Gordon Rex SELMAN

Gordon Rex SELMAN obituary

Gordon Rex SELMAN

Gordon SELMAN Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province on Jan. 31, 2018.
SELMAN, Gordon Rex
December 4, 1927 – January 24, 2018
For his entire career, Gordon Selman was a committed adult educator, first as a programmer and director of the Extension Department at UBC and for the latter half of his career, as an associate professor. Gordon contributed to the development of adult education in Canada as a social movement with a distinctive focus on citizenship and preparing people to take an active role in shaping their communities and their country. He was involved in founding or leadership roles in a number of significant organizations including the Vanier Institute of the Family, the Vancouver Branch of United Nations Association of Canada, Canadian Association for Adult Education, Canadian Delegations to UNESCO, and the boards of the Open Learning Agency and the Carold Institute. His work was honored in many ways, including with two honorary degrees, from Open University and St. Francis Xavier University. He was much loved by fellow members of these organizations and by students. His gentle and often self-deprecating humour, his loyalty, and his respectful approach to all he encountered resulted in many relationships that have lasted through the decades. Gordon was also an author of a great many articles and several books, mostly focused on the distinctive contributions of Canadians to the practice of adult education. With colleagues Paul Dampier and Michael Cooke, as well as his son Mark, Gordon wrote The Foundations of Adult Education in Canada, still a staple of many courses and programs. A quiet and reserved man, Gordon had a number of passionate interests, many of which were lifelong. These include the novels of Joseph Conrad, Shakespeare, anything to do with Oliver Cromwell, the music of Ella Fitzgerald, Sidney Bechet, and many other jazz musicians, as well as spending time with family and friends on Bowen Island which was a centre for family life for almost 60 years. Gordon was committed to family. Throughout his life, he was influenced by his mother, a dedicated volunteer who held several important positions in prominent Vancouver organizations. He had a wonderful relationship with his wife Mary over his entire adult life and gave unconditional love and support to his three children, Mark, Jan and Julia and their families, albeit in his distinctive and sometimes understated way. His family including his children, their spouses, five grandchildren and four great-grandchildren, like many others he came in contact with, have been deeply shaped by Gordon's values and the example he set in terms of thoughtful engagement and quiet commitment to the causes he cared about. His quiet warmth and deep affection was felt by all. Donations in his memory may be directed to the Gordon Selman Fund that supports adult education students at UBC: www.support.ubc.ca/ selman-award or call 604.827.4111

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Ron Faris

March 15, 2018

I have just learned of Gordon's passing. I held him in great esteem and consider him among the great adult educators of our nation, along with his friends Roby Kidd and Alan Thomas. His contribution to our knowledge of the history of adult education in British Columbia and Canada was unique. Gordon played a central role in helping to develop our provincial adult education policy framework in the late 1970's and early 1980's as a member, and often chair, of the advisory committee to the Continuing Education Division of the Ministries of Education/Advanced Education. Gordon and Mary Selman together served the people of our province in many quiet yet effective ways. His dedication as a husband and father was exemplary and we should all celebrate his life well lived. Gordon was a profoundly decent man and deeply committed Canadian adult educator. Condolences to Mary and family. RIP, Gordon.

Bob Selman

February 3, 2018

So very sorry to hear of Gordon's passing & wishing his family my deepest respects.

Bob Selman Danville, California USA

Norah Corbet (Worsfold)

February 2, 2018

Gordon was a very kind and engaging professor in the Adult Education program at UBC from which I graduated in 1984. I have fond memories of Gordon and Mary.

Anne Bernard

February 1, 2018

Dear Mary - I saw this today and am heart broken. I have thought about you and Gordon often over the past years since we were together in UBC and wish there could have been chances to catch up before now when it is too late. I hope you are doing ok, with your family around you. I liked Gordon very much as a person and appreciated him tremendously as a teacher.
Anne

Coleen Hansen

January 31, 2018

On behalf of Gordon's Hood Point neighbours the Walkers, we send condolences to Mary and family at this time. he was a fine man, a true gentleman, and a wonderful neighbour.

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March 15, 2018

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