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David Deufel
August 3, 2017
I was a food server in the dining room when I met Jimmy who was living in Memory Care. For quite awhile, he would help the CNA named George bring the dirty dishes down the hall to the kitchen. At the time, I had no idea Jim was an avid runner, but anybody could tell he looked physically fine. And he was quick with a smile, an acknowledgment of your existence. Before his wife moved out of their house to be closer to him, a co-worker of mine had spoken of Mary fondly as one of his teachers. So I had a sense of this amazing couple as if they came from the Garden of Eden booby trapped by landmines. Better yet, they began in New York City and wound up in Ballwin, Missouri. In spite of his humor, humanity and husbandry, I seemed to recall that he rarely got wet in the backyard pool. At least two miracles from what little I know: 62 years of marriage to feistiness and running that fast in his 70s. I did not hear Jimmy talk much or jump for joy yet even with the ALZ, he radiated serenity and outbursts of happiness. Now I did get my ears lit up with Mary's stories about her beloved husband, among other topics. May the peace of God be with their humongous family and fabulous friends! Long live the Bolands because we will never get rid of them anyway. And thank the "Lord of the Dance", THE Irish God, that I and countless others were touched by this grand couple. Geez, I'm a bit surprised they only had six offspring...
Sur MacPherson
July 30, 2017
Dear Boland Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss, but I know you must be comforted to know that Jim and Mary are together again. They were such a wonderful example of the sacrament of marriage. I remember so many good times at their house, their warm hospitality and good humor. I know your wonderful memories will comfort you in this time of mourning. May his soul rest in peace.
Love and Prayers,
Sue MacPherson
Mary Jane Bexten
July 29, 2017
Mike, We send our prayers for your family and the repose of your Father's soul. He sounds like a beautiful soul. May God comfort your family. Ralph & Mary Jane Bexten
PJ and Michelle Iuliano
July 28, 2017
I have memories of being at the house that seemed so big with the pool. Being with my Godfather who was fun and kind. Years later as an adult I would be so impressed and inspired by his commitment to running and fitness. And finally, he was palpably present when we all got together in Florida. He planted seeds of family and tradition so long ago that we all enjoy now. A life well lived. Love to all.
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jerry ransburg
July 27, 2017
Occasionally you meet someone at work who by their kindness and warm friendship makes the days just sail by. Jim was such a coworker.
I'll never forget the kindness he showed me during our daily interactions, our travels to Miami,Chicago,etc. Those were truly the GOOD OL DAYS. It,s time to rest Jim. Rest in peace.
July 27, 2017
Mary and all your wonderful family, Deepest sympathy to all of you. Thinking of you all brings a smile to our faces. May his dear soul rest in the peaceful loving arms of our dear Lord.
Harry and Judy McKinstry
(from Ballwin to South Carolina)
Bud and Carol Tilley
July 27, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. Jim's life was an inspiration to all. We were blessed to have lived next to your beautiful family for 24 years and will always remember you with love and prayers. May the road rise up to meet you, dear Jim, and lead you to your dear Mary.
John & Sheila Steinhubl
July 26, 2017
The measure of a man as a Father is the family he leaves behind ... Jim has left us an amazing group of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren ... kind, generous, smart, confident ... and all possessing his Irish charm. Jim has WON life's greatest contest!
John Kelly
July 26, 2017
My condolences to you all on your loss. He served his country and family well in the finest traditions. May he Rest in Peace.
John, Judy and Kelly Family
Mary Clare Doyle
July 25, 2017
Hi Patty, I am so sad for your father's passing. However, he had a wonderful life and raised a wonderful family. I still remember having dinner at your house when I was in high school. I loved it! Lot's of good memories with you too. I've been thinking about you and love the tribute you have given him on Facebook
Xoxo Mary Clare
Colleen Lawler
July 25, 2017
I am very sorry for your loss. The best tribute to him are his wonderful children. I truly believe he is happily reunited with the love of his life, his bride. Much love to you all.
Dave & Karen Sorrell
July 25, 2017
Mike, you and your siblings and the flock of grandchildren and great-grandchildren are a bright and uplifting testimony to your dad (and mom). Karen and I count ourselves as the lucky ones to have the privilege to know you, and you my friend, represent him and his legacy very well.
Chris Alestra
July 25, 2017
Cousins! I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm especially sorry that I can't be there with you all. Please know you are all in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers.
With much love and in deepest sympathy,
Chrissy
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