Henry William "Hank" Schoenlein

1932 - 2023

Henry William "Hank" Schoenlein obituary, 1932-2023, Petaluma, CA

Henry William "Hank" Schoenlein

1932 - 2023

Henry Schoenlein Obituary

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Henry William “Hank” Schoenlein


October 4, 1932 - January 31, 2023


 


Hank Schoenlein, a long time Petaluma resident, passed away peacefully on January 31, 2023, at his home, in the presence of his family.


 


Hank was born and raised in Ferndale, Michigan. He was a graduate of Iowa State University and the University of California Berkeley, and a proud veteran Officer of the United States Marine Corps.


 


Hank is survived by Laila Schoenlein, his loving wife of 63 years; daughter Debbie Smith (Dan), of Santa Clara, CA, son Robert Schoenlein (Heather) of Greenbrae, CA, son Gary Schoenlein (Kris) of Bellevue, WA; grandchildren Danielle Smith, Braden Schoenlein, Grant Schoenlein (Shyanne), Gabriel Smith (Haley), Casey Schoenlein, Malcom Schoenlein, Ryan Schoenlein; and great granddaughter Ezra Schoenlein (Grant/Shyanne).


 


Following his tour in the Marines, which included service in Okinawa, Hank’s spirit of adventure led him from the Midwest to graduate school at U.C. Berkeley where he met Laila at the International House in 1957. They married in Petaluma in 1959. Hank gave over 30 years of dedicated service to the State of California as a Health Care Administrator and Social Worker. From his professional career, to community service, to bicycle touring with his buddies, Hank pursued all his interests with tremendous passion. He particularly loved to work on restoring many older homes in Petaluma, celebrating the labor far more than the finished product. Hank was always most comfortable in his work-stained t-shirt and jeans. He indeed had “Dirty Hands and Clean Soul.”


 


Hank’s greatest passion was for Laila, his soulmate and best friend. He felt blessed for their many years together – years of countless adventures and experiences. He especially loved engaging in and celebrating the lives and aspirations of their children and grandchildren, always with encouragement, enthusiasm and support. Being with his great granddaughter in his final year was a special joy for Hank.


 


Hank will be remembered as a wonderful family man, a man of character, and a joyous worker. He lived the creed of “Do unto others.”


 


A Life Celebration will be planned at a future date and announced to family and friends. In lieu of flowers, consider a donation to Salvation Army or similar charity for those in need.

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March 6, 2023

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March 6, 2023

Rebecca Schwerin posted to the memorial.

February 17, 2023

Sylvia Verdu posted to the memorial.

Becky Schwerin

March 6, 2023

I was watching the news tonight and found out that it was national Oreo Cooke day which always brings to mind how much uncle Hank loved his Oreo cookies trying not to cry missing my uncle Hank tonight rest in peace

Rebecca Schwerin

March 6, 2023

Sylvia Verdu

February 17, 2023

Laila, So sorry for your loss. Hank was a kind & generous man and I know he will be missed by many. My condolences to you and your family. May your heart be filled with wonderful memories.

Scott McLaughlin

February 15, 2023

Hank taught me how to be a man. His family treated mine like their own. He is the reason I joined the Marines, fix my own house and go out of my way to help strangers. He gave me his attention, his time and his love.

Laila, I can never thank you enough for being part of my family and including me in yours.

Debbie, Bobby and Gary - thanks for always including me and caring for me too. I’ve never forgotten my childhood with you and know your dad’s influence has carried on through all of you to your beautiful families today.

Hank - You are missed. I was so proud to see you standing with a smile on your face during the Marines Hymn at my retirementI will remember you to then end of my days and hey, let’s just put a little mustard on it.

Ann Derby

February 13, 2023

Dear Laila - I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you love, light and music. With sorrow, Ann

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Scott and Candace Parks

February 7, 2023

Our heartfelt sorrow to the Schoenlein family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Hank was such a kind man. When visiting, Hank was always welcoming with a smile on his face. So loving and proud of his family. We are thankful and blessed to have known him. Our love and prayers to Laila and family.

Renee

February 6, 2023

What a lovely tribute to Hank! His was a life well-lived.

Paul & Carol Lwali

February 5, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We were blessed to have crossed paths.

Becky

February 4, 2023

My thoughts and prayers are with the schoenlein family at this difficult time thank u cousin Gary for telling me about my uncle hank it´s always difficult getting sad news I am going to miss uncle hank but I know he´s watching the warriors game from the heavens I will never forget him and all the positive conversations we had about the warriors and Draymond Green and knowing I´m in a safe place made uncle hank feel better I love you uncle hank Rest in peace till we meet again

Becky

February 4, 2023

I´m going to miss my uncle hank he was always calling me and checking to see how i was doing we always had good conversations about the warriors games rest in peace till we meet again

Rebecca Schwerin

February 3, 2023

Toby Bolinger

February 3, 2023

Thank you for loving Rebecca Schwerin she dearly misses you shine on bright star.

Kevin Gross

February 3, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to the entire Schoenlein family in the loss of your husband, father, and grandfather.

I have many fond memories of Uncle Hank including the excellent adventures he would lead those of us from Michigan when we came to visit.

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Kevin and Joyce Gross

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