Jake Rheaume

Jake Rheaume

Jake Rheaume Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 21 to Oct. 22, 2008.
RHEAUME, Jake Jake closed his eyes on Saturday, October 18, 2008 and when he opened them he was in God's hands. Jake was dearly loved over his 5 years by his Mom & Dad, Nancy (nee Kilfeather) & Todd, by his Nana, Kathryn Millar, his Papa, Andre Therien, his Grangie, Gerry Kilfeather, his Grandma, Wendy Petch, his Gran, Sharon, and Grandpa, Earle Rheaume, his Auntie Elizabeth and Uncle Ghislain Stucker, and his cousins Katie and Evan, and by his Uncle Jeff and Aunt Joanne Rheaume, and his cousins Noah and Ryan. He was greatly loved by many aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and the staff and students of St. Luke's School, Nepean. He will be missed by his dogs Yukon and Klondike. Friends may call at the Kars Chapel of the Tubman Funeral Home, 1610 Roger Stevens Drive, Kars on Wednesday, October 22, 2008 from 2pm - 9 pm. A funeral mass will be held at St. Leonard's Roman Catholic Church, 5332 Long Island Rd., Manotick, on Thursday at 11 am. Those wishing may make a donation in memory of Jake to the Easter Seals Society, 105 - 1101 Prince of Wales Dr., Ottawa (Ontario) K2C 3W7, or to the Kemptville Memorial Hospital, P.O. Box BG 2007, 2675 Concession Rd., Kemptville (Ontario) , K0G 1J0. Condolences, tributes and donations may be made at www.tubmanfuneralhomes.com

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October 18, 2009

Miss your little laugh buddy....thinking of you today and thinking of your mommy and daddy!

Christine and Harry Dean

November 14, 2008

(Our Dearest Nancy and Todd)

We are so sorry that we could not be there to show our love and support, but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Little Jake was such a bright light in our lives. He was a happy and loving little boy, so fortunate to have both of you as parents. He will have a special place in our hearts forever.

God Bless You Sweet Angel

With much love
Aunt Christine and Uncle Harry

Ben O'Neil

November 2, 2008

I am very sorry for your loss. Jake was a important member in our school community and I will miss him deeply. God bless Jake! My peers and I at St.Luke will remember Jake forever. I am so sorry for your loss!

Tracy, Roger, George, Peter and Amy Gibbons

October 27, 2008

We're so sorry for your loss - nothing can ever replace Jake or completely mend your broken hearts. I hope your wonderful memories and pictures will give you some peace and remind you what a wonderful life Jake had.

Please know that we are thinking of you and are close by if there is anything we can do to ease your pain.

Dave Curry

October 25, 2008

Todd and Nancy,

Though I haven't seen you in several years, nor met Jake, it is important to remember all of the joy, happiness and enrichment he brought to your lives. My thoughts are with you and your entire family.

deborah galli

October 24, 2008

Nancy and Todd-beautiful parents of Jake,

I remember this little boy arriving the first day of school surrounded by mommy, daddy, aunt, uncle and cousins. This little Jake who was about to join us for his days. He didn't seem afraid at all, only anxious to take on the world. Little did we know that this "little man" was going to rock ours'. Jake was always the little guy we all wanted to hold on our laps - and often took our turns to do so, in spite of the fact that he wasn't a "little boy" and just wanted to be on the go. The loss of Jake has been so painful, the whole in our hearts too big to fill. Jake was a force to be reconned with, and he never wanted to be left out of anything, nor was he ever. Thank you for your gift to us.
Thank you forever.
deb galli, D.A. at St. Luke School

Ana Ilic

October 24, 2008

Todd and Nancy,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As a mother, I cannot even begin to imagine your heartache. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

May you see God's light on the path ahead
When the road you walk is dark.
May you always hear,
Even in your hour of sorrow,
The gentle singing of the lark.
When times are hard may hardness
Never turn your heart to stone,
May you always remember
when the shadows fall—
You do not walk alone.

My sincerest heartfelt condolences.

Bruno,Felix,Rocque,Sarah and Alexandra

October 23, 2008

Our deepest condolences for your loss.You are in our hearts, Jakey, and forever you shall remain. You will be missed by all.

Abby Johnson & Family

October 23, 2008

Mrs. Rheaume and family - our thoughts are with you.

Doug and Joyce Petch

October 23, 2008

Nancy and Todd

Although we never met Jake, we heard of him often through Wendy and Gerry. We know you will miss him deeply, as will all who loved him during his short stay on this earth.
May you find joy in your remembrances of a very special son.

Karyn Ladurantaye

October 23, 2008

My heart is saddened by your loss of your cherished little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and may the loving memories of Jake surround you forever and give you strength during this difficult time.

Karyn (Tanya and Christine's sister)

Ian Richardson

October 23, 2008

Todd & Nancy,

Sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Christine Farquharson

October 23, 2008

Dear Todd and Nancy,

I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts, heart and prayers go out to you. God Bless.

Tamara, Ashlyn, Meghan and Shawn Hickey

October 23, 2008

Nancy and Todd
I have only known Jake for a short time, seeing him at masses at the school. Every time I saw him, he had a huge smile on his face, that lit up the room. My daughters Ashlyn and Meghan had the pleasure of helping Jake in school in his class. He will be sadly missed by my family.

Our thoughts and Prayers will be with you, and may God be with you at this time of sadness. Jake always looked like a presious little Angel in life and he will remain that way in death. Now he can watch over you like you watched over him. God bless you.

Lina Heeroo

October 23, 2008

Nancy and Todd,
I received the news from Jennifer Hockley and was deeply saddened to hear about Jake. Our thoughts and prayers are you all at this time.

Nancy Hawco

October 23, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Janet Millar

October 22, 2008

Nancy and Todd,

Through your love, courage and devotion as parents, you blessed our family with the joy of knowing and loving Jake. Thank you for sharing your sweet son with us!

I will remember Jake, as a special little boy with sparkling eyes, a smile brighter than sunshine and a pure, innocent heart. The last time I saw him, I held his hand and made him laugh. I am so grateful for that time I got to spend with him, I will miss him.

During your time of sorrow, may you find comfort and strength in each other, family and friends. With faith, in time, the pain will heal and your heart will be whole again. The cherished memories of Jake "our brave little soldier", will be forever in our hearts.

Group hug and kisses to you all,
lots of love from Aunt Janet

Melanie Dumond

October 22, 2008

Nancy and Todd,

Eventhough I only worked with your son for a month, I have touched forever. His smile and laughter will always have a special place in my heart. Not only has he touched me, but your unconditional commitment to him and devotion to making his life an amazing one, has also touched me. Jake is so lucky to have lived with such amazing parents who never stopped loving him and offering him the best the world had to offer for him! You never held back and did so much for him. You have so many memories to look back to that will hopefully help you through these very difficult times.

Your love and devotion to your son is truely an inspiration to me. God blessed Jake with two angels of his own, and now he will watch over you and take care of you!

My son and I will continue to pray for you and we send you our love and most sincere condolences.

Melanie and Dominic

Blaire White

October 22, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Jake was a wonderful boy who always had a smile on his face. We will all miss him very much.

Ian Snelson

October 22, 2008

Todd and Nancy:

Although I never had an opportunity to meet your son, I cannot help but feel a real sense of loss. It has so very quickly brought me back to my own experience of this kind.

Many years ago when I lived in a small town in the Ottawa Valley, I lost my own brother to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. The event of his death had a definite impact on my family’s life - especially for my mom. We all felt the effects of his death for a long time.

Although I was younger at the time, I remember feeling that no words could ever explain why these kinds of things happen. No words could really answer my question - Why him? No words could explain how we would recover from this.

I remember so many family friends, teachers, church ministers and several people from the community who we didn’t even know who brought food, flowers and words of condolences to our door. They all gathered around us to support us though the most difficult time that my family had ever experienced.

Without a doubt, this extremely sad and unfortunate event will have a very large impact on both of you and your families. Let the caring people around you support and help you in any way that they can.

Although this is a dark time and that at this moment you are probably feeling that things will never be better, please know that as the days, weeks, months and years pass that you will start to feel stronger and things will get better. Time will help to heal, and you will always remember your son Jake in your hearts and through your fond memories.

You are in many people’s prayers and thoughts at this difficult time.

Please take care.

Ian and Jordan.

Lisanne Van Vlaardingen

October 22, 2008

As a mother and an old school friend of Todd, I send my deepest sympathies. I will keep you all in my prayers. God Bless.

Kim Brennan (Canadian Blood Services)

October 22, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, may beautiful memories soften the heartache over time, my prayers are with you.

Betty Kilfeather

October 22, 2008

Nancy & Todd
With our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time
Betty. Andrea & Maura

Tina Morris

October 22, 2008

Todd and Nancy,
Shocked and saddened to hear of your loss.I wish I had be given the chance to meet him. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Todd my mother sends her deepest regret.

Paula Bell

October 22, 2008

My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult and sad time.

Tanya Corey

October 22, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Maura Hickey

October 22, 2008

Nancy and Todd,
We only met Jake once, but your love and devotion to Jake touched our hearts so much.

You will be with us in our thoughts and prayers tomorrow and throughout the difficult times ahead.

God bless you both,
Maura, Liam, Adrian, Laoise and Catherine

Danielle Baggett

October 22, 2008

Dear Todd and Nancy,
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Even though we are afar, we love you very much and are here for you.
Love,
The Baggetts

Neil,Natalie and Andrew Williams

October 22, 2008

Nancy and Todd our thoughts are with you.

Kathy Storring

October 22, 2008

Todd and Nancy,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I didn't know you or Jake, but you have touched my heart.

Abigail & Mark Chalmers

October 22, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kathleen Acorn

October 22, 2008

On behalf of my nephew Austin, who was a buddy for the last two years to Jake at St. Luke school, we send our heart felt condolences. Jake has truly touched the heart of his buddy Austin, and will be forever missed! God speed little man!
Kathleen and Austin Acorn (St. Lukes School)

Karim Davis

October 22, 2008

My thoughts are with you and your family

Tom Kasouf

October 22, 2008

Nancy and Todd, I know the days to come with family and friends will help you in this time of sadness, my deepest sympathy.

Jackie (Drawbridge) and Daniel Sauve

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy,
Thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Uncle Adrian, Auntie Marie, Nikki & Colin Kilfeather

October 21, 2008

Nancy and Todd,

Our heart aches for you there are no words to express our sadness for your loss. Jake couldn't have asked for better parents in the 5 years he had on this earth. Our prayers and thoughts are with you both and all of the family in this difficult time.

Love Always,

Uncle Adrian, Auntie Marie, Nikki & Colin.

Dave, Joy, Mackenzie, Joey, and Owen Holmes

October 21, 2008

Dear Todd and Nancy,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the warmth of all who surround you.

Gillian Barter

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy

I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Jennifer and Stephen Snippe

October 21, 2008

Nancy and Todd:
No words can express...Our deepest condolences to you both.

Melissa Pica

October 21, 2008

Dear Nancy and Todd,

It was such a blessing to have worked with such a beautiful boy. Jake was very fortunate to have such loving and caring parents and i know that is something he will always cherish. I will never forget the wonderful memories I had with Jake. He always lit up a room no matter where he went. Jake will always have a special place in my heart and I will never forget him. We are very lucky to have gained another beautiful angel.

Tara Provencal(Morris)

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy,
I was so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. His smile looks like one that would light up a room. I hope the strength and love of your family helps you through this difficult time.

Jennifer Picard

October 21, 2008

Our hearts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

Love Jennifer, Dominique, Erik, Sebastien and Kipp

Carolyn Labelle

October 21, 2008

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our son was one of his buddies in class and he will be missed by our son and all who knew him. I will say a prayer for Jake tonight, my thoughts r with you all..

Andrew Labelle (St.Luke)

October 21, 2008

I am sorry for your lost and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I enjoyed being in your class playing with you.
I will miss you.

Jeanne Dacey

October 21, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of Jake. Although he is no longer of this earth, he lives forever in the hearts of those he touched.

Andrea MacLean

October 21, 2008

Rheaume family,

Our daughter was in Jake's kindergarden class at St. Luke's.

Recently we had started meeting Jake's bus early in the morning so Bella could wish "good morning!" to him first. We said a prayer for Jake last night and Bella asked him if he was sitting on the moon or a star?

Jake taught us a lot in such a short amount of time.

Andrea, Jamie, Bella Pistilli

Chuck Richardson

October 21, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Karry Lisle

October 21, 2008

You will continually be blessed by Jake's memory. You are the family that know and love him in a way that words were never written to understand. His spirit will be a constant with you forever and he will bring you peace in times when you need him the most. We are not meant to understand the unbroken bond of our lost loved ones, but that bond takes on a new dimension of faith that is very easy to believe when experienced. You won't have to look for him, you will just know he is there. God bless and keep you in His care. You are in our constant thoughts and prayers. Your neighbors Steve, Karry, Tiana & Alyssa Lisle

Tania Gonsalves (Thompson)

October 21, 2008

Words seem so inadequate as one tries to offer condolences on the loss of a child. No one can ever know the pain you feel but can only hope that you can find solace in that Jake has flown on the wings of a dove and is now nestled tightly in the arms of our lord. Thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Lauren Brittain

October 21, 2008

My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow.
With caring thoughts,
Lauren

Raj Maripalli

October 21, 2008

Jake's family will be in my prayers.
May God bring you the strength and support needed during this time.

Michele Copeland

October 21, 2008

My deepest sympathy for your loss. May your beautiful memories of Jake bring you comfort in your time of great sorrow.

Doug Laviolette

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy,
No words could ever express our sorrow.
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Doug and Kathy Laviolette

Al Nowaczek

October 21, 2008

Todd & Nancy,
There is a new angel in heaven named Jake who will guide you as you follow the path of life. May you be comforted by memories of him in the months and years ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult ime.
Al & Rhea Nowaczek

Victoria Martin

October 21, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to your family. My 5-year-old daughter Keely, who attends St. Luke's with her brothers Asher and Noah; knew Jake and told me last night that he was her "good friend." I can only imagine how deeply Jake's loss is felt at school today.

Yvonne Thompson

October 21, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with Jake and his family during this difficult time.

Mary Ann Coleman

October 21, 2008

Our family prays for you and your family. Please know our loving thoughts embrace you. Nancy, you have touched so many students at St. Leonard - I hope our prayers give you some support during this difficult time.
Elliott, Curtis, Taryn, Bruce and Mary Ann Coleman

Brigitte Scobie

October 21, 2008

When the sun shines upon you and the rain hits your face, know that your angel is smiling down upon you. The both of you are in my thoughts and prayers in these dificult times.

Stephanie Clarke

October 21, 2008

Greg and I are thinking of you in your time of sorrow.

Mado, Buddy (and children) Clinch

October 21, 2008

Nancy and Todd,
In this time of great sorrow, please accept our deepest sympathy. In his short life, Jake was fortunate to have such wonderful parents who loved and cared for him each day. May his spirit live on in heaven and in your hearts forever.

Brenda and Winfield Chee

October 21, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your families during this difficult time.

Rob & Natalie Sanna

October 21, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa McCambley

October 21, 2008

Dear Nancy and Todd

Although our families have never met I feel a connection to you. My son attends St.Luke's school and like so many other's there are sorry for your loss.We will keep Jake in our prayer's, god bless your family during this very difficult time.

Sharry Dozois

October 21, 2008

My deepest sympathies to you, Nancy, and to your entire family.

Alison Ryan

October 21, 2008

Nancy and Todd,
Memories keep those we love, close forever.
We are very sorry for your loss.
Alison (Brackenbury) and Jake Ryan

Karen Warren

October 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. You now have your very own angel in heaven.

Warm thoughts,
Kevin, Karen, Madison & Tyler Warren

Steven Armstrong

October 21, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Shelley Clarke-Taylor

October 21, 2008

Nancy Todd and Family,
During this difficult time you are in our thoughts and prayers , May Jake forever be an angel guiding you and reminding you all of the wonders shared. My deepest condolences.
Shelley Clarke-Taylor
and Family
friend from High School

Doug & Monica Cowie

October 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you both through these difficult times.
God bless Jake as he takes him into his loving embrace.

Julie Hill

October 21, 2008

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love; they continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make, and with that continue to enrich our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you both in this difficult time.

Donna Lambert

October 21, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Lisa Featherstone

October 21, 2008

My heart goes out to your family for your loss. May God give you the strength you need at this time.

Yvon LeBrasseur

October 21, 2008

There are no words to justly describe the grief you must be feeling at the loss of your son but know that all who know you & who new Jake will be sharing a part of your grief although infinitely smaller that what you are bearing but perhaps knowing this will bring some small comfort to you Todd and your wife Nancy

I woul like to offer my sincerest condolences to both of you and your respective families

Yvon LeBrasseur a colleague of Todd Rheaume

Gaye Durocher

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy - You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sandra Asgill

October 21, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ernesto Marin

October 21, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jeff Laverie

October 21, 2008

Todd & Nancy

Our sincere condolences in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Steve Capello

October 21, 2008

Our Prayers are with you, your family and Jake. You have our deepest sympathy in your time need.

Sharon Liff

October 21, 2008

Dear Nancy and Todd,
Our thoughts are with you.
Jake will be greatly missed at school.

Love,
Sharon, Rick and Adam

Jaime Hodges

October 21, 2008

Nancy & Todd,

Our thoughts are with you during this time and the days ahead.

Brent, Jaime Hodges(Gilliland)

Lisa Carpenter

October 21, 2008

Nancy, Todd and family,
I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of all you during this extremely difficult time. My prayers are with all of you.
Sincerely,
Lisa Carpenter (Landry)

carolyn Brennan

October 21, 2008

Thank you for having the chance to know you. You touched my heart and gave me great joy. Love Carolyn Brennan

Keith and Linda Leeson

October 21, 2008

Todd and Nancy, my wife and I can only express our sincere expressions of sympathy during this time of mourning. Remember what is good and keep it in your heart.

Morris Forieri

October 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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