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Barb Seed
June 3, 2015
Mike & Kathy, not.a day has gone by that I haven't thought of you, Greg, Amy & Christina in this last year. The heartbreak of your losing Greg is incomprehensible, yet you have borne it with such strength and grace, just stoically moving forward, focusing on making sure he is remembered & memorialized in the same positive light in which he lived his life, while doing your best to move forward with yours. I love you. Barb
Mike and Kathy Ashe
June 2, 2015
It's been nearly a year since Greg's passing, and it's been a year filled with heart-wrenching sadness balanced by the wonderful memories we shared with Greg over the 34 years of his life.
His life was full...full of ambition and drive to overachieve in all of his academic and occupational pursuits.
We are so proud of him. You might witness this as you visit the Cemetery, the Irvine Animal Shelter, the McFadden Project at the Newport Beach Pier, or the Irvine Wildlife Sanctuary where there are memorials to Greg and his life in all of these locations. We will continue to pay tribute to Greg whenever we find the opportunity.
Thank you to all our friends and family for the support and love you have given us. We will continue to need all of your prayers in the years to follow.
Lucia Suarez
June 26, 2014
Greg just would connect with everyone so quickly. He was charismatic and hard working. Truly inspirational. And lots of fun. He will be not forgotten.
Dan Bunn
June 21, 2014
I remember when there was a time in my life when I was an agoraphobic. I was bitter, hateful and unable to communicate face to face with people. I was terribly ashamed and not willing to discuss it. I didn't have many friends; the ones I grew up with moved on with their lives and had their own problems to deal with. During that period I made my friends online. For the most part people were nothing more than their call signs, a random avatar of pixels as easy to replace as starting up a different game. Of the few people who I did get to know individually, Greg was one of the most caring, genuine of them all and a person I've known the longest. I felt Greg seemed more interested in me as a person than as the call sign as well, and we bonded rather quickly. We were both night owls who preferred to spend our evenings blasting away in FPSs. Our general mission was to play as unconventionally as we possibly could, but absolutely playing to win (and win by as large a margin as possible). While we enjoyed discussing whatever game we were currently playing, or the current big name game of the moment, our most passionate discussions were about the industry itself, primarily as designers.
What I saw as wide-eyed daydreams Greg saw as his fully attainable goal: to make video games. He would talk endlessly about not only what makes a game bad, but the things that could be done to make a game great. His dream wasn't to make the next big thing and sit on a mountain of money while milking one bland sequel after another; rather, it was to make a game that he – a true blood gamer – would want to play. He was proud to call himself a gamer and be associated with the gaming community.Greg wanted something compelling because it was funandbecause it was competitive, which often times rang as polar-opposites in games, rarely ever reaching that equilibrium in his estimation. If it met that balance then it was good,it needed to be nothing less and nothing more, and Greg's devotion to that game would be unshakable. Greg told me he was going to make his own studio down the road, after he got his foot in the door and established himself in the industry. I assumed Greg was like everyone else I ever heard talk about such high endeavors: nothing more than a talker chasing clouds, and probably going to forget what he was ever talking about after a few years. I learned fairly quickly that I was absolutely wrong.
I still remember when Greg told me he was going to apply for Blizzard. I thought that was the coolest news but I didn't expect a former chemist, which Greg was experienced as, to get very far in the application process. Again, I was absolutely wrong. Greg gets in and quickly starts climbing the ladder, and soon our gaming sessions go from short to shorter until finally he doesn't have much time at all to sit and blast. Usually this gaming scenario plays out the same every single time: people become friends because they're both playing the same game, then life calls, then people don't game anymore, then they are no longer friends anymore. That didn't happen with Greg. He would still send me status update emails regularly and ask what I thought about the games at Blizzard, what I thought the future of FPS games were, what I thought of e-sports. He didn't forget about me when he had every legitimate reason to.
I told Greg about my problems and my desires to get past them. Greg gave me unwavering support as well as unknowingly providing a first-hand view of the model of being a doer. He pushed me to chase my passions, encouraged me to go back to school while providing insight on relevant studies or side projects to participate in to help me reach my goals once outside of academia. And all the while, I get to sit and watch as he is working to make his own visions come to reality, dealing with his own stresses and problems and never once blinking at the titan before him. As swamped as Greg ever got, he could still take the time to send you an email, text or PM.
When Greg told me he left Blizzard the news was almost a bombshell. Then as he told me of the plans to create a studio and some ideas for projects he wanted to work on, like a flash everything came full circle in my mind: he got his foot in the door, then he established himself in the industry, then he made his own studio. He did it. He said he was going to do it and then he did it. I was fortunate enough to participate in numerous playtests as well as being privy to a few of the morning meetings. It was always a fun environment, yet when it came time to put the nose to the grindstone, he and his team showed amazing focus. They never forgot what they were doing , though: they were making a game they wanted to play, a game they thought gamers wanted to play. Sometimes, after things had wrapped up for the day, Greg would ask me to jump into voice comms with him and ask me what I thought. This always meant so much to me, not only because I got to tell him of my excitement for what he and his team were doing, but because I also got to hear the excitement in him as he discussed plans for the present time. This was no longer a grand master plan written in the mind, no longer something to be blown off by any naysayers as a day dream or just talk for “the future”. He was in full bloom and he was kind and open enough to let you see the amazing experience as he was seeing it.
Greg achieved all of this while being the kindest hearted guy I think I've ever come across. There are the stories of the industry as a cut-throat, every man for himself business. There are even a few shows on the air romanticizing the notion. I don't have the experience to say if that stuff is true or not, but I do know Greg would shatter that mold. Everyone liked Greg and he liked them, because regardless of whatever group they worked with or whatever rival project they may be on, at the end of the day they were all gamers, and that's all that mattered to him. Our group gaming sessions always featured rival studios with titles coming out head-to-head, and the environment was nothing short of wonderful and inviting. It always played out the same: a pleasant pregame chat session catching up with people as they loaded into the server followed by legendary bloodbaths and trash talking throughout the game, and ending with the same pleasantries that preceded the apocalypse we created. The thing that interested me the most though was as the server fills with people from all over the map and different studios, Greg would call them all by their real first name. Once Greg knew your first name, he always called you by your first name.
Greg never forgot you, and I hope anyone who was lucky enough to know him will never forget him.
As Greg would say, “Stay Beautiful”
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Kathy Fearon
June 20, 2014
I am so grateful that I was able to attend Greg's memorial yesterday. Although I never got the opportunity to meet Greg, looking at the standing room only in the chapel I could see how Greg touched so many lives. My heart goes out to Mike, Kathy, Amy & Christina.
Sheryl Lam and Scott Silberman
June 20, 2014
Today I had the pleasure of going to the funeral of Greg Ashe. This ceremony and reception was one that left everyone in awe of Greg's many accomplishments over his short life and will inspire many to go out and accomplish their own dreams. I learned a lot about Greg and his family. To see all the great people that came to this event, made it easy to see what Christina saw in Greg and how they complimented each other so greatly. I learned a lot about Greg today, everything from his long list of accomplishments at Blizzard, to his ability to scour the corners of the earth for the most challenging food to eat. They say a person's greatness can often been seen in the people that surround them. Greg was certainly surrounded by great people.
At the reception today I was able to sit next to friends of Cathy and Michael Ashe, Greg's parents. As we talked to them, it was obvious that Greg's kind-heartedness and drive came directly from them. What wonderful people. The amount of people who came from Blizzard and spoke so highly of Greg, was another brilliant example of both the greatness Greg had and the wonderful people that surrounded him.
While we all shed tears today for this man who left us well before his time, the wounds of Christina, and Cathy, Michael and Amy are sure to run deep after losing such a great man. We can only hope that as those wounds heal, the scars that they leave will inspire them, and all of us, to aim high and strive to accomplish our dreams as Greg did.
Greg, you will be greatly missed by all whose lives you have touched.
Cynthia Kilian
June 19, 2014
Dear Kathy, Mike, Amy and Chris, my heart aches for your devastating loss...
I'm looking at a favorite photo of
Three beautiful boys, "The Cousins", Kathy's Greg,Nancy's Ryan and my Adam...each of them with a unique destiny written at birth.
In this time of deep sorrow, may you be surrounded with love and support from your beautiful family and friends. In loving memory of a beautiful nephew and a great young man.
Cynthia Kilian
Doug and Judy DuCharme
June 19, 2014
Mike,Kathy, Amy, Christina and Family, our love and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. Please know we are thinking of you tomorrow as you memorialize Greg's life. May he rest in peace.
Doug and Judy
Tim Grammer
June 18, 2014
I will deeply miss you Greg and fondly remember the evolution of our talks about your new gaming company. Amazing to watch it go from concept, to sketches of Project X, to seeing the graphics come to life. Truly a joy to watch and your excitement for it was contagious. Entrepreneurs love Entrepreneurs and good people love good people. Your were both, my friend, and I love you for it.
Susan Rahman
June 17, 2014
Greg was an amazing and inspiring individual who touched so many lives. We send all our love and compassion to his family and friends in this difficult time.
Shirley Pope
June 17, 2014
Mike, Kathy, Amy, and Christina,
My sincere and deepest sympathy go out to your family at this most difficult time. May love and precious memories comfort you always. I can still see a handsome little freckled face reddish blond, up at bat and running the bases in his gold and black jersey and grey pants on the winter ball team that Mike coached and our boys played! We have lost touch over the years but my memories of your family are special to me and my children...Shane Clatterbuck, Amy Clatterbuck, and Tina Clatterbuck Cartwright we all heard the sad news at the same time last night and shared our sadness for your loss. Please stay strong as possible knowing that Greg was a wonderful young man that made a positive impact and many loved him!
Srikanth Naidu
June 17, 2014
Greg was a great human being and a true friend. Our deepest felt condolences to you Christina and family. So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts. Please let us know if we can do anything. Amee and Srikanth Naidu
Peter Koenig
June 17, 2014
Greg and I lived together for my junior year/his sophomore year at Oxy. We haven't kept in touch since then but I've thought of him often. He flossed his teeth more than anyone I knew, and as a consequence I still floss more than I did before living with him. He studied for his chemistry exams by casually flipping though the pages . . . About a page a minute it seemed. The next morning he would get up earlier than normal, dress to impress, and then go off and nail his exams. Too bad I couldn't learn that habit from him, too. It was maddening . . . I am so sorry for your loss.
Shane Dabiri
June 16, 2014
Greg was a terrific soul and this is a tragic loss. My heartfelt prayers to his family.
Bridget Waldman
June 16, 2014
My heart goes out to Greg's loved ones. Greg and I went to school together, from our start at George E. Harris Elementary School to our last final days at Chaparral High School. Greg was always a good friend; someone with a constant smile on his face, a happy demeanor and a trusting spirit. He was one of the good guys. A friend you could always reach out to. His passing has me in shock, as someone so wonderful should be living... which he will, in my memory and heart forever.
Craig & Tina Hamilton
June 16, 2014
Our hearts break for you at this difficult time. Our memories of Greg are ones of fun times with Ryan and Tara and a gentle, kind boy, who obviously grew into a loving, respected, intelligent man. May the love of family and friends give comfort to you and Amy and Christina. No one should suffer this kind of loss. Keep happy memories in your hearts. Those who love will be reunited in eternity.
Dale and Tana Trahan
June 16, 2014
Christina, Mike, Kathy and Amy,
Our prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. May God bring you strength and peace in the coming days. Our love is with you all. Dale and Tana Trahan
Maria Bleecher
June 16, 2014
My heart goes out to your entire family. I have a son born the same date as Greg and can only imagine the devastation of losing him.
Tim Purcell
June 16, 2014
Mike, Kathy, Amy and Christina, my heart aches for your loss. Let your faith strengthen you, family surround you and friends help you through this tragedy. My blessing to each of you.
karla cox
June 15, 2014
Greg and Amy were part of the gang of kids we all raised during the same time period. They were always well behaved and Greg so full of plans and ambitions. He was a fighter with chrohns disease and a winner in life. Mike and Kathy are good parents and are always so proud of their kids' achievements. He is back with God who loves him as much as you do. May that bring some comfort until you are back with him again. Love Chet & Karla Cox
June 14, 2014
Mike, Kathy, Amy and Christina, our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We have so many great memories of Greg as our kids were growing up. I remember holding his hand while rollerskating when he was about 5 and thinking his little arm was going to break it was so thin! Then he grew into such a tall, strapping young man! May the wonderful memories you made together sustain you in your time of sorrow. We love you, Jim & Barb Seed
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