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Gerald C. "Jerry" Hayes
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Jerry proudly served his country in the U.S. Army. He was a member of Star in the West No. 85 A.F. & A. M., Unity; and Anah Shriners, Drum & Bugle Corps. Jerry was an entrepreneur throughout his life with successful ideas for businesses such as G & J Market, Unity, and was the founder of Hayes Unfinished Furniture, Brewer. He was an avid golfer and baseball fan. He was a member of the Saturday Nighters where there are many fond memories. Jerry was a very positive person, had a zest for life, a great sense of humor, and was always very happy with everything he did. His family was his life and he will be dearly missed.
He is survived by the love of his life, his high school sweetheart and dear wife of 53 years, Jacqueline (Fraser) Hayes; children, Catherine Bartley and husband, Dale, of Bucksport, Jerry F. Hayes and wife, Denise, of Brewer, Colleen Nason and husband, Wayne, of Brewer and Ralph C. Hayes of Brewer; nine grandchildren, Maureen, Melissa, Jessica, Erica, Marsha, Danielle, Jerry, Nicole and Nicholas; four great-grandchildren, Madasin, Mytchell, Mykenzie and Emma; a brother, Jay Hayes of Bangor; sisters, Nancy Hickey and Joan Eberhart of California; sister-in-law, Mary Ellen Fraser of Brewer; many nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by a sister, Lucille Fisher; and brothers, Byron and Charles Hayes.
Friends may call 6-8 p.m. Tuesday, Oct. 23, at the Brewer Chapel of Brookings-Smith, 55 South Main St., Brewer. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated 11 a.m. Wednesday, Oct. 24, at St. Paul the Apostle Parish, St. Joseph's Catholic Church, 531 North Main St., Brewer. Interment will be at Woodlawn Cemetery, Brewer, after the service. Gifts in his memory may be made to Shriners Hospitals for Children, care of Anah Shrine Center, P.O. Box 735, Bangor, ME 04402-0735. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com.
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November 10, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about one of my classmated passing.
Tim and I send our heartfelt condolence to Jerry's family.
Warmly,Tim & Gloria [Steeves] Smith
October 26, 2012
Dear Jackie, Am so sorry about hearing about the passing of Jerry. Just heard about it tonight. My condolemces to you and your family. Was going to send a card but do not have your address. God be with you and your family. Shirley (Looke) Clarke
October 26, 2012
I have very fond memories of Mr. Hayes when I was living in Brewer. Sending my respects and sympathy to the entire family.
Robert Westhrin Jr.
New Smyrna Beach, FL
Larry T. Doughty
October 25, 2012
My condolences to Jerry's family. Best..
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October 25, 2012
So sorry to hear about Granddad. He has left behind quite a legacy in his family! We are thinking of you all. Condolenses from the Howell Family.
Donyse Babin
October 24, 2012
I have such fond memories of Jerry at G&J Market in Unity when I was very young. He was always cheerful and had a way of making us feel special. Heaven is a brighter place now.
Cindy McEwen
October 24, 2012
Jackie and family,
I will always remember Jerry for what an nice man he was. My greatest sympathy and prayers for your loss. May God comfort you and bless you.
ann carver
October 23, 2012
i remember when jerry had his store in unity..such a sweet and caring man. he was greatly missed when he left unity
Nikki Lovell
October 22, 2012
Jackie and the entire Hayes family,
Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Jerry is now watching over you from a peaceful place. Rest in peace fellow Shriner.
Mark & Nora Lovell
Leah Bartley
October 22, 2012
I first met Jerry when I was 11. I have never seen him without a big hello and a nice smile. He has been a gift to all that has had the pleasure to meet him. My thoughts and prayers to all of you. <3
Danny Hickey
October 22, 2012
Aunt Jackie & all the East Coast Hayes family,
I am so sorry to hear of Uncle Jerry's passing. I have such fond memories of him from my visits so many years ago. I still love hearing mother tell the stories of growing up with Jerry. The world will be a little less bright without his smile in it. I am sorry for your loss and offer my deepest condolances.
Jeff & Lisa Royal
October 22, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
October 22, 2012
So sorry for your loss sending you love & prayers. Steve & Lisa
Virginia Weaver
October 22, 2012
Jerry, I will always remember you for your great sense of humor. You always had a smile on your face and enjoyed life to the fullest.
With love,
Ginny Weaver
Judy Wardwell
October 22, 2012
So sorry to hear of your loss. My love & thoughts are with you all! Love, Duane & Judy Wardwell
October 22, 2012
To the entire Hayes family,
We cannot express the sorrow we feal for your family at this time. Jerry was a wonderful man and will never be forgotten.
Your Friends,
Fred & Monica
Elaine & Allan Townsend
October 22, 2012
Jackie & family, Please accept our condolences and prayers at this time. Many people will miss Jerry's smile.
Heather Umel
October 22, 2012
Such a kind man, always had a smile on his face, and so helpfull when shopping in the store. So sorry for your loss.
October 22, 2012
All my Love to Jackie and the family. Phil Piper
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