INGRID REUTER

1942 - 2020

INGRID REUTER obituary, 1942-2020, New York, NY

INGRID REUTER

1942 - 2020

INGRID REUTER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 19, 2020.
REUTER--Ingrid Ann Petersen. (1942-2020). Ingrid was a warm, smiling, loving, and understanding wife, mother, sister, and friend. A great cook, prolific knitter, avid gardener, photographer, and listener - those who met her learned to love her in a truly short time. She was passionate about the natural world in her garden or in her travels, was ever ready for the next world adventure; Ingrid leaves a long and unfinished bucket list. She graduated from Cleveland Heights High School in 1960 and attended Bowling Green State University. Received a Master of Social Work Degree from the Brown School at Washington University in St. Louis and her JD from Pace University. She found wonder and joy in her 56 years on Martha's Vineyard where she loved visits from her family, new friends, clamming with her toes and long walks along the beaches. She lived in Glen Rock, NJ, for 40 years and was a social worker with the Bergen County Special Education Team, an attorney with a Paramus law firm, a member of the Glen Rock Board of Education, softball coach and a Red Cross volunteer counseling patients and families affected by advanced brain cancer. In 2012, Ingrid and Fritz "retired" to New York City where Ingrid was active in her long- time Book Club, a committed member of the Citizen's Committee for Children, an avid student of Spanish at El Taller, and a member of the Unitarian Church of All Souls. She was a beautiful, loving, laughing and robust woman, who always had an angel food cake with pink seven-minute frosting on her birthday, played a mean game of double solitaire and could always enjoy a quiet Scotch on the rocks with a twist. She brought color, style, and joy to our lives. She was a beauty. Her joy was her family, especially her daughter and grandchildren. We will remember her forever. Ingrid is survived by her husband (56 years), Fritz, her daughter, Kari Roberts and her children, Anna and Erik of Reading, MA and her two sisters, Karen and Kristin Petersen and their families. A memorial service will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church in the fall. Donations in Ingrid's memory can be made to Citizens' Committee for Children at www.cccnewyork.org or 14 Wall Street, Suite 4E, New York, NY 10005.

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June 14, 2020

Ruveyda Sezgin planted trees.

May 26, 2020

Klaus and Aracy posted to the memorial.

May 26, 2020

Eva Irrera posted to the memorial.

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Klaus and Aracy

May 26, 2020

Ingrid (and Fritz) have been one of the few couples we know at church.
Although our chats were brief and sporadic, she would always greet us with friendliness and warmth. She will be greatly missed.

Eva Irrera

May 26, 2020

For me the Vineyard will never be the same without our dear neighbor and friend of so many years. I see her arriving for cocktails holding a jam jar with some of her lovely flowers from her garden, a smiling Fritz behind her, sitting on our deck with cocktails, the wide spread of sea before us. And sometimes it was her deck, the same blue expanse. Her meals were delicious and effortlessly served. More than anything I will miss her presence, her kindness and caring about others, her intelligence and honesty. Wherever you are, Ingrid, you are bringing joy and laughter.

Maria

May 26, 2020

Ingrid will be missed by us all! She will always be a presence on Philbin beach and on our deck. Her laugh was infectious and it is hard to believe she is not having an adventure somewhere better.

Joe Irrera

May 25, 2020

Ingrid was a neighbor, a caring family friend and one of my favorite people. Over the years, we had many wonderful conversations and I enjoyed her great sense of humor. It seems like our home always got a little brighter and warmer when Fritz and Ingrid arrived. I will miss her deeply.

Xiomara Paredes

May 21, 2020

Ingrid was my neighbor in Glen Rock and my very good friend. She was my confidant at tough moments of my life, and her wisdom always helped me to overcome my troubles. She loved her Spanish classes and I greatly enjoyed speaking with her and laughing together at her mistakes. Ingrid was a woman of many talents and interests which I so admired. She knitted me a scarf, a beautiful colorful, perfect gift she gave me as a surprise. We enjoyed sharing recipes that we exchanged once in a while. I was so sad when the Reuters moved to Manhattan, but so glad for Ingrid. The suburbs became too boring for her; she wanted to be where the action was! I never had a friend with so much to offer - so sophisticated, knowledgeable, smart, fun, talented in many ways, and more important of all, the best friend I've ever had. I'll miss you Ingrid!

Glenn A. Grube

May 21, 2020

We were fortunate to know Ingrid first as a neighbor across-the-street in Glen Rock, and then as a friend who shared many warm and happy moments with us over the past fifteen years. We'll miss her many talents, her sense of humor, her sharp commentary on the world and her creative spirit, but memories from our time together on Berkeley Place will keep Ingrid in our hearts.

Andrea Norkus

May 19, 2020

she was warm, wise, funny and irreverent. We will miss her greatly.

David Kilgallen

May 19, 2020

A wonderful wife fora great husband. Ingrid was always welcoming when we visited your home. Hope you, Fritz, are well.

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