Geoffrey O'Grady

Geoffrey O'Grady

Geoffrey O'Grady Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2009.

O'GRADY Geoffrey Noel, Ph. D. January 1, 1928 - December 28, 2008Professor Emeritus of Linguistics Loving husband, father, grandfather and friend Our beloved Aussie "Boundary Rider" left us after a lengthy struggle with Parkinson's. He leaves an irreparable gap in the lives of his grieving family: wife Alix after 51 years of marriage; his daughter Liane (Henry) and his grandson Geoffrey Patrick; his daughter Danielle (Tim) and granddaughters Ele?na and Isabelle; his brother Denis; and family member Rod McCormick. According to friends and colleagues on various continents Geoff was a true gentleman. Geoff was a man of great modesty, outstanding linguistic talent and a total lack of artifice. His lifelong fascination with languages first manifested itself at Adelaide High School by his taking additional subjects in Latin, German, Russian and Hungarian. After a short banking career he ventured into the Australian Outback where he spent six years as jackaroo on a vast sheep station of 25,000 sheep, located between the Eighty Mile Beach and the Great Sandy Desert. He rode approximately 10,000 miles on horseback in the company of his Aboriginal mates, camping in the bush, and learning their rich and intricate languages and dialects. Geoff was adopted into the Nyangumarta tribe and spoke their language fluently. In 1956 the University of Sydney offered him a research assistantship. While working on his B.A. he pursued field trips to record and transcribe indigenous languages - usually at his own expense. His endeavours in alphabetizing Nyangumarta resulted in a literacy program and a Nyangumarta newspaper still published. He met Alix from Riga, Latvia at the University of Sydney and they married in 1957. After Liane was born in Sydney, Geoff was granted a Fulbright Scholarship at Indiana University where he completed his Ph.D. and where Danielle was born. Three summers were spent traveling five days in a decrepit Plymouth on Route 66 to Arizona for field studies in Hopi-Tewa. On completion of his Ph.D. he accepted a position at the University of Alberta, Edmonton and proceeded to record northern Canadian First Nations languages. In 1965 he began his long association with the University of Victoria, becoming involved in the study of various indigenous languages on Vancouver Island. Invitations followed for advice from First Nations communities in northern B.C. and Yukon. He was warmly received wherever he went. Geoff's passion remained the Australian Aboriginal languages; he developed the seminal body of work about the origins and relationships of the 250 Aboriginal languages and mapped their boundaries. Geoff is regarded as a pioneer and one of the leading scholars in Australian linguistics. Upon his retirement the Australian National University honoured him with an international Festschrift entitled "Boundary Rider". In addition to linguistics Geoff loved the sea and had an extraordinary knowledge of the earth's oceans. The family enjoyed many weekends rowing among the Gulf Islands as well as outings, picnics and frequent get-togethers with friends at their home. Geoff and Alix travelled extensively in North America and abroad. Geoff will be remembered for his class and charm, his easygoing nature and gift for humour and wordplay. This allowed him to form a quick rapport with total strangers. He had a prodigious memory for phrases from a wide variety of languages and throughout his life surprised people with samplings in their mother tongue. Our thanks go to Drs. Sun and Thorpe and the Staff at RJH Emergency as well as to the thoughtful Ambulance Attendants. In particular, we are grateful for the excellent care of our family physician, Dr. R. A. Sealey and Mary Ann. A private family memorial will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson's Centre will be appreciated (813 Darwin Ave., Victoria, B.C. V8X 2X7). Friends are invited to share their reminiscences by email to www.remembering.ca ; Click on Victoria; Search for "O'Grady"; then "View/Sign Guestbook".

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Jeanette Lynge Olsson

April 8, 2009

Dear Mrs O'Grady, Liane and the rest of your familly.

I'm sorry to read that Dr O'Grady past away.
Last summer; me, my husband and our daughters spend a couple of hours together with you. We had a nice time talking about different laungues, travelling , the tides and we had a nice lunch together. We didn't spend that much time together but that meeting will always be on my mind. I will never forget it. So for me Vancouver Island is you too, and surfing in Tofino!

Mrs O'Grady, Alix I hope you are doing well, I often think of you.

yours sincerely

Jeanette, Nikolaj, Maja and Ida

Cheryl Hann (nee McAdam)

January 21, 2009

Dear Mrs. O'Grady, Liane, Danielle and families,
I am so very sorry to hear of Dr. O'Grady's passing. He, in my mind, will always be remembered as the gentlest of gentlemen. Each of the many times that I spent at your house during in my adolescent years, I was greeted with great warmth, respect and a genuine interest in who I was as a person. Dr. O'Grady's musings and stories captivated me and I always left your home feeling that I had experienced some exciting aspect of a much larger world than my own. My thoughts are with you all during this time of loss.
With much love,
Cheryl

Martina Fantl

January 13, 2009

Liebe Mrs. O´Grady,
vom Tod Ihres Mannes waren wir sehr getroffen. Meine Familie und ich dürfen Ihnen unser tiefstes Beileid ausdrücken. Wir werden Dr. O´Grady immer als einen sehr intelligenten und humorvollen Menschen in Erinnerung behalten. Wir sind dankbar, dass wir ihn in Österreich 1975/76 kennenlernen durften.
In aller Herzlichkeit
Martina Fantl und Familie

brian karchut

January 11, 2009

Dear Alix;

Although Geoff was in declining health during the last years I knew him through my practice of Opthalmology, he always kept up his sense of humour and his amazing facility in linguistics. He never spoke to me as the amateur linguist I am, but more as a colleague; here his great essential humanity and humility were always in the fore.

When we were taking leave of one another prior to my retirement, he shuffled toward the door, then slowly turned to me, smiled, and said in Ukrainian, "Do pobachenya", or "Till the next time". Perhaps I will be so fortunate.

Brian Karchut

James Bergen

January 10, 2009

Dr. O'Grady was a professor of mine at the University of Victoria in 1985-86. I shall always remember him for his humble manner and his "spiral" approach to teaching phonetics. To this day, I have retained a lot due to his effective methodology.
He had an even more profound effect on a classmate and friend of mine who came to UVic as a Commonwealth scholar. This friend, a former Buddhist monk from Sri Lanka, is now senior lecturer in aboriginal languages in Port Hedland, Western Australia. (I added his information in case I am unable to reach him. )

Alexander Galitzine

January 8, 2009

Dear Alix and family,
I speak for my whole family.We are truly sorry for your loss! Jeffery was a great friend too so many people and touched very everyone in a unique way. Many laughs where heard and felt during our times together.

I personally remember when I was sixteen years old going on a rowing trip with him around the gulf islands.Camped one night on Sidney Island. That trip comes to me from time to time and always will! Magical!
Bless you and your family.May his soul rest in peace!

John & Ludmilla Weaver

January 8, 2009

Dear Alix and family,

How very sad we were to read of Geoff's death. The obituary said it all --- he was a true gentleman, so gifted yet always kind, courteous and modest. We knew about his expertise and scholarship in Australian aboriginal languages and his impressive knowledge of the oceans, but his early adventurous life in the outback before enrolling at the University of Sydney was new to us. What a rich and varied life he led. A few years ago we both spent a week in the delightful city of Adelaide, and thought of Geoff when we there. Although Geoff had been in declining health for some years his passing comes as a great loss to all of us, and we offer you our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts.

Nola Hendrie

January 8, 2009

Dear Alix and Family,

I was sorry to hear of Geoff’s passing. My husband, Tim Hendrie, already sent a message but I would like to add my own. I met up with Geoff in the mid-70s when I started taking some linguistics courses with him. I, too, found what he taught us to be fascinating and considered working in this area but eventually went into Speech and Language Pathology instead. I always think that my background in linguistics has served me very well in the work I do.

We had such a great time in the Linguistics Department with Geoff and the others. Tim and I met there and have now been married for 27 years. Due to the influence of people like Geoff, we used to spend our Friday night “dates” looking up etymologies in the dictionary!

We enjoyed our visit with you and Geoff, Alix, when you visited us in Chemainus. Tim found a card in his “basket” the other day that you had sent us and he had kept. There were pictures of Geoff at our picnic table and some of me with our youngest son. I could still carry him then. It was in 1998. Our 18 year old son, another Geoffrey, still remembers your visit. You sent us some lovely placemats and napkins. We still use them frequently when company comes and we think of you both.

I have fond memories of Geoff. While I admired him for his academic achievements, I remember him mostly as a kind and gentle man. He will be missed. I hope all of your family are doing well.

Helene Fontaine Taylor

January 6, 2009

Alix, I was so sorry to hear of Geoff's passing but feel blessed to have shared so many wonderful holiday dinners with him. A fond memory is a birthday party at your house with champagne and treats for all! There was never an occasion where I left without feeling I had been enriched by his passionate interest and love of language and life. You and Geoff shared such an adventurous, rich and wonderful life. I will always remember Geoff for his interest in learning from everyone he met. So when the time comes to celebrate Geoff's life, please raise a glass for me.

Lori Strandlund (nee Brown)

January 6, 2009

Alex & Family,
I was saddened to hear of the passing of Geoff. As a child, I remember being awe struck by "Mr. O'Grady." He was this GIANT neighbour whom I felt I should have been scared of, but never was. I loved the opportunities I had just to be around him, somehow, he made me feel important, though we probably never exchanged a word.
My thoughts are with you and your family. I think Geoff & my mom are sharing a good laugh right now!!!

Paul Hopkins

January 5, 2009

Some thirty years ago, I had the priviledge of attending Geoff's Introduction to Linguistics (Germanic section). His knowledge, wit and love of all languages - European, North American, and Australian - induced me to take a course in Phonology with him the next year, and a course in Comparative and Historical Indo-European the year after. Eventually, after nine years spent in Germany, Poland, Ontario and Vancouver, and a detour through a few degrees in German language and literature, I came back to UVic and completed an MA and PhD in Linguistics, again with Geoff's assistance. So I give thanks for the life of this gentle and generous spirit that was Geoffrey O'Grady; without his inspiration and guidance my life would have run a very different course.

Tim Hendrie

January 5, 2009

Dear Mrs. O'Grady and Family,
I was so sad to hear of Geoff's death. Dr. O'Grady got me hooked on linguistics in 1966. Later I did an M.A. with him on Australian languages and it was the best period of my life. Not only was he a fascinating scholar but also a wonderful man. I was privileged to receive so much attention from him.
What a great man!

Robert O'Brien

January 5, 2009

Thursday lunch isn't much fun any more. I imposed myself on Geoff and Len more than 5 years ago. When we lost Len, and Geoff had a fall in the Faculty Club, the fun stopped and selfishly I feel bereaved, but nothing like you the family must feel. Please accept my condolences.

Gunter Schaarschmidt

January 5, 2009

Alix, Liane, Danielle & families,

Please accept my sincere expression of condolence on your loss.

Geoff and I discussed many problems of reconstructing languages, and with his knowledge of Indo-European he had a lot of advice to offer for my work on Sorbian phonology. He was a good friend and I always looked forward to our lunch meetings at UVic and, and after retirement, elsewhere in Victoria.
I miss him.

David Grubb

January 4, 2009

Dear Alix & Family,

I was one of Geoff's first students in anthropological linguistics when he arrived at UVic in 1965. In what was essentially private tuition, he introduced me to phonology and morphology as we investigated the Luo language of Kenya with Eudora Bodo, a student from that country. Thereafter, Geoff mentored me through my B.A.

It was also Geoff who was the driving force in obtaining a multi-year Canada Council grant which saw a clutch of us - Marjorie Mitchell, Tiiu Kava, Terry Klokeid, et al. - take on the study of First Nations languages, under his tutelage, in our own back yard, rather than in some exotic foreign clime, and become the first students to complete our Master's degrees in Linguistics at UVic.

He will be sadly missed, but certainly remembered with esteem by all who had the pleasure and privilege of knowing him.

Vanessa & Gerald McMillan

January 4, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Patricia Darby Carswell

January 4, 2009

Dr. O'Grady was one of my favourite professors - I'm grateful I had a chance to meet him, and talk with him when "the rock was holding his door open."

What a wonderful life he had. My sincere sympathy to his family.

P. D. Carswell

Don Preston

January 4, 2009

I was so sorry to read that Geoff had passed away. He was the one who interested me in Linguistics away back in 1966 when I, as a high school student, attended a presentation of his that included the topic of how would a person from Earth communicate with an alien who had just landed among us. What a premise! It started me thinking about the intricacies of communication, and I entered UVic in 1966 and pursued two degrees in Linguistics there. I had the privilege of taking several courses with Geoff and will always remember his smile, sense of humour and great knowledge. I was amazed to read of the depth of his background and interests. He was a great person who will be missed by not only his family but many friends around the world.

I am sure he is now busy with Harry Scargill, Jean-Paul Vinay and Henry Warkentine somewhere analysing and recording languages to educate, enthrall and amuse themselves. I have told many people about that first talk back in '66 and hopefully stirred an interest in language in them as he did in me.

Susan Fitzgerald

January 3, 2009

Dear Alix and Family,

I was so sorry to hear that Geoff has passed away. He was such a huge influence on me, not only as a professor and a mentor, but as one of the kindest and most generous people I’ve known. One of the things I remember best about him—in addition to his talent as a linguist and his wonderful sense of humour—was his true devotion to his family. He and I spent many hours working at your dining room table and every time you, Alix, would come home from an errand or an outing, he would light right up.

Geoff will always have a special place in my heart. Kevin and I will keep all of you in our thoughts in the days ahead.

Marlene Lavallee

January 3, 2009

Hello, Mrs. OcGrady and Liane. What a wonderful life was lead by your husband and father. Sympathies from myself and from Mrs. Mayer. Mrs. Barclay sends hello to Danielle. We remember you all fondly. For all the things he did, i'm sure his family was his greatest achievement. (Liane, any new shoes?)

Peter Dodd

January 3, 2009

Dear Alix,

To Erica's message, may I add a few words? We were greatly saddened to learn of Geoff's death, and send our deep sympathy to you and your family. What a wonderful and kind man he was - it is a great privilege to have known him.

The fine obituary says it all - his character, his scholarship, his immense range of interests. How much he gave to us and how generously, to us, his friends!

His knowledge was always a delight. He never omitted to exchange observations with us on the "broken plurals" of Arabic, one of the delights of every student of Arabic. Always with humor - he was no pedant, but a brilliant teacher.

How much you will miss him! We think of you, and hope to see you soon. Affectionately - Peter and Erica Dodd

Marion and Arthur Fontaine

January 3, 2009

Geoff, we will miss you in any language you care to choose.
Memories of our seaside treks with you will always be treasured. Our hearts go out to Alix and your loving family.

Jim Leamy

January 3, 2009

Dear Alix,
We are both so sad to hear that Dr, O' Grady has gone. He was such a gentle gentleman and ew always found ourselves blessed when we were privelaged to be with him. His wonderful knowledge of languages and obvious enjoyment human contact wemade it such a privilege to have known him. Jim and Alison Leamy

Henry Awmack

January 3, 2009

Geoff O'Grady was probably the most brilliant man I have ever met, certainly in the unrelated fields of linguistics and ocean tides (perhaps not entirely unrelated - he rejoiced in deciphering the arcane patterns of tidal variations and the patterns of language cognates). But he was also a very witty, modest man who gave great pleasure to those around him - I will miss him deeply.

Erica Dodd

January 3, 2009

This is a great obituary and we learned much more about Geoffrey. What a giant he was! When we saw him he always prided himself in exchanging a few words of Arabic - you didn't mention that!We shall miss him enormously.

Our hearts go out to you all and our prayers are with you during the difficult weeks to come. We do hope to see Alix soon - and had hoped to see his children! All who have been in contact with Geoffrey are very much enriched and he leaves with us a very large gap in our hearts. All our love to you all - Erica (Dodd)

William Alkire

January 3, 2009

Dear Alix and Family,
We offer our sincere condolences at Geoff's passing. He was a true gentleman, peerless scholar, and loyal friend. We shall forever cherish our memories of him not only at the university but especially on the water off Sidney and in the Gulf Islands during our annual excursions.

Bill and Keiko Alkire

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