. Deepest sympathies to the family. I'm truly sorry. Class of '99, SSB forever. Until we meet again, love you bro. God bless.

Sandra Iannotti

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judi, & family,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Geoffrey. He will forever remain in your hearts. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lordship Community Church

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judi,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With our sincere sympathy.

Kate Graham

July 10, 2015

Judy, Kenny, Amy and Tracy
My thoughts are with all of you. Geoffrey will be missed. Like all of you, he was such a huge part of my childhood on Emerson Drive, he will never be forgotten. Love to all you and your families.

Gina Ciminna

July 10, 2015

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am sending love, strength and positive vibes your way. RIP G.G.

July 10, 2015

Judy, ken, Tracy & Amy:
We are so sorry for your heartbreak. Our prayer are with you.
The Gagliones

Linda Zegarski

July 10, 2015

Dear Ken,Judy,Tracy, Amy and families , so saddened for the loss of Geoffrey. I will always hold the memories we shared on Emerson Dr. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Glenda Herrick

July 10, 2015

I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Deja Kreutzberg

July 10, 2015

Shocked and saddened to hear the news. My prayers go out to your family. So sorry for your loss.

Nick Owen

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judy, I am so very sorry for your loss....

Norine Benedetto

July 10, 2015

Our whole family is shocked and deeply saddened by your great loss. Your son and our son, Greg, played baseball together for many seasons. The team spirit and fun these boys had together during and after the games was extraordinary. Again, we are so sorry for your great loss. Our prayers go out to you.

Donna Geraghty

July 10, 2015

My deepest condolences to the entire family. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Barbara and Bob Perusse

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judi,
Bob and I are so sad to hear about your loss.Our prayers go out to you and your family.

Yolanda Verrilli

July 10, 2015

Gone too soon but never forgotten...

Chris Davis

July 10, 2015

Prayers for the Gardner family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Neil and billy Fuentes Dicrosta

July 10, 2015

A great guy is gone. Our deepest condolences. Geoff wherever you are know that you will be missed.

Sandee Bogen

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judi,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I am so very sorry.

Shirley Healing

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shirley and Dave Healing

Mike Sullivan

July 10, 2015

My fondest memory of Geoff is watching him lead the Bunnell football team to a huge upset against Stratford during my senior year. He also played baseball with my brother, growing up in Stratford. Thoughts and prayers to Geoff's family during this time!

Steve Pavlich

July 10, 2015

Ken and Judy,
Jeff was a great guy and a good Giants fan. I always liked talking to him. God bless you!

cindy kreutzberg

July 10, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss..

Laurie Cartier

July 10, 2015

My deepest condolences

July 10, 2015

Yolanda Verrilli

Michael and Liz Hamilton

July 9, 2015

Our hearts go out to the family with love

Michael and Liz Hamilton

July 9, 2015

Our hearts go out to the family with love

Carynne

July 9, 2015

Geoff, I'll never forget our Lowell days. Gone too soon, but never forgotten. Rest in peace and many prayers to your family.

Showing 1 - 65 of 65 results

Spear-Miller Funeral Home

39 South Benson Road, Fairfield, CT 06824

Make a Donation
in Geoffrey Gardner's name

How to support Geoffrey's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Geoffrey Gardner's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Geoffrey Gardner's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

July 31, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 21, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.