Herman J. "The Hermanator" Stakes

Herman J. "The Hermanator" Stakes obituary, Norfolk, VA

Herman J. "The Hermanator" Stakes

Herman Stakes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 29 to May 31, 2019.
The Hermanator left Sunday morning to meet up with his hunting buddies in heaven to tell lies about that Buck that got away! Herman loved his family, hunting, fishing and the view from his backyard. He loved sitting on his deck talking with the BEST neighbors for over 50 years. Herman owned Stakes Body Shop and loved working with his son and later with his grandson. He grew up in Norfolk and married the girl up the street, Doris Cavender. They had three FABULOUS children, Scott (Lisa), Pam (PJ), Matt (Shannon) and five grandchildren, Chance, Peighton, Vann, Zion and Ziggy. Siblings include Estelle (deceased), Jackie, Betty, Suzie and Donnie. A CELEBRATION of Life will be held at Calvary Revival Church, 5833 Poplar Hall Dr. Norfolk, Va. 23502 Friday, May 31st at 6pm.

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May 23, 2021

Toma Hall posted to the memorial.

July 18, 2019

Toma Hall posted to the memorial.

July 18, 2019

Dick & Carol Agnor posted to the memorial.

Toma Hall

May 23, 2021

Miss talking to you about guns and gun trading hunting and having laughs r.i.p pal

Toma Hall

July 18, 2019

Sad to here of Herman's passing only knew him a short while but long enough to know he was a great American we traded guns shared hunting stories a few run drinks and lots of laughs .

Dick & Carol Agnor

July 18, 2019

Dick and I would old like to express our sympathy & let you know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Herman was a kind Soul & will be missed. May God give you peace and comfort during this very sad time.

Kim and Jimmy Frey

May 31, 2019

Doris and family,

Jimmy and I are so sorry to hear of Herman's passing. Jimmy spent alot of time with him up at the hunt club and Christmas breakfast at his shop. He says he was a hell of a hunter. He remembers the albino deer he got. And he was still trying to get a bear. He was also a great story teller.

Peaceful Passage Arrangement

Laura Nelson

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Ray Hughes

May 30, 2019

Scott, I met your Dad at the shop a few times. It was always a good experience-he was easy to talk with, friendly and interesting. I am certain he will be missed by family and all who knew him.
Ray Hughes (Ann Hupp's father)

Celestial Love

David Childress

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The Kemp Family

May 29, 2019

We would like to express our sympathy and know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
May you find peace in this time of sorrow and find comfort in knowing he is with God.

Bonnie Summers

May 29, 2019

Suzie, I never had the pleasure of meeting your brother. Im so sorry for your loss.
I have been looking to reconnect with you for many years. We went to Maury together. Please email me at [email protected]
Bonnie Summers

Jacquie Wedeman

May 29, 2019

Doris & family: Bucky & I are so sorry to hear of Herman's passing. I alway look over at your old home in Carova and remember the good times we had riding the 3 wheelers and Our children playing together. The years have really gone by so fast. Our prayers are with you and your family. Deepest sympathy

Joyce Liddle

May 29, 2019

I recently met him and he was such a great man my condolences to the family

Kody Bliven

May 29, 2019

Herman was an amazing man, loving father and family man, and full of heart. He greatly touched our lives. So sad to hear of his passing. Sending thoughts and prayers to Doris, Pam, and family. Love to all, The Bliven Family

Millie Hershberger Jolley

May 29, 2019

Doris, I was so sad to learn of Herman's passing. It's been a thousand years since I've seen you or Herman, but have many happy memories of him and the old neighborhood. I remember when he was a young teenager delivering groceries on a bicycle for Winslow's Market. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

dave williams

May 29, 2019

I have fond memories of Herman when we worked at castle cars inc. He will be missed by many.

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