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James Pulford Obituary
Of the South Side Flats, on Friday, April 25, 2008. Son of the late Sarah Flaherty Pulford and John Pulford. Proud, loving father of Mark (Maura) Pulford of Thornburg, and Erin (Eric) Jackson of Crafton. Brother of John (Elaine) Pulford of Bridgeville; brother-in-law James Balcer of Bethel Park. Grandfather of Fallon, Jack and Liam Pulford. Uncle of Cheryl and Madison Pulford. Predeceased by his loving sister Kathleen Balcer and Sarah Jean Pulford. Friends received at the JOHN J. GMITER FUNERAL HOME, LTD., 119 S. 15th St., South Side on Monday from 2-4 & 6-8 pm. Funeral Prayer on Tuesday morning at 9 am. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Adalbert Church, Prince of Peach Parish at 10 am. If desired, family suggests contributions to St. Vincent de Paul Society.
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25 Entries
Jack Pulford
June 5, 2008
Dear Brother,
I miss you but I know I'll see you soon.
Love,
Brother Jack
Flowers for you :-)
Madison Pulford
May 28, 2008
Dear Uncle if you are reading this ( and if I know you well enough you are probably up there looking up jokes on the computer ) I will miss you dearly and you were a very good uncle to me and.. I understand how much my grandfather and mother and everyone misses you so much, you have to know how much we all miss you and will miss you in this world.
There is a quote and I think many people can relate---
Where you used to be,there is a whole in the world, which I find myself constently walking around in daytime and falling into at night. We miss you!!
R.I.P Uncle
With love, Madison Pulford
I'll love you forever more and please wherever you are have fun and enjoy yourself :-)
Julia Earley
May 7, 2008
Mark,
I'm so sorry to learn of your dad's passing. My perception of him (from a lifetime ago) was that of a very intelligent, artistic man and supportive father. I'm sure you'll miss him. I'll keep you in my thoughts...
Tony Buccigrossi
May 1, 2008
Mark and Erin, My heart is heavy with the passing of your dad. He and I worked together at Fisher Scientic for over 30 years. He was my mentor,my boss, but most of all,
my friend. Our birthdays were only 1 week apart and I used to call him the 'old man'. We helped each other through good times and bad. He is the one that got me into Human Resources, which enabled me to enjoy a very good life. We also had names for each other......I was Stan and he was Ollie (the old comedy team). The BEST friend I ever had !!
Hope to see you on the other side Jim. Tony
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Debbie Sapienza
April 30, 2008
Mark and Erin,
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. He was a very special and wonderful man. My mom and dad, Tom and Bernie Haverty were friends with you parents for many years. Your dad helped me get my job at Fisher Scientific and for that I am truly greatful. He had a great smile and a wonderful laugh. I think one of the best times that I had with him was when we visited the cottage in Somerset and my mom fell in a mud puddle. Your dad laughed so hard and was gracious enough to give my mom a pair of pants to wear home. He was the best!! May you know that he is resting in heaven with your Aunt Kathleen and having the time of his life. You have a special guardian angel watching over you. May God bless you both.
Debbie (Haverty) Sapienza
Dad on Carson Street...his favorite place to be!
April 30, 2008
Erin Jackson
April 30, 2008
I am posting this on behalf of my German brother, Marcus:
James E. Pulford
† 25th of April 2008
Soon we will come to the end of life’s journey,
and perhaps never meet anymore,
till we gather in the heaven’s bright city,
far away on that beautiful shore.
If we never meet again this side of Heaven,
as we struggle thru this world and its strife,
there’s another meeting place somewhere in heaven,
by the side of the river of life.
Where the charming roses blom forever,
and where seperations come no more,
if we never meet again this side of Heaven,
I will meet you on the beautiful shore.
Fondly Marcus, Gabi, Nadja, Felix and Lilli Marie
Friedberg, Germany
danielle harris
April 30, 2008
mark, i am very sorry to hear about the passing of your father. i knew him for a short time quite a long time ago. he seemed larger than life to me then. it is never easy to lose someone. my daughter always says that the person who is not physically with you anymore always lives in your heart. i am sure he is there for you indeed. you are in my thoughts as you grieve. be well.
Priscilla Webb
April 29, 2008
To Jimmy's family,
He was one of the nicest teenagers ever and to my dismay, we lost contact when I got married. He, Carolyn, Brynner, Roy, Shelton, a few others and myself used to get together at someone's house, mostly his, and talk, laugh, listen to music, and do the normal things high school kids do. He and I also went to BTC for one year. He was a really good friend and I loved him like a brother. So sorry to hear about his passing. I am sure he was a great father as he was a great young man.
Priscilla
Ed Nicholanco
April 29, 2008
I was a MHS grad with Jim. He was a very fine classmate as evidenced by the fact he was Student Council President. I also remember having a public speaking class with him and recall him being in school plays. My sympathy to the family.
Ed Nicholanco
Sea Isle City , NJ
Cheryl Bodnar
April 29, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Pulford family. I had the pleasure of knowing Jim, we worked on the same floor at the City County building. Jim always had a smile and a kind word he was a blessing. May God bless you and keep you during this difficult time. Cherish the memories.
Diane & Kevin Vasil
April 29, 2008
We are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Jim. He will be missed by all. Remember that he will always be with you, he lives in your heart. So when you are down, just close your eyes, think of all the memories that have been made and know he will always be with you!! Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Tom Ferguson
April 29, 2008
Uncle Jim, as you know, you are one of my favorite people that I have ever met in my life, and I love you more than most anyone in the whole World. If the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, I am equidistant between you and my own Dad, as you have always been nothing less than another Dad to me. You confirm what I have come to realize since the passing of your dear friend Betty, my Mum, earlier this month, that the quality of life is surely measured by how much fun you had, how much you laughed, and how much you were loved. In that regard, you are one of the richest people I have ever known.
Beckie McGreevy Hickok
April 28, 2008
I just learned about Jim's death through Pat McGreevy who also told me of the death of Betty Ferguson, both an essential part of the Kimmel Lane gang. I remember many gatherings at the Pulford cottage in good weather and bad. Mark and Erin, my prayers are with you ... cherish your memories - I know there are many of them.
Paul Garofolo
April 28, 2008
I was very sad to hear that my Friend Jim has passed away. We did so much together seems like it was a lifetime ago. We went to University of Pittsburgh together, worked together for years, did plays together at McKeesport Little theater and we drank a "little." I will always remember Jim and the good times we had. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Thanks Jim for being my good friend.
Paul
Dana Jane Barnes
April 28, 2008
I will miss Jim dearly. Our many talks in the evenings at Dee's Cafe and our many mornings drinking coffee together over many many years...I'll miss all the email jokes that made my day so regularly...Jim will always be a fond memory and in my heart.
Beverly Totedo
April 28, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to Mark and Erin. I worked with your dad for many, many years at FSCo. and he always held a special place in my heart. I am so saddened by his passing, but I will always remember the wonderful times we shared. His famous saying was "better days are coming". For him, they have! May he rest in peace.
Lori Michaels
April 27, 2008
John and Family-
Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Carol-Jean McGreevy-Morales
April 27, 2008
Jim was such a special guy, always reaching out to others and including them in the fun! He made me, and I am sure many others, feel important.
I am so glad I got to see and chat with him at Betty's funeral. The consolation is that he is now at peace. My heartfelt condolences go out to Mark and Erin.
Lorraine Vogel
April 27, 2008
Dear Jack & family,
Jimmy and I used to e mail each other with glad thing, sad things and just plain things. I was always asking him how he was feeling and he would always say I am just thankful to be here. He always had a special place in my heart and I will miss him. You all are in my prayers and now Jimmy will be watching over us and I am happy with that thought. He will be raising his next glass on St. Pat's day with his darling Kathleen...
Love to all of you and my deepest sympathy, Lorraine
Amy Jackson
April 27, 2008
Jim was an AWESOME man! He had the heart of gold and was the life of the party. He was such an intelligent and neat guy. I'm blessed to have had him in my life. May he rest in peace and his spirit remain alive within those who have known him.
Ross Ferguson
April 27, 2008
Loved by Ross and Toni Ferguson.
We are blessed to have known Jim, he enriched our lives.
Susan Booth
April 27, 2008
My dearest friend, I miss you so terribly. You were always a ray of Irish sunshine in my life. I will miss watching our story together over lunch and our social outings. I know you are in a better place looking down on all of us, free from the body that had trapped you. I imagine you smiling, your infectious laughter, reminding us that you just can't make this stuff up. Our neighborhood will never be the same without you. Your love, friendship, advice, unwavering support, and that incredible optimism will not be forgotten. You were simply the most wonderful friend ever.
Sandy Kelley
April 27, 2008
May the good Lord hold you in the hollow of His hand.
Jim was a very kind and thoughtful person, and will be truly missed.
Erin Jackson
April 27, 2008
What I've learned from my father...
-I've learned that life really is too short.
-I've learned that family is family, no matter what.
-I've learned that education is the bridge to everything.
-I've learned to stand tall and proud, regardless of what they think.
-I've learned that laughing with friends a bit too loud is okay.
-I've learned the importance of having thick skin through it all.
-I've learned how to endure tragedy with dignity.
-I've learned how to believe in myself, regardless of how it seems.
-I've learned to cherish it now, as time really does fly.
-I've learned that no one is perfect.
-I've learned the beauty of friendship.
-I've learned that crying often does not make a person weak.
-I've learned the power of a hug... and a smile.
-I've learned how special it really is to be Irish.
-I've learned that being unique is a rare quality in the real world.
-I've learned the true power of the written word.
-I've learned that one tall, blonde, goofy boy from Germany can provide a lifetime of memories.
-I've learned the power of being independent.
-I've learned the importance of looking at yourself in the mirror.
-I've learned to master straightening pictures on the wall.
-I've learned that life is really just a movie.
-I've learned the true meaning of the Irish Blessing.
-I've learned that he really did paint beautiful pictures.
-I've learned that forgiveness is key.
-I've learned who I am and who I strive to be.
I've learned so much from my father and will never forget his many lessons of life. His legacy will live on through every person who learned a thing or two during the journey with this man. He will never be forgotten. He was an unbelievable man...he was my father, my friend, and my mentor.
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