James Aseltine Obituary
Jim is survived by his wife, Jane Aseltine; his daughter, Elizabeth (Jay) Heinzman; his stepsons, Randy (Gin) Wheeler and Scott (Stefanie) Wheeler; and numerous grandchildren, who brought joy to his later years. He is also survived by his sisters Sheryl, Terri, and Amy.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Dave and Gayle; his beloved son David; his brother Johnny; and sisters Vicki, Susan, and Kitti.
A Memorial Service will be held on August 22, 2025, at 11:00 AM at Peoples Church, 500 W Main St Pinckney, Michigan. The family will begin to receive people at 10am. A luncheon will follow the service.
Memorial contributions may be made in Jim's honor to Christian Resources International (CRI), Fowlerville, MI.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Susan and Tom Corwin
August 21, 2025
My heart goes out to Jane and all of her wonderful family. I know Jim will be greatly missed by children, grandchildren and everyone who knows him. There is wonderful comfort in knowing just where he is and that you will see him again.
Much love and prayers always.
Janelle Collins
August 18, 2025
Jim was a wonderful and sweet nephew from the time that he was born. I have so many wonderful memories of him. He always had a certain special way of saying my name, "Aunt Janelle". I will miss that!
Love you Jim and looking forward to being together again with you and so many of our loved ones.
Karen (Parris) Forbes
August 14, 2025
Jane, I'm sorry for your family's loss. Peace be with you.
Jenni Johnson
August 11, 2025
Prayers for you, Jane and family. He was always such a pleasant and welcoming face greeting at church on Sundays. I can't believe he is gone. He is with Jesus and David and all his loved ones now. May joyful memories of him live on in your hearts forever.
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Laura Southwell
August 11, 2025
He was always such a gentle person
Kirk Welch
August 9, 2025
Jane,
Sorry to hear about Jim he was a longtime friend since high school. It was always nice to see him around Pinckney when he lived and worked in the area.
RIP Jim you will be in our conversations forever.
Amy Aseltine
August 8, 2025
Jim,
I know you can't read this because you have better things to do. Nonetheless, I'm so glad you are reunited with so much of our family. Lord knows you suffered more loss than any human should. You left many people grieving because of your sweet spirit and gentle soul. You will be in my heart forever. I love you.
---Your Baby Sister
Lee Eriksson
August 4, 2025
We are so sorry to hear about James passing. Please know you are in our thoughts during this difficult time. We hope you find some comfort in your memories and in the love of those around you. Wishing you strength and peace in the days ahead.
Shirley Lee
August 4, 2025
So very sorry Jane to hear about your husband. Prayers for you and your family.
Amy Lopez
August 4, 2025
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. Please accept my deepest condolences during this very difficult time.
Wishing you peace, comfort, and strength in the days ahead. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Amy Lopez
Tish Williams
August 4, 2025
My deepest and sincerest condolence to you and your family. I pray that as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Sending up prayers to you and your family Jane.
Kenneth Vanderpool
August 3, 2025
Jim was a wonderful Christian man. He was a great neighbor, church deacon, devoted family man and the list goes on. The good news is that we will spend eternity with him in heaven.
Kenneth Vanderpool
Sheryl Busch
August 1, 2025
One couldn´t wish for a better big brother. You will live in my heart until we meet again...somewhere over the rainbow. Love, Sheryl
Bonnie Pettry
August 1, 2025
I was sorry to hear about Jim´s passing. Prayers for Jane and his family on their loss. I will miss seeing Jim and hearing that wonderful deep voice he had(especially when he would pray before out life group luncheons). Bonnie Pettry
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