Dr. George Fred Wieland

Dr. George Fred Wieland obituary, Ann Arbor, MI

Dr. George Fred Wieland

George Wieland Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 29, 2020.
*Deutsche Übersetzung folgt. Born 1936 in Manhattan, New York City, George died in the fall of 2020. George was always grateful that his parents Gottlieb Wieland and Martha Wahlenmaier had emigrated to the United States; he was descended from a long line, at least 13 generations, of German peasants. His parents came to America with the equivalent of 8th grade educations, but wonderful teachers and schools in America enabled George to graduate from New Brunswick (NJ) High School and Stanford University. George had interest in becoming a geologist, but was told that having color blindness would prevent him from continuing in that career. He then received a PhD in social psychology from the University of Michigan, where he later became a Study Director at the Institute for Social Research, and an Associate Research Scientist at the School of Public Health. For a number of years he did evaluation research in Britain's National Health Service (NHS), enjoying his time living and working in England. He also taught at the Graduate School of Management at Vanderbilt University. His books included "Changing Hospitals," "Improving Health Care Management," and "Organizations: Behavior, design and change", which is still cited by scholars in his field today. About this time, he turned to new professional pursuits, studying the lives of immigrants from Germany, particularly Swabia (in modern day Baden-Wurttemburg). He eventually interviewed many German and German-Americans about their experiences, publishing "Bessararbian Knight", "Stubborn & Liking It: Einstein & Other Germans in America", "Escape from Hell: German Voices", "Celtic Germans: The Rise and Fall of Ann Arbor's Germans", and "German Mind: Made for Industry". In midlife, George also gained a new passion for a uniquely American form of social dancing, called "contra dance". Dancers join, alone or in groups, and are paired up in lines to dance to live music, typically Celtic, French-Canadian, or from other folk traditions. George went out dancing at least once a week. In 2001, he was diagnosed with CMML, a rare form of leukemia in which few treatments are available for older patients, and this enhanced his love of life, especially his passion for dancing, travelling, and visiting his children. His determination to manage his own health and to exorcise the traumas of childhood aided in his pursuit of the happiest, healthiest life he could manage. George was predeceased by his parents, and by his beloved aunt Lena Schlimmeyer, uncle Johannes Schlimmeyer, and their daughter, cousin Lillian L. Sabatino, of Virginia. He is survived by his four children with Sharon Kane: L. Susan Wieland (Jonathan Gutoff) of Providence, RI, Sandra K. Wieland of San Diego, CA, Mike Wieland (Donna) of Wiesbaden, Germany, and Patience Wieland (David Jarvis) of Houston, TX. His surviving grandchildren are Lillie Gutoff of Vermont, Michael B. Wieland and Thomas Wieland of Alabama; his brother Richard Wieland (Mary Ann) of Toms River, NJ, and his nieces and nephews Laurie Wieland Burkhardt (Doug) of Phoenix, AZ, Beth Rosenberg Sanders of NJ, Erik Wieland (Holly Baldwin) of Oakland, CA, and Stephen Rosenberg (Elizabeth) of NJ; his cousins Will Schlimmeyer (Alma) in Moreno Valley, CA, and Edith Gscheidle, Sieglinde Meister, Birgit Gotz-Konig, Gisela Noller, Jakob Schafer and many other cousins in Germany. In addition to his sweetheart, Kathy MacNeil, his beloved friends who brightened his life included Harry A. Turner, Rolf Th. Stiefel, Penelope Trikes, Rich Hausman, Rosemary Ryan, Mary Hope, Margery Obed, Nancy Shattuck, Walt Hopkins, the Kovacs family, Roberta Work, Leo Zimmer, Robert Van Dyck, Pamela Moore, and many others. In lieu of flowers we encourage donations in George's name to his favorite Michigan nonprofit, the Ann Arbor Community for Traditional Music and Dance, or Traces, a public history charity existing in both Germany and the US that seeks to encourage understanding and oral history between all peoples. ***: George, 1936 in Manhattan, New York City geboren, starb im Herbst 2020. Er war immer dankbar, dass seine Eltern Gottlieb Wieland und Martha Wahlenmaier während der inflationären 20er Jahre ausgewandert sind, aber danach auch froh, wieder mit Freunden und Familienangehörigen in Deutschland Verbindung aufnehmen zu können. An seinem Lebensabend konnte er auf viele enge Beziehungen mit Freunden und Familie in den Vereinigten Staaten, Deutschland und mehreren anderen Ländern zurückblicken. In gewisser Weise war Georgs Leben wie in einem in den USA bekannten Roman von Horatio Alger beschrieben: Gute Bildung und harte Arbeit (darunter in einer Baukolonne und andere körperliche Arbeit) ermöglichten George erst die Oberschule zu absolvieren - was beiden Eltern nicht möglich war - und dann auf die Stanford Universität zu gehen. Er erhielt einen Doktortitel in Sozialpsychologie von der Universität Michigan, wo er auch Studiendirektor am Institut für Sozialforschung und danach wissenschaftlicher Mitarbeiter an der Schule für Gesundheitswesen war. Er war stets dankbar für die hervorragende Ausbildung, die er in New York und New Jersey genoss. Für ein paar Jahre studierte er das britische Gesundheitssystem in London und unterrichtete an der Managementschule der Vanderbilt Universität. Zu seinen Buchveröffentlichungen gehört "Changing Hospitals", "Improving Health Care Management", "Organizations: Behavior, design and change", "Bessarabian Knight: A peasant caught between the red star and the swastika", "Stubborn & Liking It: Einstein & Other Germans in America", "Escape from Hell: German Voices", "Celtic Germans: The Rise and Fall of Ann Arbor's Germans", und "German Mind: Made for Industry". Neben besonderem Interesse für Schwaben, entwickelte George in seinem späteren Leben auch eine Leidenschaft für den 'Kontratanz', ein in Neuengland beliebter Gruppentanz, bei dem zu Live-Musik (z. B. keltischer, französisch-kanadischer, britischer oder anderer traditioneller Herkunft) und nach Ansage in sich gegenüberstehenden Linien getanzt wird. In 2001 wurde bei ihm chronische myelomonozytäre Leukämie (CMML) diagnostiziert, eine seltene Form von Leukämie, bei der es für ältere Patienten nur wenig Behandlungsmöglichkeiten gibt. Doch dies steigerte seine Lebenslust, vor allem seine Leidenschaft zu tanzen, zu reisen und seine Kinder zu besuchen. Die Entschlossenheit, seine Gesundheit selbst in die Hand zu nehmen und die Traumata seiner Kindheit hinter sich zu lassen, gaben ihm den Antrieb, seinen Lebensweg so froh und gesund, wie es ihm möglich war, weiter zu beschreiten. So konnte er trotz Leukämie noch 20 Jahre weiterleben, bis er an Nierenerkrankung (nicht CMML) starb. Es starben vor ihm seine Eltern, seine sehr geliebte Tante Lena Schlimmeyer, Onkel Johannes Schlimmeyer und Tochter, Cousine Lillian L. Sabatino. Es trauern seine Ex-Frau Sharon Kane und vier Kinder L. Susan Wieland (Jonathan Gutoff), Sandra K. Wieland, Mike Wieland (Donna), und Patience Wieland (David Jarvis); seine Enkel Lillie Gutoff, Michael B. Wieland und Thomas Wieland; sein Bruder Richard Wieland (Mary Ann) und Neffen und Nichten Laurie Wieland Burkhardt (Doug), Beth Rosenberg Sanders, Erik Wieland (Holly Baldwin), und Stephen Rosenberg (Elizabeth); seine Cousins und Cousinen Will Schlimmeyer (Alma) in Moreno Valley, CA, Edith Gscheidle, Sieglinde Meister, Birgit Gotz-Konig, Gisela Noller, Jakob Schafer und noch viele weitere in Deutschland. Neben seiner Liebsten, Kathy MacNeil, zählte er zu seinen teuersten Freunden, die sein Leben bereicherten: Harry A. Turner, Rolf Th. Stiefel, Penelope Trikes, Rich Hausman, Rosemary Ryan, Mary Hope, Margery Obed, Nancy Shattuck, Walt Hopkins, die Kovacs Familie, Roberta Work, Leo Zimmer, Robert Van Dyck, Pamela Moore, und noch viele mehr. Dank der 'First Congregational Church of Ann Arbor', findet eine Trauerfeier virtuell über Internet am 10. Oktober um 11:00 Uhr Eastern Standard Time (USA) bzw. 17:00 Uhr mitteleuropäischer Zeit (Deutschland) statt. Teilnehmer können sich über Zoom Videokonferenz oder per Telefon einwählen. Bitte vorher per SMS oder Telefon ((001)- 281-377-6150) die Internetadresse und Telefonnummer der virtuellen Trauerfeier erfragen. Anstelle von Blumen, bitten wir unsere Familie und Freunde in Europa um eine Spende an den Verein 'Spuren e.V.' (https://de.traces.org/vision-und-mission), der in den USA und Deutschland kompetent die Geschichte Deutscher in Amerika erzählt, den geschichtlichen Erfahrungsaustausch durch Zeitzeugen fördert und somit zur Völkerverständigung auf der ganzen Welt beiträgt, oder Georges Lieblings Non-Profit-Organisation aus Michigan, die 'Ann Arbor Community for Traditional Music and Dance' (https://aactmad.org).

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November 15, 2023

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October 13, 2020

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Harry Turner

November 15, 2023

George and I together worked our way through Stanford University's undergraduate program. We started in 1955. We received a dorm room and a study carrel at the campus firehouse. We were "student firemen". He was a gentle, kind classmate; I've remembered him fondly for 67 years

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Agnes Dikeman

October 13, 2020

I met George at least three times. Once was at the Waterloo Farm Museum in Grass Lake; another time was at the Rentschler Farm Museum in Saline. Both visits concerned Germans of Swabian descent. He also came to my house at one time, to discuss my German ancestors. He was both a scholar and an historian. It was my pleasure to meet him and to read his book, Celtic Germans.

The Redston Family

October 11, 2020

We have fond memories of George and his family in Dudley Avenue, Nashville. We were only talking about you last week. It's sad to hear of George's death and we send our condolences to the whole family.

Penelope Trikes

October 9, 2020

Thinking of George brings a smile to my face. He was a gentle man who was always eager to learn and have new experiences. Researching and writing his books about German people was his passion. He deeply loved his children. I am so grateful he was in my life as a friend, then as a partner for several years, and then again as a friend.

Katt Hernandez

October 9, 2020

All kind energies to all of you who knew and loved George. He was a fantastic and important friend to me when I was in my late teens and early twenties. We had so many good conversations about life and the living of it, as well as all manner of books, music, history, society, culture and so on. I think "curiosity, compassion and contra dancing" is a great way to describe him! I remember his world being full of all the different things he was curious about, and that his curiosity meant really learning all about a thing. And his world was full of long, good conversations, and real, thoughtful friendship- that was what I saw. He really took me on as a younger person in the most compassionate way, too. And I even tried contra dancing a few times. I am really happy and grateful I got the chance to know him. Sending lots of love from Sweden.

Gisela (Gise) Noller

October 9, 2020

We have received the sad news that our dear cousin George F. Wieland has passed away. We were always pleased that he was interested in his Swabian relatives and ancestors. He was about 22 years old when he was on the Trailhof for a few days with Sharon for the first time. His mother and grandmother grew up there.
2007 was his last visit to Swabia. Bartenbach near Sulzbach an der Murr is the place where his father grew up. There we had a farewell party for George at the Gasthaus Adler. 35 relatives of his celebrated with him. He was very happy about that. He said: "Now I know that I also have a home here".
He wanted so much to come again to visit Mike with his family in Wiesbaden and to see us, that is me, my sister Gretel vom Ittenberg and my cousin Helga and all the others. Now there are no more visits and we are mourning.

Leo Zimmer

October 9, 2020

Part two from Leo. We had a few adventures Together I thoughtless enjoyed. Certain parts of our childhood experience were the same.

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Cayla Tchalo

October 8, 2020

My condolences to George's family and many friends. He was a gentle, kind, humble, sensitive soul. I knew him thru contra dancing, thru another venue, and thru a love of German language and culture. He was a true intellectual in his work, producing so many valuable publications and yet unlike many scholars, he was a humble man who could relate heart to heart to so many different kinds of people with respect. He was a good and rare soul. Thank you and fare thee well, George! Sincerely, Cayla Tchalo

Kathleen MacNeil

October 7, 2020

He was a wonderful friend, a compassionate man and my dearest companion these past few years.

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