JAMES MCKELLAR

1919 - 2014

JAMES MCKELLAR obituary, 1919-2014, La Jolla, CA

JAMES MCKELLAR

1919 - 2014

BORN

1919

DIED

2014

JAMES MCKELLAR Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 24, 2014.
JAMES MCKELLAR James Angus McKellar, of La Jolla, Calif., passed away peacefully while watching the sunset at La Jolla Shores June 4, 2014. Jim lived his 94 years without ever slowing down, or retiring. He was genuinely interested in other peoples' lives. Beyond family and friends, he would effortlessly engage complete strangers in deep conversation, grilling them about their interests and life stories. He kept in contact with even his earliest friends and acquaintances. He recently remarked sadly that he was the last of his Stanford fraternity brothers still living. Always interested in world politics, Jim was never shy in voicing his strong opinions. Even so, he always kept people smiling. He loved life unceasingly. Indeed, when asked recently to describe his life in one word, he said, "Wonderful!" Jim McKellar was born in Pasadena, Calif., July 18, 1919. He was the son of Dorothy Scripps Kellogg and James Henry McKellar, and the great-great- nephew of Ellen Browning Scripps. It was Jim's grandparents, Frederick W. Kellogg and Florence Scripps Kellogg who founded the La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club in 1935. Jim had two siblings, Doug and Ellis. His brother Doug McKellar passed away in 1967, and his sister Winifred Ellis "Pooh" Wyer, resides in La Jolla. A lifetime passion of his was cruising the high seas, which for Jim began at a young age. He was only 11 when taken by his grandparents on a 133 day world cruise aboard the SS BelgenLand. This experience was certainly a contributor to his elegant demeanor and "big picture" view of the world (and his place in it). At 17 years old, on another voyage with his grandparents, he attended the 1936 Olympics in Berlin. He witnessed Jesse Owens win four gold medals and 100 feet away, Adolf Hitler storming out of the stadium in a rage. His love for travel continued throughout his lifetime. A consummate Bon Vivant, Jim McKellar voyaged over 150 cruises, always insisting on eating unheard of local foods and dancing 'til dawn. His last and final cruise was on the Mississippi River just one month ago. Jim graduated from high school at Menlo School in Menlo Park, Calif. as a boarder, and received his undergraduate degree from Stanford with the class of 1941. While at Stanford he was declared BMOC (Big Man On Campus). It was at Stanford where he met a cute sophomore from Honolulu, Suzanne Biven. After a brief courtship they married in December of 1941, two weeks after the attack on Pearl Harbor. Jim joined the U.S. Navy, first stationed in Baltimore and later in Boston. The U.S. Navy gave him a scholarship to attend Harvard Business School, and there received a Master's degree. After being honorably discharged from the Navy, Jim returned with Suzanne to Palo Alto, where he attended Stanford Law School and earned his Doctorate of Jurisprudence degree. At Stanford Law, his building career began. Jim could not find a house for his family that he could afford, so he decided to build his own. Before he finished it, a Colonel returning from duty made him an offer that he couldn't refuse. He started another, which also sold before completion. He decided to then build four at a time to assure he would end up with at least one. That was the beginning of a 30-year home building career. During this time they had three children; James Jr. (Kim), Suzanne, and Chris. Divorced in 1954, Jim married his second wife, Evelyn Mudra, in 1959, and in 1961 their daughter Tahnee was born. As a home builder, Jim McKellar began in Palo Alto, and then ventured into Fresno, Las Vegas and San Diego. His professional career didn't stop there. He also started a dance studio company, sponsored a prizefighter, bought oil rigs and cattle, and helped to start two banks in Las Vegas and La Jolla. Although not a career move, Jim even made an appearance in a short Hollywood film. In 1959 he was chosen by F.W. Kellogg to serve as one of three Trustees to manage the La Jolla Beach & Tennis Club properties. When the Trust expired in 1986, Jim served as a director until 2012. Jim first attended St. James-By-The-Sea Episcopal Church in La Jolla with Florence Scripps Kellogg in the summer of 1924. One of his fondest memories of his childhood was hearing the chimes ring from the St. James bell tower. Later in life when he began again attending St. James By-the-Sea he was dismayed that the chimes were in disrepair and had been in that condition for years. He decided then to sponsor the repair so the chimes would once again ring out their distinct timbre for all future congregations and passersby. Jim McKellar left this Earth as he had lived his life, a vital, dynamic personality; known by many, loved by all. He is survived by his long-time devoted companion, Mary Carrion; his four children, James Jr. (Kim) McKellar (wife, Orlene), Suzanne McKellar (husband, Warren Densley), Christopher McKellar (wife, Lorna Alksne), and Tahnee McKellar (husband, Joerg Kruse); 14 grandchildren; and 8 great-grandchildren. Memorial services will be at 2 p.m. Thursday, July 3, at St. James- by-the-Sea, 743 Prospect Street, La Jolla. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the "James McKellar Keep the Bells Ringing Fund" at St. James by the Sea Episcopal Church, 743 Prospect St., La Jolla, CA 92037.

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June 9, 2024

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June 10, 2020

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Steve Gilbert

June 9, 2024

I still remember Jim giving me his theory regarding why life seemed to accelerate as you got older. Good insight that I have passed on to others.

Debra

June 10, 2020

Truly one of a kind...

Isabella Miram

June 9, 2020

He was a good friend, I was honored to know for many years. We shared many thoughts on historical happenings. He would enjoy speaking German with me. Every Saturday morning Jim would visit me and we had our cup of tea. Sometimes he would invite me for dinner at the Sea Lodge (Shores Restaurant) and I would pick him up. We had many peals of laughter together. I enjoyed his wisdom and shared his world of travel, the itineraries I planned for him and his lady friend. I know that somewhere in a different dimension he is driving his Mercedes cabriolet on the Autobahn .... remember you, Jim and I know I shall meet you again.

Isabella Miram

June 9, 2019

I miss you Jim .. friends like you are hard to find .. your wide smile and visits are dearly missed. You would practice your German with me every week ... it is so hard to forget you ... a good friend ..

Jim Peterson

July 1, 2017

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. McKellar in 1986 after taking an appraisal assignment with my father from Garthe Brown, atty in Portland.

We met Mr. McKellar at the Beach Club for lunch by the pool. As mentioned in in his obituary, "he would effortlessly engage complete strangers in deep conversations, grilling them about their interests and life stories". He was genuinely interested in my 4 kids and wife and my work relationship with my father. I actually felt a little a guilty as I was absorbed with the beautiful setting and bikinis around the pool.

I was blessed with the opportunity to meet this wonderful man who was motivated by his own generous spirit.

Thank you for reminding me that the sacred chime of bells can show the way along the road of life.

Visiting our friend at his home in Las Vegas

Chris Mendivil

June 29, 2016

Chris Mendivil

June 29, 2016

Chris Mendivil

June 29, 2016

Chris Mendivil

June 29, 2016

John Steen

January 8, 2016

I just found this and really wish I had known. I have a tremendous amount of respect for Jim. He was always gracious and kind on top of being intelligent and witty. We could use more Jim McKellar's in this world. He will be, and I am sure already is, sorely missed.

SUE MORRISON

June 5, 2015

My brother and I are here looking at Jims's obituary and condolences. We too are saddened by his passing. We wish that we would have gotten together in our later years. Our mother and father both worked for Jim. (Pam & John MacFarlane) Our whole family thought the world of him and his family. I was very fortunate to spend many of my summers in LaJolla with Jim and Tahnee.
Our deepest sympathy and love goes out to Muffy, Kim, Chris and Tahnee and all the rest of the McKellar clan.
We lost our mom in 1998 and our father just passed away two days ago.We too are grieving.

Sue Morrison (MacFarlane) and John MacFarlane

My beautiful friend at his Las Vegas home. My wide and I brought him breakfast.

Chris Mendivil

December 13, 2014

Chris Mendivil

December 13, 2014

Douglas Deitch

September 18, 2014

Just read about this five minutes ago. My condolences and all else to Kim, Suzanne (who I know by another name), and my old in years only friend Chris (who I also know by another name starting with a capital "H"...).
Being a Menlo boy with Chris and Stanford and Stanford law grad., from my earliest remembrances of him in his E-Type fastback jag in the early 1960s, Jim McKellar was always in my eyes the coolest of the cool in the then "adult" world. I always so much enjoyed interchanging with him the few times we encountered each other, though not recently, over the last 50 years. I would always ask Chris about him where I saw or spoke w/ him, again not recently.
I like the picture of him accompanying this guest book. Perfect!
I only wish he had have made it to 100.
Rest in Peace, Jim.

Breakfast at La Jolla The Beach & Tennis Club, July 2009

September 9, 2014

I enjoyed meeting cousin James McKellar and his daughter at the La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club in July of 2009. What a nice gentleman James was and I did enjoy finally getting to meet him. Scots wa hae, Donald McCallum McKellar, III, Phoenix, Arizona.

Chris Mendivil

September 9, 2014

I have known Jim McKellar for the past 28 or so. Having worked for him in the Bay Area for several years managing hotels. From the moment I met him I knew immediately that this was someone very special, not because of wealth I last spoke with Mr. McKellar late in May of this year. I called him to let him know that my wife and I were going to be taking a three week road trip and wanted to wish him an early Happy 95th Birthday. He seemd to be in great spirits and said he was looking forward to his 100th birthday. I had no doubt that he would make it.

I cannot express my sadness at learning of his passing. I had lost a great friend, a family member. Throughout the years, he was an incredibly kind and generous man. He called me last Christmas to wish Deb and I a Merry Christmas. We had a wonderful conversation and I told him I would soon come to visit him, a visit I deeply regret not making. He did so much for so many. this world is not better off without Jim McKellar iin it. I knew this day would eventually come, which was something I would never allow myself to think about. We love you Jim McKellar for the wonderful person you were. Please save a seat at the table, we will have dinner together again in heaven.

July 8, 2014

May God be with you in this time of grief. I'm sorry for your loss. Psalm 18:18.

Isabella Miram

July 3, 2014

He loved travel, loved good conversation. He was a kind friend to me for over 30 years. Thank you, James McKellar , for your friendship. You will be missed. My sincere condolences to the family .. r

guy chambers

July 1, 2014

Jim, thank you very much for your kindness and teaching me how to be a professional gentleman. You treated me with respect and dignity. Thanks for being a great mentor. Happy Homecoming.

John 14.2

Helen Margulis

June 30, 2014

My sincere condolences to Mr. McKellar's family. He will be missed by so many. He was such a pleasure to be with, a truly charismatic gentleman.

Darlene Coop

June 29, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss, Jim had a wonderful life & knew how to live it to the fullest. He was proud of his family & was always interested in how everyone was doing. A real people person. Rest in peace Gentleman Jim.

June 28, 2014

This gentleman lived a full long life. I only knew 'of' him. I'm sure his family and friends have plenty of good memories and that' a good thing.

Cathy Tomasek

June 25, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss of Mr.McKellar. I will miss our lively discussions of Silicon Valley where I work when I visited the family in La Jolla. He always paid close attention to what I had to say and seemed to really care. A good man, I will miss him.

Sue Dudzinski

June 25, 2014

My deepest condolences to the McKellar family and friends.

Jane Kircher

June 25, 2014

Thank you Jim for always being a gentleman, for your love of your family. You will be missed but not forgotten! Jane K.

June 25, 2014

To the McKeller Family;
I am so sorry for your loss. May the memories of your loved one keep you smiling and the love keep you warm. My thoughts are with you.
Bernadette M. Stepney

Rocky Jackson

June 25, 2014

My condolences to the family

Tom Virzi

June 25, 2014

Jim, thank you for all the wonderful dinners and family
functions we shared together over the years. l loved talking politics with you. You will be missed by all who knew you.

Greg Schultz

June 24, 2014

Rest in Peace Jim...if you can ever slow down. Your input around the board table at Valley Bank was valued because of your experience; always interesting, and frequently funny as hell! We need more like you Jim. God Bless.

Debra Anderson

June 24, 2014

Dear McKellar Family,
Sending heartfelt condolences for your loss. Jim was an extraordinary gentleman with a huge heart. He will be missed by so so so many. May you find comfort in sweet and happy memories that will forever remain.

Aaron Nicholl

June 24, 2014

I'm so sorry to see he has passed. I barely knew him, but remember going next door with Matt a few times to hang out and possibly play with trains. He was very funny, smart, and free spirited from what I can remember. I'm sure he was an inspiration to everyone around him.

My deepest condolences to the McKellar family.

Steve Gilbert

June 24, 2014

I worked with Jim in Las Vegas at Valley Bank. I ran into him several times after the sale of the bank, and he was always looking to the next adventure. The world will miss him.

Joyce Galligan

June 24, 2014

Dear McKeller Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We can't imagine we will no longer see Jim/Mr. McKeller on his patio or in the alley way and chit chatting with him. He was a very nice person and we will miss him.

Love,
The Galligan Family

June 24, 2014

Dear McKeller Family,
Im sorry for your loss
He bible says that jehovah
Will bring back the dead"john5:26,28,29,

me, Opa @ Jewel Ball

June 24, 2014

Each life is a story unto itself- yet Jim McKellar's was an epic tale. I know having spent most of my Sundays for the last few years having brunch with my former father-in-law; my son Matthew's grandfather (Opa), who was also my next door neighbor in Vegas all of these years. Opa's stories spanned decades and epic eras; the early years of La Jolla, Pearl Harbor and the war, family highlights, tragedies and ambitions. He always liked to sample new restaurants but of late settled for local favorites where generally genial servers would almost come to blows vying over whose section we would be seated in. Opa was Scots to the core but a grandpa at heart. One day when Matt was in elementary school, Opa asked if I too received the Las Vegas RJ newspaper. I did. He immediately struck a deal with me: He would cancel his subscription if I would have Matthew toss my pre-read edition onto his porch each morning (minus the sports section and want ads). He then paid Matt, the dutiful paperboy, five two-dollar bills each Friday. I still ponder who got the best end of that deal. I never let on that I had to get up an hour earlier each day in order to read the paper before we “recycled” it. There are stories too countless to recall here, yet by God's good grace I happened to be in La Jolla the day before Opa passed on. We had a delightful three-and a-half-hour lunch that day on the Beach Club patio. Toward the end I noticed Opa had what could only be called a mischievous grin on his face. I asked if he was playing footsies under the table with his longtime sweetheart, Mary. She and I BOTH looked under the table (Opa could be a bit of a rogue at times!). He shook his head no. His grin broadened. I asked again, “Opa, what's with the look on your face?” His reply, “I'm just happy!” Well, I'm happy too, Opa, that you gave me that last message. You lived life your way and you left life on your own terms. I will always miss my “Sunday Brunches with Opa”—but then, life and death are as strange as a two-dollar bill.- Christine McKellar

June 18, 2014

Mr. McKellar, I will miss you . you and your
family were my favorite customer's in the
the banking world. you were a great man.
Gracie Thompson

Monica Starkey

June 18, 2014

What an life ! I'd see him at St. James, but didn't know him. I wish I did. He really took life by the horns. He saw opportunity where others may not have. He had the vision of someone really extraordinary. I'm sure he inspired many more people than he could imagine who witnessed his actions. A great loss to his family and friends. I send my heartfelt sympathies them.

Nicole Dean

June 16, 2014

Such a beautiful tribute and what a neat man.

William Kellogg

June 16, 2014

Jim was one of those people who was "larger than life". He loved to meet people, he was interested in everyone, and he was loved in return by so many! We will miss him greatly!! ... Bill & Tricia Kellogg

June Elliott

June 16, 2014

Goodbye Jim, it has been a pleasure to know you and the good times at the La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club you was the perfect host.

Andrea Buhlig

June 15, 2014

Remember you always riding the treadmill everyday:))))Always remembered who I was after saying my name:))

Bridget Bjorkquist

June 15, 2014

Your wonderful smile

June 15, 2014

Wonderful smile
Bridget Bjorkquist

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