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Glenda Hammer Obituary
Glenda was born August 23, 1940 in Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan to Alfred and Birdie Cook. Glenda lived in Sault Ste. Marie until January 1, 1950, when her family relocated to Ventura, CA. She and her twin sister, Paula, spent many happy days at the original Lincoln Elementary School, Cabrillo Jr. High School, graduating from Ventura Senior High School in 1958. She graduated from Chico State University in 1962 earning an Elementary Teaching Credential.
Glenda married her high school sweetheart, John Hammer, in 1962 and they lived and loved 48 years together. During those years, she taught elementary school, and with joy, raised her family of two boys. She also found much happiness bounding off to the tennis courts for a lively game with her many friends. Glenda found satisfaction in volunteering her time in her sons' classrooms, Jr. Womens, Rotary-Anns, P.E.O. Chapter FZ, and Las Patronas. She was a 57 year member and loyal supporter of the First United Methodist Church, Ventura. She was also a member of Channel Islands Chapter No.78 Order of Eastern Star.
Her warm smile, her generosity and caring way with others, her wonderful sense of humor and her infinite love for her family and beloved grandchildren, Will and Molly, are Glenda's everlasting legacy to those with whom her life entwined.
Glenda is survived by her beloved husband, John; sons and daughters-in-law Brandt and Mallory Hammer of Ventura and Lance Hammer and Nicole Quaid of Hollywood; grandchildren William and Molly Hammer of Ventura; twin sister and brother-in-law Paula and Jeff Voigt of Spokane, WA; brother-in-law and sister-in-law J.L. and Jan Hammer and sister-in-law, Maxine Spaulding, all of Ventura; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Carol Jean and Carl Gibaudy of Westville, IL and Jacquelin and Aaron Stroud of Chino, CA; nephew and wife Tommy and Dara Stork of Ventura as well as several other nephews and nieces.
Special thanks go to Glenda's many long time friends for their loving concern, Dr. J.N. Warwar and staff, and Dr. Lynn Kong and staff.
A celebration service of Glenda's life will be held 11:00 A.M., Saturday, May 15, 2010, at First United Methodist Church, 1338 E. Santa Clara St., Ventura.
Memorial contributions in Glenda's memory may be made to: The Museum of Ventura County, 100 E. Main St. Ventura 93001 or the First United Methodist Church, 1338 E. Santa Clara St., Ventura 93001.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Ted Mayr Funeral Home, 3150 Loma Vista Road, Ventura. Condolences may be left at www.tedmayrfuneralhome.com
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John Silvera
May 23, 2010
John & family - I will miss Glenda's warm smile and the peaceful presence she brought to the office. My sincere condolences to you all.
JESS TORRES
May 22, 2010
JOHN, MY DEEPEST SORROW FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE. I'M GLAD I WAS ABLE TO MEET HER ONCE AGAIN AS WE WERE NEIGHORS ON CHANNEL DR. JESS TORRES
Rosemary Cesnauskas
May 20, 2010
Dearest John and family,
It was an honor and a privilege to be a part of Glenda's care. She was such a dear sweet lady! You all gave her such loving care. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, Sincerely, Rosemary Cesnuaskas
Esther Carlton
May 17, 2010
We have lost one of the greatest women I have ever known. Ging was a true friend. I am so sorry I was unable to come to the memorial but my prayers for God's comfort go out to Paula and John. I have so many wonderful memories...overnight soires, sharing fun times and hard times...so much. I will miss her terribly.
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Steve & Jeanette Shinsky
May 17, 2010
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Your family is in our prayers that you may be relieved of the anxiety of her absence by the warmth of your loving memories with her.
Jodi Miller
May 17, 2010
To Paula, John and family..May you find some small comfort in knowing how much Glenda was loved and admired. I am so very sorry to lose my dear, precious friend much too soon.
May 16, 2010
John,
At the great memorial, yesterday, I wasn't able to sign the guest book. The speeches were profound, especially Lance's. See you soon guy. take care.
Buzz Murray
Jan Davidson
May 15, 2010
My very deepest condolences to John and your family. Glenda's steadfast faith and courage were inspiring and her warmth and sheer joy of living will never be forgotten. The lives of everyone she touched are far better for having known Glenda. May God's peace comfort you during this sad time.
In Christ,
Deronda and Steve Burdette
May 15, 2010
Dear John, Family, Paula and Jeff,
We are thinking of you this morning here in Montana. We send all of you a hug. Glenda will always be in our hearts remembering the wonderful lady she was with her so special smile and giggle. We understand how much she will be missed.
Candice Semonian
May 14, 2010
Dear Paula - I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your sister. I had hoped that she would beat this disease. You and your family are in my thoughts and pryers as you cope with your loss.
Joe Vaughan
May 14, 2010
John, Brandt, Lance and family,
Our hearts go out to all of you in this very difficult time. Any contact we ever had with Glenda, she was always friendly, caring and genuine. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers as you work through this very painful time. We know you will honor her by taking those characteristics you admired in her and living them daily. God Bless all of you! Joe and Kathy Vaughan
Yvonne (Bodle) Farris
May 14, 2010
Dear John & Paula, What a loss! I am so sad. Since our days at Ventura College on the Pep Squad, I will always have these fun fond memories of this beautiful lady! Love,
Bonnie Bartels White
May 14, 2010
I'm saddened to hear of Glenda's passing and send my condolences to Paula and to Glenda's family. I know she'll be missed.
Judy Greene Jones
May 14, 2010
Our sympathies go out to you, John, and in equal measure to Paula and Jon. It's so difficult for me to think of just one twin and I'm sure others feel the same. My heart full of aloha for all of you.
Dorothy Olmsted
May 14, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May 13, 2010
Heart felt condolences from Marcille and Jack McKeown
Blake & Brenda Hammer & Family
May 13, 2010
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you Uncle John and Family.Aunt Glenda was a very special lady who will be missed by many. Our thoughts are with you.
Love,
Mary Hansen
May 13, 2010
Dear John'
Sherman and I hear about Glenda' passing on Mother's. I have so many memories of our time together. You and your family are in our thoughts.
May 13, 2010
We are very sorry to hear of Glenda's passing.
Jim and Tish Harris
Charlotte (Thrift) Thacker
May 12, 2010
To John and Paula and all of Glenda's friends and family, my heartfelt condolences. I hope your wonderful memories of Glenda will, in time, help to soften your grief. My thoughts are with you.
Jim & Kristi Hammer
May 11, 2010
To Uncle John & Family,
We are very sadden at Aunt Glenda's passing, but know that she is at peace now. She was a very kind and gracious lady and our family will miss her. She always had a smile for everyone. We know that she will continue to watch over everyone and will always be in our hearts.
Love,
Jim and Kristi Hammer and Family
Anita Shcmidt
May 10, 2010
Paula, we are so sorry for you and your families loss. If you need anything please dont be shy to ask.
Anita Schmidt & Sheri Garcia
May 10, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you--John, Paula, and the entire family. Glenda was a very special lady, brimming with kindness, compassion, laughter, and courage. I will always treasure our memories of shared vacations and special times. My love, thoughts, and prayers will continue to be with you. Love, Barbara Ross-Herrington.
May 9, 2010
To the entire Hammer family- our deepest condolences in the loss of your beloved Glenda. What a beautiful person inside and out. It was our pleasure knowing her. Special hugs and love sent to you, dear Paula. With much love and support always, The Streeton family
GEORGE SCHROFF
May 7, 2010
JOHN AND FAMILY, AM SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSE. MY BEST, GEORGE SCHROFF
May 7, 2010
We are sadden with the passing of Glenda. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Sincerely, Ed & Ginger Jue
jim mccaslin
May 7, 2010
The McCaslin Family, past and present give our condolences. Glenda was always the kindest & sweetest person and just a joy to know as were the whole Cook Family.
Your family is a reflection of you and how lucky and blessed they are!!
Jim McCaslin & Family
Barbara Nordquist
May 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers to Glenda's family, especially Paula, on her untimely death. May we all look to her beautiful life as an inspiration for our own. God's love will envelope her and her loving family and friends as we know she rests with Him now. Fondly, Barbara (Altpeter) Nordquist
May 7, 2010
Johnny - May you and your boys know that many people are praying for you in the loss of your precious Glenda. All that has been said about her is so true - kind, loving and full of joy.
Our sincerest condolences. Linda and
Richard Rogers (Talbott)
May 6, 2010
Glenda was such a beautiful person to help in my classroom when I had her son Lance in my sixth grade class. She was always positive and cheerful! What a blessing she was! Please accept my most sincere condolances for her family. May God bless you with many memories of this beautiful lady.
Cecilia (Cege) McGrath Walnut Creek, CA
Jack Weber
May 6, 2010
To John Hammer and Family go our most sincere condolences
over the untimely passing of Glenda Hammer.
Nancy and Jack Weber
Robert Wilson
May 6, 2010
Glenda was one of the most sincere people I have ever had the pleasure to know. She always had a smile and a kind word for all.
May 5, 2010
John, Brandt & Mallory, grandchildren Will & Molly-
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on Glenda's passing.
Bill & Debbie Campbell (Ventura, Ca.)
May 5, 2010
Glenda was my classmate and it was my honor to know such a kind, loving and forgiving person. She lit up a room when she entered and made everyone feel so important. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. Ray Curtis
Peter Drake
May 5, 2010
I am deeply saddened to learn of Glenda's passing. She was a wonderful,warm and caring person. My sincere condolences to John, Brant and Lance. Peter
May 5, 2010
We are going to miss the glow of her smile and her magnetic presence. May her beloved husband, chilren and spouses and grandchildren forever cherish their beautiful memories. Please know that we care; may our prayers help strengthen you all in your time of grief. With sincerity, Jessica and Harvey Harris
Frank and Linda White
May 5, 2010
John: Frank and I were sad to read about Glenda in today's paper...she was truly one of the most gracious gals. The first time we met her was when she was our daughter Sally's "nanny" for Las Patronas in 1988. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Linda and Frank White
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