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James Richard Elmer
1947 - 2020
James Richard Elmer
1947 - 2020
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BORN
1947
DIED
2020
James Elmer Obituary
The world, I know, has lost the warmest, kindest and most generous man when my much loved husband James (Jim) Elmer passed away at his home in Plymouth, NC, formerly of Victory NY, on Tuesday, March 31, 2020.
Jim was a loving husband to me, his wife of 48 years, Sally Elmer of the home and the proud father of his two sons, James Jr of Red Creek, NY and David of Auburn, NY and his daughter Michele(Roger) Shurtleff and four grandchildren Breanne, Hailey, Karmen and Trevor Shurtleff all of Cato NY. He also leaves a sister Beverly (Robert) Kreiger of Cato, NY and a brother Robert Elmer, of Red Creek NY as well as several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Hugh and Doris Elmer.
Jim worked as a machinist for 20 years, then ventured out with his own on-site farm butchering and meat processing service in NY where he catered parties and was very well known for his BBQ chicken. He also owned a Christmas tree farm. Jim loved the outdoors where he was an avid hunter and spent many hours out on his boat fishing. He was proud to be active within his community in NY; a lifelong member of the Victory volunteer fire dept, Victory grange, Victory Methodist church, The Lions club and VFW. He was a proud veteran who had served his country in the US Army during the Vietnam War. He was also the proud owner of a 1966 Chevelle, of which he lovingly restored and took to many local shows winning multiple awards and trophies. Upon their retirement, he & Sally moved to NC becoming active members of the Plymouth United Methodist church and where he continued to enjoy hunting and fishing.
A celebration of life services, with military honors, will be held at a later date, once all states mandates have been removed. Burial will be in Victory Cemetery in NY.
Holly
March 28, 2022
Jim was always smiling and happy when I saw him. Even a year later, I know it is difficult to believe he's no longer with us. Love always.
Hope McGreivey
April 17, 2020
I will never forget the night he came over to help me when a rabid raccoon had found its way between the front and screen door at my parents in Victory. I was home alone at 15 for the weekend. Jimmy to the rescue. Always willing to help. He was an Icon. So sorry to hear of this. My deepest sympathy. -hope
Jane
April 6, 2020
So very sorry for the loss of Jim.. he was such a great and loving man! He truly will be missed by so many. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this time. God sure did make one of the best an angel - all our Love Jane, Conor, Arianna and Family
Carol Brooks
April 5, 2020
So sorry to hear about, Jim.
May the great memories you hold dear, be with you always. RIP Jim.
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Scott and amy Chmieleski
April 5, 2020
We would like to send our sincere condolences to JJ and the family. May all the strength in the world be with you at this difficult time. Thinking of you all. Be in touch JJ.
Scott Chmieleski and Amy Bromley
Mile Calkins
April 4, 2020
RIP Jim, always enjoyed see you at the car shows. Prayers for the Family
Guy Baccaro
April 4, 2020
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Remembering the dinners you so graciously invited me to - although I think it was to have a good laugh watching Zoey and Finn play together. Be safe and healthy, and God willing will see each other again.
STEPHEN KNITTER
April 4, 2020
Jim and I spent many hours with the monopoly game. Neither one of us was willing to give up until we were out of money. I enjoyed the times we spent together in Victory. I'm glad he married a sweetheart like Sally, her mom and dad and mine were really close friends, so we got to know each other over the years in Victory. May God be with you all and you mourn the loss of this wonderful man, who blessed your lives!
Sandra Miller
April 4, 2020
My email somehow signed my granddaughter's name of Brittany Jackson but it is from myself Sandy (Bonner) Miller Class of '66. My heart goes out to the family. Jim was such a happy guy, always something funny to say. He sure enjoyed our class reunions.
Brittany Jackson
April 4, 2020
Sally, so sorry to hear about Jim. A funny guy with a big heart. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Charlan (Greene) Allen
April 4, 2020
Dear Sally & family I am so sad to read of Jims passing he was a great fella. Grew up knowing Jim & his family all our lives, as well as Sally & family too. My sympathy & prayers to all of you.
Rocky Powers
April 4, 2020
We always had each others ear when we saw each other. He will be missed. Catch a big one in that golden lake in Heaven old friend. Rocky and Georgia Powers
April 3, 2020
Sally, JJ,David and Michelle:
Please know we are here for you. Lots of good memories. Kevin, Danielle and kids
Charlotte & Roger
April 3, 2020
Sally & Family
So sorry to hear of Jims passing. He touched so many with his giving heart and generosity as he did for us in our time of need. We will always be grateful for you both and I will never be able to duplicate his fried fish. Im sure Frank and him are planning a hunting and fishing trip together. Please find comfort in family and friends in your time of need and GOD BLESS.
Gwendolyn Allen
April 3, 2020
Dear Sally and family, please know how truly sorry we are for the loss of Jim. We will never forget his generosity, graciousness, and friendship. He was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. Illness put a halt to their fishing trips, and it will never be the same for Tommy without him. Thank you God for the gift of memory that lets us hold him close even after he has gone to be with you! With much love and many heartfelt prayers, Tommy, Gwen, and Kenny Allen
Chris Berry
April 3, 2020
JJ , Im so sorry for the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family for the last few days since I heard the news and they will continue on as well.
Dell & Winnie Tyler
April 3, 2020
Sally, We are so sorry for your loss. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
randy blake
April 3, 2020
So sorry for your loss , May Jim RIP.
Tim Schlegel & Family
April 3, 2020
Many A fond memory has two kindred spirits spinning yarns together while processing a farmers bounty. I am sure they are both looking down on us and swapping more stories as they play catch up.
May the pleasant memories always be easily at hand. Our deepest sympathies.
Susan Stoneburg
April 3, 2020
Sally I am so sorry for your loss. May Jim RIP. God Bless you and stay strong.
Rod and Donna Chambers and Family
April 3, 2020
He will be Dearly missed.
Cindy and Dan Sanford
April 3, 2020
Our sincere condolences in the loss of such a wonderful husband, father and friend. Fly high Jim! We will miss you. ❤❤
Lee Dowd
April 3, 2020
Sorry for your loss, he was a great man
Van and Pat Rundt
April 3, 2020
You will be missed ,had many great times and conversations at Duck Lake and caught many fish. Glad I was with you when you caught your 1st Musky. RIP. No one could do a fish fry like you!!! We shared many meals and campfires. We will never forget you.
Rhett Myers Jr
April 3, 2020
I remember Boy Scout/Cub Scout camping trips and meetings. Great memories. He was a great man, helped raise alot of young men! He will be truly missed.
dolores creller
April 3, 2020
Jim and I are sending our deepest sympathies to you, Sally and your family. Jim and your Jim were friends since grade school sharing many good times. Our prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Jana House
April 3, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Billie Sue Doan
April 3, 2020
JJ I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
Carol Gerling
April 3, 2020
We will all miss Him. I especially will miss his wonderful stories, gentle nature and humor.
Janis Paul
April 3, 2020
Jimmy was a all around genuine great guy who would go above and beyond to help others. Always offering great ideas and advice on a variety of subjects. He had a sweet determined nature and will be dearly missed.
Gwendolyn Allen
April 3, 2020
Dear Sally and family, please know how deeply saddened we are with the passing of Jim. He was a great friend and lover of all things nature. Tommy spent many an amazing day out fishing with Jim, and even with their recent illnesses that stopped their fishing trips, that was his favorite thing to do. We will always remember you with a smile, a laugh, and a need for some good cooking... even if you wouldn't give up your cole slaw recipe! We hope you are having a crab cook up there in heaven Jim and that they are letting you do all the cooking! Thank you God for the gift of memory that lets us hold him close even after he has gone to be with you. Love Tommy, Gwen, and Kenny Allen
Holly Reid
April 3, 2020
I am saddened with the passing of Jimmy. He was a kind and generous soul. He will be deeply missed.
Lennie, Maggie, Kolby, Kassy Primmer
April 3, 2020
Our hearts are very heavy with the passing of Jim. Our memories and stories will be shared every day! Jim was not just our friend, but he was part of our family and will forever be.
Theresa Ikeda
April 3, 2020
Sally, so sorry for this loss. He will be truly missed. He always had a great smile. Enjoyed life as much as he body allowed. Will see you soon once this crazy time is over. Prayers to you my friend.
Nicole Elmer
April 3, 2020
Dad always had the biggest smile, best laugh and the warmest hugs (next to you mom). He would help anyone with anything and always loved to feed us. He will be so missed by everyone who knew him....especially at mealtime. Fish on, Dad! ♡♡♡
April 3, 2020
Sally, I am so sorry to hear about Jim. Now he is fishing in a peaceful river. Sending love. Naomi Carraway
Judith Bobrek
April 3, 2020
I am so sorry to hear that Jim has died. We were close as kids, but lost touch after we graduated from Red Creek Central. Except for HS reunions or family funerals. Jim is my second cousin, and I always got a big hug when I saw him. He was such a sweet and loving guy. Sending love and a hug. Judy Bigelow Bobrek
April 3, 2020
Sally and family, just so sorry to hear of your great loss. My heart goes out to you. Always loved reading about the hunters antics in A Hunting We Will Go booklets. Loved seeing Jim and you all at Veterans Day services in Victory!! Love to you all . ❤
Beverly Coleman Sayles
Billy Spruill
April 1, 2020
Jim was a very good friend of mine. He was a good cook, story teller, and "sharer" of information about his past and a joy to fish or visit with. He will be missed.
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