Helen Wilt Matthes

Helen Wilt Matthes

Helen Matthes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 6, 2013.
Matthes, Helen Wilt

Newark: Helen Jane Witt Matthes passed away peacefully on Friday, January 4, 2013. She had been a resident of Durham, NC since 1998, when she and her husband, Herland Matthes, relocated from Newark, to be near their children and grandchildren.

Helen was born in Mud Mills on July 16, 1919. She graduated from Newark High School in 1937, and married Herley on June 28, 1938. They owned and operated Graham Florist and Greenhouses for many years. In addition, Helen was the secretary to the principal at Newark High School for 25 years, until her retirement in 1978. She was a life-long member of Park Presbyterian Church, and a past matron of the Eastern Star.

She is survived by her son, Bill (Laurel), and granddaughter Andrea Matthes (David Bethea), grandsons Ryan (Corinne) Matthes and Trevor (Melissa) Matthes. In addition, she leaves behind four adored great-grandchildren: Jared and Zachary Halverson, William Joseph (Liam) Matthes, and Kenzie Ann Matthes. She will be missed by her brother, Fred Witt, and his children, Jim Witt, Kathy Latona and Cindy Hartman; and nieces Sue McWharf, Judy (Rick) Morey and Becky Shipley. Mrs. Matthes spent countless hours knitting hats and mittens for the children staying at the Ronald McDonald House of Durham. Over the years, she donated more than 800 caps and pairs of mittens for critically ill children living there while undergoing treatment at Duke University Hospital. If you wish to honor her with a memorial gift, it would be especially meaningful for her if you would consider contributing to the Ronald McDonald House of Durham, 506 Alexander Ave., Durham, NC 27705 .

There will be a memorial service at Park Presbyterian Church in Newark on Monday, January 7th at 11:00 AM, followed by a reception in the church hall, during which her friends and family can share memories and celebrate her long life.

Remembrances may be made to www.murphyandsonsfuneralhome.com

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January 10, 2013

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Elaine Galante & family

January 10, 2013

Sorry for your loss--just remember she's in a better place with all of her friends--its the ones left behind who have the very hard time of dealing with the loss of a person who is loved so dearly.

January 6, 2013

Bill & Laurel,
I remember Helen. Well, what can ya say..she had a full and happy life and she is with all her friends in Heaven who went ahead of her.

Denise Shomeaker

January 6, 2013

Dear Laurel and Bill I am sad to hear of the loss of your mother Helen. I have many fond memories of her when we were all a good deal younger. She was always so nice to me. No matter how long we have them we are never ready to lose our parents. May the Lord hold you in his loving arms through this difficult time of loss. God bless you and the rest of the family.
Denise Fischette Shoemaker

Diann Dunham

January 6, 2013

Bill, Laurel, and family you are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad and difficult time.
Love, Tom and Diann

Scott Strong

January 6, 2013

She was always like another grandma to me and my girls. She will forever be part of our extended family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. So happy she will be reunited with pap H..

January 6, 2013

Dearest Bill, Laurel and family, I am so sorry to read the passing of this dear and wonderful woman. It certainly brings back wonderful memories of your parents, Bills parents and mine. We were the lucky ones to have them as our parents. My sympathy to your family.
Mindy elzufon

Pat Brubaker-Strong

January 6, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Mrs. M is at peace now and in heaven with her husband. I have many fond memories of both Mr. & Mrs. M. while growing up literally in their back yard. Prayers sent to all of you. Pat

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