James E. "Reggie" Proctor

1982 - 2016

James E. "Reggie" Proctor obituary, 1982-2016, Bangor, ME

James E. "Reggie" Proctor

1982 - 2016

BORN

1982

DIED

2016

James Proctor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 10, 2016.
BANGOR - James E. "Reggie" Proctor, beloved son of Ann M. Marston and Stephen J. Proctor, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on February 6, 2016, in Toledo, Ohio. He was born in Bangor on January 12, 1982.

James, "Reggie" grew up in Bangor. He graduated from Bangor High School in 2000. He earned a B.S. degree in Biology from the University of Maine in 2005 and a B.S. in Marine Engineering Operations from Maine Maritime Academy in 2010.

He spent several years working for Woods Hole Oceanographic Institute on the Research Vessel KNORR which mapped undersea geological formations throughout the North and South Atlantic Oceans. His time on the KNORR allowed him to explore Iceland, Greenland, S. Africa, and the Azores. Most recently he worked as a marine engineer for Grand River Navigation on the Great Lakes.

Reggie enjoyed spending time at the family camp on Holbrook Pond and many years skiing at Sugarloaf. He enjoyed skiing since he could stand and served alongside his grandfather as a member of the Sugarloaf Ski Patrol from 1998-1999. Reggie would read everything he could get his hands on and was especially fond of National Geographic, which he would read cover to cover from a very young age. He enjoyed sharing what he learned and could recall facts on just about any topic. Reggie was a proud, adoring father to his 'very advanced' son, Arlo James, who will be 2 years old in March. Some of their favorite things to do together included going for bike rides and playing in Daddy's truck. They both saw something in that old truck that no one else could. There is a hole in our hearts and lives where Reggie should be. We will forever love and treasure his memory.

In addition to his parents, Reggie is survived by his wife, Kate MacLellan Proctor; son, Arlo James Proctor; his brother and best friend, Kevin M. Proctor; his special grandmother, Elizabeth "Betty" Marston; his uncle, Chuck; aunts, Cindy, Carla, Molly, Pam, Heidi and Laurie; and many treasured friends. He was predeceased by his grandfather, Charles F. Marston; and his uncle, James Proctor.

A funeral service will be held 3 p.m. Monday, February 15, at Brookings-Smith Funeral Home, 133 Center Street, Bangor. The family invites relatives and friends to gather at the Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith, 163 Center Street, immediately following the service Monday. Those who wish to remember Reggie in a special way may make gifts in his name to the Arlo J. Proctor Education Fund, care of Bangor Savings Bank, P.O. Box 930, Bangor, ME 04402. Condolences and stories may be shared at www.BrookingsSmith.com or on Reggie's Facebook page. A memory book will be created for Arlo.

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March 2, 2016

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February 21, 2016

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February 20, 2016

garrett debeck posted to the memorial.

March 2, 2016

Dearest Ann just found ou recently. So sorry for your loss and Steves. I hoee you are doing o.k. my heart and prayers go out to you and loving arms to hold and console you. I have never forgotten your compassion when Mom died wish I lived closer so I could be there for you. If ever you need to talk call me.828-775-2327 All my love Sue Mac Arthur. My nickname is Sam that is what will come up on my phone message.

February 21, 2016

Deeply sorry to hear about your loss. He will be missed. Arrah, Adam, and Alex Coltart

garrett debeck

February 20, 2016

Sending our deepest condolences , Steve , very sorry for your loss .

Garrett and Juli

Aunt Nay

February 15, 2016

Sleep in peace, darling boy...

Warren Wood

February 15, 2016

Steve, we are sorry to hear the sad news. You and your family are in our prayers.
(Cookie used to take care of Katy when she was little and we send condolences to Katy)
Woody and Cookie Wood

February 14, 2016

My heart weeps. There are no words. This more than a parent can bear. Lord Jesus bring comfort to their family. I pray Your Grace and healing in their grieving. Oh Jesus.

Amanda Patrick

February 14, 2016

Dear Proctor Family,

Though I have never met you or Reggie my husband thought very highly of him and their work together at GRN. I am so sorry for your loss. I know he will be missed by his work family as well as your own. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the tough days ahead. I hope you find comfort in one another and your memories.

February 14, 2016

Ann,Steve, Kevin, Kate and Arlo, there are no words powerful enough to express my since condolences in the untimely passing of Reggie. He was always so full of life and fun. He will be missed by everyone, but most of all by his loving family. May God give you the strength to get through this. Arlo will always be a symbol of Reggi's love and devotion. I am so sorry. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Alma Fein

Donna Gladu

February 13, 2016

Very sorry for your loss Steve and Ann. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Donna Gladu and Jim Simonds

The day Arlo was born

Tami Somers

February 13, 2016

Reggie teasing Katie

Tami Somers

February 13, 2016

February 13, 2016

Steve & Ann: May we somehow share with you in sympathy for your loss. May the light that shone from him in this life guide you in the acceptance of his new life with the beacon of light he now sends your way with eternal love. Bob & Carol Dion

Lisa Standish

February 13, 2016

Dear Ann, Steve, Kevin, Kate and Arlo, While your suffering over Reggie's passing is profound, I trust you are finding comfort in the love of your large, robust family and multitude of devoted friends. I think that dear little Arlo elicited the very best from Reggie.

Robert Tucker

February 13, 2016

Ann and Steve, words cannot express how sorry we are about the loss of your son Reggie... Wishing you peace and comfort during this very difficult and sad time..you are in our thoughts and prayers. Cathy & Bob Tucker

Dalton & Cheryl Pierce

February 13, 2016

Our sincere sympathies are with Reggie's family.

Brenda & Kevin Gladu

February 12, 2016

So So Sorry for your loss Steve and Ann our hearts ache for your loss... Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Brenda & Kevin Gladu

February 12, 2016

Ann, Steve and family,

Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time of your unbearable grief. Our hearts go out to you all. In time may you be comforted in the wonderful memories of Reggie.
We all have many vivid memories of a very energetic young boy who would run, jump, laugh and play. God Bless you.

Rick, Karen, Leah and Ian Bagley

Allen & Jess Harrington

February 11, 2016

Ann & Steve and family: Jess and I send our heart felt wishes that you will find comfort in the many beautiful memories of Reggie and that you're hearts will be lifted from sadness.

February 11, 2016

Ann and Family,
I was sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you find
some comfort in knowing many prayers and thoughts
are going out to you and your family. God bless!
Kevin Birkel

Paula Hand

February 11, 2016

Our Condolences to your family, sorry to hear of your loss

February 10, 2016

Sorry for your loss.
Linda Kelleher and Family

Mike & Betty Inman

February 10, 2016

Katie, Ann & Steve: Our condolences go out to you during this difficult time. May your wonderful memories of Reggie and a future with Arlo help to fill the void left by this loss.

Mary Jane Poole

February 10, 2016

Dear Ann, Steve, Kevin, Kate and Arlo and so many others affected by the loss of Reggie: like everyone else, I have no words that will make things better for you. I am so sorry that this happened. Love, Mary Jane

Ken&Mary Mitchell

February 10, 2016

Our hearts are so saddened, words are empty at this time. So sorry for your loss. We have many fond memories of Reggie at Green Lake and Sugarloaf, our children spent a lot of time with Reggie over the years. We will all miss him. Prayers for all of you. Ken and Mary Mitchell

Anita , Gerard Tassel

February 10, 2016

We are absolutely devastated by your loss. If it can console you in anyway in your grief, please know that we truly care about your loss. Anita and Gerard Tassel

Wayne& Shirley Eldridge

February 10, 2016

Steve&Ann,
We are so sorry, for your loss. Our
thoughts, and prayers are with you.

February 10, 2016

I am sorry to hear of the unexpected loss of your loved one. He will be greatly missed indeed. It is comforting to know that at Ps. 146:5,9: Happy is the one whose hope is in his God. ... The fatherless boy and the widow he relieves. (Right now God has such loving concern for bereaved ones.) I sincerely encourage you to turn to him in prayer and he will surely sustain you. Once more I am sorry for your loss. Please take care.

Holly Hughes

February 10, 2016

My heart goes out to you. Much love, Holly

Gail Bridgham

February 10, 2016

Oh my God, Ann and Steve. I am so sorry for your loss. It is unimaginable to me how this could happen to you. There are no words that can help how you must feel. My heart goes out to you and your family!

February 10, 2016

My dearest Kate and family. I can't express my sorrow to all of you.And how sorry I am that I never had the chance to meet Reggie.
Love Grandpa Dan

Pat Hickey

February 10, 2016

Dear Ann, Steve, Kevin and Kate. There are no words to reflect how profoundly saddened I am. I have many fond memories of him and Brendan. He will always hold a very special place in my heart.

February 10, 2016

My condolences for the loss of James E."Reggie" Proctor. Keeping in mind the scriptural hope of everlasting life can help to sustain you during this difficult time. John 17:3.

Chuck Shepley

February 10, 2016

Dear Ann and family, so sorry to read of your son's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences. Sincerely Chuck Shepley

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