Henry Cousine Obituary

Hank, I don’t think I’ve ever heard LAPD stories funnier than ones involving you! I found out about your untimely passing some time ago, but more recently than most. I regret no selling you my 1973 fire engine red Cadillac; if anyone fit it better than me, it was You! RIP Brother! Heaven is Rockin Now!!
Rooster

Hank my sweet Hank ~ I met Hank doing off duty work in Downtown L.A. We connected immediately. We laughed all the time and just had a great time at work. He made coming to work so much fun. I've thought about you for years and was very sad to know you passed so long ago. I was actually looking you up to try and reconnect and found out the sad news. You left a piece of yourself with me and I will never forget you and the time we spent together. You are special Hank and loved by many. I am sad that you are no longer with us. Truly sad!!! We lost a great guy too soon. Bye Hank

Just wanted to say Thank You for your Friendship, I will see you soon Brother!

I know this is way late, but I lost touch with Hank and just heard about his passing. I met Hank in 2006 at Freek Racing, and knew we'd get along the day we met. He was a cool dude who treated people right. Loved hearing his funny cop stories. In the short years I knew him his offers of help or assistance got to the point where I felt bad telling him no thanks so often. Hank had so many friends and people who respected him you knew he was some one you wanted to know and I am glad I did. I find it hard to believe that a guy who was larger than life is gone. Peace my brother.

Sugar~nothing is the same without you......I love you more and more each passing day.~sugar

RiP ranger

Sugar
My life is so empty w/o you - I still feel like its not real. Most of me is numb...the only thing that keeps me sane is believing that you are in Our Gods Paradise watching over me - I see you and talk to you in my dreams thank you for loving me - thank you for being my sugar for 22 years - it will never be over I will be with you again .. I know it... Your last email to me was "I can't live without you"
I miss you :...(( more and more everyday - doesnt seem to get Any easier. I wish i had got home sooner to get my daily kiss - I need it! Xo muwah baby! kisses to heaven! I love u more and more forever and a day.

I haven't seen you in 25 years, but finding out you passed away just yesterday was just as heart wrenching as if I'd just seen your smiling face just 25 days ago. I've thought of you often and always with a grin. Rest in peace Hank, you sure touched many, and it was an honor to know you.

Henry, Don Jose, & Jason

My heart is very heavy today, just findinfg out that my friend has passed. If I would have known I would have made it a point to be there. My deepest sympathies to you all. He will be greatly missed.
Lorey

I still miss you so much. I am so happy I spent every day I could with you before you left us. I will see you some day soon my Cuz.
Love you Always.
Donna

Hank... You were larger than life.... Always caught everybody's attention in the room.... Too soon my friend.......

Henry was a funny guy. He made walking to biology, in the 10th grade, alot of fun for so many of us. By reading his guest book on here, I can see how much he touched so many people's lives in a very positive way. By prayers are with Henry and his family.

Really missing you today Dad. I would give anything in the world just to hear your voice and hug you one last time. I hope you know how much you meant to me and how much you are a part of who I am. I love you so much and wish I had the chance to make sure you really truly knew that. RIP daddy xoxo

Henry,

I recently discovered your untimely passing. Wasn't it just yesterday we were having daily bb gun wars in the canyons and you always picking the guy with a pellet gun to be on your team. You said "Snipers" are visionary! Let's not forget the circus game of lining up an unlikely kid to stand against the garage door as we threw darts around out stretched arms and legs. Remember when you stuck me in the arm? You laughed, but it was a kind laugh!

Your life always come to mind when I watch that iconic movie "Stand By Me". Although the "Big Lebrowski" would be equal to your creative humor.

I was telling my kids "Luke 7" and "Michaela 11" storys about you. You have quite a following with the chants "Henry, Henry, Henry". Hearing them say "Daddy tell us more storys about him".

I reminded them of how you worked at some Italian joint on Foothill Blvd. I think that is where you earned the money to buy some horse you wanted to call "Linda" after your lifelong love.

Not sure if you ever told her about some of that money coming from us climbing the billboard above that joint. Remember, we caught pigeons as they roosted? Threw them into a pillow case and sold them for 50 cents each. Then we ran hysterically down Foothill as you proclaimed "I'm getting date money now". Never got my cut fyi!

Now after all these years I track you down. My billionaire friend needed a personal body guard who understands the word of "Loyalty" with special forces and a police background. I told him, you would fit in well to Vegas and maybe he could Sherpa my camera equipment around the world as I shoot. He was sold through the storys I shared.

Amazing that after all these years we see light in new ways. Reading the mirror of your Mom, daughters, Linda and friends you truly lived! Something tells me there are many now "Standing By You". Your friend, Jeff

NO PHONE CALLS TODAY. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. LOVE FOREVER!!!! MOM

Lord please shine this light for those weve left behind as im sure Hanks new path is blinding the other angels

Never Give Up. Those were the last words Hank spoke to me. I will always consider myself the luckiest most blessed man that ever lived because I met Hank. When we first met I was homeless, going thru a divorce and angry as hell. Hank bought me some beef tacos and then proceeded to fill my heart with laughter and hope. Then he gave me a job and stood by my side thru the darkest days of my life. I never had a family that I had ever been able to call my own, - til you my friend. And even thoigh I was just a Navy Puke you still found it in your heart to forgive me. Your leadership and perpetual loving, spirit have truly set the new standard for the entire world to follow. I love you Brother. You saved me by showing me that actions speak louder than words. You took me into your house and trusted me with your family. You gave me lessons how to raise my little children with Love and guidance, but far more important you gave me Family. Thanks BROTHER and I swear Ill never give up!!!

I was out of the country when I heard about Hank (Henry) my brother in Blue. I worked Central Patrol with Hank back in the mid 1980's on Morning and Mid PM's, we always had a ball and he kept everyone laughing. A Copper's Cop who will be missed. Glen Younger

I'm proud to say I worked with you and consider you my friend. Thanks for all the laughs. I'll see you again brother.

My Ranger/Centurion brother. You always kept me and the rest of the team laughing. I know you gave St. Peter a hard time when you got to the gate, but I know you told him a joke or two to let you in. You will be truly missed by all who know you. Be at peace my brother!

I just read (11) pages of condolences about Henry J "Hank" Cousine and like many others they made me laugh out loud and think of my own memories and cry at the thought of not having my FRIEND around any more.

In this world there is only a very few that are thought of by other cop's as "A Cop's Cop" but that was Hank. Chief Gates was another and and that is why the Chief called Hank his friend. The Chief knew that Hank was a Great LAPD Cop.

The world is a better place to anyone who knew Hank and had him in their lives.

God must of needed someone up there to bring happiness to all the boys in blue that have left us.

My life was touched and better having known you.

Your friend,

RIP Bro.... See you on the other side! .:.

Hank

You made every minute in the locker room and the field fun and enjoyable. I feel honored to play next to you and know you as a friend. You are missed by many. God blessed you with wit and humor and blessed us by bringing you into our lives.

Your Centurion brother

Hank

My Centurion brother rest in peace your memory will live on, in are hearts forever. "LAPD Centurions"

Hank, so many memories and great times with you and your brother! You were the best in keeping us always ready for something! You will be missed...God bless

I was out of town when I heard the sad news. During my period of disbelief, I googled your name and couldn't help but laugh and smile at some of your quotes printed in the Los Angeles Times. Rest in peace my Centurion Brother, you will be missed.

Centurion!!! Hank Bro, you left us too soon. I remember the great times being around you. You made me laugh and understand the value of a good friend. Thanks for all of the great and positive memories. You will be missed!!

"The CRAB"

Hank the Tank...I will miss that smile of yours. My hubby, Mikel, will miss his "brother from another mother". May you be at peace....

Hank, Thank you for the good times and the memories as brothers in blue and on the football field as Centurions. You will be missed by all..!
Miguel Lopez

I was shocked when I heard the news. So strong and charismatic. I was privileged to know you for the very brief time I did while in Los Angeles. Rest in Peace and God Bless your family.

Hank. Worked patrol morning watch at Cent w/ you. Will never forget the roll calls (hilarious). You were a he'll of an ofcr and great friend. Miss you my Brother.
Bob Nelson

Hank classmate partner and friend. 12/82.Even from up above I know you still have our backs.

Hank the Tank is gone but not forgotten. All the times I had to be tackled on the way to the gym from the parking lot in the morning and you telling me I needed to watch my back. Always be on alert. You always inspired me with your jokes, wit, and zest for life. You knew no fear and was always the life of any gathering. I will miss you my friend.

Hank I have loved you sense we were kids. You are the best cousin anyone could ever have. I was so happy to have you back in my life. I wanted to spend every day I could with you. My endless love will always be with you. I will take great care of Tank for you. Thank you so much for being you. I love you.

Henry, you were my first crush. As a kid, you were the nicest boy I knew, I wish we would've stayed close. I'm sure my Dad and Your step Dad John were there waiting for you, I'm sure you'll keep them entertained!!! I've missed you for a long time, and can't believe I let time get away from me! All my love to Auntie, and Don, and his daughter, and grand baby!! Debbie Boyke

H,

I will never forget you. Rest well.

Li

Hank -

I had to read all of these posts over and over again. It is actually therapeutic in a way; it is immensely sad to come to the realization that you are gone. But reading all of these messages just brings back all of the good memories over the past 25 + years. The times in 77th, when we got to work together and then again in Southwest. I find myself actually laughing when I think of some of the stuff you have "uttered".

I remember one night, Maurene and I decided to go have a romantic night out for our anniversary. This was around '89 or '90. We went to a beachside resort behind the Orange curtain and were enjoying cocktails. It was a quiet, mellow night. All of a sudden, at the height of romance (the sun was dipping into the Pacific) there arose a loud ruckus at the bar....you, your brother and an entourage had arrived. You spotted Maurene and I, and that was the end of the romance, and the beginning of the party. We joked and laughed, and cock-tailed the rest of the evening, with the result that all of us took a swim, in our clothes, at around midnight as best as I can recall. Suffice it to say, Maurene and I still talk about it. You made us feel very special that night, albeit a bit hungover the next morning, but we were smiling!

Hank, you were a cops, cop and a special human being and you shall be missed.

Don & Maurene Schwartzer

Hank, Thanks for the great memories. Rest in peace my brother.

Hank,
I always respected you as a man who kept it real. You never changed your ways. The strength of a man is what you always displayed. Pleasure knowing you was all mine. You'll live in my heart forever Bro.

Daddy, not only were you my hero but you have proven to touch the lives of many. You mean the world to me and always will. I'm glad Danni had the time to spend with her grandpa and know what an amazing man you are. i love you and will NEVER forget you. you are my daddy, my hero, my world!!! and i know you will be watching over me and Danni forever. you know i need it. xoxo

Babe,

I'll never forget the first day that we met; you were 11 years old, one year younger, and three inches shorter than I was. I remember the first time we kissed, and you had to stand on the curb so you would be taller than I was. I remember the horse you bought with the money from your paper route, that you wanted to name Linda, and how mad your mom was because she wanted you to name it after her. And how I told you the only thing more stupid than a horse named Linda, was a horse named, Mom! Everyone loved you, even then, as a boy-- the way you could make everyone laugh, and feel so special. Eight years later we married, and you had become a man, the man who gave me three wonderful children, (who when they're being a pain in my neck, I give you 100% credit for.) And even though, after 25 years, we parted ways, I'm thankful that we always remained friends. You are a part of me. You were a part of my life as a child, as a man, and you will forever be in my heart. I promise, I'll take good care of our daughters, our granddaughter's, and our future grandchildren, not yet born. Sleep well, my Henry, and know that you will missed.

Love Always,

Henry you had a personality larger than life. Everyone who met you loved you. The women adored you, but I think the greater loss will be felt by all the male relationships you made in this life; if not just by the numbers alone.You had enough charisma to draw anyone to the cool aid, but there was no evil in you. All children would flock to you like a magnet, every plain looking grocery checker felt beautiful and special when you left her line. The facade of your tough guy image melted when you would show the special place the homeless had in your heart. When you would take the second to acknowledge them and add something to their day. Funny could not possibly explain you, you could make us laugh so hard we could not breath and leave us wondering why laughing so hard could make you cry. No one could tell a story quite like you. That is what should be on your headstone. You were a STORY TELLER!!!! Unfortunately with your "living life to the fullest", you made a few stories of your own, but nothing ever seemed to phase your energy or enthusiasm for life. There is a huge hole in this world now where you once stood. Your life ended on a good chapter. God took you while you were still on top. You will forever be remembered, young, strong, funny, optimistic and generous. Thanks for letting us know you were always there for us if we needed. Thanks for having such a big heart and letting so many in it. Energy that was once in this world is gone now. Your heart has broken, but some of ours has died along with it.

Hey Hank, true story. When I was a new sergeant at Southwest Division, I attended a training day followed by a steak fry. During the steak fry, I saw a sizeable group of people standing around a guy who seemed to be doing all the talking. I inched closer and listened to what this person was saying. In no time, I was laughing with everyone else so I finally asked the people next to me, "who is that?" They responded, "that's Hank Cousine." Well, I was lucky to get to know Hank somewhat better at Southwest. We had a few enjoyable conversations and I still remember some of his classic quotes. LAPD was lucky to have you Hank. Those of us at Southwest will never forget you. Your spirit and enthusiasm will be truly missed.

I cannot believe you are gone. I can hear you saying, "Heeyyy Mannn" in my head. You were such a light in the world and made me laugh to the point of tears! Love you Hank, see you on the other side!

Hank, was faithful to his friends. His greeting was... "Hey, Man, what are you doing?". The last I spoke to Hank, was at Camp Pendelton about two years ago. He was on his Harley and with the grin on his face that we all know. We spoked about getting together. Unfortunately, that never happened. Hank, to know you are not with us, is truly a loss for us all, but I pray that you are at true peace and know that your legacy will continue through your loved ones and the many friends you left behind and though you left the profession, you will always be part of it, because we who remain have always remembered you. You, live through the many stories that we all share about you. To one of the 44... Sleep well my friend.

Memo

Hankster.. You and Don made me laugh like no other!! I will never forget you!!! Sending you and your family lot's of love!

Tara Flynn

Daddy its bugger ur crazy twin. Mom always said I was just like u
and i used to tell her to zip it but today I take the twin nickname and love every second of it. U are my life my heart and soul. I'm so happy ur spirit kept kk safe while u passed. I love u so so much dad. I'm so happy your free. I will be right there causing havoc with you when its my time. XOXO

Hank we never worked together but I would see you from time to time on various details. I heard the Hank stories from Southwest Division and how you kept everyone on their toes. I did have the pleasure of seeing you flying down Martin Luther King Bl on your way to work. You pulled up next to me while I was driving my black and white, smiled at me with that big smile and said " Im just goin to work bro." All I could do was laugh and shake my head. I know you are smiling at all of your brothers in blue saying "Im just goin to work brother." RSP

Hank....you made working Parker Center desk a blast. You lived every day to the fullest and are one of the true "good" cops who were out there fighting evil and bad guys 24/7.

I met Hank in the late eighties and we worked together a few times. Yes it was fun and memorable. Not many remember the great job you did on the Donohue Show after being put on an infamous list of officers. (Post Rodney King) You made alot of EAGLES proud that day and you said some things that needed to be said. The DOERS and EAGLES will never forget you.
Raul Galindo (Diamond Bar)

Hank! My brother in blue. You were the indestructible crazy cat with nine lives. The world is not the same without you. It is as if someone came along and cut off the top of the Christmas Tree. I will miss you everyday forever my friend. Thank you for every single time you had me laughing the entire watch. Your legend will live on forever. Thank you for brightening our lives.

Shocked and sadden by the news of your passing. I will always remember the funny, carefree, loving, and did I mention Funny Hank the tank. I know your creating some kind of ruckus up there in heaven. you will be missed.

Hank, for all the years of working together and playing football side by side, I thank you. You always had my back. Maureen said it best when describing you to our kids, "Hank had a way of making everyone feel special." I wish they would have had the chance to meet you. I'm laughing and crying with every memory of you. Bless you Bro. Keep us all safe until we are side by side again. Love you.

It has been many years since I heard your name or saw you. But even today the sound of your name makes me laugh. You were a crazy, hilarious man with a good heart. Although admittedly, when I would hear your name at the LAPD, and particularly when I worked in Chief Gate's office, I would cringe a little wondering what you had done "this time." You know that Chief Gates liked you a lot and always had your back, as did I. Thank you for all the laughs and I know heaven will be rumbling with all of the laughter and ruckus you will be causing up there. From now on, when I hear thunder, I will think of you. You are missed.

Hank, you are missed, all the cash overtime details we worked and the time we went to Tommy's after payday Wednesday night. We all had some great times, you are truly missed...

HI HANK-
UNCLE DARRYL JUST TRANSFERED YOU TO HEAVEN DIVISION. GOOD LUCK ON YOUR NEW BEAT. I'LL CATCH UP WITH YOU SOON!

JORGE TORRES

Hank, you kept our academy class in stitches with your sense of humor and wit! You were one great cop and friend, you will be missed!

Hank,
You will be missed, say hi to Chief Gates...

Hank, my old southwest partner, loved you , miss you. Loved knowing u had my back, you were a crazy guy and so much fun, when I think of southwest division, I think of you, god bless u my friend.

Hank we had great times working together in SPU, I will always remember your great sense of humor. You were a great guy and an OUTSTANDING cop. Till we meet again, rest in peace my friend!!!!!

Hank, it was a pleasure and an honor to work with you. You were one of the best cops I have ever worked with. Where ever you worked,everybody knew, you had our backs!
It was a lot of fun hangin' out with you off duty! Some of the "Hankster" stories I continue to talk about ocurred close to 30 years ago, and we all still laugh like we're crazy.
You were one in a million my brother, my heart grieves, my mind disbelieves. You will be missed til we see you again.
Engelbert Q

Sonny I first met you in 1979 and a lasting friendship evolved. Now 33 years later I have to say good bye to you. I will never forget all the good times we had together. Thank you brother for each and everyone of them. Rest in peace Sonny.

Hank, my Centurion brother. I miss all of the good times that we shared together. My back has finally healed from all of the shots that I took, from you going through me to the ball. I know that you will be holding court up in heaven. Looking forward to the day that I will see you again. "Choke"

Hank was a great street cop and I enjoyed having him on my watch at 77th. He was respectful and worked out great with the right partners. I loved his enthusiasm and zest for life. He always came by when I was in SWAT to share his successes in the field and some personal stories. We had an inside joke ongoing about his career and he loved jabbing me about it. Tom Runyen

Wild Thang, thanks for the wild ride and crazy times! You were truly one of a kind! Rest in eternal peace my brother!

Hankster you were a good partner in 77th and a good teammate that I played alongside for years you will be missed my friend

Hank, You were the funniest man i ever knew..I can hear your laughter and see that huge beautiful smile!..How the angels are rejoicing..They must of needed some entertainment and now Heaven will never be the same..we will be able to hear all the Angels laughing here on earth!!!..I met you when i was 21 yrs old.(27 yrs ago)..I will never forget the times that we shared..and when i think of you it will be with a huge smile and a chuckle!!..fly high and fast!..xo

Hank - You will always have a special place in my heart. Your kindness and laughter hold strong memories.

Hank, you were one funny dude, and a unique personality. I remember working with you back in the day in Central in 1987. Sorry to hear of your very premature passing. RIP, my friend.

Hank,

Your Family in Blue loved you and we are going to miss you. God needed a warrior angel to fight the fight. We know you are in the new life.

In His Mighty Grip, Y'Shua ha-Mashiach,
Evy

Cousin Henry - I am so glad we got to spend the last 2 years together after all those years our families were separated. It was not enough time. I guess God needs a bodyguard - and now he's got the best. Miss you already and always. With love, Cyndi Lu

I just saw you Tuesday.......You were so full of life...so happy:-)....Glenn and I will miss you forever, Sonny!....I love you so much.....you hugged me so tight that night when we said our Good Byes.....I wish I would have known it would have been the last time I would have seen you....I would have never left.....You are forever within my heart.....xoxoxoxoxox