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Ronnie Murphy
November 27, 2022
I woke up today thinking about Jimmy, and I always laugh at the last stupid, but funny, joke he told me. Then, this email came saying I could add to his guest book. I miss him - his bravery, his humor, his love of life. I know he´s with us all. I loved him.
John, Kathleen, Cáitlín and Sinéad Keenan
January 12, 2011
To Ron, Sue and the Lafferty families.
Just to sympathise with on you on Jimmys deaths and to let you know our prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Helen Williams
January 2, 2011
I've just heard this news and I'm devastated. Jen, I can't imagine how you must be feeling, I'm so truly sorry for your loss. Jim knew how to light up a room, he was funny, compassionate and just a truly decent man. A rare breed. It was a pleasure and an honour to know Jim, he was always an inspiration.. and a smartypants! I'll miss his fun but I know my life is richer for knowing him and I'm sitting here now trying, not to write war and peace.. and grinning. You can't think of Jim and not grin. Can there be a better legacy for us?
jack caulfield
December 12, 2010
A loss of a very special son . The Lafferty family will get through this. We will never forget our Tim or your Jimmy. They are in heaven having a beer together.
We will never forget the joy they brought to us.
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Chris Webb
December 10, 2010
Although I only crossed paths twice with Jim at the alternative clinic in the Bahamas, he did indeed light up a room. He shared his knowledge with all the other patients. He will be greatly missed. Heaven is brighter for his presence, I'm sure. Jim was truly a good, good man.
Maggie Gouvas
December 9, 2010
I met Jim at the St. Patrick's Day celebration at Dukes and found him hysterical. He had on this huge leprechaun hat. Jim could always make me laugh, even if he wasn't feeling 100%. I saw him around Lankenau and the gym from time to time and we would catch up on things. I am sure he is cracking everyone up in heaven. Jim, you will be missed. God Bless you Jen and Gavin. You were the light of Jim's life. He will surely be taking care of you from above.
Roisin & Stevie Keenan
December 9, 2010
Just to say how deeply sorry we are for you loss, and to let ye know ye are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad and difficult time.
Joanie Ricker (Weyler)
December 8, 2010
I was very sorry to read of Jim's passing in the paper. I went to school with Ron at St. Phil's. Please know that your family will be in my prayers.
Wendy Stanczyk
December 8, 2010
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Lafferty, Susie, Ron, Jen and Gavin,
Jim was a huge blessing in my life and I thank you for allowing me to be a part of his beautiful farewell. He forever had my back and I will forever have yours..
Love, Wendy xoxox
Amanda Gard
December 8, 2010
My heart and sincere condolences go out to Jen, Gavin, Ron, Sue and the entire Lafferty family for your great loss. Jim, Jen and I met in the Bahamas in October 2006. We spent nearly two months there together as part of an alternative treatment program for cancer. Jim lit up a room, no doubt. He lit up the whole clinic; even the sickest of patients were caught laughing in Jim's presence. During his first stay and our several return visits, he reached out to support other patients (mere strangers) as if he had known them for years. His personality, humor and attitude took him a very long way. I'm personally inspired to be a better person because of Jim. I'll always remember the black t-shirt he wore. In big white letters it simply read "I'm Kind of a Big Deal". You betcha, Jim! We all love you and miss you dearly. We are blessed to have known you, and you will be carried in our hearts forever.
Joan Carter
December 8, 2010
The Lafferty Family- I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. We went to St Phils together years ago, reciently reconnected via Facebook. He put in a good fight, now God has won an angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joan Carter (Warren)
December 7, 2010
My Condolences to Jim and his family. He lived a part of his life in a beatufil part of the world in Vermont. My Families Blessings and
Best Regards from Vermont,
Jack Master and Family
Kay Friel
December 7, 2010
Dear Sue and Ron,
What a tragic loss you have suffered. Your Jim was a very special man as was shown by the love expressed at the Mass today.
If it's any consolation, you must know that this very special person left a wonderful mark on everyone that he met in his short life.
Abby J Feldman
December 7, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about Jim. I knew Jim from Green Mountain College. He was such a nice person. His smile was larger than life!
Joanna Rousseau
December 7, 2010
What a beautiful obituary for an amazing man.
Thank you Jim for your friendship. You were a great listener and friend.
I still to this day tell people about my drum lessons in the Gorge of Withey (basically a storage room) - before it is what the kids know now.
My condolences, love and blessing to your family. - Joanna Rousseau GMC 1995
Kirby Jillson
December 7, 2010
I first met Jim back in the 80's when he and my sister played in a band together. He was like a member of the family to us and he will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Jen, Gavin and the entire Lafferty family. God Bless and love to you all.
Stacie Passmore-Hornberger
December 7, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Lafferty family and all of Jim's friends. I met Jim many years ago through my sister, though I hadn't seen him in a few years, I will always remember his beautiful smile, beaming personality and wicked drum skills. He will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Heather Giandonato
December 7, 2010
Jim you were a good friend and you always made me laugh. We had some good times on our drives home from college. I admired your strength and courage during this long and difficult journey. I am forever grateful for getting to see you right before thanksgiving. When I asked you if you were tired of fighting, you said sometimes but I chose to fight this thing. Well Jim, you fought harder then anyone could have fought. You and your family should be proud. But you were taken way to young and I will miss you! rest in peace.
Andrea Nazzario McHugh
December 6, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss Jen. My prayers are with you and your son.
December 6, 2010
Ron and Sue
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. What a wonderful example he has set for all of us. May God give you and your family the strength to honor him by moving on with your life.
Bruce & Johanna Zimmerman
Donika Miller
December 6, 2010
For as much fun as Jimmy was, he was also a great mentor and adviser to his younger cousins, friends, and others who knew him. He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten, and my heart goes out to Jim's family.
marie & bob adams
December 6, 2010
My prayers are with you all. May God be with you and povide peace for your family at this sad time. Marie & Bob Adams
Tim Lanni
December 6, 2010
Jim you will be Missed
December 6, 2010
I knew Jim thru my dad, Larry Legner, he was such a great guy! I always had such fun when we hung out! My prayers are with you all as you endure this great loss.
Joe Adams
December 6, 2010
Jim and I played in a band in high school at the Bonner battle of the bands. I remember Jim so well. I always thought of him as a good friend. I am so very sorry to hear the news. Unfortunately I haven't seen him in 25 years. The world has lost a great person, friend and father. My prayers are with Jim and his family. God bless.
Fran & Cathy Connell
December 6, 2010
Ron & Sue,
We are so sorry for your loss.It is impossible to figure it out!! Know that Jimmy will always be with you just as Jeff is with us. You all are in our prayers and will continue to be.
Peggy Lovell
December 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Lafferty family. I remember Jim from my days at Penn Machine, his smile and laugh was contagious. May God give you strength during this difficult time.
Deborah Bachor
December 6, 2010
Jim was such a vibrant member of a wonderful, wonderful family. Jen and Gavin will continue the legacy. My prayers and thoughts will be with you.
Ayn Powell
December 5, 2010
My thoughts and prayers to the Lafferty families. I first met Jim when I worked at Bear Tubular. What a wonderful, kind hearted man. He was a true inspiration to all. God Bless.
Rob Caulfield
December 5, 2010
We are terribly sorry for your loss and pray that his memory and warmth will inspire your hearts in the future. May he rest in peace and your thoughts of him always be fond and cherished.
The Caulfields
Rob, Maggie and Bear.
Amy Kline
December 5, 2010
I was in Jim's class at Green Mountain. I will always remember his smile and larger than life personality that lit up every room he walked into. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family at this most difficult time. God Bless.
Chuck Chinici
December 5, 2010
Jimmy was my student at Malvern back in the 1980's and I'll always remember his great smile and wonderful sense of humor. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Rest in peace JL.
Judie Sheffer
December 4, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about Jim. He was my hero. I loved to read & see his pictures on FaceBook. I think I'll always remember his laugh. It was a great one.My heart & love goes out to the whole family. Thanks Ron & Sue for the Family Reunion so we all could be together on a happy note.
Judie (Sellers) & Joe Sheffer
Amy LeDuc Davis
December 4, 2010
I met Jim at Green Mountain College my freshman year. What a wonderful smile and personality. He lit up every room he was in. He was always there with a bright smile. You will be missed, Jim. Jen and Gavin you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Skeet Keenan
December 4, 2010
Dear Ron and Sue,Jen and Gavin,,
I know there are no words that I can offer to ease your pain.All I can say is that that big whole in your hearts right now will slowly fill with only warm memories of the son, husband and father you loved.
Skeeter.
December 4, 2010
Dear Ron and Sue,
I know there are no words that I can offer to ease your pain.All I can say is that that big whole in your hearts right now will slowly fill with only fond memories of the son you loved.
Skeeter.
Dean Iacobucci
December 4, 2010
" Jen ,Gavin and family ,I was sorry to hear the news about Jim. He'll be dearly missed by all who knew him ! Jim was a great person to be around. Any time I was with him we were always laughing and having great time! I hope his memories will give you strength in these tuff times." Dean Iacobucci
Loredana Falone Galiffa
December 4, 2010
I can't imagine how proud Jim is to have had such a wonderful wife and son. What a special guardian angel Heaven has added to it's list!
Kym & Todd August
December 4, 2010
Jim was a great friend from Green Mountian College. His larger than life personality always filled a room. He was a kind, loving, funny person who made GMC such a great experience for so many. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Colleen, Sydney & James Cahill
December 4, 2010
Jen, Gavin & Family. We are so sorry for your loss. Your strength and love will help you as the days go on. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Ronnie Murphy
December 4, 2010
Jennie and Gavin, there is a big hole in all of our hearts. Please know you have so much support and love now and in the future. I will miss Jimmy so much. The obit is beautiful and describes him perfectly. I'm here for you. Love, Aunt Ronnie
alicia estes
December 4, 2010
Jen, I am so sorry for your loss. You and Gavin are in my thoughts n prayers
Jill & John
December 4, 2010
Jen, we are so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed by all. His personality and smile were contageous. Please accept our conndolences and we will keep your family in our prayers.
Loredana Dioguardi/Pratzner
December 4, 2010
Will love Jim forever and always !
Marsha Peterson Fitzpatrick
December 4, 2010
I knew Jim at Green Mountain and I don't think I've ever met a happier or nicer person. He always had a smile and a kind word. My condolences go to his family and friends. May you have comfort at this time and know that he was loved by all.
Michele Bush
December 4, 2010
Jen, you and your family are in our prayers. I was deeply saddened to hear of Jim's passing. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.
December 3, 2010
Jen, You & Gavin will be in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Al & Monica Davis
Michael G Nester Sr
December 3, 2010
Sue and Ron we are with you in spirit and in prayer. May the Heavenly Father keep you all wrapped in His Grace.
With Sympathy and Love, Michael and Lea Nester
Tara Langton
December 3, 2010
Jim your smile and positive attitude brought joy to everyone at GMC, you were always a fun guy and everyone knew you. Your passing saddens us but your soul flies free. God Bless your family. If there truly is a rock n roll Heaven they now have the best drummer. Rock on Jim!!!! (Your GMC pal TL "95")
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